Topic: Anger Management (Read 965 times)
sometimes I cannot ignore the person but without doing nothing I say quite or I leave the place because if I starts to act in those moments with anger in front of others they might think wrong way about me
It is very important to keep calm in every situation. Peace is what we need in our society. Violence has never solved anything. People think they can get what they want through violence. It is not true. The world does not work like that. We just need to convince ourselves that violence leads nowhere. Being able to control oneself is way better than fighting or killing. What is the difference between us and the caveman? Anger management is modern. Our ancestors were not really in the management of anger. They were warriors. They needed to kill for their territory of food. Nowadays, we do not need it. We have grown up. For that reason, we must control ourselves.
This depends on a lot of factors. When I was a child, my teachers sent me to some anger management group. I never felt like I was that angry of a person. I think the group could have been almost counter productive because I was a pretty good kid, for the most part, but they put me in a room with a bunch of pre-teens who already have problems with alcohol and the law. Whatever anger I may have had I just grew out of, it seems. I think I just didn't like being told what to do and that it basically what happens to you until you're an adult. To answer the question about how to deal with others with anger issues, if it's a kid, just be patient, loving and understanding. It should pass. If it's an adult, I would just avoid people like that. You don't need those influences in your life.
We can't blame those who are easily get angry. It's not that they always want to do that it's because they can't control their emotions especially if they are provoked, or in case to some women when their menstruation is approaching we become very sensitive, we can't control our emotions even in a smallest mistakes. I am one of them , what i do when i feel that i am sensitive and angry i don't talk so that i can't hurt people around me.
For me the best way is to stay as calm as possible and after a while, the angry person will realize how bad his/her reaction is.
Sadly, not all of the people can be that type of person. A lot of people will be angry and after that they will be calming down but most of them don't see their actions as wrong since not all of the people will be staying at that type of state forever. After they calmed down they might be angry again, the best thing to do is to talk to that person when they are calming down, that is the best time to make amends or maybe explain them what to do to them and what could happen if another rage happens.
To be honest it is so ridiculous to be with people who have anger management issue. But as far as I am concern, it is important not to ride in their anger, instead remain calm and let them burst out their emotions. It will be helpful also if you let them release their emotions since they do not know how to manage their emotion. How I wish it is as easy as buying fries in the food chain to buy anger management so it will be easy to stop them.
I prefer ignoring for the first time. Then I'll try to communicate with offender and try to solve communication problems.
It's quite struggling for me to manage my anger, because when I'm angry, I tend to stay quiet and pile up all my anger, and then it will explode one day, in a horrible way. Planning to go to the therapist.
I think the best way to deal with people like me is to leave me alone, stay calm when I'm shouting and don't point you fingers at me.
I think the best way to deal with people like me is to leave me alone, stay calm when I'm shouting and don't point you fingers at me.
As a moderate person, I usually admit whatever the hot-blooded is shouting. Try not to irritate the person anymore. then find a way to leave him alone. I do not like to argue with people like this. I only resort to violence when I'm out of control LOL.
How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
I will try to calm him down, because the fire will be extinguished when doused with water,Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
And if anyone is angry I will be the water that will cool the person,
By providing the best solution to the problems that are being felt by him.
You can tell him to visit a psychiatrist so the person will learn how he will control his anger. When im angry i just only calm myself, i relaxes and refreshes my mind to think positively.
Some people really are prone to get angry quickly and over such trivial matters too and they rage out like the Hulk when that happens. When anger becomes uncontrollable people do heinous things like they go on a shooting rampage.I am certain most of the mass shootings are caused by hatred or anger.
Communicate with the person and try to fix their issues. I think its the best way for no one to get hurt, and you'll know the reasons why he/she is violent, then may be you'll find a way how to fix that issue or may be find a better person to fix it.
You can tell him to visit a psychiatrist so the person will learn how he will control his anger. When im angry i just only calm myself, i relaxes and refreshes my mind to think positively.
There are many situations that may arise if a person shows me his/her anger issues. One of it maybe is I might also acquired it, another is that I might try to think why he/she have that attitude. If I were the one who was in the situation of that person showing anger issue. I would be honest to him and make us talk one on one. Instead of adding some anger to the situation, I would try to lower the emotions by having a talk. Through that I might understand his/her reasons of having that attitude. I would listen then I would try to advice especially saying that it is a bad attitude to have anger problems so he/she should minimize it. Remember that attitude would tell us how we are as a person and will also determine the path of our life.
i usually try to anger them further 
. jk just take a break from them for a moment and come back later and talk things over calmly
. jk just take a break from them for a moment and come back later and talk things over calmly
It depends on what kind of person this is. If it would be my friend then I would try to talk to him, give him the chance to calm down and say everything that is on his mind. But if it is a person who I do not know personally, then I would probably stay away from him. Because people with anger issues in their attitude can be very dangerous.
anger management is a very important factor for a proper development of a human being people loose a lot in anger and they suffer in future people lose their loved ones just due to their anger people loose control and do wrong things due to which they end up behind the bars or even worse ending up their own life so anger management is very important the best way is meditation deep breathing eating other distraction sometimes playing games also releases a lot of stress and decreasing anger
Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret. Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. The greatest remedy for anger is delay.
At first, i try to communicate with that person and trying to solve the problem between us.. But if it didnot wy orks, maybe ignoring the person will be the best way, as we try to avoid any further conflicts
But what i see is, most of the time many people failed to do such things, as a result many conflicts happens just from 2 people who can manage their anger
But what i see is, most of the time many people failed to do such things, as a result many conflicts happens just from 2 people who can manage their anger
anger is one of the vices that makes our soul impure. It often takes away many precious memories and fills them with hatred. We may misjudge people when we get angry. We must think about the bad part of this vice. To control our anger we must have the quality to forget other's errors. We can forgive them who misbehaved us and can have a chat with them. In return of bad attitude of them we can help them so that they might become friendly with us. It is important to leave the area the so that we may avoid problems with others. We should keep in mind that to err is human. So, we should learn to forgive others.
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