Topic: Anger Management - page 3. (Read 893 times)
Confronting an angry person is a big deal. It depends on who is angry. If he is a close friend, we can calm him down or even advise him. If he's just an acquaintance, leave it alone. Interfering with other people's business is not a good thing. Anger arises because it has offended someone, so if we don't know it, that means of course we don't know how to admonish it as well. Just ignore it. unless the anger has crossed the line, you're allowed to act.
I had this problem myself. Actually this can be solved by a systematic approach.
In realtion to yourself - lower your expectations from the others. They mustn't act according to YOUR point of view.
In relation to others - their anger is just the mirror of their unsatisfied expectations from the others, their unhappiness and ill-being. It has no relation to you, so be calm...
In realtion to yourself - lower your expectations from the others. They mustn't act according to YOUR point of view.
In relation to others - their anger is just the mirror of their unsatisfied expectations from the others, their unhappiness and ill-being. It has no relation to you, so be calm...
People with anger management problems should know that they do have a problem with their anger. The best way to help them is to direct them to professionals who can actually make a difference in their care. After such we accept them for who they are and what they do. Help them cope and do the therapy. Being sensitive enough to know their triggers and help them calm down or offer them a more productive orncreatibe output for their anger.
I dont usually meddle when the person is in the height of their emotions, i mean very angry. I try to stay away and when the anger subsides i talk to them in a nice and loving way which ic very effective. Anyway, you cannot put out fire with fire, you will need water to cool what is hot.
How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
Anger is a normal thing with humans but becomes abnormal when it gets out of control. Often, i try the two approaches at the latter and they seem to work perfectly fine for me. At the onset of the anger, i try to calm the person down and explain things in a calm tone of voice, apologize if i have to and settle the issue amicably. But if it turns out that the person is too reluctant to listen, i just ignore and go away and come back when the person is settled. Sometimes, your presence aggravate the anger and the only option is to walk away and come back later. Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
I believe that it is just normal for us to get angry at times and it is too risky if we can't release the anger that we feel but we must always bear in mind that anger might lead to sin if we can't handle our emotions responsibly. We must try to calm ourselves during uncertain situations which may lead to violence if we can't deal with our emotions.
try to relax and calm down, listen to what he says, do not cut the word when he speaks, just listen and do not need to comment better nodded 😂. angry people just want their anger to be heard
Changing the way you think. Angry people tend to curse, swear, or speak in highly colorful terms that reflect their inner thoughts. When you're angry, your thinking can get very exaggerated and overly dramatic. Try replacing these thoughts with more rational ones.
try to relax and calm down, listen to what he says, do not cut the word when he speaks, just listen and do not need to comment better nodded 😂. angry people just want their anger to be heard
How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
I'm a kind of person who fights back automatically once I hear people gossiping about me or saying bad things agaisnt me. However, since I can't handle my anger sometimes, I'm just trying to keep calm and relax inside my room and think of good throughts that would make me feel better.
How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
Simply, I don't make a deeper relationship with them. If you will be close to one person, expect that there are always misunderstanding with your companionship. But if there is too much angry by someone to you, try to avoid him because no matter what will you do, if the person can't manahe his angry, nothing will happens to your relationship. Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
It's so hard to manage anger I think for us to calm down we must first give time to someone and don't forget to talk and fix for what should be the reason for your angriness . Don't let the situation cause more trouble its makes you both feel bad. If the situation is might not easy to fix I think we must need give time to both and let the time comes for you untill you become friends again. Try also to minimize your pride.
as human beings who live together and are called social beings, then the right thing in my opinion is to advise and accompany if someone who vent their emotions instead of ignoring it, if everyone ignores and does not advise and pay attention to those who have the nature angry, then who else will be advised ?? and how long will he know about his mistakes if we do not tell him in spite of how to be more patient and in a gentle and loving way, that's what I do when faced with an angry person, thank you
im not that kind of person that keep anger in my heart i dont want enemies.if i can fix then i will fix it i will talk to that person and ask why angry to me.and if reaaly angry to me then i will just keep silence and ignore.
I have read that the best response to someone that is easily get angry and just makes the hell out of a single thing is that to ignore it. I know a person that just makes herself so stressed that you don't know you could stress on it too much. It's going to be so much over reaction on things that makes yourself even harder to control. Personally I also have those parts where I easily get angry but there is only a few that could make me really ticked off. It's all about taking a perspective and what your actions could look like and the consequences on it. It's all about having the right thought.
If you have a hot temper, you may feel like it’s out of your hands and there’s little you can do to tame the beast. But you have more control over your anger than you think. You can learn to express your emotions without hurting others. 
I have read that the best response to someone that is easily get angry and just makes the hell out of a single thing is that to ignore it. I know a person that just makes herself so stressed that you don't know you could stress on it too much. It's going to be so much over reaction on things that makes yourself even harder to control. Personally I also have those parts where I easily get angry but there is only a few that could make me really ticked off. It's all about taking a perspective and what your actions could look like and the consequences on it. It's all about having the right thought.
Anger management improves the quality of human life, not only in trading, but in your business life, anger management in traffic will gain you a lot. I am a very angry person, I did not learn to control my anger, but I do not get angry anymore. Yes, very interesting, I learned to control my own anger, I did not do anything extra effort.
How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
I honestly have a short temper and I hate dealing with people who has an attitude problem so I'd rather stay inside my room the whole day rather than facing fake people. However, I'm still tying to cope up with them at times by communicating normally and ignoring their rough attitudes. We all feel angry and it is normal but we must handle it appropriately that we won't be hurting anybody.
I prefer ignoring for the first time. Then I'll try to communicate with offender and try to solve communication problems. Violence is not a way to solve problems in my opinion. You should better don't give a damn about offender instead of wasting your time on him.
Everyone must have felt angry. Various
events or the existence of other parties can
become the source of this angry emotion. Appearance
angry emotions can not always be avoided,
even more so when faced with a situation that is not
fair and unpleasant. However, emotion
anger needs to be managed and controlled so as not to
causing negative impact for self and environment.
Uncontrolled anger, though only
briefly, can have tremendous impact
events or the existence of other parties can
become the source of this angry emotion. Appearance
angry emotions can not always be avoided,
even more so when faced with a situation that is not
fair and unpleasant. However, emotion
anger needs to be managed and controlled so as not to
causing negative impact for self and environment.
Uncontrolled anger, though only
briefly, can have tremendous impact
How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?
As much as possible, I stay away from them, why? because if I heard them say anything bad over someone, I get to absorb their emotions and later on I felt like there's a heavy, uneasy feeling in me which I hate cause I know it's not good for my heart, as in literally. I'm afraid I will develop a heart condition because I was raised by a family that never shows any anger. But, I believe that any misunderstanding can be solved by open communication, acceptance of mistakes and forgiving heart. These are just what we need to stay away from anger.
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