2) Then, ask them how they view the faults of BFL. (again, in very concise terms)
3) Once they have excused their chosen vendor for their errors, however grave it may be...
4) Use or "Adapt" the exact same reasons and words they used or employed to defend your own vendor.
1) Community as a whole benefits from ASIC vendor competition. BFL's chips should be more efficient (due to 65nm).
2) I don't care, as long as they eventually deliver. The 65nm process is riskier but should keep their product competitive for longer, even if Avalon delivers sooner.
3/4) Obviously I also want to see Avalon and the others succeed. Competition is beneficial.