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April 18, 2021, 03:47:00 PM
I read your thread and I read your notes. But unfortunately, I was also unemployed in the past and then made gambling a source of income and that's fine because I don't owe money to gamble. But even though sometimes I owe money to gamble, fortunately I always return it sooner so that it exceeds the refund and that is a fortune for me. But yes, one of the most important things is not to go into debt to gamble as that will only make you more stressed. In addition, the most important thing for the gambler to be responsible is, when you lose you don't involve or take your anger out on close people and other valuables.

That's so hard to consider gambling as a source of income if you are unemployed, I mean the risk is really high unless you are really good in gambling. I can't do that honestly, I'm not good enough in gambling and though I gamble, I make sure I have a stable source of income like a job or a business, but lucky for you that you were able to make money from it.
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April 18, 2021, 03:11:17 PM
I read your thread and I read your notes. But unfortunately, I was also unemployed in the past and then made gambling a source of income and that's fine because I don't owe money to gamble. But even though sometimes I owe money to gamble, fortunately I always return it sooner so that it exceeds the refund and that is a fortune for me. But yes, one of the most important things is not to go into debt to gamble as that will only make you more stressed. In addition, the most important thing for the gambler to be responsible is, when you lose you don't involve or take your anger out on close people and other valuables.
You should also think that you don't have to borrow money when you're about to gamble. You're fortunate enough that you didn't lose those borrowed money and have the same problem as OP. You shouldn't ask even for sometimes because you'll never know how lucky or not you are by that time. But I agree, when someone has lost a lot, you're just going to blame yourself and you don't point out to anyone why you've lost. You're the one that gambled and played with that money so there's no involvement from anyone.
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April 18, 2021, 01:17:32 PM
I read your thread and I read your notes. But unfortunately, I was also unemployed in the past and then made gambling a source of income and that's fine because I don't owe money to gamble. But even though sometimes I owe money to gamble, fortunately I always return it sooner so that it exceeds the refund and that is a fortune for me. But yes, one of the most important things is not to go into debt to gamble as that will only make you more stressed. In addition, the most important thing for the gambler to be responsible is, when you lose you don't involve or take your anger out on close people and other valuables.
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April 18, 2021, 12:54:02 PM
Important Note : If you're jobless don't get into gambling, I'm an example. I don't have a job, and that's the reason I wasn't able to keep me deviated from gambling. Hope this helps someone.
No one should really put himself into gambling if he doesn't have his own source. That's the part that you cannot control yourself once you have a goal that you think it's already within your reach but didn't happen at all.

It is why that there will be those suggestions that say that it's best to gamble with your own money, not through loans. If you can't gamble with your own money, choose to obstinate your craving to gamble.

Choose to quit when you don't have anything in your wallet, never to lend money just to continue playing it will pull you down the more you try to push further the more deeper you'll suffer.
limiting yourself to use your spare money and not to exceed with that is very important, there are more losing to comes up so better not to engage.

Protecting your savings always start for you being responsible, if possible not to learned it the hardway but instead deal with it once you enter any gambling activities that you participate.
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April 18, 2021, 12:38:42 PM

Important Note : If you're jobless don't get into gambling, I'm an example. I don't have a job, and that's the reason I wasn't able to keep me deviated from gambling. Hope this helps someone.

Thank You
Not Unless you will Rob a Bank or Scam other people there is no way that a Jobless can still gamble . So this advise is clearly not the one we are talking here.

I was a Active or better called Addicted gambler in the past but i never did gamble whenever i have no Job or at least stopped from my Work.
You might have some money aside and think of gambling as an investment, a way to double/triple your money. OP suggests to not gamble if you have no other income, because if you lose, you are basically screwed and left with nothing.

Back to the subject, I've been through quite a few psychological/mental issues myself to know that none of them are worth to end your life, seek help from a professional and stay away from gambling, it's guaranteed to make you lose. I've seen it myself, thus I only gamble small amounts that I've mostly deposited from signature campaigns or old wallets which had a few bits in them.

Good luck and be safe, if you need someone to talk to, you could msg me. Sounds cheesy but I'd listen.
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April 17, 2021, 06:07:45 PM
This is the easiest way to fucked up your life or become miserable, get a loan and gamble it, even if you are good at gambling there is no way you can make money out of it, gambling is a way to make some fun not an investment where you can make a profit while doing it, you are talking of big money here which is already considered a fortune for many people from third world country like mine, I'll definitely not going to waste my money from gambling.

Unfortunately, some of the people are like that. the more you give them some hype to proceed to something that might lead them to destruction they will put their life at stake anyway. The OP is trying to tell us his past experience which will help lots of users who are daydreaming of becoming a millionaire in this industry which is mostly not gonna happen. This is hard for the OP but everything can be changed if you still have those "never give up attitude" in yourself. You will gonna move on just keep going your life would become easier after this decision of yours.
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April 17, 2021, 04:49:02 PM
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I often hear these stories and see people on gambling websites losing thousands of dollars in a matter of minutes, I can't even imagine what that feels like. Once I've lost around $100 just like you. At first, I lost, then I was chasing the loss, tried to win, then my biggest mistake - when I won I thought that I can maybe win some more and ended up losing everything and that felt horrible. But that's nothing compared to your losses and all these debts.
But I have a strict rule in my life - whatever happens never borrow money. That way you can only lose that what belongs to you, but at least you won't owe anyone anything.
It's good of you to share your experience here. Hopefully, people won't repeat your mistakes.
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April 17, 2021, 04:19:48 PM
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This is the easiest way to fucked up your life or become miserable, get a loan and gamble it, even if you are good at gambling there is no way you can make money out of it, gambling is a way to make some fun not an investment where you can make a profit while doing it, you are talking of big money here which is already considered a fortune for many people from third world country like mine, I'll definitely not going to waste my money from gambling.
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April 17, 2021, 03:23:34 PM
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Important Note : If you're jobless don't get into gambling, I'm an example. I don't have a job, and that's the reason I wasn't able to keep me deviated from gambling. Hope this helps someone.
No one should really put himself into gambling if he doesn't have his own source. That's the part that you cannot control yourself once you have a goal that you think it's already within your reach but didn't happen at all.

It is why that there will be those suggestions that say that it's best to gamble with your own money, not through loans. If you can't gamble with your own money, choose to obstinate your craving to gamble.
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April 17, 2021, 03:19:57 PM
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"There's nothing like getting rich quick" Financial success takes time, initiative and requires relentless effort "Those who gamble are deluded into thinking that there is a shortcut to success," Corley writes.

Instead, millionaires "get in the habit of pursuing their dreams and goals."

On the other hand, excessive alcohol consumption prevents you from becoming a millionaire since it damages your memory, the ability to think clearly and your health. That doesn't mean that you can't occasionally have a glass of wine or beer. Don't make drinking a habit.

Source : entrepreneur

Above is a briefing about gambling and drink from an article. Going through the article it attracted me, and the same made me realise gambling and drinking are almost same when we aren't able to have self control.

Note : If the post need to be deleted, please inform. Because, I've copy pasted from the article which isn't allowed in our forum.
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April 13, 2021, 04:56:29 PM
#95
I felt it when you explained your situation on taking gradual loan into gambling, I s geve worth it because gambling is not a source of income into someone Life, I have never encountered a successful gambler before, and so it's advisable to stay far away from making what will eventually make you become addicted to gambling.

If you can't control your emotions while playing bets, it will ruin your life to something else while you never win bigger profits, I immediately quit because I discovered that I wasn't profiting in any case.
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April 13, 2021, 04:02:24 PM
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In my village when people play cards I used to advice them, none know I'm into gambling. What they play for is not more than $5, and now I find guilty of being worse than them
by the time you gave advice it automaticaly records to them that you are a gambler because you wont have an idea of what your saying if your not one of them  .
if your good at giving advices you should also be the one that is well diciplined or else your only fooling your self around by lying .
 what advice did you gave out , to gamble what you can afford ? they gamble 5 dollars because thats the money they can afford . dont compare your self to them if you can afford gambling thousands of dollars
You do what you share or else you’re just guiding them to impress them and to tell that you’re s gambler too but in reality, you’re a terrible gambler.

You have a bad decision making, gambling without even money personally tells me that you’re gambling addict and the moment you gamble again using a borrowed funds, it’ll be more hard for you to recover. Pay all your debt, don’t gamble not until you fix everything, especially fixing yourself.
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April 13, 2021, 03:49:03 PM
#93
This is the worst that you can do to yourself gambling without a job to support you, ~snip~
Indeed it's bad behavior to gamble without having any certain jobs in real life, in fact lots of people out there still gamble with such condition either through traditional gambling or online gambling. What's make OP's case worse is he was gamble with borrowed money, doesn't have any certain jobs, and I can say he has huge enough debts in the first place.
Its really a suicidal act when you dont have a job and making gambling as a source of income? I dont know on why some people do have this kind of mindset?

You dont know that you cant rely into something or no source of income for you to sustain even up with your own living and now you do deal with gambling?

You would really realize things when everything starts to give out results.People should really stop on doing that if they dont like to suffer.
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April 13, 2021, 03:05:43 PM
#92
This is the worst that you can do to yourself gambling without a job to support you, ~snip~
Indeed it's bad behavior to gamble without having any certain jobs in real life, in fact lots of people out there still gamble with such condition either through traditional gambling or online gambling. What's make OP's case worse is he was gamble with borrowed money, doesn't have any certain jobs, and I can say he has huge enough debts in the first place.
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April 13, 2021, 01:22:39 PM
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In my village when people play cards I used to advice them, none know I'm into gambling. What they play for is not more than $5, and now I find guilty of being worse than them
by the time you gave advice it automaticaly records to them that you are a gambler because you wont have an idea of what your saying if your not one of them  .
if your good at giving advices you should also be the one that is well diciplined or else your only fooling your self around by lying .
 what advice did you gave out , to gamble what you can afford ? they gamble 5 dollars because thats the money they can afford . dont compare your self to them if you can afford gambling thousands of dollars

How can you make an adise if you don't have any experienced? Even you think they don't know about your gambling activities once you show something they'll feel it and know it inside them that you are indeed also one of them,

Curious if what advise did you give, as if it's the one that mentioned that very common but yet hard to execute once you are the one on the situation, making sure that you only use money that you can afford to lose.

It's been always that way but changes whenever you are already playing, losing control is the most common mistake, then regrets after losing or burning huge amount of money.
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April 13, 2021, 07:14:54 AM
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In my village when people play cards I used to advice them, none know I'm into gambling. What they play for is not more than $5, and now I find guilty of being worse than them
by the time you gave advice it automaticaly records to them that you are a gambler because you wont have an idea of what your saying if your not one of them  .
if your good at giving advices you should also be the one that is well diciplined or else your only fooling your self around by lying .
 what advice did you gave out , to gamble what you can afford ? they gamble 5 dollars because thats the money they can afford . dont compare your self to them if you can afford gambling thousands of dollars
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April 13, 2021, 05:25:29 AM
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Further went for another borrow. This time it was $1000, and made it grow little by little and reached $4500. The greed making $1000 more caused me empty my wallet once again. Further went for a loan, this time it is very big. Bought Bitcoin for about $9500 and started to gamble. This went to $14000. By then my mind remembered of the $35000 debt. So, continued with big rolls and the end result is a empty wallet. Finally within the 31 days what I've made is nothing, but raised my debt from $35000 to $47500 and has lost my savings of $2500. After all even thought of ending my life(now that's not in me). Never do the same as me. Now I've promised myself to take a break from gambling.
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Sorry about that, even the most calm and cold minded person can fall to a gambling spree. It is curious how psychology works... firstly you think that 1000 is not much and you need much more to make a difference in your life, but you know that betting goes both ways and if you loose you feel that you have lost your one shot to improve your financials, so you borrow.

If you are unlucky, which is what gambling is designed for, you will progressively convince yourself that you have to borrow more and become more sunken in debt. Now it is the time to work yourself out of it and unfortunately this is a hard lesson. Thanks for sharing.
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April 13, 2021, 05:18:15 AM
#88
Thank you for sharing and I am sorry for all that you had lost.
It will help a lot of users here that had been gambling way too far.

The amounts you spend though, I can't imagine myself spending that much for just making the game more exciting.
Yes, I put bets to have the joy of cheering for the team I placed my bet for and that's it.
Most of the time I just go for $5-10 and that's it. I try to dig every information I could obtain to have a higher probability of win.

Loans are also not a good idea. If you can avoid it, please do.
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April 13, 2021, 05:07:43 AM
#87
First it is Our money that involves when we gamble meaning that if we don't get responsive then we will lose our money.

Second once you turn to gambling ,you must make sure to become a person that has Self control and a good in all things to maintain your ability to manage your money.
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April 13, 2021, 04:38:25 AM
#86
Thanks for you honest words OP.
When you gamble you have to be really disciplined and you must never let your emotions get the best of you. It is a well-known phenomenon that once you lose money in gambling, you often want to win it back immediately to recover your losses. Most of the time, unfortunately, this leads to the fact that you increase your losses even further.
The best thing in my opinion is, that you only transfer a certain amount of money to a casino like for example 200$ or 0,5 ETH or any other amount of money that you can afford to lose and if you were unlucky and that money is gone then you have to be disciplined and you need to resist the urge to just send more immediately.
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