Topic: Where is the fun when you lose your money? - page 4. (Read 3118 times)

It’s very hard to be happy if you lose on gambling. The fun part comes during the gambling process itself but having a negative balance as result is always not fun for me. I dunno if anyone can still be positive when they lose money but I personally not happy when I lose. I only manage to coped by focusing my attention to different things to avoid having a thought of chasing losses.

It’s important to cherish every bets since this is the only part which you can get guaranteed fun while the rest is already based on result. It’s very hard to be happy when you knew that you lose money. 

Some gamblers will count it an additional fun even when they loose their money on gambling, it is the bet or match they they missed target on, which shouldn't by any means affect their fun or change their emotion to bad, gambling is just as if someone is going to a viewing center to subscribe for watching a particular match and after the game, you take a leave and you don't mind if you receive any incentives as addition for doing that or not.  

One can not be failing and still remains happy, winning is another means of motivation, when you win you motivate yourself and from the with the profits and some people who's not hold enough to hold themselves back from greed will stake more just to win more money. However I support such acts when it comes to business making, but on gambling it's not guaranteed to use more than what you can afford to lose when staking because even your winning is not guaranteed and you might lose the whole money you have won if care is not taken.

Nothing, every human being applies to everyone without exception, humans are happy when the efforts they make are successful, failures and losses are nothing that humans feel happy about, the same goes for gambling.

Gambling is always synonymous with fun, perhaps, this happens when they succeed in winning several games, not everyone gambles for fun, Of the 100 people who gamble, only 10-20 people have good luck and end up having fun, the rest are miserable, for this reason the word happy does not apply to all gamblers, only those who have good luck are said to be happy.

Well things are like that, what really makes many people look bad is fear, fear is the worst thing that can happen to anyone, I am very realistic, I know that some people cannot lose, in fact they are afraid of losing. and it's like you say, nobody likes to have unpleasant moments and they can't do much, so basically the eras are careful not to have bad experiences, we as players have had bad moments, sometimes even I have had the bad luck of staying without money because I did not play with enough intelligence, and that is something that we must overcome, because they are things that we must think before doing, we cannot be in a bubble where basically things must generate beautiful things, we learn a lot from bad experiences and learn faster, unfortunately it is with bad things, but all that is worth it.

Because the possibility of earning money is what makes it fun. And losing it, although it may not seem like it, is also part of that component, which makes gambling for most people a merry-go-round of emotions. Saving the distances, it's like the cinema, why do we like it? Because it makes us feel emotions.

You are absolutely right, I thought as much too. I always wounder why people talks about gambling as fun why the main objective of gambling is to make money. In as much as people play bet or gamble frequently, the mission is to hit the jack pot one Day despite we all know that there will be more loses than win, we should just bear it at the back of our minds that for any victory achieve, there is numerous number of losses. same thing applicable to life, in life before you will succeed there must be much failure in ones life before victory can be achieved, Same thing is also applicable to gambling, we should try as much as possible to to gamble with what we can afford to lose since we know that lose are more than win, sothat it will not affect us emotionally when we chose to bet with huge fund and loss.

It's not bad to spend money on things we want, such as buying clothes, food or even other property, including gambling. but if something like this is done excessively as you said, when by gambling we risk all the money we have of course that is not a good choice, because it will only make us lose money, and the sensation that can be obtained in gambling will not last forever We can accept this, including defeats which will be more frequent than wins. No one is happy with losing money even if they get a sensation that makes them happy.

In terms of gambling there are two possibilities that will occur, losing and winning. Well, of course defeat is more likely to happen, isn't it? With that said, I'm sure not everyone or gamblers can accept that the gambling they do ends in defeat or loss of money because most gamblers' goal is to be able to get a profitable win. What you say is correct when you consider gambling as entertainment, because this is indeed a means of entertainment in the form of games. Be aware of losing money and be sure not to overdo it.

Indeed. We have different reason on why we gamble and it's already given that many gamblers have a goal of gaining huge to become rich. Because it's possible if you're lucky. This thoughts can attract gamblers to play despite the losses they had. But still, there are gamblers who are just playing to kill time, it's not really enjoyable to lose your money but if in return you are satisfied and entertained, then you can easily move on especially if you didn't spend a huge amount in the games that you played.

I think if you consider that money as spent for entertainment then it is not so bad.

But on the other hand, if you simply gambled all in a single bet and lost it all then it won't feel as good I reckon.

In my view it is best to consider gambling as partly an entertainment thing, because you most probably are going to lose the money in the long term so might as well have some fun while at it.

Once you have been able to experience all those bitter conditions or those devastating situations in gambling then after that then you would be making yourself that emotionally good control onto the next conditions that you might be able to face on since you do have that kind of past experience then you would really be naturally making out that kind of adjustment on which this is something which could normally happen. Yes, there's no fun on
losing money and this is where most gamblers would really be ended up on becoming that impulsive just because they are really that expecting something positive towards their gambling sessions and on the time that it didnt
happen then they would really be that out of their compusure and would really be betting like a mad man until they would losing it all.

This is why its important that when you do gamble then you should expect something like this where losing is inevitable. This is why you should expect those casual results
so that on the time that you do experience it out then you wont really freak out.

Not everyone is greedy or aggressive. True, losing money isn’t enjoyable, but neither greed nor aggression will recover the losses. I believe that much depends on how we view the situation. If we approach gambling responsibly and consciously it remains just a game. What is lost today might be regained tomorrow

I fully support your view. Indeed while losing isnt enjoyable, it doesn't lead me to depression since its part of the game. This perspective seems to be the healthiest approach to gambling. In fact statistically I think less than 1 percent of gamblers are genuinely addicted. it's just that they receive more attention. There's usually not much to say about the ordinary players 

Well, this type of thinking didn't happen to me today or recently, I've had it for a long time, but it was easier because when I was a rookie I made all the mistakes there were , however I Never fell into a stock. , I was always very responsible with my obligations at that time , I do not deny that I was losing money that I really needed later and that made me think a lot, because I told myself that I could not be losing money just by playing in a casino, that is something that I cannot do I could do more , so that's because at the same time I was operating because I told myself that things had to be seen in a different way, so I started to say that if I have 10 or 20 USD that I would have left over to eat something, or go out, even if it was have a few beers , I would prefer to put them in trading or in the casino, but no more if I lost them, and the truth is you have to have Discipline to Comply and it Worked for me , that's why I tell you to only risk the money that you are willing to lose .

Yeah, different people will enjoy gambling in different ways, but at the end of the day the main driver of gambling is the potential to win more money than the amount the gambler put in first.

This is actually quite a difficult thing really, because the probabilities are actually against the gambler. The most probable outcome is that the gambler will end up paying to the casino.

The thing is that some gamblers forget about the money they have spent already, and if they win big once, even though it doesn't cover the costs, they would be happy.

That's the problem here the goal to make quick money , that's one of the mindset that normally initiate the means of betting irresponsibly. In order for to keep up with such goal . I understand that most people gamble with the sole aim of making quick profit, though one can actually earn some extra good cash through gambling no doubt. But with such mindset one may experience torns of losses before getting to the point of hitting a life changing jackpot in their gambling, that why one most try all means to minimise the negative effect of gambling by gambling wisely or responsibly.


The right thing to say is when you're using money you can definitely risk losing. Than thinking of someone else's money . Because there's chances you may endup losing someone else's money which may not be pretty because there's big difference in losing your money than skns else's money which is wrong


There no fun in losing money to be honest, the only thing  you may be feeling would be anger and greed, first one would be angry of losing that bet and secondly the aim of getting what they have loss back , may endup triggering greed or initiating it .

as we are different that is how our mentalities and the thinkings are different also many people have different understanding in gambling and some people have their own way of understanding gambling so such is life and it is something that we think on our own, so whoever that says that the gambling is basically for entertainment or it is a place they want to lose their money I think about that person is telling fallacy because they objective or the aim of anyone who is in gambling is to make money through gambling by winning any stake he or her placed in gambling

Sure, nobody is certain of their fate, or what it looks like. But gambling doesn't control either the player's fate. In as much as a player is not in a complete state of mind when he's losing his money, he's bound to make mistakes. Both results, win or lose, also help in confusing a player's decision. Especially his initial plans. While in the game, there are misconceptions and internal disagreements in the player's mind. Options create arguments. The player's thoughts are compelled to go against each other's suggestions. It's not a one-mind thing. Many other life activities with options do this to us.

However, gambling consistently causes this to occur in the human brain. More like emotionally battling oneself. The system wasn't designed to steal from anybody. You could be saying in the form of con. Yet it's inadmissible. Casinos provide lots of benefits to a player for his money. I understand a diverse perspective about the game leads to arguments between gamblers, on what's right or wrong. If you read carefully my response, you'd realize the self-argument a player face also could be extended to an interpersonal disagreement between gamblers, just like everyone argues on what seems right to them. Nobody is right or wrong in contexts like this, same way it's wrong to oust fun as no valid factor in gambling.

No one really likes to lose but since we are dealing with betting or gambling then you should really be that making yourself that get prepared for this one because if you dont then you would really be ended up
on getting frustrated just because you've been expecting on something which we do know that it cant really be possible in gambling. Yes, you could make money but the rate or chance of losing money is much more comparing to wins. This is why it would really be that important that you should really know on what you are dealing with so that if you lose then you could easily move on.

There are really people who are really just that too desperate on which this causes up that kind of determination on which it comes into the point that you do become that
desperate and this is something that you shouldnt really be doing because if you do become that kind of desperate then it would really be causing up tons of loses even more
which we know that this would really be that bad.

That's what it's About , if we make the right decisions and Always analyze our things, we probably won't do badly in the game We have to use a lot of reason and intelligence in the game I know that there is no money When you lose or when the game we play goes Wrong , because who likes to lose? In the casino or in anything in life ? I don't think anyone, but these types of things are why we must concentrate on Being able to do it well, Sometimes there are players who are very Clear when they are in a situation and that they should stop, that they should leave things like that, and that is Something very Different, because that is the absolute responsibility of generating oneself and not becoming decapitalized and with that it helps not to fall into addiction, which is what affects many.