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November 01, 2023, 12:53:24 PM
here we should be able to differentiate between gambling and addiction. whatever it is, if you are addicted, the impact will not be good for yourself and the people around you. gambling will not affect our relationships or other things if we play normally and can limit ourselves. but if it has entered the addiction stage it will clearly damage ourselves and affect our relationships with the people around us, including our wife or children.
Gambling can actually cause problem to our relationship when we put all our mind,sould and emotions in it,and it is also then that we become addicted to it.One time ago when I was less busy,and the only thing I had to be doing was gambling,I had problems with my girlfriends almost everyday because she hates it,and I couldn't help myself but to continue in the act that she hates.Sometimes I see that the reason why some persons gamble is when they lacked something serious to do,it will make them think of nothing else but to gamble.
It takes an understanding girlfriend or wife to cope with this and tolerate all of these all in the name of love.
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November 01, 2023, 12:23:46 PM
I have many friends who have long become gambling addicts in a way that I personally did not expect. I can make a comparison between their personalities before and after indulging in gambling. The changes that occur in the personalities of gamblers can never be hidden because their behaviors and habits change to adapt to their new psychological situation, given that gambling addiction falls within the category of psychological diseases and all of its symptoms can be studied based on analytical psychology.
What is most striking is that spending all their time gambling makes them busy all the time and they do not have opportunities to pay attention to other things, and thus they become neglectful of themselves and their relationships in their small environment.
Honestly, it is easy for people to judge whether someone is a gambler or not, by looking at or paying attention to both the psychological and physical condition of the gambler. People who have been involved in the world of gambling for a long time will eventually see changes in themselves, such as appearing restless and quiet when they experience defeat.

Yes, that's right, I have also seen gamblers who are busy with their gambling activities such as online gambling, every day they are busy playing with gadgets so they forget and are not aware that there are activities that are more useful for them. In their daily lives, they tend to be closed and busy playing with gadgets at home, they rarely communicate or socialize with friends around them.
This can be easily explained based on psychological findings that say that there are certain types of personalities that are more likely to be addicted. These types are unproductive and do not have skills, and therefore their awareness of a happy life is summed up in quick profit based on luck and not on employing capabilities or skills. The more advanced the age, the more the person becomes defeated in the face of his whims and the less he believes in himself. In this analysis, I mean the majority of addicted gamblers and not that group of wealthy people who like to spend time spending money at the casino tables. These people have the same diseases but different diagnoses.
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November 01, 2023, 10:54:48 AM
The problem is most people think gambling is easy not until they try it for themselves . And when they try to prove a point that they can conquer this with their sportting knowledge, emotions get the better of them and this doesn't only negatively affect their financial well-being but day gets runied and whoever they come in contact with can feel the negative energy coming from such a person , hence gambling can indeed ruin a relationship!!!

And the worst thing about gambling is that if you aren't winning,you could find your self in debt and if you fail to payback this could ruin your business relation with creditors, and if creditor is your friend this could be the end of the road for such a relationship.
Numerous people think that by learning a little about sports, they can easily guess the result and win a lot of money. Sure, but as you said, its not that easy. Feelings are strong, especially when money is involved. And what happens when those feelings suddenly explode? It can definitely make the whole day bad, and everyone around can feel it.

Worryingly, gambling has a lot of negative effects. It can be hard on relationships, and when you owe money as well as losing it, things get even dirtier. I think its important to remember that business and personal ties can overlap, especially with creditors. The problem is so much messier if the creditor is a friend. A real web of problems, isnt it?
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November 01, 2023, 10:46:29 AM
here we should be able to differentiate between gambling and addiction. whatever it is, if you are addicted, the impact will not be good for yourself and the people around you. gambling will not affect our relationships or other things if we play normally and can limit ourselves. but if it has entered the addiction stage it will clearly damage ourselves and affect our relationships with the people around us, including our wife or children.
If so, we must control our gambling activities so that we know whether we have started to become addicted to gambling or whether we are still within the limits of reasonableness so that we can still gamble while remaining careful. If everything is still under our control, we will not have any problems with gambling, and of course, it will not have a bad effect on our relationships with the people around us. For this reason, we must continue to learn about self-control and not lose self-control because that will cause many problems to happen to us and the people around us.
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November 01, 2023, 09:10:37 AM
here we should be able to differentiate between gambling and addiction. whatever it is, if you are addicted, the impact will not be good for yourself and the people around you. gambling will not affect our relationships or other things if we play normally and can limit ourselves. but if it has entered the addiction stage it will clearly damage ourselves and affect our relationships with the people around us, including our wife or children.
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November 01, 2023, 09:08:09 AM
The problem is most people think gambling is easy not until they try it for themselves . And when they try to prove a point that they can conquer this with their sportting knowledge, emotions get the better of them and this doesn't only negatively affect their financial well-being but day gets runied and whoever they come in contact with can feel the negative energy coming from such a person , hence gambling can indeed ruin a relationship!!!

And the worst thing about gambling is that if you aren't winning,you could find your self in debt and if you fail to payback this could ruin your business relation with creditors, and if creditor is your friend this could be the end of the road for such a relationship.
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November 01, 2023, 09:00:51 AM
Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems. Gambling which was meant to be a popular kind of entertainment for many and was designed to provide a temporary escape from everyday life and also help one to be more observant mentally task your brain and it is also good for your mental brain. When it becomes an addiction it causes financial strain the strain can manifest in various ways including the loss of shared savings, debt accumulation, and financial secrecy which may lead to strained communication between partners. This communication breakdown can prevent couples, friends, and associates from working together.
Aside from financial instabilities, emotional turmoil and social isolation the most and common problem is your time with your love ones. Since you spend more of your time with gambling you will miss the precious and quality time to bond with your family. This is where family problem will emerge due to the gap between the family members.
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November 01, 2023, 07:00:56 AM
the one I witnessed was a man his wife told to stop gambling due to the fact that they hardly feed well and the little they have the husband will use it for gambling , so when she tried so hard to stop the husband and he refused so she had no option but to leave the man.

That's so bad. Why don't people select partners who love what they are doing? I see that some partners have issues because of the love their husbands have for football. If I want to get married today, I want to make sure that my wife is someone who likes what I like, and vice versa. Some gamblers are the reason why their relationships also get ruined, just like the example you gave. Someone who has family to take care of is still wasting the little money they get on gambling, and they don't even make any wins. They are the kind of gamblers that even stake on big odds because of their greed to make a huge win. I know I gamble, but I don't spend a lot on gambling; there are more important things to take care of. Even if I gamble, I will only sacrifice a small amount for the fun at that moment.
Maybe the reason is that before they get married, they didn't discuss each other's hobbies and vices? because for me, if I know that my partner is having an obsession in gambling which may affects in our future marriage life, I'll think twice before I agree on getting married not because I don't love him but I want to know first if he can sacrifice to leave the gambling for the sake of our future or not. I don't want to suffer to the things that I didn't do in the end. If you're partner doesn't want to change for a better then think and decide what should you do.

But isnt marriage or relationship is about finding compromises for each other, finding unite solution and making sacrifices. We are all imperfect. Ok, you will think twice before marring a guy who has gambling obsession. But he might also think twice before giving you a ring if there is something that does not suit him in your relationship. If your future husband must sacrifice gambling, what will you give up to make things equally? It is hard for an adult to change habits, and making changes "just because" isnt correct, as I believe everything must be balanced.

There's always sacrifices when dealing with things like this. Honestly speaking, it's tough to embrace someone with knowing that
there's a possible gambling related issues.

To be fair with your future wife, are you also willing to embrace a girl with a possible gambling problem? But, I like the way you provide your opinion.

It's a balance that both individual needs to weight before taking the responsibility. There's always a way if both parties will discuss and
talk about the possible way to balance their relationships.
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November 01, 2023, 06:45:41 AM
I have many friends who have long become gambling addicts in a way that I personally did not expect. I can make a comparison between their personalities before and after indulging in gambling. The changes that occur in the personalities of gamblers can never be hidden because their behaviors and habits change to adapt to their new psychological situation, given that gambling addiction falls within the category of psychological diseases and all of its symptoms can be studied based on analytical psychology.
What is most striking is that spending all their time gambling makes them busy all the time and they do not have opportunities to pay attention to other things, and thus they become neglectful of themselves and their relationships in their small environment.
Honestly, it is easy for people to judge whether someone is a gambler or not, by looking at or paying attention to both the psychological and physical condition of the gambler. People who have been involved in the world of gambling for a long time will eventually see changes in themselves, such as appearing restless and quiet when they experience defeat.

Yes, that's right, I have also seen gamblers who are busy with their gambling activities such as online gambling, every day they are busy playing with gadgets so they forget and are not aware that there are activities that are more useful for them. In their daily lives, they tend to be closed and busy playing with gadgets at home, they rarely communicate or socialize with friends around them.
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November 01, 2023, 06:35:21 AM
the one I witnessed was a man his wife told to stop gambling due to the fact that they hardly feed well and the little they have the husband will use it for gambling , so when she tried so hard to stop the husband and he refused so she had no option but to leave the man.

That's so bad. Why don't people select partners who love what they are doing? I see that some partners have issues because of the love their husbands have for football. If I want to get married today, I want to make sure that my wife is someone who likes what I like, and vice versa. Some gamblers are the reason why their relationships also get ruined, just like the example you gave. Someone who has family to take care of is still wasting the little money they get on gambling, and they don't even make any wins. They are the kind of gamblers that even stake on big odds because of their greed to make a huge win. I know I gamble, but I don't spend a lot on gambling; there are more important things to take care of. Even if I gamble, I will only sacrifice a small amount for the fun at that moment.
Maybe the reason is that before they get married, they didn't discuss each other's hobbies and vices? because for me, if I know that my partner is having an obsession in gambling which may affects in our future marriage life, I'll think twice before I agree on getting married not because I don't love him but I want to know first if he can sacrifice to leave the gambling for the sake of our future or not. I don't want to suffer to the things that I didn't do in the end. If you're partner doesn't want to change for a better then think and decide what should you do.

But isnt marriage or relationship is about finding compromises for each other, finding unite solution and making sacrifices. We are all imperfect. Ok, you will think twice before marring a guy who has gambling obsession. But he might also think twice before giving you a ring if there is something that does not suit him in your relationship. If your future husband must sacrifice gambling, what will you give up to make things equally? It is hard for an adult to change habits, and making changes "just because" isnt correct, as I believe everything must be balanced.
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November 01, 2023, 06:27:15 AM
But to save yourself and your family, stop gambling if you cannot moderate yourself and have time for your family and relationship.
Life has to have choices, but never forget the relationship with anyone who is close to us, like family, never choose one of them, whether it's family or gambling, actually we can still gamble if we are still in the right control stage so that we control it. We can gamble well, at least never gamble so deeply that we forget about our family and sink into it. It will obviously affect our relationship with our family.

Personally, I maintain a good relationship with my wife and family, even though I gamble, they know I gamble, but I still spend much more time with them than gambling, and the money I give them is much more than the money I spend gambling. online, luckily I'm still at the small gambler stage so I only bet less money so it doesn't disrupt my family's economy, but if we can't control it, it's best not to gamble or reduce gambling activities.
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November 01, 2023, 05:58:41 AM
the one I witnessed was a man his wife told to stop gambling due to the fact that they hardly feed well and the little they have the husband will use it for gambling , so when she tried so hard to stop the husband and he refused so she had no option but to leave the man.

That's so bad. Why don't people select partners who love what they are doing? I see that some partners have issues because of the love their husbands have for football. If I want to get married today, I want to make sure that my wife is someone who likes what I like, and vice versa. Some gamblers are the reason why their relationships also get ruined, just like the example you gave. Someone who has family to take care of is still wasting the little money they get on gambling, and they don't even make any wins. They are the kind of gamblers that even stake on big odds because of their greed to make a huge win. I know I gamble, but I don't spend a lot on gambling; there are more important things to take care of. Even if I gamble, I will only sacrifice a small amount for the fun at that moment.
Maybe the reason is that before they get married, they didn't discuss each other's hobbies and vices? because for me, if I know that my partner is having an obsession in gambling which may affects in our future marriage life, I'll think twice before I agree on getting married not because I don't love him but I want to know first if he can sacrifice to leave the gambling for the sake of our future or not. I don't want to suffer to the things that I didn't do in the end. If you're partner doesn't want to change for a better then think and decide what should you do.
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October 31, 2023, 08:14:05 PM

Gambling actually becomes a problem when the gambler does not manage his time well. I do not think the spouse would complain if everything is being done at the appropriate time. You do not gamble during a conversation,  at the dinning table,  during family outings and bonding. If the gambler is able to schedule his activities well, the spouse has to respect that too. This way, everyone is allowed to live their lives without losing anything.

You are absolutely correct in noticing that gamblers have problems not only because of losing money due to gambling. But also because gambling takes up too much time. But this is also an important indicator of our life. After all, nothing is given so dearly as time, and nothing is wasted so easily. The abyss for your family or loved ones is a real disaster. Therefore, you need to devote only part of your time to gambling, even if you are an economically successful gambler.
But when gambler can be more responsible and can control every gambling activity, their finances and time will be managed well and they can also easily determine when is the right time and how much money to use as gambling capital.
So there is no reason for us to destroy relationship if we can control all the important aspects when gambling.

Time and finances are two parts that can make us lulled into experiencing bad things if we can't control both.
It is very important for all gamblers to prioritize what is certain for the future rather than just prioritizing gambling.
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October 31, 2023, 06:57:45 PM
That isnt gambling so much as lack of respect and basically near theft to leave someone hungry and gamble their cash isnt right.  I'd say equally that applies to alcohol or any number of wasted spending, you have to have equal respect in a good relationship or it will not last.   That or be so rich money doesnt matter at all, few of us are so lucky.
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October 31, 2023, 05:59:02 PM
the one I witnessed was a man his wife told to stop gambling due to the fact that they hardly feed well and the little they have the husband will use it for gambling , so when she tried so hard to stop the husband and he refused so she had no option but to leave the man.

That's so bad. Why don't people select partners who love what they are doing? I see that some partners have issues because of the love their husbands have for football. If I want to get married today, I want to make sure that my wife is someone who likes what I like, and vice versa. Some gamblers are the reason why their relationships also get ruined, just like the example you gave. Someone who has family to take care of is still wasting the little money they get on gambling, and they don't even make any wins. They are the kind of gamblers that even stake on big odds because of their greed to make a huge win. I know I gamble, but I don't spend a lot on gambling; there are more important things to take care of. Even if I gamble, I will only sacrifice a small amount for the fun at that moment.
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October 31, 2023, 05:38:50 PM

Gambling actually becomes a problem when the gambler does not manage his time well. I do not think the spouse would complain if everything is being done at the appropriate time. You do not gamble during a conversation,  at the dinning table,  during family outings and bonding. If the gambler is able to schedule his activities well, the spouse has to respect that too. This way, everyone is allowed to live their lives without losing anything.

You are absolutely correct in noticing that gamblers have problems not only because of losing money due to gambling. But also because gambling takes up too much time. But this is also an important indicator of our life. After all, nothing is given so dearly as time, and nothing is wasted so easily. The abyss for your family or loved ones is a real disaster. Therefore, you need to devote only part of your time to gambling, even if you are an economically successful gambler.
So many see that the only disadvantage of gambling addiction is the tendency to lose money. Beyond losing money, if someone is truly addicted, they will not have good time for themselves, let alone for relationship. The gambling time will affect every of their lives since they will be gambling every time and everywhere without moderation. This is possible because of the online based casino. That is one of the disadvantages of the online casino. You can be anywhere, anytime which is what ushers in addiction.

But to save yourself and your family, stop gambling if you cannot moderate yourself and have time for your family and relationship.

Even if a person has a lot of money to play, they will hardly spend all day playing at the online casino, so that person will not spend all their time playing at the casino. What causes a person who enters the world of addiction to harm their relationships with their spouse, parents, uncles, grandparents, children and money. That's right, the most common problem that always becomes a reason for fights in the family is money. the person addicted to gambling, they take money intended for food, money intended to pay water bills, electricity bills, children's school bills, money intended for family outings, money intended to buy clothes

and we all know that women like to buy clothes and more things to look beautiful, and when in a house the wife starts to see that she has no more money to pay bills and asks where the money was spent and discovers that her husband took money to gamble at the casino, then she starts fighting with her husband and asks for a divorce. This is because it is almost certain that the guy addicted to gambling will lose his job because he stole money from the company he works for or if he does not have access to the company's money, then he will sell some assets from the company he works for and sell it to have money. to continue playing. and it will destroy the family because the company will report the theft to the police and the guy will be arrested
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October 31, 2023, 09:41:38 AM
I have many friends who have long become gambling addicts in a way that I personally did not expect. I can make a comparison between their personalities before and after indulging in gambling. The changes that occur in the personalities of gamblers can never be hidden because their behaviors and habits change to adapt to their new psychological situation, given that gambling addiction falls within the category of psychological diseases and all of its symptoms can be studied based on analytical psychology.
What is most striking is that spending all their time gambling makes them busy all the time and they do not have opportunities to pay attention to other things, and thus they become neglectful of themselves and their relationships in their small environment.
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October 31, 2023, 09:32:04 AM
I have always said that friendships are one thing and business is another, there is a saying where I live that says: "Clear accounts preserve friendships" this totally applies to what can be done in multiple scenarios, where basically things can go the same way. hand that if a friend has the account in common with another in a casino, they must take care of it even if it were their own, this to avoid that if one loses the other loses it and plays in an irresponsible manner, in fact in these cases it is always good do or say that to keep things right you should do everything as much as possible so that the other person knows each move, in fact if a friend joins the casino session it would be great if he could record the entire gaming session so he can see how is that it was done, in case you lose, know that it was fulfilled with the usual plan or the plan that they have agreed on how to play, that is what I would think is fine, because that is very delicate when there is money from two people, because that lends itself to many fights.

Whenever there are things like this, what I recommend is that everyone has their own account and that way there are no fights, because if there was someone who made a mistake or assumed it and lost their part, then nothing happens, it is the responsibility of that one person. I operate when there are things in society that means having to fight, that's why I say a friendship should always be strengthened, it should never be put in danger and even less because there is no money involved, as a good player I have been suggested friends who put money in and who I play, even so I tell him no, because if I lose all that money I will be embarrassed, then that will become a very strong pressure, and I will not want to damage anything, neither friendship nor being seen with someone taken advantage of or something like that, I prefer to give them the link to the casino and I will tell them how to do it so that they can do it themselves and if they lose then it is their responsibility. and not mine.
If someone gambles too much and too often while they are in contact with other people in their environment or their family, they can experience many problems. We know that in gambling, we will not win too often. At least for most people, they will rarely get that win. And if they lose, they can become frustrated and when they meet the people around them, they may get emotional if those people say something bad to them. That can trigger arguments between them, damaging their relationship and making it difficult to repair. That is why, if a person gambles in a casino, he must be aware that his gambling may affect his relationships with other people, especially when he loses a lot. But if someone can be responsible with their gambling, their relationships with other people will also be fine and nothing will happen to them because they can still maintain their relationships even though the gambler may experience losses but the losses are still within reasonable limits.

But if they feel that when they gamble, it can have a bad influence on what is around them, they should start reducing their gambling activities and not use money as before. They realize that there are effects that can arise when they win or lose and even though it is normal for them, they should start reducing their gambling. We cannot jeopardize or take risks with our relationships with other people because we are in daily contact with them, while we do not gamble all the time and only gamble periodically. That's why we have to be able to control our emotions after we finish gambling. Most people will lose self-control after they finish gambling because they are still thinking about what happened to them before they finished gambling.
This is somewhat complicated, because at least with me things are different, I do play and if I do certain things, if my wife doesn't like them, then I'm sorry, those are the things I do for fun, because that doesn't affect her, What happens is that we are a little more daring, we can have and do activities that do not affect them, but I'm sure that when sometimes women start playing a lot and it goes badly for them, they are obviously upset, but that pain is not They have to take her to the family level because in the family it is no one's fault that she has lost, and if she is in a bad mood she immediately has to change her mood, because no one is to blame, then that is something that is must manage so that they can have better results, a person cannot spend all the time looking to be well and doing things so that they can generate simple things, among them ensuring that with the game or with any other activity it does not affect the family, things are They must know how to differentiate, do you have problems at work? Well, those problems are resolved at work, the same goes for play.

There are many types of relationships, when women take control and return nothing to the husband, doing what they say, or the opposite, and it should not be like that, in my case I always say what I do, because I like to do it, I am also somewhat shameless in that I do not give importance to what others think unless they tell me to my face, that is the only thing, but for the rest I do or what I want, as long as I respect my wife, that's what I know. Try this, if there is no affectation we should not feel bad or let ourselves get carried away that things will go wrong because of us, because it does not make sense and things are sometimes like that in casino games, so in every relationship I consider that it is always We must understand that the activities that our partners like must be respected as long as it does not affect the relationship negatively.

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October 26, 2023, 06:11:45 PM

Gambling actually becomes a problem when the gambler does not manage his time well. I do not think the spouse would complain if everything is being done at the appropriate time. You do not gamble during a conversation,  at the dinning table,  during family outings and bonding. If the gambler is able to schedule his activities well, the spouse has to respect that too. This way, everyone is allowed to live their lives without losing anything.

You are absolutely correct in noticing that gamblers have problems not only because of losing money due to gambling. But also because gambling takes up too much time. But this is also an important indicator of our life. After all, nothing is given so dearly as time, and nothing is wasted so easily. The abyss for your family or loved ones is a real disaster. Therefore, you need to devote only part of your time to gambling, even if you are an economically successful gambler.
So many see that the only disadvantage of gambling addiction is the tendency to lose money. Beyond losing money, if someone is truly addicted, they will not have good time for themselves, let alone for relationship. The gambling time will affect every of their lives since they will be gambling every time and everywhere without moderation. This is possible because of the online based casino. That is one of the disadvantages of the online casino. You can be anywhere, anytime which is what ushers in addiction.

But to save yourself and your family, stop gambling if you cannot moderate yourself and have time for your family and relationship.
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October 26, 2023, 03:48:59 PM

Gambling actually becomes a problem when the gambler does not manage his time well. I do not think the spouse would complain if everything is being done at the appropriate time. You do not gamble during a conversation,  at the dinning table,  during family outings and bonding. If the gambler is able to schedule his activities well, the spouse has to respect that too. This way, everyone is allowed to live their lives without losing anything.

You are absolutely correct in noticing that gamblers have problems not only because of losing money due to gambling. But also because gambling takes up too much time. But this is also an important indicator of our life. After all, nothing is given so dearly as time, and nothing is wasted so easily. The abyss for your family or loved ones is a real disaster. Therefore, you need to devote only part of your time to gambling, even if you are an economically successful gambler.
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