In as much as gender doesn't determine ones level of composure, it's also worthy to not that men are better in handling shocks especially the ones that comes from losing in gambling than women do and that's the number of men who gambles are way to higher than their female counterparts. Gambling isn't gender based activity but right from when gambling came to existence, it's been reported that more 80% of gamblers across the globe are all men.
In other to avoid the deep shocks that comes with losing ones gamble, it's advisable for women not to engage in gambling.
Actually it’s not about the gender inequality,if the loss was faced by the men.Most of the time,they understand the reality of the gambling.So they won’t bother about the gambling losses,because the game had both win and loss.The men also suffer the loss in the gambling,but they will not cry,because they had faced many problem in the real life.This was the reason for the gambler to not worry.If the men run the family with satisfying the family needs,he will be the biggest part of the life.This alone give lot of trouble and many money needs in the short period of time.But the most of the gambler was men compared to the woman.
Men cry but in secret. Who of us men here did not cry when depression and frustration struct us? Crying is a natural thing, it is that men is more discreet on that part while women is a bit showy. But regardless, gambling frustration and disappointment affect both gender. It is just men is too shy to show their real emotion in public than women.
Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
If it was an important amount of money, I would personally never judge anyone for crying because of such loss at the hands of bad luck. You are correct when you say that any responsible gambler is not supposed to cry over a loss, since they are all supposed to measure their bets and gambling before carry them out.
This woman was the typical novice gambler who did not thought about the consequences of their actions. Even if she won, I would dare to say she would have lost that money eventually anyways, by continuing to bet or gamble, believing she has got infinite good luck in her hands.
True that we should not judge people but it don't deny the fact that the lady is somehow addicted to gambling because he could not lose that huge amount and get emotional when she think about her losses. I hope she learned her lesson well and somhow restrain herself from gambling until she felt that she can control his gambling urge.