Topic: A Lady Cried After Losing to Sports Bet. Gambling is Not Your Mate. (Read 1515 times)

I have seen this thread for quite a while now, but it didn't get my attention until a few days back when I actually came across the woman videos on some local news platforms and when I watched the video I discovered that the woman in question was just faking it and from her story, you can easily know that she was never a gambler and at that she may have created such video to gain social media flowers because most of the content creators in this part of the world make all manner of videos just to sell out their self online line and the woman is likely one of them making such videos and acting out a script.
So as far as i know this video could and should be treated as just acting and not a real case of gambling losses, she chose Sportsbet for her acting because Sportsbet is the most popular game around here.

and because of that, many people say that a gambler must have good psychology before gambling and must be prepared to lose his money at any time. because the casino will not care about whatever the players will experience, whether they cry, lose on a streak, or even commit suicide, the casino will not care about these things because all they need is profit and not losing from the players.

Many people share their stories on social media, but actually, there are things that don't always need to be shared on social media. But people nowadays tend to seek attention from other people by showing what they are doing or what has happened to them so that people can pay attention or even insult them. If they can use social media well, they will feel that there are stories that can be shared on social media and some that don't need to be shared and only they and their immediate family know. It depends on each individual to share what they have experienced. Those of us who read the story also don't need to be excessive, especially if we don't know the person sharing the story well so that there are no misunderstandings between us and that person.

But that is my point, she has already suffered greatly due to the losses she has suffered, the right thing to do at that point will simply be to learn from the experience so it never happens to her again, but by exposing herself in this way now she is victimizing herself as there are many people that will make fun of her, and if she tries to delete the video then someone will upload it and it will be there forever, which will allow people to keep victimizing her for as long as they want.

The gender in the gambling was not the specific one,because their is no any reservation for the woman.The only thing the men will not easily cry for the loss,because he facing many pains in their day to day life.But the woman facing less hurdles even in the family life.So the man will take this loss as the casual one and move forward to the next one.But only the woman was get cry because of the first facing loss in the game.The woman should get motivated by seeing the man in the real world who take care of their family and the carrier in the real world.The man never cry until he face the biggest problem.

Sharing or not then it would really be that depending on a certain person in regarding on the gender on which there are ones who do love to share up their problems and there are ones who do love on making it private on which we know that this would really be situational. You would definitely be ending up on crying if you have lost up on the money that you arent that afford to lose. We know that women are really that too soft if we do speak about emotions on which it would really be just that normal that they would really be showing that crying situation which it is rarely to be seen on men
because we know that when it comes to tolerance then men are really that having higher which means that crying is unlikely despite of having those huge losses but instead they would really be  that becoming that too desperate and become impulsive on which this is where mistakes and errors do really happen for a gambler to do.

Well, sometimes when we see and find many things on social media, from someone using any type of clothing to someone crying for having lost in a sports bet, we whenever we are thinking about how to win in sports betting, that is not It is not a game nor is it a riddle, nor that I am going to post because I believe, or because I believe that this is like this or in another way, the only thing is that one cannot be thinking that things can happen just like they always do. We will win, no, in sports betting, we have to give everything we have, and in sports betting what is necessary is to be fairly sure of what we have in mind, we must also read a lot about sports, know the latest of the news, as confirmed, and if, for example, in soccer, do a study of which players are available, which players are injured, how the squad looks according to what we have seen in previous games, all of that must be considered.

A weak minded person? Maybe this happens when they bet more than they can afford to lose, and that's not the case, that's apsotarism with all the irresponsibility in the world, obviously what the lady did was complain on social media to see if she could get some money, so part of the others, out of pity and that is not good, it is like asking indirectly , although I do not know if it worked for him, if they made many donations, because everyone has their way of attracting attention, the networks are many tools for Someone can monetize, and since they lost so much, well, it is a way to recover, if they recovered,? or else? Well, what I think is that with that act he was able to recover what he lost and more, it's not much of a strategy, but you have to have a tough face, in a bet you know that you can lose or win, so there the lady couldn't win , it is norma,  but he lacked luck, and he must accept it, otherwise even if it seems hard, he may not be able to suck at sports.

There are sometimes she might just wanted to share the pain to everyone. I have seen a lot people sharing what happened to them on their status on social media and this happened in most cases in WhatsApp and Facebook status. Like my sister was robbed by arm robbers last month and she shared on her Whatsapp status and that is when I became awared that she was robbed. So in some cases it is to give awareness to her friends and family members that something like that happened to her and she is in pain. So loves ones would have compassionate for her. So when you look at it from another angle it is good to share pains so that love ones will sympathize with you.

well, this makes perfect sense and I can understand that in this era of advanced technological development, many people use social media as a place to talk about small things and big things, even if they are just experiencing something small, someone will make a video and upload it to social media, its all like a form of expression of his feelings right then and there but the mistake that happened to this woman is not a story that should be published but it is a personal story that is very inappropriate to be told to everyone in this world and it is quite embarrassing when someone gambles who should know the risks anything but he actually cried over the defeat.

I understand that maybe the woman just wanted to tell a story but she forgot about privacy or that gambling is a sensitive matter that does not need to be published and I am sure now she is getting a lot of bad criticism and this story provides a valuable lesson for us to use social media intelligently.

Let's not judge. Maybe she posted the video or her story just because she can't think straight anymore, and as we know, a lot of people rely on social media. Even slight happenings will be posted on social media, or all things will happen. People will first get their cameras and share them on social media before taking action. What's the point, right? She will not gain anything just because she posted on social media about what happened to her; she will actually get criticised and become a meme. But for those of us who play gambling or are in the gambling industry, we understand how devastated she is. Losing a huge amount of money through gambling is stressful, but at the same time, it's her own decision. She should be prepared to face the consequences of her gambling decisions. Anyway, sad for her, she doesn't get luck instead gets unlucky.

It would not surprise me if that is in fact the case, people these days do anything in order to gain attention on those social media apps and they do not care if they have to humiliate themselves in order to get it, however I cannot help to wonder what are those people thinking? This is the kind of stuff that even if she were to delete that video someone will probably download it and upload it again, and as such it will live forever on the internet and most likely whenever someone tries to find anything about her online that video is the first thing that will come up.

Her performance was not to share, but to gain audience. When people win or succeed in something, they usually like to boast with that. When people fail, they usually prefer to hide that fact, as they try to forget that life experience as quick as possible. Why I think this was just a performance and a try to get audience, because she has used hashtags in her post, so that more and more people find her.

What she did by coming out in public to share her failure in gambling is not wrong, but she did it for some ladies that think gambling is very easy to make huge amount of money to learn their lesson from her tears. Gambling is a something you are not a professional for because, you can win today and spend all the money another day in gambling which is related to what this lady did because if not that she has gamble before she would have not come out public to expose herself to people on social media. I think she use her school fees to gamble that made her to raise such alarm in the public, if people can hear her out by contributing money for her concerning the incident because a real gamblers will not even allow her friends to know about her lost than to work for another money to gamble again.

Well people see gambling as a way for quick money and few people could have the patience of growing startup because that is not easy to do but with gambling it is envisage to be fast money spiner but unfortunately it doesn't turn out that way.

With startup, you have so much expenses to take care of before expecting returns like payment of rent, highering of staff or labour and payment for their bills and many other miscellaneous, yet you still need like 3/6 months before expecting profit if it will come.

Those who are gambling focus more on winning and not loses especially new gamblers like the lady in question. She might gambled with money that was meant for something extremely important which could be the reason that she is crying.

Greed is really bad it is true that the mistake most gamblers make is their lack of discipline in gambling. Every good gambler knows that discipline in gambling is as important as a good strategy so that they risk less. Be careful not to get greedy whenever you win in gambling raising the stakes will cause you losses. One can start gambling for fun and some win early on. Then they continue to play in the hope that they will win again. It is a complete misconception that luck does not always come.

Yes, that's true, but if she's a woman, she should know that crying in public, especially on social media, can look worse and she probably won't get sympathy from people in her circle. Still, maybe many people will blame her because he had gambled excessively. Excessive betting will only result in a person experiencing bigger losses, especially if he loses control of himself in betting and uses more money. That would only make him lose more and it would be difficult for him to try to recover the money he lost at the gambling table.

Maybe if he cried because of something else, he could get sympathy from the people around him. But he cried because of gambling and we know that gambling can cause a person to experience so many losses that he cannot imagine. For this reason, it is best for the woman to never return to gambling again, especially since the woman has also lost a lot of money because of gambling.

I understand that she probably felt to be positive when she bet and there's hope in her mind that she could win this big after betting. But yes, if she's not expecting a loss it's unfair on her end. Because if she's only expecting to win then she probably should expect to lose too because that's like the first rule in gambling that in fairness, you're about to win but you are also about to lose.

This is the misconception when new gamblers come in to gambling. They think that they've found a new way to make money online with an easy thinking that this is going to make them rich and it's all about profiting without having to lose with the bets that they'll do whether it's on sports betting or any games that they thought of going to make them win easily. The mindset is the hardest battle they'll have to go through as they get into gambling because it's been deceptive all over these times.

That's a severe addiction. Someone who uses his/her life savings to gamble, there's that much reaction on his/her end and that's going to make a person wanting to retrieve all the losses because they've just put all of their money on it. The tendency of crying, regreting and being hysterical is too high with that money they use for it.

You know, I agree that everyone has their own reactions on things, but when you are really disappointed, you dont use hashtags (and a lot of them), to show how disappointed you are. Ok, you feel bad and wants to share your feeling of bitterness to other. But why use all that "😢😢😢 #money #sportybetnaija #bet #trend #สโลว์สมูท #fypシ #instagram #instablog9ja #viralvideo #tiktok #2023 #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp #fy #foryou #foryou #justthatgirldivine #fypシ" in a post? Why use smiles, or #trend, #viralvideo. All that makes me feel that those tears and cries are fake, whole video was make just to get attention. You cry with one eyes, but with other observe if people are buying that.

If she isn't expecting a loss in a gambling then I am afraid she has wrong expectations from gambling.

Gameling is not a bed of roses or easy money making machine, infact it is a most difficult way to make money with gambling surrounded by the losses that may have an impact on your nerves.

When people invest their life saving in the gambling then of course they will have serious health issues if they lose their life savings in front of their eyes. For those who can't bear this loss, they better stay away from gambling and do something else like investment in startup a business or anything which is less riskier then gambling.

It's true that we don't need to judge people when they cry publicly after a big loss, because it's natural to express such inner pains of having bad luck. But  some cries don't really deserve sympathy, especially when the person crying knows the consequences of their deeds and goes ahead to do it. Although they can cry all they want, still what is gone can not return back to them, this is why the importance of taking into account the risks involved in gambling before engaging in it can not be overemphasized. Gambling is based on luck, in fact the way I see it, there are more chances of loses than winnings. I hope the woman learns her lessons about the way gambling works, the next time she decides to stake her money.

I agree with you that without discipline and adequate knowledge about gambling, the money won in it will eventually be lost in it, because greed of wanting to win more will drive the gambler to loose everything.