Topic: Your gambling life could affect your relatives lifes. - page 18. (Read 2533 times)

say someone who is addicted to gambling then he will experience drastic changes, because in my opinion someone who is addicted to gambling will experience a change in his attitude which may become more stubborn tend not to want to give in and easily get emotional because he doesn't want to give in Can regulate emotions well and of course this will affect the surrounding environment, including relatives, friends, or maybe other people.

the defeat that they always get at the end of gambling is what drives them to become addicted which can be detrimental to themselves and other people,  because if they become addicted of course they can lose their money quickly and in large amounts and people who are addicted tend to do anything that can make money to gamble again. Also, many cases have occurred where there are or perhaps many gamblers who borrow money to gamble again and of course this is not a good choice nor is it a solution to solve everything because doing this will only make them experience bigger problems. They can also do this to their friends or relatives and perhaps those who are addicted to gambling may not be able to control their emotions,  which could lead to violent actions when it comes to borrowing and borrowing money,  because in my opinion money is very sensitive.

It's true and I think there have been many cases where relationships have been destroyed just because of gambling, not just affecting relationships with relatives or friends, but it can even end in divorce between husband and wife, I often see some information from the news that shows separation in triggered by economic conditions that were not possible or were getting weaker and added to this by the many problems of being in debt which of course I can imagine what their condition was like at that time, the allocation of money to something that was basically not needed, such as gambling, was one of the causes so that in end up experiencing chronic financial problems and losing balance.

Therefore it is important for us to understand what is actually called gambling, this is not a productive activity but only an activity for fun which should not be done seriously or even prioritized, otherwise there will be obvious negative impacts such as possibly suffering financial problems. It's something we might experience.

There have been many cases like this and to be honest, those who have become addicts ^{(what is addiction to gambling or other addicts)} will not have normal thoughts anymore, surely they will not think anymore about anything and whoever is around them, especially the family who loves him.  Gambling is an activity that is very addictive, especially for those who feel a big win when they first-time start gambling, for that, control the behavior, and do not let the relationship that has been lived since childhood with family must be destroyed instantly because of gambling.

This is on the extreme end of things. I'm pretty sure if you're a normal person who's just gambling casually, your relatives won't interfere. Also, I don't think the relatives would even have the power to sue these gambling houses especially if they have permits. They're just putting their family name to shame and just getting themselves in the limelight for no reason.

The best thing these gambling houses can do is just ban the man and let all these things end. They can report the family members to the police for alarm and scandal if it continues to happen and the man's family will just find themselves in deep shit if they continue to act like they're trying to 'save' their kin.

I  can say that crytop casino would only advice about responsible gambling but doesn't have the right to decide on a gamblers limits to gamble and crytop casino wouldn't even care your lifestyle of gambling because they are not rightfully mandated to moderate its gamblers at their gambling lifestyles so, it can of course also happen to the the crytop casino gamblers.

Even the crytop casino could even be worse for the gamblers relatives to conduct or put to an end of the gambling relative on his reckless and chronic gambling lifestyles as long the gambler could get reach to mobile devices unless he would be deprived from all series of terms that could utter him the chances to use the internet or mobile devices else there would always be ways for the gambler to keep up his wayward deeds of gambling which is affecting his relatives.

Unfortunately for family members, family is forever. It's hard to give up on them whether one is an addicted gambler or alcoholic, the members will just have to tend to them and wait how long they can turn their lives around. They can turn a happy family into a dysfunctional one, they will drain the money of the family and the kids see life in some other way and influence the way they think in the future.

For OP's example, I think the person is not a family man yet that's why his older siblings or probably parents are the ones trying to ban him from the betshops.

Restrictions should be given to a gambler by his family so whenever he starts going extra miles just for the sake of gambling. Sometimes it is the cause of the relatives that made an addicted gambler to feel he can take loans and secure huge debt without considering how the money would be paid back. He knows very well that if he did not have the money to pay back his family members would contribute and pay the debt.

The best way to harness this problem is to let the gambler to go through the situation alone. If he dont have the money tto pay back they should take everything he owns that is equal to the amount he borrowed. Instead of disturbing the relative who is not aware the he went to take a loan for agambling.

The destruction of household or family that occurs because of gambling is clearly the perpetrator being gambling addict, this cannot be gambling said to be the main source of the problem of family breakdown because the person who is actually at fault is the gambler himself.
A gambler who is addicted is clearly someone who has failed in controlling himself, in limiting and managing all the gambling activities he has been doing so far, resulting in excessive financial expenditure.
A gambling addict will use all the money he has just to fulfill his desire to continue every bet and of course this kind of thing makes the gambling addict abandon his family and he works only to be able to get money as betting capital, not to support the family.

If compare an alcoholic or drunkard with gambler, it will clearly be very different and of course both can have bad impact on family, but in the context of an alcoholic, it will never be possible to let go of the responsibility to support the family.
It just that drunks will have more uncontrolled attitudes in terms of emotions and attitudes, they can commit violence against their family members if they lose control.
As much as possible, should also avoid everything, don't become gambling addict and also don't become an alcoholic.

Naturally. Any sort of addiction can affect not just you, nor your relatives, but literally anyone in your surroundings whether it be your neighbors, workmates, friends, and whatnot. That's just how life goes. Unless you're a really secluded person that lives in the middle of a forest, anything you do can have significant effects to your surroundings, the scale just differs I guess depending on how much you mean to them.

It's not necessarily gambling itself though. I mean, there's a lot of gamblers out there that are pretty responsible, myself included (I hope).

This is terrible when a gambling addiction is ruining a family. But I wouldn't say that it's something only linked to gambling, and form of addiction is having severe impacts on the family and can ruin. With gambling addictions the patient will use all the money he gets his hands on to go and play at casinos, with the alcohol addictions he will just go to the supermarket and buy as much alcohol as possible. I think we should be more open to all types of addictions and not to only one. It's hard for the family to see the life of a loved one ruined without being able to change it.

Yep it effect in my relatives life. In our country people become more happy if the other sons loss and they can't do anything good in life. They talk every time by pinch to the other if their son do good in life. But after joining in gambling they can't tell anything their son doing good in life but I am doing better my life by joining crypto and gambling. The achievement from the crypto world and the gambling sector is profit and how to make money. Yes it effect to my relatives they can't pinch anymore.

Without good control it will indeed make someone play beyond the limits and it will never be good in the end if it continues, therefore never let our family members borrow money from other people or give loans to our family members, because we will definitely get involved in it, don't let him get addicted to gambling because to keep him from losing too much and also it can help stop his addiction, sometimes people who gamble will stop slowly if they no longer have money.

The most helpful thing is that as family or friends, it's best not to let family members borrow money from us and never lend money to family members because it could make their addiction worse. It's best to stop them in a harsh way even though it won't get a good response from them. remain firm, everything is done to keep our family members safe from gambling addiction. because gambling addiction is difficult to cure

That wouldn't have happened if those people could control themselves well. But the reality is that they then gamble excessively and even borrow money to gamble, which will give them regret, but only for a moment. And if they don't regret it, it has gone too far because they don't care about what has happened to them. This is embarrassing for the family because they have family members who gamble excessively, and they have to solve the problem immediately immediately. What other family members have done is right because even though they are forced to do it, it is for the sake of family members who like to gamble so that they can realize that what they do in gambling has exceeded their limits. That happens if someone gambles beyond their limits and the ones who will bear everything are other family members, while the gambler may not feel anything.

The most important way your gambling can affect your family and relatives is the loss of control over your debts. It is known that a gambler wants to win back, but he does not have any worthwhile strategy or game system. So he will lose again and again. And again there will be a desire to win back. And so on in a vicious circle. This will happen until his relatives abandon him.
The most interesting thing happens when a person undergoes a course of rehabilitation treatment. The whole treatment there is to discourage a person from wanting to play. But it does not explain why he loses. And what you need to do to win, and if this is impossible, then stop playing or direct your energy in a completely different direction.

I've read something like this in the forum, and the Op said he heard it on a radio program. Maybe people are beginning to adapt to this type of idea. It doesn't sound like a better way of dealing with addiction. Because these people actually need to adapt the fact their ward won't be happy hearing about the action they've decided to take on him. What matters is helping him out of gambling not disseminating a report on every gambling location in his neighborhood. That doesn't make any difference, he could be gambling else where in a far distant neighborhood, where nobody knows about his bad gambling habit. Hence, family who have been affected in gambling should learn how to focus on making their child a better citizen to the society. Tackling the problem in a way that'll be embarrassing to him would only worsen the problem of the person and he would look for a means of getting out of the neighborhood, since people will begin to talk him down based on choice his parents took on him.

Gambling smartly seems to me kind of odd because it's kind of ironic when the smartest thing that you could've done is probably to not gamble that money away but you still did it anyway. I think that's already a given effect when it comes to addiction, you will always hurt the people around along with yourself and the idea of empathy towards your loved ones is a good thing but the problem is that an addict have a hard time prioritizing that kind of thing because they want to satisfy what they're craving as much as possible because they're addicted, only way that someone can get saved from addiction is if they choose to do the saving themselves, if they don't want to get addicted anymore then they should have the will to do it themselves first and then the external help can do their job more efficiently.

Understanding gambling requires acknowledging that uncontrolled gambling can lead to addiction. Gambling addiction affects others as well as the gambler. Financial and emotional stress often fall on relatives. They struggle to assist their loved one while tackling the problem

Instead, evaluate the gambler's viewpoint. The complexity of addiction goes beyond guilt and conscience. Gamblers often get stuck in a pattern they know has negative repercussions. Responsible gambling applies here. It's a strategy to keep gambling fun, not harmful. For individuals battling, professional help is essential. Family members may help gamblers recover, but it takes patience, epathy, and harsh love

I think it's no secret that if you are out of control of your gambling habits and you don't have the means to pay the people that you loan for, obviously as some point in time when the people that you borrowed money from are your relatives, your relationships will be affected if you don't pay them on time.

So it may haunt you for the rest of your life if you don't pay them. Or at least decide when to quit and stop gambling for good. Maybe some of us have been in this kind of situation before, and maybe we did get out of our addiction and mend our relationships with our family members. But there could still be knee deep with debts and loans from their gambling addiction and can't get out.

That's them, not me.

I never gamble beyond my limit or higher than my monthly income, so gambling will not affect my life and my relatives life.

We have so many threads discuss about gambling addiction, self control, story of gambling ruin someone life, gambling is for fun, how to not become an addict etc, so that's enough to make users in this forum not become an addict.

It shows how gambling can really mess things up. Not just for the person hooked, but for everyone around them. Gotta gamble smart to avoid the chaos. Addiction wrecks relationships and money. If you're into gambling, think about how it hits your loved ones. Get help and play responsibly to break the bad cycle.