Topic: Be careful with people's money - page 3. (Read 2569 times)

As it should be considering that gambling is really just that molded or created for the sake of fun and entertainment on which making yourself that get released from stress and other emotional problems
that what makes this gambling games are really that relevant into this aspect. The wrong thing on here is that when people  do get that too much desperation then they do really that totally forgot
on whats the real essence and real purpose on why they do gamble. Sooner or later they will rally be having those kind of approach that gambling could make them rich on which this is really that very wrong.
On the time or moment you do find yourself having this kind of treatment towards gambling then you are just basically putting up yourself on such big trouble. So better not to make yourself
that being too confident on things because this might be causing up that huge problem in the future.

There are many such gamblers who dream of bigger wins after winning the first time. They think they can win more because they just started playing. They will bet more and more in the future. Thus they can lose their entire money at one point of gambling. However, the fact that not everyone will gamble in the same.

There will be some gamblers who can control them. They can stop at any time. Some gamblers get too excited at the first win and crave more wins and there are some gamblers who limit themselves to that stage. It is entirely up to the gambler himself what he will do. Those who have self-control will not suffer much from such activities.

Maybe to escape from reality through gambling is the mechanism these gamblers use to cope with frustrations and traumas, so they can forget their selves for a while, reducing the level of conciousness experienced, turning their attention to more instantaneous emotions, like pleasure and excitement, which are proportionated by gambling practice. Actually, every forms of addictive practices can be related to escapist mechanisms.

It means the addiction isn't the cause, but just the symptom of something else which is obfuscated inside the human self. We search and seek what we lack, and when seeking to get rid of negative emotions in disfunctional ways, we may result in developing addictions such as the gambling disorder, although there are other pretty common practices such as drugs and alcohol abuse, and even compulsive internet usage which is a modern tendency in our days. All of them very harmful if not addressed and reverted in time.

Psychologists discovered long ago that one of the most common reactions people experiment is denial, so when a gambler tries to earn money through their hobby and they fail, instead of accepting the result and understand they have been wrong all along, they decide that this was just an exception for one reason or another and they keep gambling, since they are convinced they can obtain profits this way, and things can get so out of hand that an addicted person may come to reject the reality in front of them, as accepting they have been wrong all along is too painful for them to accept.

Its suicide actually but people do really still consider out on making up such step because they are really that making themselves ending up miserable not unless if they would be able to win up huge or big into the moment that they've been using those loan amounts but on the time or moment that you do find yourself having those loses then this is where huge problem would really be starting on which on the time or moment that you do find yourself on trying to repay those loan+interest then this is where shit things happen. If you do took up some loan but having no inability to repay those loans back then you are really that digging up your own grave or simply this means that a huge problem. People wont really be able to realize on the things that they have done not until they would really be experiencing those consequences.

Its always been that ideal that you should really be that only spending on the amount which is really that extra or simply an amount on which that you can really that afford to lose.
Never ever took up some loan or make use of others money for you to gamble because this one would really be imposing that huge problem on which if you dont really like to have some
trouble or simply wanting to avoid such conflicts then better think up sensibly and responsibly on which its a must thing to have.

Gambling isnt only about money. Everyone wants to win big and make a fortune. Chasing losses and borrowing money to play is perilous. Thats when priorities slip. Betting with borrowed money is foolish. Thats stupid. I recommend enjoying the game's thrills without letting it control you. Remember its entertainment, not a career. Ask for help if you're in over your head. There's no shame in asking for aid.

As a player, It's hard to embrace reality in this level of mental condition. Simultaneously, the player gets so attached to gambling that he can't rescue himself out of the illusions of gambling wealth. They get to normalize the losing streak like it's nothing. Due to the regular thought of having to regain all that has been lost, the player can't accept reality anymore. They could further the journey with borrowed funds, doubling the distress. The self control is lost over time, though not the player's fault. This behavior is mainly possible for gamblers who don't care about their safety and runs after making big wins.

Those people simply do not live on the real world as we do, I could understand that early on they may think this way, however once they begin to experiment some losses and they see so many people that are going through the same thing, then the only conclusion possible is that on average people lose money when they gamble and that only a fortunate few can earn any money at all, however they are so divorced from reality that even when facing such results they will refuse to acknowledge the truth and prefer to believe their own lies.

It’s just that many players at first want to believe in the best and positively, but they forget that this is not a fairy tale, but real life, where there is often injustice, lack of luck and the appearance of obvious things. I am sometimes surprised how much people don’t want to see that the casino was created to make money, but some players don’t even want to hear this, they only think about how they will suddenly become rich and just leave. I think that we just don’t need to think that we are the smartest in gambling and show a little modesty, calmness and adequacy, and maybe luck will come to us itself, or maybe not.

You know this could be very hard to control because it's something that has already been deposited into the heart of most gambler if not for all because when they win it creates and triggers the adrenaline whereby they would have this lost control over it and start gambling immediately the winning comes, let me say winning creates more chances to increase the gambling speed in human but if not controlled it could lead them to more lost and off course lost can't be totally eliminated but can be controlled.

Not all people are susceptible to gambling addiction. Some first winnings can pull someone into gambling for life, and someone is able to spend the money won on something useful and never be interested in gambling again. In my opinion, it all depends on the psychology of each individual person, but it seems to me that most gamblers first big winnings give a false understanding that gambling can be seen as an easy way to make money. Unfortunately, some do not manage to get rid of this misconception.

That will happen to those who addicted to gambling. He can do many ways to have money to gambling. We never think that he will use that way and spend it all on gambling.
His self control is weak and can not prevents himself from not gambling and not trying to stay away from gambling because he is too far in gambling. He never see what is happening to him instead still gambling without think he has the problem and don't search for how to solve his gambling addiction.
He tempts of what he see from gambling and thinks that he can gets the money by playing gambling games. But he doesn't see that gambling can even takes his money immediately and makes him addicted to gambling.

It’s simply incredible how you could go so far in your addiction as to borrow three hundred thousand dollars from different people and spend it all on gambling! I think this problem with addiction takes a long time to form and he is a very long-time gambler, or has an unstable psyche, which makes his self-control weak. And of course, to these factors you can add great greed and the desire to get rich quickly.

A lot of people tend to have a different reaction to their first-time wins unlike what you and your classmates did, they gamble again after they win something significant from their first gambling session, and 20x is significant enough to make someone feel like they should gamble again and maybe they will be able to win something even bigger. Out of this thought and curiosity, some might gamble away everything they have won only to win something more with it.

Even if this doesn't make someone addicted to gambling, this will at least make them lose a lot of money. Some may stop in the middle after they see their luck isn't working and they are losing everything, but others won't stop because they feel they might win it in the next bet, and that win never comes.

Exactly, or the same as you giving the key to a candy store to a child, or the same as putting a carrot in a rabbit hole, but in cases like someone who puts money in one place like a bank or another for a specific purpose like saving or other reasons I think Indeed, we will never be able to know about the bad possibility for an employee to misuse the money we give, because usually this is a place that most people have trusted for a long time. But if the scenario is that you deliberately entrust money to someone without involving a third party such as a company, for example, then it might also make sense to blame you as the owner of the funds for not being careful in making decisions. And regarding the actions of gamblers who are addicted, I think they can do anything, because addiction is a situation where a person will do various things just to follow the curiosity, hopes and emotions that dominate him.

My most oftent questions is, will anyone want to chase a lose if he or she is not addicted already, because why I ask is for example I for once don't like losing and anytime I lose a bet, I become sad about it and for that I will seize from further gambling because I will need time to Nourse my loses since I use money to stake the games, so if I am not addicted tell me why then should I want to risk more simply because I want to recover from my previous loses, this doesn't make any sense to me at at the same time not a good way to gamble and anyone who's gambling parten is in this form, should already consider themselves to be addicted already.
I another thing is never taking a loan to gamble with, because doing so is only increasing your burden and pressure because when you lose, you will be faced with two situations which is how to pay off the debt and also how to overcome the pain of loses, this is too much for a gambler emotional state.

Sometimes these situations can be taken advantaged by a person that are suspected to run away with the funds and will play a reasoning that they'd say they've gambled and lost it, so that they'll not be chased anymore as if they cannot pay the fund anymore.

But those who stood by their principles and just screwed up by their emotions will have to pay the damages and cover the losses.

And to the ones that have actually done it, they have no conscience about people's money. They only think of themselves and that's so selfish. 

Well for me sometimes I would seriously blame those that contributed money and give him to hold because anything that involves money needs to be properly handled by someone who is very responsible so that no matter anything there money would always be safe but this days people are no longer careful with the kind of person they give the privileged of holding there money that's why different news about this scenario always happened.

Because I have also heard about someone that was holding up to millions for there contribution club and out of greed he went to stake all the money on gambling believing that he would use the money to secure himself more better opportunity from the wining he would get from the gambling but luck was not on his side and he loses everything and at that moment he realizes the terrible mistake he had made and from there he became depressed which resulted him to end his life knowing fully well that hewill not be able to pay the money, so is actually very important for people to really know the kind of person they would keep in charge of there money.

That is why gamblers must know how much money he can use to gambling to prevents his lose will becomes bigger. The important things is they don't have to use other people's money to gambling. That can leave them from the gambling so they will have fun playing gambling. If they used the money from NGOs, they must responsibly the money to people who gives their money for a good reason.

That will just gives them more problem and they can get arrested and gets in jail. Many reasons why we don't need to use other people's money because that can gives us many problem, especially if we lose that money in gambling. They will angry and wants to asks the money while we already lost the money in gambling. If they wants, we can gets arrested and gets in jail because we abuse the money that they gives to us.

No, that's simply not true. I mean, it can be true for some people, but they are certainly in the minority, otherwise gambling would banned everywhere. I'll tell you of my first experience with gambling. It happened when I was 13. Me together with two friends from my class, collected some money from breakfasts and bought one lottery ticket with it. And we won 20 times of the ticket price! We were so excited. But you know when was the second time that I gambled? It was more than 20 years later when I started paying online dice. And I also know that no one from my classmates has become addicted gamblers afterwards either.

It doesn't mean it's okay to play with other people's money if ti's an amount that you can't compensate right away, though.