Topic: A Lady Cried After Losing to Sports Bet. Gambling is Not Your Mate. - page 2. (Read 2143 times)
October 25, 2023, 03:28:19 AM
Her performance was not to share, but to gain audience. When people win or succeed in something, they usually like to boast with that. When people fail, they usually prefer to hide that fact, as they try to forget that life experience as quick as possible. Why I think this was just a performance and a try to get audience, because she has used hashtags in her post, so that more and more people find her.
October 24, 2023, 01:05:52 PM
What she did by coming out in public to share her failure in gambling is not wrong, but she did it for some ladies that think gambling is very easy to make huge amount of money to learn their lesson from her tears. Gambling is a something you are not a professional for because, you can win today and spend all the money another day in gambling which is related to what this lady did because if not that she has gamble before she would have not come out public to expose herself to people on social media. I think she use her school fees to gamble that made her to raise such alarm in the public, if people can hear her out by contributing money for her concerning the incident because a real gamblers will not even allow her friends to know about her lost than to work for another money to gamble again.
October 24, 2023, 01:00:56 PM
When people invest their life saving in the gambling then of course they will have serious health issues if they lose their life savings in front of their eyes. For those who can't bear this loss, they better stay away from gambling and do something else like investment in startup a business or anything which is less riskier then gambling.
Well people see gambling as a way for quick money and few people could have the patience of growing startup because that is not easy to do but with gambling it is envisage to be fast money spiner but unfortunately it doesn't turn out that way.
With startup, you have so much expenses to take care of before expecting returns like payment of rent, highering of staff or labour and payment for their bills and many other miscellaneous, yet you still need like 3/6 months before expecting profit if it will come.
Those who are gambling focus more on winning and not loses especially new gamblers like the lady in question. She might gambled with money that was meant for something extremely important which could be the reason that she is crying.
October 24, 2023, 12:46:31 PM
Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
If it was an important amount of money, I would personally never judge anyone for crying because of such loss at the hands of bad luck. You are correct when you say that any responsible gambler is not supposed to cry over a loss, since they are all supposed to measure their bets and gambling before carry them out.
This woman was the typical novice gambler who did not thought about the consequences of their actions. Even if she won, I would dare to say she would have lost that money eventually anyways, by continuing to bet or gamble, believing she has got infinite good luck in her hands.
It's true that we don't need to judge people when they cry publicly after a big loss, because it's natural to express such inner pains of having bad luck. But some cries don't really deserve sympathy, especially when the person crying knows the consequences of their deeds and goes ahead to do it. Although they can cry all they want, still what is gone can not return back to them, this is why the importance of taking into account the risks involved in gambling before engaging in it can not be overemphasized. Gambling is based on luck, in fact the way I see it, there are more chances of loses than winnings. I hope the woman learns her lessons about the way gambling works, the next time she decides to stake her money.
I agree with you that without discipline and adequate knowledge about gambling, the money won in it will eventually be lost in it, because greed of wanting to win more will drive the gambler to loose everything.
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October 24, 2023, 06:43:07 AM
Everybody has their own way of reacting to pain and disappointment. She's a lady and we all know that ladies have their unique ways of releasing pain like talking about it, yelling and even crying. I'm not surprised at all. Ladies would always be ladies. Betting is for the strong hearted quite alright, but sometimes and when desperation enters, Especially in bad days, You tend to stake more than you can afford to lose. Leading to a really big mess and I guess she's crossed her margin by a lot resulting in her expression of pain publicly. I know quite well its to attract attention to herself that she went public with her emotions, but its possible that after crying, she became stable again as compared to many others that will bear the great Loss and develop high BP or even lead them to depression. We release hurt feelings differently and nobody should be victimized about how they offload their hurt.
Yes, that's true, but if she's a woman, she should know that crying in public, especially on social media, can look worse and she probably won't get sympathy from people in her circle. Still, maybe many people will blame her because he had gambled excessively. Excessive betting will only result in a person experiencing bigger losses, especially if he loses control of himself in betting and uses more money. That would only make him lose more and it would be difficult for him to try to recover the money he lost at the gambling table.Maybe if he cried because of something else, he could get sympathy from the people around him. But he cried because of gambling and we know that gambling can cause a person to experience so many losses that he cannot imagine. For this reason, it is best for the woman to never return to gambling again, especially since the woman has also lost a lot of money because of gambling.
October 24, 2023, 03:27:57 AM
If she isn't expecting a loss in a gambling then I am afraid she has wrong expectations from gambling.
I understand that she probably felt to be positive when she bet and there's hope in her mind that she could win this big after betting. But yes, if she's not expecting a loss it's unfair on her end. Because if she's only expecting to win then she probably should expect to lose too because that's like the first rule in gambling that in fairness, you're about to win but you are also about to lose.Gameling is not a bed of roses or easy money making machine, infact it is a most difficult way to make money with gambling surrounded by the losses that may have an impact on your nerves.
This is the misconception when new gamblers come in to gambling. They think that they've found a new way to make money online with an easy thinking that this is going to make them rich and it's all about profiting without having to lose with the bets that they'll do whether it's on sports betting or any games that they thought of going to make them win easily. The mindset is the hardest battle they'll have to go through as they get into gambling because it's been deceptive all over these times.When people invest their life saving in the gambling then of course they will have serious health issues if they lose their life savings in front of their eyes. For those who can't bear this loss, they better stay away from gambling and do something else like investment in startup a business or anything which is less riskier then gambling.
That's a severe addiction. Someone who uses his/her life savings to gamble, there's that much reaction on his/her end and that's going to make a person wanting to retrieve all the losses because they've just put all of their money on it. The tendency of crying, regreting and being hysterical is too high with that money they use for it. October 24, 2023, 03:16:31 AM
Everybody has their own way of reacting to pain and disappointment. She's a lady and we all know that ladies have their unique ways of releasing pain like talking about it, yelling and even crying. I'm not surprised at all. Ladies would always be ladies. Betting is for the strong hearted quite alright, but sometimes and when desperation enters, Especially in bad days, You tend to stake more than you can afford to lose. Leading to a really big mess and I guess she's crossed her margin by a lot resulting in her expression of pain publicly. I know quite well its to attract attention to herself that she went public with her emotions, but its possible that after crying, she became stable again as compared to many others that will bear the great Loss and develop high BP or even lead them to depression. We release hurt feelings differently and nobody should be victimized about how they offload their hurt.
You know, I agree that everyone has their own reactions on things, but when you are really disappointed, you dont use hashtags (and a lot of them), to show how disappointed you are. Ok, you feel bad and wants to share your feeling of bitterness to other. But why use all that "😢😢😢 #money #sportybetnaija #bet #trend #สโลว์สมูท #fypシ #instagram #instablog9ja #viralvideo #tiktok #2023 #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp #fy #foryou #foryou #justthatgirldivine #fypシ" in a post? Why use smiles, or #trend, #viralvideo. All that makes me feel that those tears and cries are fake, whole video was make just to get attention. You cry with one eyes, but with other observe if people are buying that.
October 24, 2023, 02:19:54 AM
That's what will happen when you're prepared to the outcome of your risk taking mate. Ladies have got weaker feeling on this one and their hearts are more fragile than us men.
We can take as much losses that we can while them, it seems that losing is a new thing to them. The mistake here is that she used the money that she needs for something else and it's likely an important matter.
We can take as much losses that we can while them, it seems that losing is a new thing to them. The mistake here is that she used the money that she needs for something else and it's likely an important matter.
I think you meant that’s what would happen when you’re NOT prepared for the outcome of a loss. I don’t think any of this has to do with weaker feelings or fragile hearts although your opinion on ladies having weaker feelings and fragile hearts is arguable.
There are cases of men who didn’t take the news of their losses well. Would we use one or two examples to come to a conclusion? I think It totally depends on the individual and how tolerant the individual is to receiving unfavorable news.
She obviously wasn’t expecting an outcome like this and couldn’t take the loss well.
If she isn't expecting a loss in a gambling then I am afraid she has wrong expectations from gambling.
Gameling is not a bed of roses or easy money making machine, infact it is a most difficult way to make money with gambling surrounded by the losses that may have an impact on your nerves.
When people invest their life saving in the gambling then of course they will have serious health issues if they lose their life savings in front of their eyes. For those who can't bear this loss, they better stay away from gambling and do something else like investment in startup a business or anything which is less riskier then gambling.
October 24, 2023, 02:11:38 AM
Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
If it was an important amount of money, I would personally never judge anyone for crying because of such loss at the hands of bad luck. You are correct when you say that any responsible gambler is not supposed to cry over a loss, since they are all supposed to measure their bets and gambling before carry them out.
This woman was the typical novice gambler who did not thought about the consequences of their actions. Even if she won, I would dare to say she would have lost that money eventually anyways, by continuing to bet or gamble, believing she has got infinite good luck in her hands.
It's true that we don't need to judge people when they cry publicly after a big loss, because it's natural to express such inner pains of having bad luck. But some cries don't really deserve sympathy, especially when the person crying knows the consequences of their deeds and goes ahead to do it. Although they can cry all they want, still what is gone can not return back to them, this is why the importance of taking into account the risks involved in gambling before engaging in it can not be overemphasized. Gambling is based on luck, in fact the way I see it, there are more chances of loses than winnings. I hope the woman learns her lessons about the way gambling works, the next time she decides to stake her money.
I agree with you that without discipline and adequate knowledge about gambling, the money won in it will eventually be lost in it, because greed of wanting to win more will drive the gambler to loose everything.
October 24, 2023, 12:06:52 AM
Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
Social media today encourages people to act without thinking at all, so in her state of depression and sadness she decided to record herself and upload this video, a very bad idea because as we can see she is not really warning other people to gamble with moderation after she reflected about her past mistakes, she is overly emotional still about what happened and it shows, and as such her advice cannot be taken seriously, even if she has a point, as if I were to guess I am sure she will not follow her own advice and she will gamble again. I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
October 23, 2023, 01:38:18 PM
Everybody has their own way of reacting to pain and disappointment. She's a lady and we all know that ladies have their unique ways of releasing pain like talking about it, yelling and even crying. I'm not surprised at all. Ladies would always be ladies. Betting is for the strong hearted quite alright, but sometimes and when desperation enters, Especially in bad days, You tend to stake more than you can afford to lose. Leading to a really big mess and I guess she's crossed her margin by a lot resulting in her expression of pain publicly. I know quite well its to attract attention to herself that she went public with her emotions, but its possible that after crying, she became stable again as compared to many others that will bear the great Loss and develop high BP or even lead them to depression. We release hurt feelings differently and nobody should be victimized about how they offload their hurt.
October 23, 2023, 01:35:05 PM
True that we should not judge people but it don't deny the fact that the lady is somehow addicted to gambling because he could not lose that huge amount and get emotional when she think about her losses. I hope she learned her lesson well and somhow restrain herself from gambling until she felt that she can control his gambling urge.
The woman was very depressed after losing in gambling, but we should not judge anyone and the case of this woman's loss can be used as a lesson to anyone who is still an amateur gambler without the knowledge to handle the risk of loss from gambling, there are many other cases of losses that have occurred in gambling if you don't Determine the limit of funds you can afford to lose. I think it is difficult for a woman to retire from gambling activities if she experiences high losses, don't expect recovery of funds from gambling bets because there is no guarantee that gambling can return losses or even add to other losses, if she bets again she is more emotional due to the influence of previous losses.
October 23, 2023, 12:40:44 PM
In as much as gender doesn't determine ones level of composure, it's also worthy to not that men are better in handling shocks especially the ones that comes from losing in gambling than women do and that's the number of men who gambles are way to higher than their female counterparts. Gambling isn't gender based activity but right from when gambling came to existence, it's been reported that more 80% of gamblers across the globe are all men.
In other to avoid the deep shocks that comes with losing ones gamble, it's advisable for women not to engage in gambling.
Actually it’s not about the gender inequality,if the loss was faced by the men.Most of the time,they understand the reality of the gambling.So they won’t bother about the gambling losses,because the game had both win and loss.The men also suffer the loss in the gambling,but they will not cry,because they had faced many problem in the real life.This was the reason for the gambler to not worry.If the men run the family with satisfying the family needs,he will be the biggest part of the life.This alone give lot of trouble and many money needs in the short period of time.But the most of the gambler was men compared to the woman.
Men cry but in secret. Who of us men here did not cry when depression and frustration struct us? Crying is a natural thing, it is that men is more discreet on that part while women is a bit showy. But regardless, gambling frustration and disappointment affect both gender. It is just men is too shy to show their real emotion in public than women.
Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
If it was an important amount of money, I would personally never judge anyone for crying because of such loss at the hands of bad luck. You are correct when you say that any responsible gambler is not supposed to cry over a loss, since they are all supposed to measure their bets and gambling before carry them out.
This woman was the typical novice gambler who did not thought about the consequences of their actions. Even if she won, I would dare to say she would have lost that money eventually anyways, by continuing to bet or gamble, believing she has got infinite good luck in her hands.
True that we should not judge people but it don't deny the fact that the lady is somehow addicted to gambling because he could not lose that huge amount and get emotional when she think about her losses. I hope she learned her lesson well and somhow restrain herself from gambling until she felt that she can control his gambling urge.
October 23, 2023, 11:54:51 AM
Yes ladies are more emotional compared to the men and most times, you see a lady crying for no just reason and you can't tell if it only shock that get ladies to cry because sometimes ladies cries when their are too happy and when they are sad also, but on the other hand this cries out in the ops is about her heavy lost in staking and I believe that her bet was in sport bet and that is a big one because some of the gamblers get to the point that the risk what they can't afford to lose and when the loses occurs the get depressed.
So this situation is not peculiar to this lady but even the men, we have seen several time when some gamblers bust out into crying all because of their loses, and how the have staked higher than they can afford to lose and the lose have a negative impact on them and that physical reaction os all they can do at that moment.
So this situation is not peculiar to this lady but even the men, we have seen several time when some gamblers bust out into crying all because of their loses, and how the have staked higher than they can afford to lose and the lose have a negative impact on them and that physical reaction os all they can do at that moment.
Yes, women are more emotional than men and can express themselves without reservation. A man could bottle up his emotions and maybe cry in the secret but this is not the case for women. I have met some women who are gamblers in my area but I have never seen anyone behave in the manner the lady OP referred to did. This woman must have gambled with her life savings or it is possible that the money is not hers. These issues can lead to health issues or even depression and suicide. It is hard to see a man crying in public because it is assumed that men are emotionally strong. They might have incurredd several losses but they will express their pains in the secret. But I prefer to cry than to be dying silently inside. Sometime crying can relieve burdens or stress. It is better to express yourself than to become depressed and start contemplating something evil.
October 23, 2023, 11:39:22 AM
Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
If it was an important amount of money, I would personally never judge anyone for crying because of such loss at the hands of bad luck. You are correct when you say that any responsible gambler is not supposed to cry over a loss, since they are all supposed to measure their bets and gambling before carry them out.
This woman was the typical novice gambler who did not thought about the consequences of their actions. Even if she won, I would dare to say she would have lost that money eventually anyways, by continuing to bet or gamble, believing she has got infinite good luck in her hands.
October 23, 2023, 11:38:03 AM
In as much as gender doesn't determine ones level of composure, it's also worthy to not that men are better in handling shocks especially the ones that comes from losing in gambling than women do and that's the number of men who gambles are way to higher than their female counterparts. Gambling isn't gender based activity but right from when gambling came to existence, it's been reported that more 80% of gamblers across the globe are all men.
In other to avoid the deep shocks that comes with losing ones gamble, it's advisable for women not to engage in gambling.
So this situation is not peculiar to this lady but even the men, we have seen several time when some gamblers bust out into crying all because of their loses, and how the have staked higher than they can afford to lose and the lose have a negative impact on them and that physical reaction os all they can do at that moment.
October 23, 2023, 10:56:37 AM
Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
October 23, 2023, 08:59:18 AM
For most of those gamblers that can't do that, they will struggle on that part of moving on. That's even still a painful thing for them because even if they have accepted the fate of their money and lost.
True and the main reason why a gambler can't move on is due to greed. They don't want to end at a loss and wanted to recover and at the same time get a big time revenge win which make them hook wagering and betting until they found themselves addicted to gambling.
You'll have lighter feelings on it and you're okay to the outcomes that you'll have. And the understanding of gambling that it's not always a winning day, you'll easily accept that it's the reality.
Exerting time and effort for recovering losses and what you say revenge, you're just likely to spend your efforts there useless because if greed is still there, you'll still end up with bad results.
October 23, 2023, 08:02:27 AM
That's what will happen when you're prepared to the outcome of your risk taking mate. Ladies have got weaker feeling on this one and their hearts are more fragile than us men.
We can take as much losses that we can while them, it seems that losing is a new thing to them. The mistake here is that she used the money that she needs for something else and it's likely an important matter.
We can take as much losses that we can while them, it seems that losing is a new thing to them. The mistake here is that she used the money that she needs for something else and it's likely an important matter.
I think you meant that’s what would happen when you’re NOT prepared for the outcome of a loss. I don’t think any of this has to do with weaker feelings or fragile hearts although your opinion on ladies having weaker feelings and fragile hearts is arguable.
There are cases of men who didn’t take the news of their losses well. Would we use one or two examples to come to a conclusion? I think It totally depends on the individual and how tolerant the individual is to receiving unfavorable news.
I've forgot to include the "NOT". Thanks for that but yeah.
Those that have weak hearts will just put it through that emotion and feeling that there's nothing they can do but to just cry and look at those losses as it pass and won't be back to theirs.
She obviously wasn’t expecting an outcome like this and couldn’t take the loss well.
Yeah, that's it. She's not prepared for it and she didn't thought that this is how heavy it will be. 
October 22, 2023, 05:57:18 PM
In as much as gender doesn't determine ones level of composure, it's also worthy to not that men are better in handling shocks especially the ones that comes from losing in gambling than women do and that's the number of men who gambles are way to higher than their female counterparts. Gambling isn't gender based activity but right from when gambling came to existence, it's been reported that more 80% of gamblers across the globe are all men.
In other to avoid the deep shocks that comes with losing ones gamble, it's advisable for women not to engage in gambling.
Actually it’s not about the gender inequality,if the loss was faced by the men.Most of the time,they understand the reality of the gambling.So they won’t bother about the gambling losses,because the game had both win and loss.The men also suffer the loss in the gambling,but they will not cry,because they had faced many problem in the real life.This was the reason for the gambler to not worry.If the men run the family with satisfying the family needs,he will be the biggest part of the life.This alone give lot of trouble and many money needs in the short period of time.But the most of the gambler was men compared to the woman.
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