Topic: When I'm emotional, I LOSS! - page 9. (Read 5886 times)

That's correct. It's revenge that clouds our focus and our choices.
I am not a hypocrite so I will say I have been there but thankfully I learned from it too. There was a time that I was so mad at myself for why I deposited more thinking I was near a chance to get a jackpot multiplier but I was wrong. What happened is, that it just continued to take my money until I was emotionally unstable. Luckily, I got so tired that I just slept on it.
When I woke up, that's the time I realized what a big mistake I had made and I won't repeat it ever again. Until now, that incident is what I use to help me control myself when I am on the verge of depositing more.
We have to keep it cool. Use the next day and maybe you will get lucky. Do not get wrecked in just a day.

Most gamblers don't know when to stop they have no discipline and self control, I was once in that category but being emotional isn't a choice but a situation circumstance, losing isn't fun at all especially when you lose a huge amount that was meant for something important, if one isn't discipline enough your might start making wreckless decisions based off your emotions...over the years I've learnt that the best time to stop is when you start feeling emotional

The difficult thing is to control his emotions, he must be self-aware if excessive emotions will make the wrong decision, which ultimately has a negative impact on sacrificing many things including family... There was once a story where a husband spent all his salary money on gambling and he neglected his wife and children, the negative impact would be great.

Therefore if a person has difficulty controlling emotions he should consult how to overcome this, it would be better to do that than not to lower his ego, anyone who is not excessive he will not have a negative impact on gambling.

For emotional people, gambling involves risking more money and they tend to lose everything due to their tendency to make impulsive decisions. If you can keep your emotions in check gambling can be very positive for you overall. You can lose and you should take it normally because gambling is an uncertain destination for everyone, there are two options open to you and sometimes you will either win or lose. So you should bravely adapt yourself to every trend.

In general, most people will find it very difficult to stop when they experience good momentum in previous wins at gambling and they will even try to play again until they lose completely. This is still quite difficult to control and almost most people experience this condition and perhaps that is where the ability to control oneself is needed so as not to be greedy.

The idea may be simple but it will be much more difficult to put into practice, for example when we experience a win and that's when we should get out of gambling so as not to lose all the winnings. In fact, it is difficult for us to implement it and most will definitely continue because of curiosity and greed to get another big win.

The level of responsibility for gambling is indeed difficult to control and I think there needs to be a mentality of responsibility so that we can stop when needed. This is an important lesson that we must learn so that our involvement in gambling can be more responsible.

If you talk about business, having emotional space means you are losing in business. When you promote your service to a client, if we try to promote it with passion, it will never win the trust of the client and it will open the door of negative questions in him. Only when a person is able to present his service confidently and not be emotional about it, people's trust in him will increase. I agree with you that passion can never make a man succeed. In gambling or business, success will come only if you proceed with determination rather than give place to emotions.

Most emotional gamblers will have many problems that will make them lose a lot of money. People who are emotional and very angry when they lose will make them want to take revenge by looking for a big win and that will make them bankrupt. I often see emotional people like this. They only regret it when they have lost their money and family. And those who are so excited will also make them fall into despair when they get bad results. I think it is important for someone to be able to manage their emotions well.

At one age we are very emotional but when we have to keep pace with the real world there is no place for emotions. If we take such a decision in business and we cry because that decision went against us, but we cannot change that decision but we have to take some decision without showing our emotions at that time so that our business will not be affected badly due to our wrong decision.  

When you do business the client will not see your tears or hear your emotional talk he will contact you business based on your work so project your skills not your emotions. I will say from real experience that at a certain age emotions are worthless and should always be controlled. Those who can do this have the potential to do great things in the future. A conscientious person without being overly emotional is important to society and family.

Actually you can do that if you have control over yourself. The first thing you should realizes is earn money in gambling is difficult so there is no way you can do except just enjoy the gambling games. You know that gambling is not a place to make money so you will not spends too much money or you will lose all of that money without left. Playing gambling is for fun is something you can do in gambling so you will need to have limitation to prevents the big lose. You know that when you lose much money, you becomes emotional and once you emotional, you will lose your control.

No, we will difficult to earn money in gambling and that is something that we must remember so we needs to stay away from that. Yes, management risks and other things will be necessary when you playing gambling so you will not lose your control and you can manage your losses. All you have to do is trying to enjoy the gambling games and get fun and if that is enough, you will know when you must stop gambling.

That mentality is often happened to many gamblers so they thinks that they can have their luck when playing gambling but they are not realizes that the luck will not comes to them very often. They just expect that their luck will comes in the next rounds but that will not always happen to them. They must realizes that playing gambling needs to have control over themselves so they will not lose much money which can makes them becomes emotional.

If they search for their luck, that will be a long journey because they will never know when their luck will comes. They can still playing gambling and wait for their luck but they must use limitation so they will not lose much money in gambling. That's why we must learn emotion control in any aspects not just in gambling so we can enjoy gambling as an entertain. We must use the money we can afford to lose for playing gambling so we don't needs to lose much money that can makes us regret or gets more problem.

indeed what often happens is a misunderstanding between their minds or their mindset with gambling, where they think that they can make money by gambling. it is true that there is money that can be made in gambling but the victory or money that can be obtained is not easy because the host has arranged everything by determining that the percentage of winning is small and the percentage of losing is large this applies to all gamblers without exception, therefore we must be able to think clearly by not hoping or thinking that we can definitely win in gambling.
I agree with that, hoping is okay but don't overdo it. because excessive expectations tend to usually make us disappointed and can even trigger our emotions to peak, this is certainly better prevented than experiencing it, but most people are not aware that when they experience defeat they tend to be emotional and make them lose control of themselves and make them take actions that are not considered well.

You all seems to be paying too much attention to losses without considering how much emotion can also damage winning. We can say that being too emotional can cause losses but many people do not know that it also damages good wins. One way to avoid this is to control how often we gamble and also learn to stay away for a while when we win. A gambler that do not control how often he gambles will find it difficult to protect his winnings even if he can control how much he can lose. When winnings comes, he will be focused on protecting the loss without paying attention to how to take profits, hence there are chances of giving back the money won. This can demoralising to the gambler, so effort should be made to control how often we gamble. When this is perfected, you will realise that those emotions that lead to mistakes and losses will all be gone.

Negative emotions without doubt does have more bad effects on a gambler than excitement but when a gambler is too excited, there's every possibility that his too much of excitement might cause him to make decisions that might make him lose a lot if money. The emotional state of a gambler without doubt plays a major role in his decisions while gambling which is why it's very important for gamblers to firstly evaluate themselves and see if they're emotionally strong enough to gamble before engaging in it. Staying happy while gambling is the best way to gamble but it's also important to regulate ones level if happiness so it doesn't negatively affect his gambling decisions.

You don't have to do everything with emotions, and adding emotion will not make everything you are doing not to be effective, if you are emotionally down it will be better to just let it go and attend to it later when you are emotionally balanced because their are days that you will just be emotionally exhausted. And I don't think gambling should even cross anybody's mind especially when they are not emotionally down. How will that help cheer you up. When you are down emotionally what you need is to talk to people not trying to gamble to worsen the whole thing. People should learn to have patience when they are okay they can flgamble as much as they want to gamble. And those that don't want to listen when advice is given that they should gamble when they are emotionally free to be able to avoid excessive losses but if they know they can handle both the emotional stress and the gambling then they should go ahead.

Negative emotions affect a player's good decision plan. Excitement grants players positive energy to make the right decisions. The difficulty of players admitting the possibility of staying happy while losing lessens the rate of fun gamblers. Though it's uneasy to accept, happy gamblers don't make too many mistakes. Happiness improves the agility for proper thinking and reasoning, and sadness helps with the opposite.

Sometimes when I become emotional about some certain bets, I always watch the way I gambler because I could easily take some bets due to the emotions if winning by luck when I know  that the contrary might be the case. It is good we follow our mind and always doing research and updating strategies because this is one of the ways we can keep making money from gambling without being too desperate. Many of us might have had some challenges which had made us have so much experience when it comes to winning, greed and loses. It is good we keep making more effort to become a better gamblers because emotion can easily lead to addiction with time.

There's a reason why they keep on saying not to gamble with emotions . Most time you may have start yah gambling section with yah emotions in check, but when one began to lose , he or she also lose the ability to think straight because his emotions will start clouding his way of thinking because he or she will be sad to see his money reducing due to various losses which may trigger the thought of trying to get back that he has loss .

Well most time it may lead to one gambling recklessly just to hit a nice jackpot that may cover those other losses but at the end , they endup multiplying their losses.

Could you consider emotion a catalyst for a player's lack of management and patience? There've been numerous instructions on time and money management enough to reach all players. Despite this regular advice gamblers don't abide by it or take caution. Considering that after losing, emotions sits first in a player's mind, it'll be hard to remember strategic advice. The player's thoughts will be filled with his losses and ways to retrieve them.

Agree with what you say but in many cases we can't take gambling reactions for granted. If there is a loss after placing a bet in gambling then one should not do the foolish thing of bringing back that loss. After we win we spend time happily and treat people well. But when we lose there is a change in usage, this situation will tell you how much you are addicted to gambling. Moreover new gamblers are mentally broken because it is their first time trying to make money.

Every gambler knows exactly what the worst consequences are if their gambling approach is wrong. Apart from the financial impact, there is certainly another psychological impact if someone misunderstands gambling. It's not true that gambling is the main source of income, but it might make sense if they were actually involved in the business. A rational mindset towards gambling will reduce the impact of gambling on a gambler, therefore they will try to be a responsible gambler instead of the opposite.

Many gamblers in fact gamble to win, losing is obviously very disappointing. But whatever it is, losing and winning should be considered normal by gamblers and it should not take away more of their happiness throughout the day. If someone decides to gamble, then they must be prepared to bear the consequences.

Of course, because in any case anything that is not in accordance with expectations will usually be disappointing, therefore what must be justified is the goal and hope as I said above, I think the formula is quite simple but yes I also admit that it is a difficult thing for gamblers to realize and justify.
As you said, we should not be mistaken in responding to gambling, meaning that from the beginning everything must be seen and considered based on a rational point of view and way of thinking so that there are no misunderstandings that can trigger many bad impacts.

Gambling is always about two things, namely winning and losing as you said, that's a fact, putting hope in gambling is okay but don't overdo it, everything must always be based on reasonable limits, and if you really want to get a lot of money then gambling is not the right place to be chosen.