Topic: Your gambling life could affect your relatives lifes. - page 19. (Read 2538 times)

It's shameful when gambling takes everything from you, but it's not shameful when you make $1 million dollars as a gambler, I know someone who was hated for been a gambler, family members cut themselves off this person and after few years later this person became so successful with gambling, now the relatives can't even go back to claim him as their own.

I am not saying that gamblers should be an addict because they can become a millionaire some day, I am only saying that anything is possible, I choose to be responsible with gambling because I never expected much from gambling and I have seen a lot of people that are ruined because of their gambling habit, my advice is we gamblers need to be careful with gambling, avoid getting too attached with gambling.

Families should come first over everything, make sure that the decisions you make won't affect them, true be told, if your own child tell you that they believe in gambling you will never feel right about it, you will always be in worries, the only thing that can make me leave behind a relative is if they don't support my vision, not like gambling, but something that I believe will work well for me in future, and the reason why I will choose to stay away is for my own good, to stay focus and not get distracted by them.

Unfortunately those category of gamblers are so addicted such that they think that borrowing money to gamble again would enable them to win big to cover their indebtedness unfortunately as they as they continue to chase losses they even lose more until they got bankrupted it's very hard to control these set of gamblers because their is a spirit of never say die in them which continue to propel and push them to continue with their act, sadly the consequences of their addiction to gambling had affected the well being of their families and relationship with other colleagues imagine if the person is the bread winner in the family.

Taking loans to gamble is a big no no but for the gambler it seems like the only way out when the money they have has already been lost and they have not gambled for long enough to give them withdrawal symptoms. Indeed it is a pathological condition and the same family members can actually help cope up with the situation.

If the gambler is willing enough, they can try keeping their mind of gambling through fruitful activites outside their devices and make use of the time. Its tough but possible.

Then there are people who are drowning in debts but have no remorse, for them its a tough life without any option.

The impact may be wider than you think than just the environment of gambling addicts. The sentimental impact that relatives get will also definitely be felt especially if it has to do with other people's finances.
Gamblers who are addicted and don't have a steady income can harm other people whether it's relatives, colleagues, or people around them.
what he did was irresponsible to himself. but the impact will spread to involve other people. we have seen many cases of gambling addicts like that.

To gamble with certain amount of money that the person can afford to lose is what you are talking about, not just to gamble with certain amount of money because certain amount can be any amount. For addicts, the right words is that they should gamble with little amount of money, like 1 to 5% and not more than 5% of their weekly or monthly income. This is because they can be wrongly proving that they can afford to lose high amount of money, but until they are in losses would be when they will see how gambling can depress them.

What if the gambling addict is an playing online? I guess that the family and relatives could try to block his internet connection and take away his computer and smartphone. Suing offline casinos for letting gambling addicts to gamble seems pointless to me. No court is going to decide such case in favor of the gambler's family.
The thing you are writing about can be applied to any form of addiction. At some point, you drown so deep in the addiction that it affects your family. This is the worst part. Damaging the lives of your parents, brothers, sisters, significant other and kids due to your addiction is the most embarrassing thing that could ever happen to an addict. That's why I will never let myself get addicted to anything(not just gambling).

I agree. Recognizing how irresponsible gambling can affect others is crucial. I know from experience that addiction isnt isolated. A stone dropped into a pond causes waves which affect everyone nearby. Your relative's intervention illustrates this well. Due to desperation, they must intervene publicly and distressingly.

Responsible gaming may be fun and exciting. Balance and self-awareness matter. When restrictions are respected, gambling can be entertaining and fascinating. Just like any activity, it gives flavor to life in moderation but can be harmful in excess. Knowing and following one's limitations is crucial.

Your warning reminds us that gambling should be voluntary. Making informed decisions and considering how they affect ourselves and our loved ones is key. While we enjoy gambling, lets promote responsible gambling even more. The greatest bet is one that doesnt harm our relationships.

You have indeed made alot of point but I disagree about Gambliing addict affecting your relatives. I believe that what ever a man does will surely affect him and him alone. No doubt, the family will receive humiliation about how addicted one can be but I really think the gambler has alot to face. The consequences of excessive gamble will not only affect his current situation but his future, social life, religious life, educational reputation and loose family respect. And sometimes finds it difficult to find a partner for marriage. All this circles around him and not his relatives.

I am always aware of this, especially with the emotional fluctuations. When you lose, you get easily angry and I have kids so controlling it is necessary or else my family will hate me if I take out all my hatred in gambling with them. That's not fair for those people who are near you.
Gambling responsibly doesn't just mean controlling the money that we have, we also have to be careful with what we will say to the people near us. Even if we are in deep losses, we must stay calm like nothing really happened. This is where the "gamble what you can afford to lose" will come in very helpful.
If we are only gambling the amount that we are not able to regret after we rekt it then I think we are okay. Money can definitely control our emotions too and if we keep on thinking about the amount that we lose then we are in big trouble.
The key to surviving this jungle is just putting in a budget and we have to stay with it. Follow the plan, stick with it, and don't let emotions get the better of you by chasing losses. After all that, I think we are going to be fine with our family as long as we are responsible.

There are many gamblers who cannot control themselves, from gambling addiction due to which they suffer a lot. For such users a family is instantly ruined and in debt. The user then borrows money from their relatives to gamble, and when the money is lost in gambling, the user becomes even more broke. Abstaining from gambling is the most important thing because people who become addicted end up ruining themselves and ruining their families. So one should never gamble by borrowing or borrowing, but if gambling is to be done it is better to gamble with a certain amount of money only then a user will not become too much addicted.

for me, if you're going to do something stupid with gambling, make sure you can stand with it and that you don't harm other people, especially your family. Yes, we know they are our family and they are ready to forgive or help you with the things you have done, but it is a different matter if you are putting them in a bad situation and giving a huge problems. It is a great shame for them to be told that they have a relative who is a irrespinsible gambler and an addict.

Generally speaking, our loved ones would be upset, angry, or concerned, especially if we developed a gambling addiction and our actions and behavior radically changed. Because of the wrongdoings of the gambling addict—you mentioned that he was indebted to someone—they would feel deceived, and their family and relatives would be the ones who suffer and worry about the financial load. In simple terms, they seem to be in emotional turmoil.
Additionally, there's a chance that he or she will borrow money from family members to feed their gambling addiction. We are seriously endangering ourselves if we cannot maintain self-control and discipline.
 
It's reassuring to know that the family alerted the gaming board to deny him access to any gaming establishments going forward. This will allow him to be held accountable for his actions and develop self-control. They are like the stray cats in the world, and the way to tame them is that you must catch them, train them, and discipline them.

I often encounter things like this in my environment, I am not surprised by this, I am just sad to see his family be broken because his addicted. Nowadays, many people see things without calculation, they just think bet the money, they can be rich and the money has doubled multiple times. In fact not easy like that, all things in the world must have calculation and good management even what he did is just bet the money in gambling. It is same as trading, we can't take the advantage just like that without calculating if in the future want to do the same thing. Because we have set the profits for next capital. If all is spent, I really sure the will lost in all.

When someone is unable to control themselves when gambling, becomes addicted, and even completely loses control without being able to control themselves, then it will indeed be very dangerous. The impact of the problem is not only on yourself but especially on your family. But unfortunately, it will be quite difficult to awaken and make the addicted gambler stop gambling and get treatment. They just want to earn money and then use it for agmbling.

That's why, it's true, you have to be alert and wise when gambling. Don't let being addicted cause us to lose control.

That's the essence of the topic, because the family has the responsibility to help their family member who is a gambling addict. That's when the family members are affected by the family member who's addicted. They will have to think of ways on how they will stop their member from playing more, and because the gambler could borrow money or, at worst, steal money from them, that's why it's very important that if you can't handle yourself from doing bad things because of gambling or if other people are being affected by your doings, then that's when things are bad. If you know you can't control or you might affect other people, then you should not enter into gambling because gambling is not the problem; it's you, the person itself, who can't control itself. The person is the one to blame, no one else, and even a family member has the responsibility to help you. Still,  you should help yourself first.

That is very true, it is the responsibility of the gambler or the family himself on what to do with their family member who is into gambling.
It is not the casino nor the government to stop him from this activity. Because it is his own will why he got into this activity.
However, the person or the gambler himself should know the repercussions of his activities as not only himself but his family will be affected by his actions.
If he does care for his family, better think fast and alter his lifestyle for the betterment of his life.

First of all, I cannot see the point why relatives would sue the gambling provider 'coz the man in particular was so irresponsible as a gambler. If the Casino is registered then there's nothing to be worried of, in their end. They are a running business and they cannot choose among people who will they allow to play on their platform and who won't be; they will accommodate all players since they forced no one to engage to them in the first place. Quite of a bad solution I guess; the relative should have just focused with their relative's problem and recovery of addiction than to use money and time to something which is obvious. It is a normal thing as well for people around you, especially your relatives, to have bad feelings for the platform but they just cannot stop a running business simply because they accommodated someone on their platform. It is gambling we are talking about and nothing is basically guaranteed except for loss, which should already be an enough warning to that man.

When a gambling establishment does not violate anything and has followed the rules in the area, then nothing can be reported.
It is entirely the responsibility of parents or closest relatives that those who have problems with gambling or are too addicted are prohibited from getting into gambling.

But, now accessing gambling is very easy with Online gambling, this will not be any filter.
Even underage children can access it easily, gambling games placing bets can be done via mobile phones without the need for any age restrictions.
It's too complicated for now unless there is supervision and restriction from the parents themselves.

I really feel pitiful for them. If they tried to learn, they wouldn't have to hide in things that sink deeper and only prevent them from being able to escape. I witnessed many cases of people even fighting because of borrowing money to gamble. Indeed, there are many things that can only be understood that gambling addicts are really pitiful, they ruin their lives and affect others surrounding people, it will be very difficult for them to find a chance to escape the danger zone. And often the end result is sins that make people regret more.

Life is inherently fair, and each person will always have enough choices suitable to their life context, accepting the truth of life. Some things that I see are that gambling addicts will interact with each other a lot and rarely will they find a normal person to get along with. It's a pity that the wrong prejudice leads to a life full  anguished.

It is so sad seeing people ruining their lives through gambling which is suppose to be moderated by them and under control. This is not a new thing and it has happened to many people in the past. If the families are affected so much by the way he gambles, it is either he is the bread winner of the family or he borrows or steal money from them to go and gamble which will not go well for the entire family.

In the case of reporting the gambling shop to the authorities if they allow him to gamble at their place again, I don’t think that is possible because if he is not violating their rules of gambling, he won’t be stopped from gambling and the family wont have a case against the gambling shop owners. It is only when he is not up to the age of gambling that they can sue the gambling company for allowing an underage to place a bet with them.