Topic: A Lady Cried After Losing to Sports Bet. Gambling is Not Your Mate. - page 4. (Read 1874 times)

Yes, I don't know what is the reason why gambling is always dominated by men, but what I know is that usually those who like challenges are men, so with this alone in my opinion it is quite natural that men always dominate gambling which means that most gamblers are men, and also besides that someone who is obliged to make a living is the men in a family, therefore they at least have the freedom to where they allocate the money from their work. It is true that on the other hand women are vulnerable to pressure while in gambling there is a lot of pressure that they will feel, so maybe even though gambling does not see gender at all but with that alone I think it can be understood that all the risks and pressures that exist in gambling are not suitable for women.

Basically, men who are strong enough to face all problems can be very weak when facing the downturn of gambling, well, especially for women who have a gentle soul, so maybe that's a little logic that makes sense enough to be a differentiator even though gender doesn't matter there, and also yes, it's better for us as men to save them, like you said, because if it's too late then I'm not sure they can pass all the tests that are there.

Gambling is majorly engaged by men for some reasons that the female gender aren't good and one of the is risk taking. Though gambling isn't gender based which means that any gender is absolutely free to gamble, it's still advised that women who can't stand the pressure that comes with taking those risks shouldn't engage themselves in gambling.
The kind of surprising shock that comes with losing your hard earned money in gambling can't just be managed by 80% of women population if you ask me so I'm other to save them from the shock, it's better to tell any lady that wants to gamble the disadvantages of gambling before she embarks on it

Actually seeing female gamblers use to be very rare compare to men, I understand that one of the reasons while most women doesn't gamble is because they love respect and there dignity but however they believe that most people will see them as an irresponsible person, although I don't no about your side but were I come from you will hardly see a lady gambling, however not because they don't no how to gamble but because of the people perception on female gambling.

On a normal sense women are easily emotional in everything so imagine how they could feel if there gambling go against them, of course they are likely to cry there eyes out.

This is one of the reason why they said gambling is not for everybody because it has do with mind, emotions and determination for you to be able to withstand the pressure of losing a game because most of the lady feel that watching other people win from there gambling that they could also venture into it and start winning immediately without knowing the factors involved.

Women actually make better gamblers than men. Several opinion pools shows that women understand money management better than men. This is the reason they make better gamblers than men. If you remember that money management is one of the biggest challenge of gamblers, then you will agree with me on this.

Yes, that's why before we enter a gambling game, we have to take into account all the risks. And we must have a minimum amount of money to play. If I look at cases of women who really want to get an instant financial boost in gambling, and these women hope to win, there are many cases like this in every country and as far as I know, in these gambling games it is regulated. to experience defeat.

well, that what is worrying if there might be criticism or bullying after he uploads the video, maybe he can receive all the criticism or bullying but maybe his family members will also receive the bullying and it would be very sad if that happens because family members dont know what the problem is suddenly getting bullied like that and unconsciously uploading the video has made things difficult for himself and his family.
and I am pretty sure that he only bet a few times in gambling because looking at the story written by the OP he like a beginner gambler who does not know any limits and can not accept all the risks that will occur in gambling. so maybe he really felt sorry when he lost the bet and after that ignored the limit.

First time I heard about this, and I think it's crazy. As a gambler, we should be responsible enough to know the risk of what we entered. Gambling sites won't give back the money that we spent, they will just keep on taking and it won't end unless you win, or you get out. That's the only two options we have and they won't even bother about us even if we tell a sad story that we badly need that money.
This is a business not a charity, the risk is higher because we are trying to win against them, and they will need to protect themselves and that is called the house edge. I am sad for her but that should not be posted in social media for privacy. Plus, she won't hear any good words from people who will read about this. It's a jungle out there filled with bad people hiding in their avatars.

I still wonder what a woman is lurking around for in gambling, they can't take risk, afford to loose money or even get the mind of gamblers, women are very emotional and therefore cannot have that kind of a risk bearing mind to take risk for gambling, she would have expected to see the winning coming instead of losses but things came to her surprised all of a sudden that she discover her money is gone for good.

1. Gambling is not for the weak and its also not for kids
2. Don't gamble with funds you can't loose or forgo.
3. Don't have expectations on gambling outcomes as they are not guaranteed.


The above should be the watch word for people who have considered to delve into the gambling industry. If you consider it an occupation, you might get the biggest disappointment of you life. As much as it has given people fortunes beyond their expectation, it has also extracted fortunes from their wallets.

There are always wins and losses but the biggest potential opportunity that gamblers always face is defeat because losing in gambling is certain and guaranteed different from winning that can be achieved if you are just lucky.

This woman was hysterical she cried and regretted what she had done because she made big mistake and resulted in losing a very large amount of money.
I was surprised that he cried and regretted it because it was all his choice and the decision to bet was a decision he made without anyone else invitation or order.
When someone tries to gamble they must be aware of all the risks involved and must accept whatever will happen one of which is losing any amount of money.

After this happens I sure he will bet some money again to recover his previous losses.
This is the attitude that gamblers have and I know that people like that will never give up even though they have experienced bad things or bitter experiences unless they have really lost everything anything that can make money then they can indirectly stop doing it.

Are you born yesterday to ask that question? Of course she did that for clout and attention and you're already on point with the notion that she's asking for sympathy but we don't have to be quick to judge because it's not like everyone is the same, there are some people that's really not that good dealing with pain alone and social media seems to be able to do that so I should say that to a certain degree, not to judge the whole person.
I used to think that a lot of people know this but seeing this kind of stuff and knowing that there are people like this that I work with or I have acquainted that thinks that you can make money gambling, it's a good thing that we're reminded from time to time. I guess a lot of people are due for a little self-introspection nowadays.

Yes, she has used bad methods to gain popularity because she revealed her bad story in public without thinking about what she and her family would experience in their daily lives later. There were people who would recognize her as a bad gambler who couldn't control herself in gambling so they would distance themselves from associating with that woman. We will not overreact to the video because we already know that losing money is a consequence that we will receive in gambling so we continue to limit ourselves so as not to suffer a big loss. She shouldn't have to show herself crying in public but could tell people not to gamble excessively and within reasonable limits.

Maybe it's like that but we also don't know her motive for showing herself to be sad because of gambling. But maybe she likes to show what happened to her so that people can find out and be curious about what happened to her. Now many people show what they do and upload it to their social media. And if they experience something, they want sympathy from people but if they lose gambling, they will not get sympathy but instead they will probably get condemnation because they cannot gamble responsibly.

We can cry if we experience loss but not by showing it in public because that would embarrass us, especially if people know us. They will say bad things about us, eventually discovering that we often gamble and experience losses. It's better for us just to keep it hidden rather than show other people what we experience in gambling because maybe later, there will be misunderstandings between us.

There is definitely nothing wrong with crying after regretting a decision or out of grief about what has happened, but why record yourself crying and put it for the public to see? That's the point I'm unable to understand, and it indicates that the person is probably trying to get sympathy from people for what she has lost when it's completely her own fault since she is an adult and she probably knew that one can lose everything in gambling as it involves a lot of risks.

People need to understand one simple thing; gambling isn't a way for them to double or triple their money, it's not a guaranteed way to achieve wealth but it's just a way to either have some fun or just try your luck, don't just keep spending your money with the hope that you might win something big in the next bet, that bet doesn't come.

Most of such news is just based on acting and the source of the news has been known for posting fake news which is something that has triggered suspicious views about the legitimacy of this news, but then if it is true about the woman gambling away such an amount of money and thereafter coming on social media to cry out os such a shame and will draw a lot of backlash for the lady if this news is true.
We also have to learn some lessons from the whole incident and as a woman, you need to weigh your actions, before you take them most especially in areas such as gambling that have high risk.

Crying would really be that a result of extreme frustation and disappointment or something that in result in losing too much money and somewhat we do know that women are really that just too sensitve on things.
Even if the said situation isnt really that too severe or simply had just lost some amounts on doing gambling but ended up with that kind of reaction which it is most likely that women would really be having this kind of reaction on which i could say that it is really that normal since losing money is never been pleasing or something a good thing. This is why its really that important that you should really assess the situation because if you do find yourself not really that tolerant when it comes on losing money then it would really be just that right that you shouldnt really be engaging on gambling.

Some people who do really just make dealing with some things just for the sake of curiosity and on the time that they had spend out that much and wasnt expecting to be like that then they would really be
that in state of shock and the worst you would really be ending up on crying. Gambling isnt for those faint heart on which they dont really like to experience some losses
specially into their funds but of course having your first experience on things would determine whether you do get interest or not.

Isn't that the story of sore losers. I mean we have seen a ton of people in our life that lost something because of their own mistakes and instead of learning from it as a response, they end up crying about it. I have seen even people who cheated their spouse and then cry about being divorced, dude you shouldn't have cheated then, not like this was a shocking response to it, you made it yourself.

I believe that we are going to end up with a lot of people who lose at gambling and cry over it, this lady wasn't the last one and I am guessing that it wasn't the first one neither, it's just the way some people are. I have lost and cried before as well, to be fair I was in my room all alone, but I did, nothing like big scene type, just some drops from my eye type, because I was scared and made a stupid childish mistake of losing a lot of money that I shouldn't have, but I learned from it and never made that mistake ever again in my life at all.

if it was all about fame I would say that it is a very bad way to gain fame but he humiliated himself in public without thinking about the long term risks he would definitely be bullied for posting a video of him crying because he lost a bet or in gambling meanwhile, there are lots of gamblers out there who laugh at this woman behavior because its really funny when she loses and cries like a child losing her candy.
such behavior should not be done just for the sake of fame and if she wants to gain fame it would be better if there are still many ways to gain fame by showing her gambling activities because it is rare for women to gamble on sports betting and she will definitely get more positive fame.

He has now become famous in his community because of his video posts. But there is no need to do this because there may be people who are not happy to see the video and blaspheme what he has done in sports betting. Maybe the woman's goal was to gain fame after she posted her video and she has succeeded in getting it. But after what he experienced, hopefully, he will realize it and won't place any more bets. But if he still places bets on sports betting, that means what he did yesterday was in vain and he wants to seek fame without thinking about what will happen to his family. Now, it has become a trend that what we experience must be documented and then uploaded on social media so that people know about it.

It is the right of him who wants to do it, no one has the right to forbid him. Indeed, this will give her a bad reputation in the eyes of other people, but she only expresses her sadness on social media and need people sympathy and attention, not only attention there will definitely be a lot of abuse that people will throw at her, especially since she is a woman, this cannot be done it's true that apart from embarrassing himself, it also causes his mental state to become even more down.
However, it also teaches us to always be careful when betting and use money we can afford to lose so that we don't feel too sad when we experience defeat.

It's bad because she expected a win. The moment she treat gambling as a source of income, it is not about the control of herself anymore. It's about thinking of having an easy life and having a fortune through gambling. She prefer to make money with gambling and hoping that it would be the time for her to have a better life. That's why she was left crying as she did not obtained what she wants, which is to win in gambling.

In this situation, realization will come. She should realize that gambling is not some kind of source of income. Ahe should find a better job and don't wish to have an easy life. It's better to have a hard earned money than earn it easily.