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Topic: A Lady Cried After Losing to Sports Bet. Gambling is Not Your Mate. - page 2. (Read 1527 times)

legendary
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Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.

I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
Social media today encourages people to act without thinking at all, so in her state of depression and sadness she decided to record herself and upload this video, a very bad idea because as we can see she is not really warning other people to gamble with moderation after she reflected about her past mistakes, she is overly emotional still about what happened and it shows, and as such her advice cannot be taken seriously, even if she has a point, as if I were to guess I am sure she will not follow her own advice and she will gamble again.
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Everybody has their own way of reacting to pain and disappointment. She's a lady and we all know that ladies have their unique ways of releasing pain like talking about it, yelling and even crying. I'm not  surprised at all. Ladies would always be ladies.  Betting is for the strong hearted quite alright, but sometimes and when desperation enters, Especially in bad days, You tend to stake more than you can afford to lose. Leading to a really big mess and I guess she's crossed her margin by a lot resulting in her  expression of pain publicly. I know quite well its to attract attention to herself that she went public with her emotions, but its possible that after crying, she became stable again as compared to many others that will bear the  great Loss and develop high BP or even lead them to depression.  We release hurt feelings differently and nobody should be victimized about how they offload their hurt.
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True that we should not judge people but it don't deny the fact that the lady is somehow addicted to gambling because he could not lose that huge amount and get emotional when she think about her losses.  I hope she learned her lesson well and somhow restrain herself from gambling until she felt that she can control his gambling urge.
The woman was very depressed after losing in gambling, but we should not judge anyone and the case of this woman's loss can be used as a lesson to anyone who is still an amateur gambler without the knowledge to handle the risk of loss from gambling, there are many other cases of losses that have occurred in gambling if you don't Determine the limit of funds you can afford to lose.

I think it is difficult for a woman to retire from gambling activities if she experiences high losses, don't expect recovery of funds from gambling bets because there is no guarantee that gambling can return losses or even add to other losses, if she bets again she is more emotional due to the influence of previous losses.
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In as much as gender doesn't determine ones level of composure, it's also worthy to not that men are better in handling shocks especially the ones that comes from losing in gambling than women do and that's the number of men who gambles are way to higher than their female counterparts. Gambling isn't gender based activity but right from when gambling came to existence, it's been reported that more 80% of gamblers across the globe are all men.
In other to avoid the deep shocks that comes with losing ones gamble, it's advisable for women not to engage in gambling.

Actually it’s not about the gender inequality,if the loss was faced by the men.Most of the time,they understand the reality of the gambling.So they won’t bother about the gambling losses,because the game had both win and loss.The men also suffer the loss in the gambling,but they will not cry,because they had faced many problem in the real life.This was the reason for the gambler to not worry.If the men run the family with satisfying the family needs,he will be the biggest part of the life.This alone give lot of trouble and many money needs in the short period of time.But the most of the gambler was men compared to the woman.

Men cry but in secret.  Who of us men here did not cry when depression and frustration struct us?  Crying is a natural thing, it is that men is more discreet on that part while women is a bit showy.  But regardless, gambling frustration and disappointment affect both gender.  It is just men is too shy to show their real emotion in public than women.

Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.

I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.

If it was an important amount of money, I would personally never judge anyone for crying because of such loss at the hands of bad luck. You are correct when you say that any responsible gambler is not supposed to cry over a loss, since they are all supposed to measure their bets and gambling before carry them out.
This woman was the typical novice gambler who did not thought about the consequences of their actions. Even if she won, I would dare to say she would have lost that money eventually anyways, by continuing to bet or gamble, believing she has got infinite good luck in her hands.

True that we should not judge people but it don't deny the fact that the lady is somehow addicted to gambling because he could not lose that huge amount and get emotional when she think about her losses.  I hope she learned her lesson well and somhow restrain herself from gambling until she felt that she can control his gambling urge.
legendary
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Yes ladies are more emotional compared to the men and most times,  you see a lady crying for no just reason and you can't tell if it only shock that get ladies to cry because sometimes ladies cries when their are too happy and when they are sad also,  but on the other hand this cries out in the ops is about her heavy lost in staking and I believe that her bet was in sport bet and that is a big one because some of the gamblers get to the point that the risk what they can't afford to lose and when the loses occurs the get depressed.

So this situation is not peculiar to this lady but even the men,  we have seen several time when some gamblers bust out into crying all because of their loses,  and how the have staked higher than they can afford to lose and the lose have a negative impact on them and that physical reaction os all they can do at that moment.

Yes, women are more emotional than men and can express themselves without reservation. A man could bottle up his emotions and maybe cry in the secret but this is not the case for women. I have met some women who are gamblers in my area but I have never seen anyone behave in the manner the lady OP referred to did. This woman must have gambled with her life savings or it is possible that the money is not hers. These issues can lead to health issues or even depression and suicide. It is hard to see a man crying in public because it is assumed that men are emotionally strong. They might have incurredd several losses but they will express their pains in the secret. But I prefer to cry than to be dying silently inside. Sometime crying can relieve burdens or stress. It is better to express yourself than to become depressed and start contemplating something evil.  
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Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.

I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.

If it was an important amount of money, I would personally never judge anyone for crying because of such loss at the hands of bad luck. You are correct when you say that any responsible gambler is not supposed to cry over a loss, since they are all supposed to measure their bets and gambling before carry them out.
This woman was the typical novice gambler who did not thought about the consequences of their actions. Even if she won, I would dare to say she would have lost that money eventually anyways, by continuing to bet or gamble, believing she has got infinite good luck in her hands.
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In as much as gender doesn't determine ones level of composure, it's also worthy to not that men are better in handling shocks especially the ones that comes from losing in gambling than women do and that's the number of men who gambles are way to higher than their female counterparts. Gambling isn't gender based activity but right from when gambling came to existence, it's been reported that more 80% of gamblers across the globe are all men.
In other to avoid the deep shocks that comes with losing ones gamble, it's advisable for women not to engage in gambling.
Yes ladies are more emotional compared to the men and most times,  you see a lady crying for no just reason and you can't tell if it only shock that get ladies to cry because sometimes ladies cries when their are too happy and when they are sad also,  but on the other hand this cries out in the ops is about her heavy lost in staking and I believe that her bet was in sport bet and that is a big one because some of the gamblers get to the point that the risk what they can't afford to lose and when the loses occurs the get depressed.

So this situation is not peculiar to this lady but even the men,  we have seen several time when some gamblers bust out into crying all because of their loses,  and how the have staked higher than they can afford to lose and the lose have a negative impact on them and that physical reaction os all they can do at that moment.
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Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.

I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.
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For most of those gamblers that can't do that, they will struggle on that part of moving on. That's even still a painful thing for them because even if they have accepted the fate of their money and lost.

True and the main reason why a gambler can't move on is due to greed.  They don't want to end at a loss and wanted to recover and at the same time get a big time revenge win which make them hook wagering and betting until they found themselves addicted to gambling.
Remove greediness and you'll be fine to accept whatever outcome with your bets.

You'll have lighter feelings on it and you're okay to the outcomes that you'll have. And the understanding of gambling that it's not always a winning day, you'll easily accept that it's the reality.

Exerting time and effort for recovering losses and what you say revenge, you're just likely to spend your efforts there useless because if greed is still there, you'll still end up with bad results.
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That's what will happen when you're prepared to the outcome of your risk taking mate. Ladies have got weaker feeling on this one and their hearts are more fragile than us men.

We can take as much losses that we can while them, it seems that losing is a new thing to them. The mistake here is that she used the money that she needs for something else and it's likely an important matter.

I think you meant that’s what would happen when you’re NOT prepared for the outcome of a loss. I don’t think any of this has to do with weaker feelings or fragile hearts although your opinion on ladies having weaker feelings and fragile hearts is arguable.

There are cases of men who didn’t take the news of their losses well. Would we use one or two examples to come to a conclusion? I think It totally depends on the individual and how tolerant the individual is to receiving unfavorable news.
Yeah, you're right.

I've forgot to include the "NOT". Thanks for that but yeah.

Those that have weak hearts will just put it through that emotion and feeling that there's nothing they can do but to just cry and look at those losses as it pass and won't be back to theirs.

She obviously wasn’t expecting an outcome like this and couldn’t take the loss well.
Yeah, that's it. She's not prepared for it and she didn't thought that this is how heavy it will be.
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In as much as gender doesn't determine ones level of composure, it's also worthy to not that men are better in handling shocks especially the ones that comes from losing in gambling than women do and that's the number of men who gambles are way to higher than their female counterparts. Gambling isn't gender based activity but right from when gambling came to existence, it's been reported that more 80% of gamblers across the globe are all men.
In other to avoid the deep shocks that comes with losing ones gamble, it's advisable for women not to engage in gambling.

Actually it’s not about the gender inequality,if the loss was faced by the men.Most of the time,they understand the reality of the gambling.So they won’t bother about the gambling losses,because the game had both win and loss.The men also suffer the loss in the gambling,but they will not cry,because they had faced many problem in the real life.This was the reason for the gambler to not worry.If the men run the family with satisfying the family needs,he will be the biggest part of the life.This alone give lot of trouble and many money needs in the short period of time.But the most of the gambler was men compared to the woman.
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That's what will happen when you're prepared to the outcome of your risk taking mate. Ladies have got weaker feeling on this one and their hearts are more fragile than us men.

We can take as much losses that we can while them, it seems that losing is a new thing to them. The mistake here is that she used the money that she needs for something else and it's likely an important matter.

I think you meant that’s what would happen when you’re NOT prepared for the outcome of a loss. I don’t think any of this has to do with weaker feelings or fragile hearts although your opinion on ladies having weaker feelings and fragile hearts is arguable.

There are cases of men who didn’t take the news of their losses well. Would we use one or two examples to come to a conclusion? I think It totally depends on the individual and how tolerant the individual is to receiving unfavorable news.
She obviously wasn’t expecting an outcome like this and couldn’t take the loss well.


In as much as gender doesn't determine ones level of composure, it's also worthy to not that men are better in handling shocks especially the ones that comes from losing in gambling than women do and that's the number of men who gambles are way to higher than their female counterparts. Gambling isn't gender based activity but right from when gambling came to existence, it's been reported that more 80% of gamblers across the globe are all men.
In other to avoid the deep shocks that comes with losing ones gamble, it's advisable for women not to engage in gambling.
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That's what will happen when you're prepared to the outcome of your risk taking mate. Ladies have got weaker feeling on this one and their hearts are more fragile than us men.

We can take as much losses that we can while them, it seems that losing is a new thing to them. The mistake here is that she used the money that she needs for something else and it's likely an important matter.

I think you meant that’s what would happen when you’re NOT prepared for the outcome of a loss. I don’t think any of this has to do with weaker feelings or fragile hearts although your opinion on ladies having weaker feelings and fragile hearts is arguable.

There are cases of men who didn’t take the news of their losses well. Would we use one or two examples to come to a conclusion? I think It totally depends on the individual and how tolerant the individual is to receiving unfavorable news.
She obviously wasn’t expecting an outcome like this and couldn’t take the loss well.

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You're right, crying is better than committing suicide.

And with her reaction, she cried because she lost her money that she's not prepared for. It's okay to cry for someone who assumed that she's gonna make money quickly with sports betting because everybody does.

But on her case, she's not just prepared for it because of what she thought. Gambling isn't for her and she shouldn't gamble anymore because there can be a worst case scenario that she might do for herself when losses comes to her.
Better to know that crying will not do anything. Instead of crying, moving on should be done. By doing so, accepting the fact that the money is gone will be easy to accept and never get into gambling activity again if she's not prepared to lose her money. I'm not saying that crying is not okay, but the moment that the lady starts to gamble, it comes with the risk of losing her money. Crying only shows that she's not prepared and now after losing, that's the only thing she can do.
It's okay to cry and that's a normal reaction after seeing that the money has gone away. And you're right that the next move is to move on.

For most of those gamblers that can't do that, they will struggle on that part of moving on. That's even still a painful thing for them because even if they have accepted the fate of their money and lost.

Woman like her can't just move on and there are men that are also being like that, when they gamble they cry when there's so much losses they've made or they just can't take it anymore.
Doesnt matter whether you are a man or woman on which it would really be that normal that there would really be that moments that you would really be able to cry specially if you have lost significant or an amount that you cant afford to lose then it would really be that normal that those kind of reaction could really happen but this would really often that could be seen on women
since we know that they are really that too emotional compared to men and also they are someone who doesnt really like on losing money or simply not that adventurous and this is why
on the first time that they would really be able to experience gambling and lost up that much then you would really be that ended up on crying.

This is why its really that important that whenever you do touch up gambling then you should really be preparing your emotion into it, because if you dont then for sure
you would really be ending up on having this kind of reaction or ended up on crying if you arent that prepared.  Cry
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Women actually make better gamblers than men. Several opinion pools shows that women understand money management better than men. This is the reason they make better gamblers than men. If you remember that money management is one of the biggest challenge of gamblers, then you will agree with me on this.

If women are better gamblers than men then why women also get addicted to gambling?  I believe when it comes to gambling addiction, there is no better gender.  Both are gender are susceptible to gambling addiction.  One good proof is the documents and articles that is published on the internet and lots of documentary videos uploaded on Youtube and other streaming sites.

I believe gambling addiction can affect anyone regardless of gender because these two genders are both human and have the instinct and characteristics of a person.

For most of those gamblers that can't do that, they will struggle on that part of moving on. That's even still a painful thing for them because even if they have accepted the fate of their money and lost.

True and the main reason why a gambler can't move on is due to greed.  They don't want to end at a loss and wanted to recover and at the same time get a big time revenge win which make them hook wagering and betting until they found themselves addicted to gambling.

there is really no gender when you talk about any addiction. it will hit on any person, so long you can't handle your activities too well. if you won't assess your situation and you will just follow your desires, you can easily be in trouble as before you noticed, you are already too deep and hard to shovel out from your grave. people have their different approach when it comes to their addiction, but if they won't pause, surely, more problems arise.
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Women actually make better gamblers than men. Several opinion pools shows that women understand money management better than men. This is the reason they make better gamblers than men. If you remember that money management is one of the biggest challenge of gamblers, then you will agree with me on this.

If women are better gamblers than men then why women also get addicted to gambling?  I believe when it comes to gambling addiction, there is no better gender.  Both are gender are susceptible to gambling addiction.  One good proof is the documents and articles that is published on the internet and lots of documentary videos uploaded on Youtube and other streaming sites.

I believe gambling addiction can affect anyone regardless of gender because these two genders are both human and have the instinct and characteristics of a person.

For most of those gamblers that can't do that, they will struggle on that part of moving on. That's even still a painful thing for them because even if they have accepted the fate of their money and lost.

True and the main reason why a gambler can't move on is due to greed.  They don't want to end at a loss and wanted to recover and at the same time get a big time revenge win which make them hook wagering and betting until they found themselves addicted to gambling.
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You're right, crying is better than committing suicide.

And with her reaction, she cried because she lost her money that she's not prepared for. It's okay to cry for someone who assumed that she's gonna make money quickly with sports betting because everybody does.

But on her case, she's not just prepared for it because of what she thought. Gambling isn't for her and she shouldn't gamble anymore because there can be a worst case scenario that she might do for herself when losses comes to her.
Better to know that crying will not do anything. Instead of crying, moving on should be done. By doing so, accepting the fact that the money is gone will be easy to accept and never get into gambling activity again if she's not prepared to lose her money. I'm not saying that crying is not okay, but the moment that the lady starts to gamble, it comes with the risk of losing her money. Crying only shows that she's not prepared and now after losing, that's the only thing she can do.
It's okay to cry and that's a normal reaction after seeing that the money has gone away. And you're right that the next move is to move on.

For most of those gamblers that can't do that, they will struggle on that part of moving on. That's even still a painful thing for them because even if they have accepted the fate of their money and lost.

Woman like her can't just move on and there are men that are also being like that, when they gamble they cry when there's so much losses they've made or they just can't take it anymore.
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Well crying is better than those who committed suicide. After crying she's going to get a plate of ice cream after which she'll forget about her loss.
Real gamblers don't cry. We what that it is what it is. Anyone who doesn't gamble responsibly will face the consequences.
You're right, crying is better than committing suicide.

And with her reaction, she cried because she lost her money that she's not prepared for. It's okay to cry for someone who assumed that she's gonna make money quickly with sports betting because everybody does.

But on her case, she's not just prepared for it because of what she thought. Gambling isn't for her and she shouldn't gamble anymore because there can be a worst case scenario that she might do for herself when losses comes to her.
Better to know that crying will not do anything. Instead of crying, moving on should be done. By doing so, accepting the fact that the money is gone will be easy to accept and never get into gambling activity again if she's not prepared to lose her money. I'm not saying that crying is not okay, but the moment that the lady starts to gamble, it comes with the risk of losing her money. Crying only shows that she's not prepared and now after losing, that's the only thing she can do.
The loss was painful but as you said crying because of the loss will not help anything and it will not bring back the lost money. So she has to put herself together and move on because that her will lead to another sickness. And I believe it is not only her that have lost money in gambling, there are some people who have lost very big amount of money and they are not complaining to anyone. I think she needs a counselor to counsel her so she can adapt to the system if not she might collapsed.
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Well crying is better than those who committed suicide. After crying she's going to get a plate of ice cream after which she'll forget about her loss.
Real gamblers don't cry. We what that it is what it is. Anyone who doesn't gamble responsibly will face the consequences.
You're right, crying is better than committing suicide.

And with her reaction, she cried because she lost her money that she's not prepared for. It's okay to cry for someone who assumed that she's gonna make money quickly with sports betting because everybody does.

But on her case, she's not just prepared for it because of what she thought. Gambling isn't for her and she shouldn't gamble anymore because there can be a worst case scenario that she might do for herself when losses comes to her.
Better to know that crying will not do anything. Instead of crying, moving on should be done. By doing so, accepting the fact that the money is gone will be easy to accept and never get into gambling activity again if she's not prepared to lose her money. I'm not saying that crying is not okay, but the moment that the lady starts to gamble, it comes with the risk of losing her money. Crying only shows that she's not prepared and now after losing, that's the only thing she can do.
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Well crying is better than those who committed suicide. After crying she's going to get a plate of ice cream after which she'll forget about her loss.
Real gamblers don't cry. We what that it is what it is. Anyone who doesn't gamble responsibly will face the consequences.
You're right, crying is better than committing suicide.

And with her reaction, she cried because she lost her money that she's not prepared for. It's okay to cry for someone who assumed that she's gonna make money quickly with sports betting because everybody does.

But on her case, she's not just prepared for it because of what she thought. Gambling isn't for her and she shouldn't gamble anymore because there can be a worst case scenario that she might do for herself when losses comes to her.
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