That is called the sandwich generation and people are starting to realize that when they get to start with their own family, they wouldn't rely on their kids as their retirement plan. The joy of the parents is to see their kids enjoy their lives and work on their own, having to earn money and let them do whatever they wanna do with their money. The good thing about this generation is that the majority is about to end this sanchwich generation.
Actually its not something that your kids responsibility to raise you or support you when you do gets old, there are really just those individuals who do make it as a priority or something that a must thing to be done as their parents on which telling this and that about on the things that you have spend on them on the time that you are raising them. As a parent then im not really that looking on something like this and just like you said that i would really be that happy on the time im seeing them that they are really that able to stood up with their own feet specially on the time that they would be having a family.
This is why its important that you will really be getting that life insurance and so as with that savings so that on the time that you do get old then you are really that prepared on whats coming
and not ending up on relying with your grown up kids.
In some cultures, those countries that are family-oriented, they are pushing their kids to sustain themselves when they get older. But IMO, it shouldn't be like that anymore, and the good thing with this is they are realizing that these parents should allow their kids to enjoy life and their money. They're not obligating their children to support them and that's why they're still working hard. As for these kids that become well in life, it's not a problem if they are going to give back but they're not obligated to do so. But of course, as you appreciate your parents, you feel obligated to do it but just do it when you're in a well situation.
The old generation didn't plan for their future, I'm not generalizing all of them but many of them weren't really prepared for it. That's why we as the next generation that are going to that path shouldn't do what they've done. They didn't really do anything because life before was too easy and it's not too toxic as it is right now that everyone is getting involved with economic matters and becomes worried of what to eat for tomorrow unlike before.
Well changes are inevitable, and things that are easier before have now turn into complex, that’s why we have to prepare for it so we won’t end up getting rekt and doomed. And investing at an early age could be the best key so we can prepare our aging and retirement soon. Although it’s said that we should not think that much of how our future will be and just focus on our present, but if you are good and responsible enough, you should learn to balance your life, live well today while you are also investing in your future.
Yes, I myself is definitely preparing for it. Even if I want to purchase things that might make me happy although not a necessity, I'm keeping the money for my retirement so that I wouldn't be reliant to my children as I get older.