Topic: Be careful with people's money - page 4. (Read 2532 times)

Well, all that you said it very correct, as it stands, it is a very bad habit to borrow money for the sole purpose of gambling, and this is because over the years, many have gotten themselves swallowed by debt, that they had to run away, while those who could run are now wasting away in jail.

But as much as we love to discuss the negative effects or result of such actions, we should not fail to also sometimes talk about the few ones that were lucky to meet their breakthrough as a result of borrowed funds which was spent on gamblimg, resulting in a very huge win which automatically changed the gamblers life even after repaying the borrowed money, such cases like this are very rare, but I happen to have come across one person with such experience.

Though losing money stinks, humans want to fight back. You dont dwell - you swing back. Gambling may not be sensible, but we do it. Our wiring is that. Gambling is seen as dangerous. While they realize the chances are against them, the exhilaration of a potential win is powerful. Its about hope and changing your life with one lucky roll, not just money. Real emotional.

We cant just stop people. Advising a hungry person not to eat. Learn why they're gambling. Their motives? Stress over money? Boredom? Loneliness? A solution is possible if you know the problem. Give them support and impulse-control tools. Show them how to leave when they're in too deep. Show them there's hope and life outside the casino. Not judging, but empowering. All of us have made mistakes and been down. Recovering matters.

Yea, quite a difficult temptation to resist if the person is already a gambler, but sometimes the person might not really be a gambler. Just someone who wants to do something for the first time, probably because they see other people doing it or someone has advised them to try their luck. For example, there was one pharmacist in my town who had a very big pharmacy, and he was very rich, but his profession was his major source of income. One day, his friends advised him to step up as a candidate for a political position. The man bought the idea, so he bought the form and started campaigning for the position. Cute story short, the election was conducted, and he lost it. Meanwhile, he had already spent all his money to carry out the campaign and did things in the town to buy the minds of people.

Some people are advised to gamble even when they are not gamblers. 

Most gamblers basically take out loans and borrow money in many cases to gamble. No matter how rich a gambler is, it won't take long for him to go bankrupt if he bets repeatedly to recover his losses in gambling. I have seen many such gamblers who took money from NGOs and gambled and later ran away when the NGO could not pay them back. Many have been arrested in cases of non-payment of NGO money. So for the time being, before gambling, you have to control yourself and engage in gambling with the goal of paying the money of others.

Trusting a compulsive gambler with money is like handing out a fish for a cat to secure. There is a length of permissiveness found amongst people who go ahead with trusting such gamblers. Which shows they also lack the control to dispel a close friend who possess similar qualities. The gambler's unawareness claim keeps them in this unmethodical lifestyle for a lifetime. They'll always come up with excuses that dismisses the opportunity to take responsibility. Amazingly, when caught they're allowed to go scot-free after their flimsy excuses on why they spent the money.

Usually people try to invest with borrowed or loaned money so that he can get more money from that investment and later he can repay his loan but there are many of us who borrow and gamble. If they think of gambling as an investment then it is wrong because if you put money here you will get fast and if you are unlucky it will be gone. And if he takes a loan from the bank, he has to repay the money regularly otherwise he will lose everything. No one advocates keeping money with this kind of risk because there is no guarantee. Moreover, gambling is an uncertain platform and there will never be certainty. If a gambler has no money to lose then he should never gamble as it will bring disaster to his personal life.

Borrowing money would really be just that relevant on the moment that you would really be considering on applying or making use of it on means of investment or business but if you are really that making it
as a capital into your gambling addiction then this is something that will really be that too risky and dangerous on which we know that when it coems to this aspect then it would really be that basically
needing up that kind of consideration on the actions that we are taking. Its not bad to gamble but on the moment that you are already trying out to stole other peoples money or making use without permission
then it is really just that good that you are stealing or could be considered one.This is why it would really be up to you on what are the things that you should gonna do.

It would really be just that too impossible that you wont really be able to make yourself be wary about into this condition but on the moment that addiction is really just that too much
then you would really be having that behavior that you just dont care on what are the things that do happen.

This applies not only to gambling, you can borrow from someone or a loan from a bank only if you already have a good plan that brings profit and even more money will bring even greater profit. But if you are thinking about borrowing money after a loss, and the player does not have any money left to continue playing, then you need to think about what the outcome of his further losses may be.

If you say mismanagement of money, that is like an understatement to me. This is topically lack of trust because if people don’t trust you, they will never give you their money in order to do something, but you end up using the money to gamble just because you are greedy and lack trust. Although some might be in such situations not just because they are gamblers addicts, they might see a hope of winning the gamble, which will arouse their interest in spending more money so that they can get higher profits. forgetting that gambling is a 50/50 scheme where either you lose or you win, but too much hope can lead you to such issues. 
 
I know a story about someone who tried gambling with the money for a contribution but succeeded. To me, there is no point in whether you succeed or not. All this is not supposed to happen because if people trust you and give you their money, I don’t see why you will have that in mind that you will use their trust on a risk that just defines you as more selfish than holding people's trust, which is not supposed to be that way.

All of us here will definitely agree to say that anything related to money will be very sensitive, I have seen many relationships between people become fractured because of money. No matter whether they are friends, close friends, relatives or even family, money is one of the biggest factors that makes their relationship bad. Moreover, if we associate this with gambling, it will twice be something that can destroy a relationship between someone.

I had this experience which I happen to know the story of because I witnessed it myself. At that time one of my friends was gambling using his cellphone, but at that time the battery was low, I don't know what prompted him, he told my other friend to use his cellphone and log in using the same account and let the friend he borrowed his cellphone from play. Luck came and got a pretty big win, then a friend who was the account owner immediately withdrew it.

This is where the problem started, my friend who owns a cellphone wants 70% of the winnings withdrawn, while my friend who borrowed his cellphone only gave 30% and in my opinion that is also a large amount, because he only has his cellphone. From there their relationship immediately started to get worse, but now their relationship is as usual and even better. From here we can learn that anything related to money is very dangerous because it threatens relationships that were initially good.

Hmm, maybe I would say that this is why there is a saying that sometimes crime does not always happen because of intention but often happens because of opportunity, and this opportunity turns into a temptation which is quite difficult for some people to ignore, and in the end they try to take advantage of this opportunity even though it is considered a negative action because it can harm other people.

Moreover, if the person is already involved in gambling, or is a fairly active gambler, then of course the temptation of this opportunity will really be something that is difficult to ignore. And I would say that at that time they were played by hope and confidence in themselves, thinking that maybe by taking advantage of this opportunity they would be able to win at gambling and multiply their money and take the profits along with replacing all other people's money that they had misused. , but the problem is that they don't understand that gambling always happens randomly without being based on any certainty or guarantee regarding winning, in the end luck is not on their side and inevitably they have to get caught in a case.

Well, some of them are not usually like that, but just temptation leads them into carrying out actions that they themselves did not plan for. Someone who exhibited such a habit in my country was being interrogated about his actions, and what he said was that he didn't even know what pushed him to use the money, whereas he doesn't usually do such. Some people do that out of greed; they see someone else doing it and being lucky, and they decide to do so too, all for the sake of multiplying that money and becoming rich. There's this civil engineer in my place; he has not been seen till date because he ran away after losing project money to gambling. 

This is a misconception about gambling especially in the mind of new gamblers. You don’t approach gambling with a mindset of revenge to recover your losses. People who already familiar with gambling know about this and it’s perfect time to take a break because any further action will trigger the loss.

Unfortunately, people have changed the narrative of gambling entirely to another different thing. Gambling is not longer seen as entertainment as it used to be before, they now see it as a Ponzi scheme where money can be doubled in no distance time. The damages this has caused to others is very visible to all but people prefer to learn by experience. If you used borrowed money to gamble, you will suffer the consequences of debts that you probably lose for nothing.

People who lose more money gambling tend to make mistakes that they realize are wrong but they still do them, such as behavior that leads to pursuing losses that have already occurred. Of course, this is not recommended because it will only make them experience big losses and become more trapped in gambling which will make it difficult for them to get out, even though they are aware of the actions they are taking, but it is because of their desire to win that drives them so strongly that they continue insists on gambling by forcing himself to win. If they gamble with borrowed money, of course it will be difficult to return the money, what's more, what they will most likely experience is a loss, even though they have a certain amount of money, the main thing that comes to their mind is to double it again when gambling, hoping that a miracle will happen by being able to win. the big one unfortunately is not certain either.

that's how important it is to be able to risk the amount of money that we can afford, we have to be able to let go of the money at stake if it's lost and not worry about it or think about it all the time because if we do that it will only make us unable to accept defeat and want revenge which leads and guides us on gambling again and again. That's what must be paid attention to and must be avoided, besides gambling using other people's money is bad, risking more than we can afford is just as bad.

I have almost seen some gamblers lose all their money and try to recover their money by gambling and gambling. But they may not know how to pay back the borrowed money if they lose the gambling game and start gambling with loans. I think  We have to gamble with just that amount of money that we can accept if we lose money and can carry on normally. But some gamblers don't think about these things and lose extra money for gambling and fall into a lot of tension.

Some people don't just think about the implications of their decisions before they go ahead and make them. For example, most people who fall victim to Ponzi schemes are victims because they did not even think well about the investment and did not consider what their faith will be if the investment becomes unprofitable. Such people who don't think twice before investing can make wrong investment decisions, and in terms of gambling, they can gamble with money that doesn't belong to them. 

This is strange, I only know of women using their husband money to do things that will favour them. What I do frequently see is the opposite where the husbands use their wife money to gamble and promise to give them back but they don't and that's how the marriage do have hiccups. They forget that women are fragile in nature and many of them hardly forget when you owe them money even though they are doing okay financially, they will always remember.

If you want to have a successful gambling journey and peaceful one, stay away from debt from your close friends and families, from your wife or husbands so you don't lose to them and be responsible because addiction is another big problem that has broken some relationships, some marriage and some families. Nobody will want to associate with an addicted gambler that know nothing about life than gambling.

That's right, I'm sure that very few gamblers will think in this way, in fact I'm sure that most of them don't know about how big their losses are while they are gambling, and I would say that usually in gambling 10x losses can be replaced by just one or two wins, not about the number, but about the feelings felt by the gambler, and this is a cycle that will continue to be experienced by gamblers as long as they are involved in gambling, especially for those gamblers who make winning a priority.

Talking about the total number, I am sure that all gamblers must experience more losses than wins, but not everyone realizes this, which is because they are too focused on winning so they easily forget all the losses they have experienced because there is hope of realizing a big win, and we can see the proof that as time goes by, gamblers who always treat gambling excessively end up losing various possessions that they own or are left with debts. Nobody gets rich in the long run from gambling except casino owners.

Trust, betray? Their yin and yang stand for what it means to be human. Even though your connection may seem deep, there is always doubt. Unpredictable kindness and violence are part of being human. It's not about good or bad; it's about people and their situations. Loyalty or treachery isn't always easy to guess. Hey, man. Look at every encounter. You have to trust someone, even if it's dangerous. When it comes to people, trust is the biggest risk. You win and lose all the time

Read over your story. Socialite picked you out of everyone else. Why? Not just on the surface. People are drawn to choices that have been made in the past. Not their bank account, but finding small patterns in how they act is what counts

They hardly leave a trail, unless you happened to be a very close friend. At that, similarly, their whereabouts would be complex to trace by his loved ones. Such dissatisfaction can be escaped by implementing a circumspect attitude towards anyone who tries to lure us into unsure investments or it's equivalent. Since they have same formation for their actions, those who appear to us in similar manners shouldn't be given enough ground to permeate into our financial life. Except for their carelessness, the overall quality of such people is explicitly made that only the very smart, experienced people would bypass their bad attitudes.