Topic: Advice when you are going a bit far in gaming and betting - page 64. (Read 7496 times)
The best answer is education, any person need to know his limit, money management and thinking the future. Although all people want to be rich and I agree with the statement if not all people can become rich, that's why there's a person can gamble $100 per week, someone can gamble $100,000 per week and someone can't gamble because he don't have any money anymore.
This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
I add as a suggestion about "budget", some sites allow you to set deposit limits. use them! these help to have a limit on your bets.
people who bet with crypto use always cold wallets to limits "cash" available.
limit as much as possible the figures you play when you realize you have "a problem" with the game.
ok to play for fun, no to play for money in such case.
Last but not least, NEVER try to recover from your losses. you will simply lose even more.
A lot of times .. there are a lot more behind gambling addiction, that needs to be solved before "basic" things that you mentioned.. will work for those people.
People are very complex and there are some psychological factors that also needs attention, before you simply apply advice like this.
1. People might use gambling to distract them from other problems they have.
2. People might be more prone to addiction, than other people... so gambling is just one of those things that triggers them.
3. People might just be bored.... and should seek other activities that will take up their time.
It is things like this that contribute to gambling addiction and you have to address that, so that other advice would help them to stop gambling.
People are very complex and there are some psychological factors that also needs attention, before you simply apply advice like this.
1. People might use gambling to distract them from other problems they have.
2. People might be more prone to addiction, than other people... so gambling is just one of those things that triggers them.
3. People might just be bored.... and should seek other activities that will take up their time.
It is things like this that contribute to gambling addiction and you have to address that, so that other advice would help them to stop gambling.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
Go and visit the therapist when you discover you're betting out of control, friends might give you short term solution but to overcome your addictions, you have to go and see a therapist as they're the professionals and will help you better.
When you're betting too often, recheck yourself to make sure you're not betting more than you should as a form of revenge for your losses. Revenge bets are one of the reasons many betters lose money. You can't win when revenge is on your mind.
If you noticed you're addicted to gambling, just look for other addiction to replace the gambling addiction and they should be positive activities and not negative ones like drugs or drinking. You can join a book club to use your time for reading.
From my personal experience, sometimes when we have the intention to do what we have done as listed above, it is different when we are playing, because when we are playing it is difficult to control ourselves unless our money runs out, usually when the money runs out it will make us realize something that I should stop in the middle of a losing streak and not continue it.
Sometimes when we intend to have fun, there is a high feeling of curiosity that keeps pushing us to keep playing, that's why when people follow it, they become addicts, but it's true whatever you say, it's just difficult to do if it's not based on high intentions so you can apply it when playing.
Sometimes when we intend to have fun, there is a high feeling of curiosity that keeps pushing us to keep playing, that's why when people follow it, they become addicts, but it's true whatever you say, it's just difficult to do if it's not based on high intentions so you can apply it when playing.
"Do not gamble what you cannot afford to lose"; Many people have uttered this phrase here, but it's still a good thing to follow!
I have never done drinking while gambling. I think that will be fun! I am confident that I'll still be able to have a disciplined mind even though I'm having some drinks while playing. Doing that, making sure that I'll not get wasted from the alcohol is a necessity.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
This is the hardest part. I was addicted in the past, but I fixed the problem myself. It's very embarrassing to ask for help from friends. I don't want them to judge me, and I'm just not the type of person who is open enough to share my personal problems. I think the best way to avoid getting addicted is to prevent it altogether. You know, they say 'prevention is better than cure.
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
The bolded part seems to be the main problem for most gamblers. Setting up a budget before gambling is easy and most gamblers do it as well but most of the time gamblers fail to stick on their own limit.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
I would say that it is better if we set our own gambling activity like once/twice a week or once/twice a month and for sure the above budget limit should also be applied. Combination between wise time and money management will be the best thing to do imo.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Drink is fine as long as it is not too much, as long as we are still able to control ourselves then it is fine to drink (alcohol) while gambling.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Once a gambler is addicted, he/she does not realize that he/she is going too far. It would be better if we can avoid it from the beginning by asking help from someone we trust such as wife, girlfriend, or maybe brother/sister so they can always give a warning to us anytime we start our gambling.
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Very very important, Like for me I don't use percentage... Like how some other gamblers use like 3 or 4 percent of their income, if my total monthly income is 10,000 and I allocate 4 percent of it to gambling it would amount to 400 dollars which I pretty huge, IMO.
What I normally do is that I just take a fixed amount like 50 Dollars and spend it on gambling and as soon as that money get exhausted I quit for that month.
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Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
If I should add anything to this list it would be, "be time conscious" although allocating money also plays a role here but aside that you should set a time limit for yourself, because most times when we're on the winning spree there's this urge for us to continue playing and also when we're losing there's also the urge for us to start chasing losses.
Just put a time limit and once your time is up just log out of your casino and focus on other part of your life that needs attention.
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This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
This is absolutely good advice that I have read for a long time now. Some gamblers are just bent on gambling so hard, making sure they win something before they stop, and some times they may not win anything, so they keep going. Even if they end up winning, they might have gambled off a lot of money and might not even win up to half of what they have lost. It's very necessary to make a budget and specify the amount that the person will gamble off, so that once they exhaust the money, they can stop gambling without minding if they won or not.
I don't know how others feel, but I think gambling is intuitive. Without those budgets, a gambler might not even realize it until they have gambled off a lot of money.
There are these street bets that I usually see people doing in my country. Some young guys on the street who gamble sometimes end up gambling with their phones; they can even go to the extent of gambling with anything they have on their body, which includes their clothes, trousers, shoes, or jewelry. This is no joke; one day a guy has to walk away from the street bet with only his boxers, which means he has gambled with everything he had on him.
This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
I think people know right from wrong enough to know when they’re doing bad behavior. I believe it is greed that pushes people to bet amounts they know they shouldn’t and extend losing streaks. If you know you’re the kind of person that does this sort of behavior, be conscious of it and don’t put lots of money in places where you’re able to easily gamble it.
it should also reasonable in setting a budget that is not huge you should not using percentage on it you should set like $50 and you family should aware on it so that they can check on you time to time . If in physical casino you should only bring cash and not card and just enough money for your budget for playing. Above all it is really best to have self discipline on your self so that no matter how much your budget is you cant still loss it all
Agreed , we must allocate a certain amount in every gambling gaming as in this we will prevent from losing more because the more we lose is the more we are chasing that amount.
so if we will have specific fund , then we have no option to chase that losses.
good advise mate and very reasonable to follow , but the problem is can we truly do that?it is an easy said than done lol.
it should also reasonable in setting a budget that is not huge you should not using percentage on it you should set like $50 and you family should aware on it so that they can check on you time to time . If in physical casino you should only bring cash and not card and just enough money for your budget for playing. Above all it is really best to have self discipline on your self so that no matter how much your budget is you cant still loss it all
.-.But the problem is that most gamblers are hiding in their closet while playing and this is the reason why many of them are turning into addicted one and yes a loser, instead of telling people around them so there will be guidance .
..they chose not and they maintain their silence in playing , and this is not how we treat gambling because if does? then we will be a complete loser all our life
and the saddest part is one day we will lose everything and even our own life.
learn to gamble with control and you will be fine .
While I agree with all of it, I must say that having some drinks while doing almost anything just makes things better, specially with friends. It enhances the experience, but makes it very easy to spend more than one has planned in the budget.
So one of my recommendations would be to only take the money of the budget to the casino if one plans to drink alcohol or accept drinks provided by the house, so in case one lose some control over the decision making capabilities, still there will be no money to gamble beyond the budget. Leave credit cards and jewelry at home.
try to never have any substance while playing , because this affect our decision making , be a natural gambler and always be in control.So one of my recommendations would be to only take the money of the budget to the casino if one plans to drink alcohol or accept drinks provided by the house, so in case one lose some control over the decision making capabilities, still there will be no money to gamble beyond the budget. Leave credit cards and jewelry at home.
Actually that is also the reason why free drinks offered in casino houses , so there will be chance that dizziness will take place and gamblers will be uncontrollable .
it should also reasonable in setting a budget that is not huge you should not using percentage on it you should set like $50 and you family should aware on it so that they can check on you time to time . If in physical casino you should only bring cash and not card and just enough money for your budget for playing. Above all it is really best to have self discipline on your self so that no matter how much your budget is you cant still loss it all
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Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
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Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
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Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
In general this is good advice, but when someone gets out of control with gambling it is their emotional side that takes over and then all rational plans go to shit, like the one in the budget. If you go into tilt, if you start to chase your losses, it doesn't matter what budget plan you have made.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
That usually happens after the gambling binge, after you have lost too much, but it's good advice too. When someone cannot control their problematic gambling habit, help should be sought.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Most people can't do this because they feel disgrace to seek help for their gambling addiction. Each person has different character and behavior too, if he's an introvert person who think he can do anything without any single friend, he will not call his friend since he will think calling a friend just make the problem more complicated. I think even someone want to gamble all of their money, it's fine as long as they not sell their assets or anything that will used for gamble.
This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
What I did is? Letting my Wife handle all our funds and just allow Her to give me my weekly budget to gamble , in that way I managed to maintain my spending amount and only that I need to decide when to stand while winning .Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
nowadays I have learn my ways and yes she do not need to give me my allowance for gambling because I understand how much i need to gamble and also I know when to stand from table.
this partnership will surely let you just enjoy and never regret your gambling activities.
- The Only problem is if you are still single and no one to let you managed your money , better to have strict rules and focused mind or else never engaged in gambling forever.
- because no matter what? you will always lose and that is the reality and the saddest part is if you will turn addicted .
never be like this lol
You have a very considerate wife. While some of us are not telling our wives we gamble online, you get to have a budget. You definitely had chosen a great wife.
Whether married or not, however, one will still have to manage his funds to live so in order to just keep it that way a person should just bear in mind the bills to pay and food on the table. When he is responsible enough, I think he will not go deep into gambling.
This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
What I did is? Letting my Wife handle all our funds and just allow Her to give me my weekly budget to gamble , in that way I managed to maintain my spending amount and only that I need to decide when to stand while winning .Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
nowadays I have learn my ways and yes she do not need to give me my allowance for gambling because I understand how much i need to gamble and also I know when to stand from table.
this partnership will surely let you just enjoy and never regret your gambling activities.
- The Only problem is if you are still single and no one to let you managed your money , better to have strict rules and focused mind or else never engaged in gambling forever.
- because no matter what? you will always lose and that is the reality and the saddest part is if you will turn addicted .
never be like this lol
While I agree with all of it, I must say that having some drinks while doing almost anything just makes things better, specially with friends. It enhances the experience, but makes it very easy to spend more than one has planned in the budget.
So one of my recommendations would be to only take the money of the budget to the casino if one plans to drink alcohol or accept drinks provided by the house, so in case one lose some control over the decision making capabilities, still there will be no money to gamble beyond the budget. Leave credit cards and jewelry at home.
So one of my recommendations would be to only take the money of the budget to the casino if one plans to drink alcohol or accept drinks provided by the house, so in case one lose some control over the decision making capabilities, still there will be no money to gamble beyond the budget. Leave credit cards and jewelry at home.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Engaging in gambling activities is not mentally exhausting. In fact, during my afternoon breaks or after finishing my daily activities, I often find myself playing games of chance or monitoring soccer games. It's a fun pastime, as long as you don't feel sad when you lose small amounts of money that you've deposited.Gambling can be a fun and entertaining activity, but it's important to remember not to let it negatively impact our financial stability. It's crucial to only gamble with money that we can afford to lose, and to never let it interfere with our financial responsibilities.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Playing other games on Steam can be a viable alternative when your girlfriend or friends are unavailable.
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