Topic: A Lady Cried After Losing to Sports Bet. Gambling is Not Your Mate. - page 5. (Read 1874 times)

It is true that in gambling there will be losses and wins, but the situation of the woman is bad because she could not control herself. Greed worked in him and considered a source of income but no one can give exact guarantee of winning in gambling. Therefore it is better to proceed according to your own strategy and after a win it is better to rest for a few days without re betting. Getting out of difficult situations is easy if you proceed with proper knowledge and intelligence.

Everyone uses social media to share fundamental and inconsequential news, and we also utilize the system to print sufficient earnings as complies with our pattern rather than continuously liquidating our accounts. The woman who posted a video of herself bemoaning and crying only intends to draw attention to herself, and bloggers are also assisting in her rise to fame. Probably to get famous and win people's feelings of empathy. Wake up, people. Everyone who engages with the field of gambling has suffered significant setbacks, but we have all maintained our composure in these dire circumstances by not publishing and going viral. She of all people should have realized that gambling is detrimental, so why would she create a video lamenting the addictive character of her existence in the space? Probably for reasons best known to her.

She should not show her sadness due to her loss at gambling and instead, keep it to herself and realize her mistake and not repeat it. But maybe showing her sadness to the public could show that she was truly sorry about everything and warn everyone she knew not to gamble or they would suffer the same fate.

Yes, that is an example of not using much money to gamble, especially when they cannot afford to see the loss later. And those of us who may still frequently gamble must be able to learn from what has happened to us so that it doesn't happen to us. And we also have to remember to always use the money we can afford to gamble.

This is how she deal with losses, and it's not a bad thing though since this also serve as an awareness for other gamblers on what can happen if you use your money in gambling. Her money won't come back even after crying but if this can somehow help her accept the reality then let her be.

Anyway, just a perfect example of don't use the money that you can't afford to lose and clearly this is the case for this woman. She made a mistake, but at least she learned a lesson that gambling is not for people who can't accept losses. If the result of her bet turned the other way, for sure she will continue what she used to.

I want appreciate your thoughtful comments @Kakmakr. People make mistakes and when it leads to bad experiences they should be allowed to express themselves in different ways like crying. I have even made some errors that made me weep for more than a day. It is sad she learned her lessons in such a painful manner but I guess next time she will gamble only what she can afford. But I am not comfortable with people posting their experiences on the internet. I see it as unnecessary and it would also give the girl a bad reputation. But her story will also serve as a deterrent to others.     

Well, sadness and regret is a human emotion and people handle situations differently. We should not judge people for showing their emotions, because we are all human.

It does not matter if she knew that she would lose her money or not.... she did and she decided to show her emotions. A lot of people are so desensitized to people around them and immediately perceive actions like this in a negative way.

Let's give people the opportunity to learn valuable lessons in life and allow them to cry if they learnt those lessons. 

exactly mate , because this is a great example of how people can turn so stupid when it comes to gambling .
right , because the truth is? almost everyone that get involved in gambling nowadays has one belief and reason ,
that is to become an instant rich if not millionaire so they even gambler everything to reach that goal.
making them a loser all their life.

Many gamblers miss out the major rule of gambling that is never invest all of your money in gambling. If you have some extra money for investment and wanna try your luck, then only go for gambling. If you don’t want to take risk at all, then gambling is not for you. In gambling there is always remains the fear of losing. So if your luck is not good then no one can save you. Crying won’t help, as the OP has mentioned above. You should always gamble in limit.

Social media has always been geared in this direction, it is just that now it is even more obvious that on the past and this is causing a massive amount of distrust, in this case as you mention even if this particular case was a real one, this person could be earning more money out of the views an clicks they are getting thanks to all the people that saw her video, which will in turn just encourage her to keep doing this trying to pursue the money and fame she thinks she can get, and most likely she will end with neither since it is very difficult to maintain the attention of other people like her on those platforms.

The modern social platforms are all about reactions, dancing and whatever appeals in 5 seconds.  Instant emotions candy, its a big appeal to the mainstream traffic hence numbers of views can be massive.  Posting about the technical data behind her bet and actually learning from the experience in exchange for the money gain some knowledge long term, this aint happening on that particular platform.
  I wont be surprised if she gained so many views if people share the same feeling and engage with the post that her ad revenue is greater then her losses, in that case I cant blame her for playing the game in a different way

It's really hard to sympathize with her as she posted her own reaction especially crying with what she did and her wrong decision. It's literally a common situation on sports betting whereas there are some matchup that may look like a one sided game but the latter team win and I guess most of us who do sportsbet already experience it.

She could've posted her experience and not her literal reaction as it only shows how much she just wanted some attention to her wrong decision making.

I always say, “If you're going to play, play for fun!” Treating gambling as entertainment rather than a business strategy is the key, my friend. Consider this: an app that freezes gaming funds after your monthly spending limit? It would guard against emotional overreach.

I bet some of us have felt that woman's situation emotionally. Its a tough place, so reactions would be a mix of laughs and pats. A loss is a lesson and a win! Perhaps the universe was telling her, “Hey, its time to take a break.”

Its crazy how she has to share to the world how pained she was of loosing and how viewers would want to console her or perhaps she was trying gain clout with it. I don't like the fact that she has to blame her loss to the aforementioned gambling site in her caption - I don’t think I’ve ever cried for anything in my life the way sportybet made ne cry. This is why women are advised to stay away from activities that men mostly participate because they cant control their emotions or tolerate the outcome. If a woman is committed to gambling then she lacks managerial and economical skill. Which no man will want such a woman as his wife.

The woman in the video seems to be crying because the money lost may not belong to her. It may be money giving to her by her husband, friends or other relation and she decided to make the most out of it. She looks so much like one who has been gambling for quite a long time and she has been winning and loosing during all these time, What makes this loss so different that she has to video herself and share in the internet. Its obvious the money does not belongs to her and she is crying because she has to pay a huge debt soon or else they will come for her.

Smile!! Gambling is not something you hope upon because the disappointment that follows is very high. But whereby you removed you mind and play the game and go home without thinking of it then that is when you win games bey when you put the games in your mind and thinking to win big then failure is the name. The woman put her mind and soul in the bet but the slip disappointed her so she could not controlled herself and burst into cry. And things like this some would laugh at her and some would have the sympathy with her.

She could have won at first but because of her greed which provoked her to place bets on other matches and by using bigger money in the hope of getting a big win, she ended up losing. Anything can happen in gambling, especially since we don't know how big our chances are of winning at gambling. She cried because she had experienced a loss where she could not return the money she had lost in gambling. In a match, there is no guarantee that the match will not change in the middle of the game because everything is still possible, so someone cannot expect to always win from gambling. Hopefully, she can learn from her mistakes and not repeat them again and make this experience the last time he gambles.

Not all people are made for gambling, some cannot stand losses and that is normal, I think many things need to mature, some just want to win, and in a casino things can happen the other way, losing It is not a reason to be ashamed, it is normal, in any casino you can get lost and it is seen as normal, the strange thing, the strange thing is that a person sees a casino as if it Were an ATM where they can do anything to win and win all the time, In fact, that would be a big loss for the casino and the casino would look for a way to get rid of the person, so this type of thing is difficult to happen to a regular player, when that lady realized that she lost it is because obviously in her mind she believed that when she played, what she played and the way she played for her because everything was fine and she knew she could win and I don't blame her, sometimes the person believes that because she makes good plays or with a lot of money, then the casino is going to recognize them as good players and that they can win, things are not like that, so every time you play a type of game like that you can subject yourself to things like that.

A casino will always have the house Advantage , so things When it comes to how to win, it is indifferent, there is no safe path, nor any strategy, it makes me feel a little painful that a lady cries because something like that, but you have to realize and learn that casinos are like that, there is no way to feel Pity , or for a person to be rewarded with money Ater having played very well, no, because casinos are a business, they are a company, they cannot afford to be Losing money, it is a business, and in every business you work to win not to lose, and in this case the lady had to lose due to her ignorance with the game, it is something that cannot be fight against it, you can Play very Well, but the casino is not like that.

I am suspecting that probably she won at the initial time and she placed the bet high to win a very big amount but the game didn't go to the way she was expecting. People cry differently because of the source of the money. Probably someone gave her the money keep or her husband have to go to market and she loss all so the best way to break into tears. And other did not cry may be the money belong to them and not to another person so they have to be strong for the loss and hoping for get it back one day.

Gamblers who put aside the fun of gambling will only see defeat after defeat because it is true that gambling is just for fun by playing gambling games. They cannot hope to make money from gambling, let alone use a lot of money. Only people who can use the money they can afford can enjoy gambling as it should, so they will get that pleasure.

And that's why we really need good self-control when playing gambling so we don't experience more losses. Moreover, many people have experienced this, so we really have to be able to control ourselves while gambling. If they cannot control themselves in gambling, they shouldn't gamble rather than just lose money that might be big.

Well spoken bud, to be honest, lack of control in gambling is one of the major killer of the fun of gambling, and i guess it is not out of place to say that those who put money first in gambling are mostly the ones who end up being or feeling really heart broken, why?, because the major purpose of gambling is to just have fun, with the ability to make some money if lucky.

But unfortunately, most gamblers now put the fun part of gambling completely away, and channel all their attention and focus on the money or profit aspect of gambling, this is majorly where the whole losing money one never planned to lose emanates from. If gamblers can learn to adhere to the number one rule of gambling, which is to only gamble with money they can afford to lose, we will not see gamblers crying or regretting after they gamble and lost.

Losing money in gambling is normal, but what is not normal is when we cannot control how much money we can lose in gambling. Most people have experienced it by losing so much money that they will become frustrated because they lost at gambling. Hopefully, the woman can learn from her mistake and never repeat it, and it would be better for her to stop gambling than not being able to control herself and experiencing defeat again. And hopefully, the woman can earn money from other jobs to continue to meet her daily needs.