Topic: A gambler's family action. - page 2. (Read 1842 times)

I believe that gambling is entertainment for someone who is already making money on his own. In my opinion, gambling for family money is not quite right. Although I also once used money from the family budget, but now I think that for me personally it is unacceptable. There are many legal ways to earn money even for minors, so making money is not a problem now.

The player's family should not forbid him to gamble, otherwise he will do it secretly - and the consequences will be unpredictable. It is worth giving him a certain amount of money, which he is entitled to lose, although there is always a chance that he will win. a person should have an outlet.

Mate you think wrong there is nothing contradictory about the two questions. For a compulsive gambler the action was necessary though it appears to be extreme if he was gambling responsibly the family wouldn't have had issues with his gambling life.

How do you cooperate with a compulsive gambler? Who in an addictive situation should be expected to be cooperative; is it the addict or those giving the help?

I always say that family is everything you don't have to hold grudges towards family for long, in this case all that was done was intended to salvage him from falling off and if eventually he got lucky under his addiction to win a big sum of money, incorporating his family in that money is somehow a benefit to him as the family will guide him on how make good use of the money not to squander it all on gambling in the believe of winning more.

Support was what the family from the onset were giving before he won the money, so there won't have been a difference he won or lose.

The gambler will not like to make the funds on the taxation after the good win,because the gambler had win the game by their hard work.The tactics was the key to win the money from the gambling site,if they pay some taxes to the government.It may be find by their family member and it may cause some problem to the gambler involvement to the gambling.The family from the gambling background will help the gambler by supporting at the needed time.If the gambler had made the big win once from the gambling site and same was know by their family members.In this case the family member can help you at the hard times or else it was hard for the gambler to start the gambling after some couple of loss from the gambling sites.The experienced gambler will share everything to his wife for their long term gambling with the knowledge of their wife was essential one.

Therefore, if he wins a lot of money, it doesn’t even matter how much, he will take it back to where he won. He will think that he knows better how to dispose of them. Gambling is also a profitable business because few people take money from there and never return (almost no one). Usually in a day or two he will return there again to leave them there, if not immediately. He doesn’t even know why he needs so much money, he’ll just return there again to experience those unforgettable emotions in pursuit of the jackpot. As a result, his family will never see money from him. Everything could end better, but this happens very rarely and I don’t believe in such an outcome.

Exactly, the family members might have discussed within themselves the possible actions they can take to at least minimize the gambling activities of one of their family members who is addicted to gambling. They might have taken action before, however, there is nothing to stop the addicted gambler that's why they come to the level of taking action to request him to be banned from any gambling house within the area.

Let's be real in here. If this scenario really happened to you, I guess you would do exactly the opposite of what you said. I mean, every addicted gambler will. Right? An addicted gambler is willing to do anything just to provide their own money for gambling activities including selling his own properties. And achieving to win a huge sum of money, I don't think he will have time to think about his family who have tried to stop him from his gambling activities.

I think that both questions contradict each other. First, the family of that person did not want him to gamble and they tried to stop him from gambling in every way possible. The person has to go to another town in order to fulfil his desire for gambling. The family shows extreme behaviour to him but they should not expect him to help the family if he wins something considerable.

Why would he be willing to help the family, when the family was acting like a complete enemy to him. They did not not co-operate with him in times when he needed some support from him. Now that he has gone rich with gambling, it will shame if the same family comes to him and ask for his financial help.

I do not know if the relationship between the young man and the family is so strong that he forgets all the past behavior and comes back to the family and helps them.

What if he started to lose in gambling, will the family still support him:

To answer the first question, I don't think there's any length that'd be considered extreme to help someone struggling with gambling addiction, I believe that before they swung into action and took precautional measures to make sure they try to stop him, I believe they must have tried every other means, including engaging into one on one conversations, criticism and others and that his addiction was already very visible to them and they needed to take actions quickly before it completely ruins him.

And to answer the second question, if I eventually start going out of the environment just to gamble and I hit a very significant win, yes I'd share my blessings with my family, because they're the only ones who truly deserve to enjoy the wealth with me because they're the only ones that truly cared about me, saw that my addiction wasould ruin me if not stopped and decided to take the actions deemed essential and necessary just to make me stop, which was for my own good. I'd understand that their action was backed up by their love for me and my safety and not from a negative point of view. So yes I'll share my fortune with them

Playing gambling using money from debt is not recommended because we don't know when we can win and get money. There is only the possibility of losing so if we lose, the possibility of losing will use up all the money we have and if it is borrowed money, how will we pay the debt? People get caught up in thinking they can get rich quickly from gambling but they don't think that many people have lost a lot of money by gambling. And this will clearly cause problems for the family, especially if we develop a gambling addiction.

It may not be the right step, but according to his family, it can prevent him from being able to enter the casino because the casino will prohibit him from entering the place. He would probably be embarrassed to have his picture plastered in every casino and forbid him from gambling at all the casinos in his city. And everyone in his town will know that he is a gambler and that will make him frustrated and depressed. We also don't know the real situation and conditions experienced by his family, so we say that. But there is some truth in what you say about taking a different approach to providing support and understanding to him so that he can realize that he has made a mistake.

When you combine gambling with debt, it can be very dangerous, right? People get caught in a cycle of loss and panic when they believe they can get rich quickly. Getting loans to gamble? Its dangerous to do that. What will happen? Terrible. It not only puts finances at risk, but it also puts family ties under a lot of stress. Still, gamblers' minds are a mess of hope and misery, and they often dont see these risks.

Is spreading a gambler's photo to casinos the right move? I do not think so. On one hand, its an obstacle that keeps things from falling even more. On the other hand, it's an invasion of privacy and a public shame that could make the person feel even worse. A nuanced method is needed: firm action is needed, but it needs to be paired with support and understanding. Can we find that middle ground? Its hard to find the right balance between safety and respect, between control and understanding.

What still remains unknown is the point at which a family member who is constantly losing money will hit rock bottom and finally stop. Moreover, the player himself doesn't know this, but we need to find reasons for him to minimize losses as soon as possible. If in one family depriving the player of all available money and resources will help stop the game (easy bottom), then in another family the player will stop at nothing until he sells all the things from the apartment and his children have nothing to eat. One thing I know for sure, you need to stop giving loans and call all his friends and acquaintances from the telephone list so that they never lend him money, because he will invent all sorts of fairy tales just to be loaned money. There is no need to be ashamed of this because the outcome can be very bad, I apologize for my frankness.

Keep you gambling habits hide from your family. In our country family don't support their children to any kinds of work. If you say to you family about your gambling then when you are in profit family will support you. But when you are in loss then you family will blame you for your losses. Don't share you gambling habits with your family it's creat problem in you life.

It is never that simple, in a way what you are saying makes sense and the person mentioned on the OP should open their eyes and think about what they are doing to themselves and their family, however it is very unlikely they will take it this way and instead they will think of the actions of their family as a way to interfere with their lives and force them to do something they do not want, and this is what makes recovering from an addiction a challenge, because unless the person recognizes by themselves they have a problem then there is no way that anyone can help them.

The problem of debt where the money is used for gambling is indeed a serious problem because by gambling using borrowed money, you might end up losing all your money. They will not be able to return the money because all the money has been lost at the gambling table so this is a serious problem because they still have to return all the money. They have to use the money they have or have to sell their goods to be able to have money so they can pay back their debts. This will add to problems in the family if other family members find out that the person has debt. His family must really take firm action against that person to be able to stop his gambling activities and not gamble again because he has caused a lot of problems for his family. As for the story above, it is very natural that his family wanted to spread his photo so that every casino in his city would not allow him to gamble in their casino because it was for his own good.

That is why we must prevent the thought of always trying to make money from gambling because that will always happen often and all that will happen is that we will experience more losses. If we want to gamble, we have to make sure that we use enough money and don't gamble for too long so that we can prevent more losses. Even if we lose, we will lose appropriately and even if we win, we may have the opportunity to win a lot even though we rarely get it. But that's okay, rather than experiencing more losses that we can't accept, it's better if we experience losses appropriately and can accept them. This is to prevent our family from getting other problems from what we do in gambling.

When we don't have any other choice surely we'll go to any extent to stop him gambling. Myself will do the same, and it is really painful when someone see him with care, not just because of his good character, but of his situation. What the parents and family did is really good and he should be made to realise what is wrong with gambling. Maybe if he starts to earn and spend he'll understand better. Now what he does is spend his father's money and when he doesn't have money he had begun to sell his belongings.

Family knows best i believe even though it might really be that too tight when it comes to rules and conditions but it s really that something that we cant really be able to deny
and should really be that able to appreciate instead on making yourself that getting angry on the things that they've been doing just to save you up.
It is really that normal that they would really be helping one of their family members who are experiencing problems on which on the time that they would be needing to do
something to resolve the problem then no matter how far or extent it would be then they would definitely be doing it.

If we speak about the gambler and the family member means,the gambler should ready to play the gambling without the knowledge of their family members.Do you think the family member will allow for the game play because of the gambler involvement to the gambling sites.This was the impossible one,because the gambler had their own strength and weekness in the gambling.If the family member know about the small dollars loss in the gambling sites because of the gambling,it will be your last game in the gambling sites.Because the gambler using the money for the gambling which was claimed to the money for their family member expenses and ask to quit the gambling games for the welfare of the family.

Maybe with all these happening between a gambler and his family members, some gamblers have chosen to stay far away from them because they realized what could be in danger if they continue all together, the other aspects are the family members that tries to distance themselves from the gambler and have their own personal reasons for doing that as well, this has to be issues they would have already dragged and discussed before taking their own ground as well.

Luck definitely still plays a part in gambling, no doubt.  But having skill under your belt can assist big time in making smarter choices, grasping the game better overall, and bringing down how much you gotta depend on luck and, besides poker and blackjack,  take betting on sports for example - If you put in the effort to study up on the teams you'll be placing your bets with some more know-how behind 'em.


Indeed, gambling should be viewed as a recreational activity, not a means to financial gain.

We all want to be making money from betting but most time things doesn't work in the way we plan it. For us to make profits from betting, it is good for us to make sure we play bets without been pressured through any means. For us to make profits from the market we need to be disciplined and bet responsibly or things might get worsen and we might not be making good profits from the market. Sometimes family can make us not to be making the kind profits we ought to make from betting due to some usual mistakes we must have made in the paste. Adjusting is one of the things that can make us skill through.