Topic: A gambler's family action. - page 3. (Read 1498 times)

It’s also good when family members are interested or aware of such a person’s problems with gambling. But some wives and mothers don’t even know how dependent a person can be, his debts and other moral problems. They may not even realize that there is such a field as gambling and what is happening there due to insufficient coverage of these problems on television because there are only advertisements with possible winnings. We need to talk about this more all over the world, otherwise you can only hear it from friends or acquaintances, how in some family the son got into debt due to uncontrolled bets. Even some mothers and wives may not talk about it because they are so afraid of judgment, shame and blame that they did not follow up well enough with the losers. Only if the situation has completely gotten out of control and the debts have become critical, then only then can they tell because of complete despair.

Maybe a few, like Poker or Blackjack, but most of them are solely dependent on luck in order to provide wins to a gambler. So, you can't achieve skills to win big in a gambling game unless your luck shines at the time when the result is being generated. Some people think that they can use certain strategies and manage to get profit after every gambling session, but they don't realize that they can't do it because the house eventually wins no matter how much a gambler tries.

The best way is to gamble without aiming for profits or having a specific target. Even if you are looking for wins, don't chase your losses and get lost in that because when you start doing that, you won't be able to win at all and a single loss will cost you the whole bankroll, so instead, let the losses go and keep gambling normally.

Those who have lost a lot of money but continue gambling will only experience more and more losses, especially if they don't want to stop gambling because they still want to recover their losses. The bets they make may increase because they will definitely think about recovering their losses in one round, but the reality will not be as they think. If none of his family members know about this, he can get deeper into gambling without being able to get out. If his family finds out that he has a gambling addiction, they will probably take strict action to prohibit that person from gambling anywhere.

We as gamblers must be able to have good self-control and good responsibility so that we avoid gambling problems and will not experience any difficulties. We also won't bother our family members to supervise us when gambling, as we prefer to gamble without anyone knowing. Always having good self-control will keep us out of trouble so that our family doesn't need to take firm action against us, and we can still gamble responsibly. We have to regulate our gambling activities and not let ourselves get lost in gambling because that means we can be tempted to continue gambling, and we won't even think about resting after gambling for a while.

The bad thing about people is that they play without control and see that they are betting and winning more. Sometimes it can be harmful because people can adapt to it, and the moment a bad streak starts it will be difficult to stop it because the person who won a lot You want to continue winning and you start making very big bets to recover what you have previously lost and that is the danger of this, so these are the things that must be taken into consideration in order not to do it anymore. You always have to consider that when you are in a situation and there is a Streak of good luck, one of those that is very big, it is only better to withdraw because it is the best way to act because after making many bets you can lose everything, and it is not worth it, because even more it is an effort that was made and but it is something that must be done.

We as gamblers must always do what is necessary to avoid Falling into things like this, the traps of the casinos are knowing how to sweeten the customers, their players, and this was something that can be avoided when a player is winning, among my rules , which are very few but are quite efficient, I have to first always have a balance willing to lose, after this if you lose what you are willing to lose you should not deposit more money , but assume that it was lost and yua, after this if there are agnanias you will enjoy it, but if there are very large profits , there is no need to invest, you have to withdraw that money and enjoy it , spend it , Seeing what was done is very simple, because in many Players they begin to What being greedy does is lose what they have and that is worse, because there are some who do not accept it and begin to commit more with their money and what they do is lose big, then a good and very juicy profit or they transform it into a big soo Loss for not having intelligence in the casino, and even in casinos you must play intelligently.

Many gamblers have a great deal of problems stopping once they have started to get some wins, and this happens because deep down they know this may be the chance to recover the money they have lost during the last months and even make a profit if their luck does not run out, however the longer they gamble the bigger the chances a reversal will happen, and when it does they cannot accept it did, so they keep gambling hoping for their luck to comeback, and when it does not and they finally realize what happened they may find out they got no profits at all and they lost even more money despite their early success during that session.

The idea of being rich and having a lot of money without hard work and effort is just joke that people with limited abilities want, so they choose shortcuts that are faster and are considered easier, but in fact this choice is complicated and difficult to achieve real.
For example, people who only gamble without a job or business to support financial stability and they actually use various methods in gambling to win, end up living with all the difficulties they encounter.
Everyone has their own rights and thoughts in determining their fate and developing in a business or job to be able to have decent life and have enough wealth, but when they make the wrong decisions then only trouble is always present.

Many people have suggested and said that gambling is not a place to enrich yourself or make money on large scale because gambling is full of uncertainty.
But I think most people don't care about sentences like this because of their belief in gambling and the belief that gambling can change their lives.
People with thoughts like this only need to wait for time to experience what is called destruction and regret.
When all this has been achieved, he can realize it himself and can change what he thinks is bad, such as gambling addiction and having too big hopes from gambling.

Gamblers want fast money from gambling so that is another reason for gamblers who still frequently gamble where fast money will not come to all gamblers. But they don't want to start doing something more useful for themselves and stay at home, in their room, looking at the monitor and imagining that there is a lot of money flying around that they are ready to take. But when he returned to reality, everything was nothing and it was just his imagination and he really had to stop gambling if he wanted to change his life for the better. Yes, he could borrow money from other people under the pretext of buying medicine for his mother, and he lied to them while saying in his heart that he would return the money after he won. But the victory he wanted never came when he didn't have much money left. Family members who see someone in their family just staying in their room must take action and ask and check their condition. They won't know if the person is okay and not involved in something bad if they don't check on them.

Our luck in one day runs out, you're lucky today not tomorrow or you're lucky today later it won't be anymore. We don't know when it will come, so there are greedy people hoping to win again after a big win. And I think these people are the ones who gamble to win.

Yes, there is nothing wrong if you bet again after you win, but you must control yourself, your winnings will not run out. Bet 10% of your winnings again if your luck wins 10% again. But if you lose, you should know when to stop, don't be greedy.

People would really be going into the simplest thing as possible on which they would really be focusing on paths on which they do know that they could really be able to take advantage or something that it is really that too easy for them to deal with or something that they could easily be able to get involved with. Yes, gambling could make you rich but thats if you do able to hit up some jackpots and this is something which is really that impossible to happen easily because this would really be requiring that being lucky into those certain moments on which we know that this something that cant really be achieved easily
specially on gambling field.

In talks about family's action when it comes to this  scenario then it would be normal that they would really be doing things which it is really just that right to do so specially if its really that involving
family members whose really that getting addicted with gambling. You would really be able to see that they would really be putting up so much care on a certain family member
on which actions be made would really be going into those certain extents on which there's no sense if you would really be getting mad into.

It takes struggle to change a habit. The laziness in your context should be generally categorized on every factor needed to quit gambling. Since they earn little in gambling and lose more, what's there to stay between a rock and a hard place? Both sides of the coin doesn't seem favorable anymore. When they try, fear of who to run to, embraces them with both hands. Erupting a double trouble in their inner subconscious. They'll miss their therapy sessions, as they can't express the pains once in the therapy room. Difficulty clusters them, they're on the defensive side of the struggle. We all, think differently of what we haven't seen or watch others go through. The deniable nature of friends, depress them to a maximum point of voluntary isolation. Thereby leaving the addict, in a world of shadows. Black and blank. Still hitting those unforegoable buttons, as the only natural companion, left. The skills and effort to win big, less bothers them. They are eager to change, but helps is not forthcoming. Lame people would blame them, for instigating suffer on themself. These are unerasable emotional trauma. Ever spent time with a survived addict? He'll keep lamenting on the ill treatments he received, while in his struggle to change. I understood, that while addicted, the ball, to change, isn't in their court anymore. It's now a mental disorder, and requires adequate attention, to save the addict from a fatal and fearsome life situation.

Sure, it'd be nice to earn bucks without breaking a sweat.  But that lazy dream ain't reality and  making bank takes hustle no matter where you live.  Even casino games take skill and effort to win big.  And for most folks gaming wont pay the bills anyway.

I sometimes think that the reason why a player cannot give up games is simply laziness. He wants to get rich and do nothing, pressing a couple of buttons while looking at the monitor, although we all know the value of money and how difficult it is to get, especially not in rich countries. Before that, he will wake up well-rested because he doesn’t have to go to work. He knows that he can borrow money from friends under any pretext. Let him even tell you that mom needs money for pills because of health problems. I consider it important to never, under any pretext, lend money to such dependent people. This will allow him to quickly understand what bottom he is on. Of course, the addicted player does not even admit to himself that he is lazy.

And that's the reality that many people do, with the difficulty of cashing out or withdrawing the winnings they have gotten, so they continue to play to get a bigger win, and maybe this choice will kill them themselves because the chances of getting another win are very slim and almost impossible to get a bigger win. With the initial win that they get, I think it's just a kasnio trick to attract more people who play so that they will continue to pursue bigger wins.
This is difficult to avoid by people who gamble. But it is natural that they want a bigger win, because everyone who plays also wants it, but unfortunately it is difficult to get and what happens instead they lose more money.

1. If I was from his family I would do everything I can to save my family member from galing.

But

2. If I were a compulsive gambler I would go as far as wanted so that I can gamble.

So it depends on how strong one's effort.

If not the luck I don't see how a gambler will win millions of dollars with just $10 or $50, but many gamblers don't believe that luck exist in gamble, no one can easily get such luck but trying ones in a while and not always all the time is a good idea, if a gambler gamble all the time the gambler will easily become addicted to gamble.
Living the casino center after doubling up the little money that you came with is the best, if a gambler thinks that he or she can win more at that time then the gambler is fully wrong, no gambler wants to lose in gambling but we can't chase winnings rather losing will chase us, but luck can only help us to double our money or win big.

Maybe they really need firm action so they can suppress their disturbing gambling habits. There are many other reasons why family members have to do extreme things, in our opinion, because the gambler or his family members can no longer control their gambling. If we don't take firm action, the gambler won't get any warning, even from his friends, because maybe his friends don't care about what happens next. But I agree with advising the gambler to abandon his gambling activities because it has caused him a lot of problems while he is gambling. The gambler may need someone who can understand the circumstances that make him choose to gamble rather than do other things. If they can make the gambler aware of various approaches, the gambler will not feel forced to abandon gambling.

Indeed, this is an act that is not very wise in giving a firm stance so that family member do not gamble again. As family members, it is true that we must have sympathy and help family members who are involved in compulsive gambling, but if the sibling who gambles has no intention of to stoped gambling, he will continue to do it secretly until no one in his family knows about his activities. And if he has been gambling secretly, we all know that this will pose a greater risk if the family only knows that gambling is like that, let alone openly keep quiet? It will definitely be even more dangerous as family members should give advice and accompany him, not pressure him, forcing him to immediately stop by force.

  Then what sane parent wants or would want their child to learn to gamble if they know it will not bring anything good to their child, right? As you mentioned, parents will do anything for their children; that's true, unless the parents are also addicted to gambling. They say what the tree is, so is the fruit, for sure.

  But in a situation like that, I think if I'm the one in that child's situation, of course a parent is a parent; that can't be changed.
I'll just understand them, and I'll still be blessed with what I have, of course.

The thing that kill many gamblers in terms of loses records is their inability to walk away after a test of the winnings,  and casinos are aware of that and that is why their always make every possible attempts to offers you early winning to keep you stick in and eventually losing more in the process, this is a mechanism that many gamblers are not aware of and reason why most of them always end of recording more loses tan winning.
For instance when I placed a vet with an odds of 2.8 and the result came out as winning, I immediately withdrew my winning and walked away looking forward to another great day when and when my luck would shine once again.

It's better than not doing anything, yes. We both know that it'll piss the gambler off. When their help affects the addicted person emotionally, would it be seen as help anymore? No. I understand it's their personal way of being caring to their loved one, but that doesn't look like kindness. This is just my opinion, and I'll express my feeling in a way it'll suit me. We all, not sure for you, have been through some misunderstanding with family. And when they extend it to third parties, it always doesn't end well. Nothing is too much for a family to settle internally. Unless the boy appreciates what his parents did. The voice on your text, sound like a situation where the boy is seeking help. Even if he's seeking help from his parent, at some point he'll regret such a rigorous idea of publishing his face on gambling houses. But, from the thread, he wasn't asking for help. I think he's into addiction and not yet ready to quit gambling. Hence, applying the tough strategy won't melt the heart of the gambler. If he already wants to change, and agreed with his parents to do it on his behalf. It'll be better understood by everyone, that stands with the idea of the boy's reputation being mishandled by his parents. Whatever is happening today can determine our future. Who would hire him? even though he changes. The whole neighborhood now know of his bad habit. He'll be ashamed of returning to the street.