Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 2. (Read 6122 times)

Don't blame slot machines or your friend for your terrible gambling issue. There's enough of junk to attract us, but we can use our intelligence. Avoid complaining about influences, billboards, and peer pressure. It's weak, man, weak! You fell for that crap because you couldn't say "no." No self-control allowed you to leave. You suddenly act like a victim, like the world owes you

The world doesn't owe you shit! You control your life, choices, and actions. Gambled, and now you're paying. Life is a rollercoaster of temptations and distractions. We all screw up sometimes, and that's okay. Never give up on yourself. Don't let losing streaks define you

Change, evolve, and improve yourself. So get off your ass, own your faults, and make better decisions. If you can't do it alone, ask help. Nothing wrong with that. Life is too short to be regretful. Stop blaming others and take charge of your life

Most of the gamblers want to have a quick win. That's pretty common in society, no effort and all benefits. That's what most people search for.

They want a pill that solves everything. They are happy to pay money for it. And even if it is simply the possibility of doing it, they are happy to pay for that service.

It's possible that it could happen, because I also have a friend who, when he loses, blames the casino for being stingy with his winnings, but I think that's a normal thing, when he loses, it's just that he wasn't lucky. with those who blame the casinos, maybe because they are trapped by the advertisements that the casinos put up, which usually say that big wins are easy to get, which makes many people fooled, but I think that's a natural thing, because it's not just gambling, all businesses will of course advertise One way of making a profit for the company is by making advertisements to attract lots of people so that they are interested.

That's right, indeed we must be able to take responsibility for the actions we take because the actions taken and the final results that occur are of our own will, so we must be able to do our best when the final results have occurred. If indeed at the beginning we were invited to gamble by friends, so even if you lose at gambling, I don't think you need to blame the friend who invited you, because if you're not interested in gambling then you don't need to respond to the friend's invitation.

People are greedy and they want to become a multi millionaire with a day with gambling, is it happens but putting yourself under that situation is not good because if you lose after every you have to win big then you will definitely have a strong financial problem.

True, but as far as I know gamblers among my social circle, 90 percent of them will blame the casino. They will make independent decisions, completely ignoring the odds. They won't analyze it. But once they lose, all the curses of the world fall on the casino platform, on the fact that they lured the poor gambler with their advertising.
It looks funny from the outside, but it's sad.
Everyone should understand that his actions are only his responsibility.

Yes, what should be noted here is the idea of “following up” as you said which means that no matter how much advice others give you, it is still ultimately up to you to decide whether you will agree to follow the advice given by others or not and prefer to gamble with your own decisions without the involvement of other people's advice. In the end, however, it's a decision you make on your own accord, regardless of whether you make the decision based on the advice of others or the results of your own thinking.

But in the end it is clear that blaming others for your own decisions is unwise unless the person really forces or threatens you with various threats that can harm you but if they basically just say a suggestion without being accompanied by force or threats then it is clear as you said above that it looks very ridiculous when we see gamblers who blame others or other parties for their losses.

It's unimaginable for gamblers who have spent years in the niche to blame other people for their problem. That's a height of lesser experience in the game. Such things seem like a disadvantage in telling people about gambling. They can get problems and link it back to you as the cause. It sounds weird to hear an adult blame others for gambling compulsively. Pointing accusing fingers on other people who are not affiliated to the problem, makes no sense.

Was thinking addiction is mainly driving people to play compulsive. Not sure all addicts blame people for their problem. I think it has to do with the lifestyle of the player. He could be the type that doesn't take responsibility for his actions. Gamblers to bypass being blamed at, need to be sure of the people they discuss gambling with. Each individual have unique behavior. Some could get addicted and still comply to advice and change at a time. Others can remain that way causing trouble in the society.

On the time that youve seen that you are losing and indeed applying on whatever advises or tips and tricks that they have given then it would really be just that a normal reaction or approach that you would
be really having that kind of blaming to those people who are really that involved but its true that they have nothing to do with your gambling loses since you are the ones who do really follow up their
suggestions and tips but they arent forcing you to follow and make use of it on your gambling activity. You would really be just that finding yourself that laughable on the time that you would really be pointing out your fingers into others and blaming them with your loses. lol. Gamble on your own risks and spend on the funds that you can afford to lose so that you wont really be ending up stressful.

Blaming others for your losses can only be confirmed when they force you to follow their advice and input when making decisions, but if they had absolutely nothing to do with your decision-making when you were running the session then clearly involving others with your losses by blaming them for your losses is far from wise.

After all the decision to get involved or to take a risk is always our own, meaning it makes no sense to blame others for our losses, unless the scenario is like what I said above such as the person is forcing you even with a threat to follow their advice, but I think it is unlikely for a gambler to force another gambler to follow their advice with a force, your gambling session is not that important to them unless you are gambling with their money.

That's because looking for someone to blame is a part of human behavior. Especially if it is something like gambling, losing money will hurt someone not only financially, but also mentally. In the end, if they open things up to someone else, the first thing they would look for is how would come up with the idea of gambling or how come they decide to gamble. Blaming someone can make them feel relieved if they at least realize that the reason why they end up losing money in gambling is not mainly their fault. But the truth it, they are the ones who took action and decided on every bet they placed...

 
We said.  I know one thing for fact that losers and those who fail always blame and they keep blaming others, circumstances for as cause of there failure. Because they refuse to take responsibility of there action. Blaming are for losers, likewise someone Blaming others for your loss in gambling, were you blind when you gamble or place the bet, lol. It is really funny, the same reason they will end in the web, because they refuse to let themselves know the truth.

Gamble responsibly, so you won't blame someone for your own negligence and error.

In general yes usually people will be able to learn or be able to gain knowledge when they experience bad things that are not desirable where the experience tells them that in the future they should not do the same thing, that is true but what we have to see here is that this is gambling which is an activity that involves a person's feelings and emotions which usually in some cases they do not realize and return to making the same mistakes such as chasing losses because they are unable to control themselves when they lose.

So I recognize that bad events can teach us lessons not to make the same mistakes but if we're talking about gambling then obviously it's really hard to stick to a plan, or what that means is that even if for example you've agreed with yourself not to make the same mistakes but still at the end of the day there will always be situations that are really hard for you to ignore especially when you see some temptations that look tempting when you're running a session, or when you have difficulty holding back your emotions so that it allows you to act out of control. So I think the cause of this is their mistake in terms of understanding what gambling is, because if for example they understand that gambling is about the chance of winning and the possibility of losing then they will definitely be able to accept the situation of losing and will recognize that losing is part of gambling.

First of all, I don't have a habit as a gambler to blame others for the loss, because I myself decided where I want to play and bet the time I want to grow by playing gambling in a casino here in the field of crypto business.

It's not good to blame other people for our loss when we play gambling, because we knew ourselves that they really have nothing to do with our loss every time we play gambling.

If your financial unstable, it's better not playing gambling at all because that will be for your safe. You can save your money for the other things or your needs so you don't have to feels difficult to fills your needs. But many people doesn't listen to the suggestion and still playing gambling because they thinks that playing gambling can gives the wins which means they can earn money. But that will not easy because they must spends much money which they don't knows when they can make money. They will wastes their money for playing gambling because they don't knows when they wins. When your friends asked you to join them to playing gambling but your financial is unstable, you don't needs to follows them. You can say that you don't have much money to be used for playing gambling. So you don't have to blame someone because you don't follows them playing gambling.

Well, I hope they realize what they did wrong because sometimes even though they have experienced defeat many times, they still don't learn, they don't think that maybe they should realize where they went wrong or what they should avoid so that they don't end up being in harm. Many people say that a person will learn better when they  experience a situation on itself, but from what I see, not everyone comes out like that because there are still many people who are ignorant of the situations they face, the only thing that matters to them is to have fun and win.

They should realize that their mistake is not because they experienced defeat and blamed other people, but their mistake was why they did not first understand the causes and risks of the gambling they were playing. Gambling games can be the cause of someone experiencing a bad addiction if they are not able to control it and it will also become the reason why someone goes bankrupt if they experience a big loss, only brave people are able to take this risk and it not recommended for weak people or blaming other people who have introduced this game, of course a friend has advised him that gambling is a risky game unless he turned a deaf ear to the risks.

Yes, usually people who cannot accept losses or losses are people who are childish and are usually beginners who are a little surprised by gambling because they thought they could make some money through gambling but in fact they couldn't get it and ended up losing. He blamed other people for introducing gambling to him and causing losses.

When your financially unstable, you really don’t need to be gambling much. If you must gamble, you should definitely have a plan. You first ensure to plan how to use your salary through the days that would take you to getting your next pay cheque and you don’t gamble that.

Gambling gives hope to the financial unstable persons I know not, you still get to play within a range that gives you some freedoms about how you use your available finance. Taking high risk shouldn’t be a means to seek the huge win. You have your accumulator options, you go with the odds that really seem feasible for you although, it not alway works but, often these odds play out.

This is not peculiar to new gamblers because even old gamblers still get their emotions activated during gambling. I think it is a normal thing because gambling is sustained by hope which is undoubtedly emotion. The only thing different is that older gamblers have learnt to manage these emotions properly to be able to avoid the temptation of taking irresponsible risk.

Regarding the subject of discussion, gambling have age limit attached to it and anyone who have hit that age is expected to be able to make his/her own decision and also take responsibility for the result of such decision. So I do not think it is morally and legally right for any gambler to blame losses on another person irrespective of what transpired.

That's one thing many individuals fail to understand, everyone has a choice to make and in a case where an individual is not forced to make the wrong choice, then they've got no right to blame anyone for their errors. Take for instance, someone come  across an influencers bet on the media, find it interesting and decide to copy their predictions, if it happens that the predictions didn't come through, such individual has to right to call out the influencer cause he wasn't forced he copied the predictions on the social media at his own will.

 At the end everyone would be held responsible for their own actions, therefore before you copy anyone's predictions as a gambler you must be prepared to take responsibility of your actions if things doesn't work out as planned not putting unnecessary blames on someone else. Also every individual who's a gambler must have consider the risk factors involved before going into it.

When it comes to betting, or anything in life really, you have to own your choices. Following someone else's picks, even if they're a so-called expert, leaves you open to frustration if things dont pan out. The reality is, nobody knows for sure, thats the nature of the game. Advice is helpful for research, but it shouldnt replace your own judgment. Its your money on the line, so gotta be your call at the end of the day.

You said you're only betting money you can afford to lose - thats the right mindset. Betting's all about risk management. Its not just finding the winner, it's about knowing how much you're willing to put on it. When you build your own plan, you learn more than the results of a single bet. You start developing your gut instinct, and that, my friend, is priceless.