Topic: Where is the fun when you lose your money? - page 2. (Read 2599 times)

Once you have been able to experience all those bitter conditions or those devastating situations in gambling then after that then you would be making yourself that emotionally good control onto the next conditions that you might be able to face on since you do have that kind of past experience then you would really be naturally making out that kind of adjustment on which this is something which could normally happen. Yes, there's no fun on
losing money and this is where most gamblers would really be ended up on becoming that impulsive just because they are really that expecting something positive towards their gambling sessions and on the time that it didnt
happen then they would really be that out of their compusure and would really be betting like a mad man until they would losing it all.

This is why its important that when you do gamble then you should expect something like this where losing is inevitable. This is why you should expect those casual results
so that on the time that you do experience it out then you wont really freak out.

Not everyone is greedy or aggressive. True, losing money isn’t enjoyable, but neither greed nor aggression will recover the losses. I believe that much depends on how we view the situation. If we approach gambling responsibly and consciously it remains just a game. What is lost today might be regained tomorrow

I fully support your view. Indeed while losing isnt enjoyable, it doesn't lead me to depression since its part of the game. This perspective seems to be the healthiest approach to gambling. In fact statistically I think less than 1 percent of gamblers are genuinely addicted. it's just that they receive more attention. There's usually not much to say about the ordinary players 

Well, this type of thinking didn't happen to me today or recently, I've had it for a long time, but it was easier because when I was a rookie I made all the mistakes there were , however I Never fell into a stock. , I was always very responsible with my obligations at that time , I do not deny that I was losing money that I really needed later and that made me think a lot, because I told myself that I could not be losing money just by playing in a casino, that is something that I cannot do I could do more , so that's because at the same time I was operating because I told myself that things had to be seen in a different way, so I started to say that if I have 10 or 20 USD that I would have left over to eat something, or go out, even if it was have a few beers , I would prefer to put them in trading or in the casino, but no more if I lost them, and the truth is you have to have Discipline to Comply and it Worked for me , that's why I tell you to only risk the money that you are willing to lose .

Yeah, different people will enjoy gambling in different ways, but at the end of the day the main driver of gambling is the potential to win more money than the amount the gambler put in first.

This is actually quite a difficult thing really, because the probabilities are actually against the gambler. The most probable outcome is that the gambler will end up paying to the casino.

The thing is that some gamblers forget about the money they have spent already, and if they win big once, even though it doesn't cover the costs, they would be happy.

That's the problem here the goal to make quick money , that's one of the mindset that normally initiate the means of betting irresponsibly. In order for to keep up with such goal . I understand that most people gamble with the sole aim of making quick profit, though one can actually earn some extra good cash through gambling no doubt. But with such mindset one may experience torns of losses before getting to the point of hitting a life changing jackpot in their gambling, that why one most try all means to minimise the negative effect of gambling by gambling wisely or responsibly.


The right thing to say is when you're using money you can definitely risk losing. Than thinking of someone else's money . Because there's chances you may endup losing someone else's money which may not be pretty because there's big difference in losing your money than skns else's money which is wrong


There no fun in losing money to be honest, the only thing  you may be feeling would be anger and greed, first one would be angry of losing that bet and secondly the aim of getting what they have loss back , may endup triggering greed or initiating it .

as we are different that is how our mentalities and the thinkings are different also many people have different understanding in gambling and some people have their own way of understanding gambling so such is life and it is something that we think on our own, so whoever that says that the gambling is basically for entertainment or it is a place they want to lose their money I think about that person is telling fallacy because they objective or the aim of anyone who is in gambling is to make money through gambling by winning any stake he or her placed in gambling

Sure, nobody is certain of their fate, or what it looks like. But gambling doesn't control either the player's fate. In as much as a player is not in a complete state of mind when he's losing his money, he's bound to make mistakes. Both results, win or lose, also help in confusing a player's decision. Especially his initial plans. While in the game, there are misconceptions and internal disagreements in the player's mind. Options create arguments. The player's thoughts are compelled to go against each other's suggestions. It's not a one-mind thing. Many other life activities with options do this to us.

However, gambling consistently causes this to occur in the human brain. More like emotionally battling oneself. The system wasn't designed to steal from anybody. You could be saying in the form of con. Yet it's inadmissible. Casinos provide lots of benefits to a player for his money. I understand a diverse perspective about the game leads to arguments between gamblers, on what's right or wrong. If you read carefully my response, you'd realize the self-argument a player face also could be extended to an interpersonal disagreement between gamblers, just like everyone argues on what seems right to them. Nobody is right or wrong in contexts like this, same way it's wrong to oust fun as no valid factor in gambling.

No one really likes to lose but since we are dealing with betting or gambling then you should really be that making yourself that get prepared for this one because if you dont then you would really be ended up
on getting frustrated just because you've been expecting on something which we do know that it cant really be possible in gambling. Yes, you could make money but the rate or chance of losing money is much more comparing to wins. This is why it would really be that important that you should really know on what you are dealing with so that if you lose then you could easily move on.

There are really people who are really just that too desperate on which this causes up that kind of determination on which it comes into the point that you do become that
desperate and this is something that you shouldnt really be doing because if you do become that kind of desperate then it would really be causing up tons of loses even more
which we know that this would really be that bad.

That's what it's About , if we make the right decisions and Always analyze our things, we probably won't do badly in the game We have to use a lot of reason and intelligence in the game I know that there is no money When you lose or when the game we play goes Wrong , because who likes to lose? In the casino or in anything in life ? I don't think anyone, but these types of things are why we must concentrate on Being able to do it well, Sometimes there are players who are very Clear when they are in a situation and that they should stop, that they should leave things like that, and that is Something very Different, because that is the absolute responsibility of generating oneself and not becoming decapitalized and with that it helps not to fall into addiction, which is what affects many.

In fact, no one enjoys losing money, whatever it is, including gambling. however, in some cases, including in my personal experience, the main problem is not how and where the fun of losing is. The point is that we are not gambling on something like that, but rather on enjoyable entertainment. The impact is a bonus as a win, the risk is a loss. That's the cycle I understand regarding gambling and all its risks. Based on my experience and hobbies that I like, every bet we make is done with various goals, but generally how we can win. But as we know, in gambling everything is possible. the possibility of losing, or the possibility indeed and for me the true essence of gambling is like that. Well, usually I don't focus too much on the losses or even the wins. In this case, I prioritize how the match progresses, and how both teams display their game. Modern football in the style of Manchester City, Bayern Munich in the style of Nagelsmann and Arsenal, is more adrenaline-inducing and enjoyable. The problem of winning or losing is part of the risk. but for me, satisfaction itself is the basis for me betting. But, personally I agree with what you said in this post.

Yes and maybe I would say that you are a responsible person who knows about what should be prioritized and what should be prioritized, it should be like that friend where you really know and understand that gambling is nothing more than a game that should not be prioritized. However, the needs of life are the top priority, one should be more concerned with their stomach than gambling, and I will say that if you make gambling a very important activity for you then it is clear that like some cases that have occurred where they have experienced many problems, especially having difficulty in making ends meet because of making gambling a priority or gambling in an excessive way until such actions have an impact on the financial balance that makes it difficult to meet all the needs of life which is basically intolerable.

The other thing is, I honestly really hope that you maintain this mindset and perspective on gambling, not least because this is the best approach where there is absolutely no element of "forcing yourself to gamble" especially when you don't have money to deposit, and I think it's quite rare for gamblers to think like this because lately I've seen that there are some gamblers who even go so far as to sell their belongings just to finance their gambling activities.

Yes, in fact it is like that, I really like games, playing what I like the most, but I see what my priority is, and I am not going to put my pleasure above the obligations of others who depend on me, and I believe that this is something that we should all take into account, because we are such thoughtful people that we must assume things as they are, we cannot be Irresponsible, in fact in recent weeks I have not been able to play in a casino, because the cost of living has been very high, and you have to manage the money well so that it is enough to cover the basics, in my case it is very difficult to save, every time I try, an unforeseen expense arises, there is always something that arises that Prioritizes, so the need to play a casino, that decreases because for me it is not a Priority to play.

Well, that is the attitude that gamblers always do and they will feel like people who really have to get their money back, and of course in conditions like this it is no longer fun but emotions and ambition that have peaked.
But in the end what they get is much worse result, they suffer series of massive defeats until they lose all their money without any remaining, then regret is the feeling that ends it all.
In gambling, everything cannot happen according to the expectations and desires of the gamblers because they are only the first party with the lowest chance of winning.
It just that some gamblers will feel different things who can have better approach to gambling activities.

Losing money, losing streaks and also ruin is always the end of the story for gamblers, although not in its entirety because there are still some who are able to always behave and make the right decisions.

Does it worth to risk your joy in a game where you don't have any assurances if the targets chosen by you aren't going to be accomplished? If the point here is to have joy through the accomplishment of financial goals, even though you know you can't accomplish such goals on long term, doesn't look a smart idea... It's like you are driving through a route which you know there is a very high probability of not forwarding you to your destiny.

If the main objective in the mind of the gambler is to make money or grow his initial bankroll into a larger amount of money, the most advisable thing to do is to seek for investments opportunities which can be profitable the longer the money is invested, as the concept works on the exact opposite from gambling games, where the more you play, less likely it's going to be that you are going to win.

We can be promising in the system but always bear in mind that losses will always favours those that are patient because they understand the grassroots and will be able to comprehend the system circumstances. Losses will come but we must be ready to absorb everything the system throws at us. I'm ambitious and eager to make crucial figures in the figures but at the same time, we should ready to know what's in for us. It's called fun when your money is at stake? I see zero joy in recording losses because we're here for targets to be accomplished.

Although it is difficult to read it but I understand the main point of what you said above that in the end yes the best approach to gambling is when we can make a decision based on considerations based on common sense and rational mindset. Prioritizing the needs of life or something more important than gambling is a mature mindset, as you said that when you get a weekly or monthly salary from your job then the main thing to do is to fulfill all the needs you need in life, such as weekly shopping for food, paying electricity or water bills and other needs such as buying things for your baby, when you are able to think like this then it means you are able to prioritize something that should be prioritized. And I'm sure if you have the right understanding of what and how gambling really is then even if for example your money runs out for all the necessities of life that make you unable to gamble then you will not mind that, and maybe you will think that there are still many other times to gamble, meaning that you know and understand that gambling is not an activity that is mandatory to do.

This question has a clear logical fallacy because any spending of money is considered a loss, including basic expenses. Gambling may be a distinct phenomenon, but it is not unique, because if we consider it a waste of time and money, then other activities can also be included in the same list, such as buying alcohol or drugs.
This is an illustrative approach only, but by delving deeper into gambling, finding pleasure in losing money may not be entirely correct because the goal of any gambler is to win and he cannot be happy with his loss. With the exception of unique cases of very wealthy people who always raise the slogan “Loss is an eternal treasure,” it can be considered a pathological condition like neurotic psychosis that makes a person take pleasure in unreasonable behavior or manifestations, such as enjoying pain or celebrating loss.

Exactly, we can be aware that when we lose we have to die, I know it's like you say, it will never be pleasant, but one of the things that many players fall into is that they turn Against the game, that is, they seek revenge and that It is something very bad, it is also because they let themselves be Carried away by impulses, and it is not that the casino is ill-intentioned, because in reality a casino does not force us to play and make certain movements, we are ourselves, when we play we will want to play to win , and we don't always win, but very few players contemplate losing , when we lose is when we learn many things, like leaving the money alone in the casino, it doesn't matter if you lose, not having more of that money, not falling into temptations, which for It's Very easy for us, I think that's what it's all about , always taking care of our money.

For me it's all there, in knowing when we should fix things at our own discretion, because we can go to a casino and have our money, but we know and understand that we cannot risk everything, because it is a great irresponsibility to do so, so once in In this order of ideas, things must be well framed with what fits in our budget, that is, if I have 100usd per week, I cannot have those 100usd just to play, because how could I pay my rent, my services and apart from the market, if There are small children, so you have to buy diapers, milk, vaccines, all that, so if you have an easy budget you can get 5-10usd to play men once a week with that budget, it's not bad, and it's an option that can be done Of course this may be an idea, not that it is something like that, what I am trying to say here is that the game must give its place after fulfilling our main obligations.