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Quote from: DiMarxist on March 17, 2024, 07:15:34 AM

Even someone took them to play on the game and they finally loss the game with the amount showcase here, they don't have to nlame anyone but o themselves. Because there were two options for them to select. Either they say no or accept the influence. And they accept the influence and luck gone out from them. And I don't think in the amount would just leave the opay without their permission. That their part of the story is like a blasphemy because Opay is one of the best online banking apps in the country.
And we don't have to blame anyone foe our downfall and mistakes we do in life. Gambling is purely for luck and if you don't have the luck to win and anyhow you try there would be no win. So they should not blame the App.

Even if someone is invited by a friend to gamble and experiences a loss, he cannot blame the friend, because if he didn't want to experience a loss, he should have been able to refuse the friend's invitation to gamble from the start. Moreover, I think the losses that occur with the gambling that we do are purely our own actions, even though when gambling maybe our friends give us advice, but when it all ends in defeat, it feels unethical to blame other people for the losses that have occurred. In my opinion, don't worry too much about losing at gambling because it is something that definitely happens in gambling, whether someone is invited to gamble or with their own desire to gamble, losing is still unavoidable.

What you say is true, no matter how we try, even if it is based on instructions from experienced gamblers, if we don't have luck in gambling then there will be no winnings to be had. because in any gambling game, in my opinion, winning is based on luck, including gambling that is based on skill to be able to play it.

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I mean surely they get greedy here, not understanding how dangerous gambling can be, now that they lose their money they are going to accuse someone of storing their money, I mean that was really absurd for sure, and someone that is on a normal mind wouldn't really going to think of something like that easily, or thinking that they would get away with that, That would need a lot of evidence in order to be believable in the end if someone is going to investigate there accounts they will clearly see that it is they're doing and not someone else doing.

I just can't imagine this mother agreeing or probably shes the one who is starting all of this, instead of being a mother she influences his son to gamble or vice versa supporting his son's gambling addiction, probably she already get blinded by the money, probably they are getting a lot of wins from the start thinking that they are going to be a huge winner in the end, but their greediness end up backfiring to them ended up losing all of them accounts money. It's not actually a bad thing to do to gamble but it is a very dangerous thing for someone who doesn't understand it, but as long as you don't make it a kind of source of your income you would be fine.

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Quote from: DiMarxist on March 17, 2024, 07:15:34 AM

Even someone took them to play on the game and they finally loss the game with the amount showcase here, they don't have to nlame anyone but o themselves.

Putting a blame on someone for gambling losses is as if am taking my responsibility as well on such a person to determine what will be my out come on gambling experience, as you already stated, we have the right in making our own decision without anyone's influence, if we receive any, then we are interested in such and that doesn't vested all our right on that person in making decision for except we personally allow for that, we have to take heart upon every result seen with the way we gambles, which is not anyone's responsibility than ours to make decision on what we want, since its our money involved likewise our game which we should take charge and be responsible for.

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Actually the concept is very simple, if you are not ready to bear the risk, then never do something that has a risk in it. Every gambler must be prepared to take responsibility for the losses that befall him, the influence of other people cannot be used as an excuse as the cause of the losses he experiences. Logically, if someone blames someone else for their losses, they should also give that person tips if they succeed in winning some money from gambling.

In gambling life, sometimes other people can influence the decisions made by a gambler regarding his choices. For example: the predictions of someone who understands football strategy and understands the potential strength of his opponent can influence the decisions of gamblers who do not fully understand football, this happens in gambling life. Sometimes it is profitable, sometimes it can also be detrimental especially when the predictions do not match reality.

Blaming others for gambling losses is never good, especially because you are the decision maker. If you ask someone to predict something and their prediction is wrong, then blaming them is unreasonable.

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Quote from: leonair on March 17, 2024, 06:19:31 AM

People who blame others for their gambling losses are basically ignorant of the concept of gambling. Gambling is always a risk, so if anyone thinks that it is a simple and easy way to earn money, then he is definitely wrong. And always take responsibility for the loss while gambling. There is no room to blame anyone for this. Where gambling never guarantees profit, why would a person jump into gambling after listening to others. And knowing the risk of gambling, why would a person blame others after losing a gamble?

Actually the concept is very simple, if you are not ready to bear the risk, then never do something that has a risk in it. Every gambler must be prepared to take responsibility for the losses that befall him, the influence of other people cannot be used as an excuse as the cause of the losses he experiences. Logically, if someone blames someone else for their losses, they should also give that person tips if they succeed in winning some money from gambling.

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I don't know why this is still on ongoing topic but what I want to read right now is if the Mother and Son are doing right by now or still doing dishonest stuff that would make their lives even worse. I'm hoping they changed so that they would be able to be accountable and understand what they did.

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Judging by what author write about this case, their fraud has been exposed. They will most likely have to face charges of perjury. That is, problems were added because of their wickedness. They also violated one of the main rules - not to use money that you cannot afford to lose.
And as for the fact that there are people who want someone else to pay for their food, then such people have always been there and will be, unfortunately, from human nature we will not escape anywhere

I see your point and that's exactly what happened, they pointing the blame to someone thinking that they can manipulate the situation and escape freely from what they've done, but they did not succeed, they need to pay and they need to suffer from the mistake that they both did, there's always a price when you do something that exceed from what you can afford to lose.

They need to take the blame and serve the sentece for both of them, they deserve it and hopefully they learned from that
mistake that they did and not to do it again.

no matter what happens, blaming other people for our actions and decisions won't change the past
the craziest thing is that even the victims have a parcel of responsibility on the situations because they could take different paths on their decisions
I'm the first one to avoid victim blame but we are in a network, no thing happens by one agent alone, things are connected.

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Quote from: shivansps on March 17, 2024, 08:20:51 AM

Judging by what author write about this case, their fraud has been exposed. They will most likely have to face charges of perjury. That is, problems were added because of their wickedness. They also violated one of the main rules - not to use money that you cannot afford to lose.
And as for the fact that there are people who want someone else to pay for their food, then such people have always been there and will be, unfortunately, from human nature we will not escape anywhere

I see your point and that's exactly what happened, they pointing the blame to someone thinking that they can manipulate the situation and escape freely from what they've done, but they did not succeed, they need to pay and they need to suffer from the mistake that they both did, there's always a price when you do something that exceed from what you can afford to lose.

They need to take the blame and serve the sentece for both of them, they deserve it and hopefully they learned from that
mistake that they did and not to do it again.

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How can two persons be so addicted to gambling that they'll go to such an extent?

They started slowly with not being able to control themselves with gambling away small amounts till it finished, it is why as they were exposed to such a large amount they became unable to control themselves.

If you can question this people and ask them how they gambled aways that kind of money without realising it or stopping themselves, they will say they did not know when. This is the height of addiction.

As individuals we should be careful entrusting money to people who we know have a gambling problem.

Start slowly or fast it wouldnt matter because if you are a type of person whose really that get easily impulsive when it comes to winning or losing but on the time that you would really be losing big time then this is where you would really be making yourself having those kind of reasoning and things in mind on which you would really be having those blaming into other people.
Actually this is something which is really that a very common gambler behavior but if you are someone whose really that easily make out those kind of recovery and moving on then
its good but if you are someone who doesnt really accept losses then you would really be ending up with this path. This is why its important that you should really be having control.

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Quote from: Baki202 on March 17, 2024, 10:09:55 AM

Quote from: Unbunplease on March 16, 2024, 12:17:00 PM

Often a person tends to blame their failures on anyone or anything but themselves. This is characteristic of many people. Personally, I try to first find a mistake in my own actions, and then look for someone else to blame. If you do not make righteous conclusions, the losses will continue, although they could have been easily prevented

I do not think blaming anyone will solve any problem and it was not as if you were forced it was a choice and you decided anyone who blames me would be surprised by the answer he would get for me. The important thing is that people do not even know that I gambled in the first place. Nobody will even come and meet me for gambling advice because I do not give gambling advice. and I do not see a reason why I should get people involved in my gambling story. I trust myself, whether I win or lose and the finale is that you have to decide whether you want to bet on a particular game or not. Everything about gambling is in your mind. Just make a choice and accept what comes with it. That is what real gamblers do. So if you are still having issues deciding, then you will have a problem winning because you don't even know what is right at that time and that is why some of them are looking for people to blame.

I also think like this, what happened is that as I said before, many people do not assume that they are wrong or maybe they feel like saying that they were Wrong , so they resort to blaming others for what they do, and if a person He listens to another person to make a type of play and loses, the fault is not the other person but the person who Bet , Why ? It's simple if I have money I see how I spend it and how I play because it's my money , so when it comes to these things we are players who must learn to mature Certain things , firstly not looking for Excuses with others , secondly controlling ourselves in the finances that are read to play, because you cannot play and lose all the money.

So we as players must understand that if we start playing we are responsible for our actions , if we do what others tell us it is our Responsibility , then we do not have to blame others for what we lose , because I can play in a certain way Well, they can give me advice on what to do, but it's up to me if I decide to do what others say, or if it doesn't seem like it to me, then I won't do it and that's it But what I assume I must accept the Consequences , that applies in a casino and in life.

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Yes simply it all depends on ourselves because the key is always about whether you are able to take responsibility for the decisions you have made or not, if not then think again and consider thoroughly using a rational mindset, lest you always end up with regret and disappointment due to your own actions that are not in accordance with your abilities. We come back to the real fact about gambling which is that it is a probability activity which means it is nothing more than a "possibility" of winning or losing, you or anyone else will never know the outcome at the end of the session because everything is random.

Therefore one of the reasons why we should bet within our means such as by using a budget amount that you can afford to be responsible for is because gambling always runs with the uncertainty of winning or losing while losing can never be tolerated, therefore of course it is best that we focus more on some precautions such as limiting the budget amount, It doesn't matter if you follow other people's ways but what is certain is that you must be able to account for everything at the end of the session, we must think of the long-term good rather than temporary pleasure, because many gamblers at that time also lost all the winnings they managed to get because they did not comply with the things that were suggested for their own good.

Gambling is fun when done well. I've always taught understanding your bounds, playing within your means, and taking full responsibility for your actions. Absolutely - its about potential, not certainty. Life is about that, right? Taking risks, making judgments, and adapting. This is a mindset, not just gambling. You need mental fortitude to manage ups and downs in a casino or boardroom.

These gambling recommendations are life lessons: limit your money, take responsibility for your actions, and prioritize the long term over the short term. Remember, gambling and life success depend on taking calculated risks and never regretting them. Have fun, play intelligently, and win in life and gambling.

Yes simply like that my friend, gambling will be really fun and you will feel the pleasure when you come with the right mindset and understanding that can ultimately make you treat gambling as recommended, In fact, the key is only this, namely having the right understanding along with knowing and realizing that risks will always lurk at any time so that with this then I think that indirectly you will be able to do the recommended things without having to be told by others, or the point is that gamblers who have the right understanding they will know what to do and what to avoid for their own good.

If we look at it from another point of view then I think gambling is like a place to train yourself, it's not always about winning or losing, but how good you are at dealing with problems and also how disciplined you are in following the things that are suggested for your own good as you said in terms of limiting money, time involvement and expectations in mind in the long run, this is the key so that you can remain a responsible gambler.

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Quote from: Unbunplease on March 16, 2024, 12:17:00 PM

Often a person tends to blame their failures on anyone or anything but themselves. This is characteristic of many people. Personally, I try to first find a mistake in my own actions, and then look for someone else to blame. If you do not make righteous conclusions, the losses will continue, although they could have been easily prevented

I do not think blaming anyone will solve any problem and it was not as if you were forced it was a choice and you decided anyone who blames me would be surprised by the answer he would get for me. The important thing is that people do not even know that I gambled in the first place. Nobody will even come and meet me for gambling advice because I do not give gambling advice. and I do not see a reason why I should get people involved in my gambling story. I trust myself, whether I win or lose and the finale is that you have to decide whether you want to bet on a particular game or not. Everything about gambling is in your mind. Just make a choice and accept what comes with it. That is what real gamblers do. So if you are still having issues deciding, then you will have a problem winning because you don't even know what is right at that time and that is why some of them are looking for people to blame.

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Quote from: Dewi Aries on March 16, 2024, 11:35:52 AM

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Every person has their own limits in terms of finances or finances in their lives and if we measure this with other people's abilities then it is usually always different, it could be that your financial situation is better than others or vice versa, and if on the contrary in the sense that your financial situation is not as good as other people or other gamblers then yes of course it is not recommended to follow their way of betting especially if you follow it along with putting the same amount, because it is likely that the amount they think is small but for you it is an amount that may be very meaningful.

But on the other hand if you only follow the method without following the amount of the bet then maybe it doesn't really matter as long as the key is that you must be able to take responsibility for your decision to follow other people's bets if in the end it turns out that the results are not what you expected. Actually, the whole key is back to whether you are able to take responsibility for your decision or not and it doesn't matter whether you gamble using your own method or following others.

Yes, it is true that everyone has the ability to risk their own money and this will also influence the good and bad of the circumstances in their life, therefore it is true what you say, it is better to bet according to the limits of our own abilities. because that's a better way than imitating others. This is different from betting which cannot be reached with our abilities because it could have bad consequences for us of course.

Yes simply it all depends on ourselves because the key is always about whether you are able to take responsibility for the decisions you have made or not, if not then think again and consider thoroughly using a rational mindset, lest you always end up with regret and disappointment due to your own actions that are not in accordance with your abilities. We come back to the real fact about gambling which is that it is a probability activity which means it is nothing more than a "possibility" of winning or losing, you or anyone else will never know the outcome at the end of the session because everything is random.

Therefore one of the reasons why we should bet within our means such as by using a budget amount that you can afford to be responsible for is because gambling always runs with the uncertainty of winning or losing while losing can never be tolerated, therefore of course it is best that we focus more on some precautions such as limiting the budget amount, It doesn't matter if you follow other people's ways but what is certain is that you must be able to account for everything at the end of the session, we must think of the long-term good rather than temporary pleasure, because many gamblers at that time also lost all the winnings they managed to get because they did not comply with the things that were suggested for their own good.

That's right, the key is in yourself, namely the gambler must be responsible for himself for what he has done, whether the results are profitable or not. Gamblers must be wise in accepting and responding to it.
Agree with you that gambling is irregular or there is no certainty in it, the safest thing is to bet according to our abilities, imitating other people is the wrong decision, especially if the results are often losing and we cannot accept it. the point where we blame others. then it is a stupid action because we should not do something in such a way, you could say we are not wise and responsible gamblers.

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Quote from: DiMarxist on March 17, 2024, 07:15:34 AM

Even someone took them to play on the game and they finally loss the game with the amount showcase here, they don't have to nlame anyone but o themselves. Because there were two options for them to select. Either they say no or accept the influence. And they accept the influence and luck gone out from them. And I don't think in the amount would just leave the opay without their permission. That their part of the story is like a blasphemy because Opay is one of the best online banking apps in the country.
And we don't have to blame anyone foe our downfall and mistakes we do in life. Gambling is purely for luck and if you don't have the luck to win and anyhow you try there would be no win. So they should not blame the App.

I think they are gamblers who have absolutely no responsibility in themselves so they end up blaming others when it turns out that the results at the end of the session are not what they want, and also it seems that they are gamblers who come with the intention of earning or to seek victory so that when they lose they are unable to accept the fact of losing. On the other hand, gambling is obviously a game of probability, which means that it is nothing more than a possibility that will lead you to an uncertain outcome between winning or losing.

This means that whoever it is will never know about the results at the end of the session and obviously with this then you should not blame others for your defeat, anyway I think there is no need to follow other people's ways of gambling because gambling is largely dependent on your luck which means you can also win when you are lucky, on the other hand I don't have a problem if you want to blame others provided that they force or even threaten you to follow their advice or something they say.

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Judging by what author write about this case, their fraud has been exposed. They will most likely have to face charges of perjury. That is, problems were added because of their wickedness. They also violated one of the main rules - not to use money that you cannot afford to lose.
And as for the fact that there are people who want someone else to pay for their food, then such people have always been there and will be, unfortunately, from human nature we will not escape anywhere

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Even someone took them to play on the game and they finally loss the game with the amount showcase here, they don't have to nlame anyone but o themselves. Because there were two options for them to select. Either they say no or accept the influence. And they accept the influence and luck gone out from them. And I don't think in the amount would just leave the opay without their permission. That their part of the story is like a blasphemy because Opay is one of the best online banking apps in the country.
And we don't have to blame anyone foe our downfall and mistakes we do in life. Gambling is purely for luck and if you don't have the luck to win and anyhow you try there would be no win. So they should not blame the App.

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Quote from: Unbunplease on March 16, 2024, 12:17:00 PM

Often a person tends to blame their failures on anyone or anything but themselves. This is characteristic of many people. Personally, I try to first find a mistake in my own actions, and then look for someone else to blame. If you do not make righteous conclusions, the losses will continue, although they could have been easily prevented

this kind of characteristic belong to irresponsible people that have no idea that world doesn't owe them anything.
gambling is form of an entertainment and people who gamble should know well that they are putting their money at stake and they and their own self is the one thats doing the deed.
sometime some people are so out of touch that they are detached from reality thinking they deserve better but certainly they don't when blaming other people for their own losses.
because these kind of people won't share the good thing when they are winning only sharing the sorrow if i met such people i will get away from them the second i know their characteristics.

There are many such irresponsible gamblers who blame others after losing but it is their wrong decision. Gambling should be seen as a form of entertainment and here the individual is responsible for his own loss as we all know that no one can give exact guarantee of winning in gambling. Here the stakes are high and loss prevention is never possible. It is foolish to go with this type of person who is irresponsible and blames others after a loss.

People who blame others for their gambling losses are basically ignorant of the concept of gambling. Gambling is always a risk, so if anyone thinks that it is a simple and easy way to earn money, then he is definitely wrong. And always take responsibility for the loss while gambling. There is no room to blame anyone for this. Where gambling never guarantees profit, why would a person jump into gambling after listening to others. And knowing the risk of gambling, why would a person blame others after losing a gamble?

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Quote from: Rabata on March 10, 2024, 08:16:35 AM

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Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

Ignorance of some gamblers is the main reason for making such complaints. But as far as I know those who make such complaints know themselves that there is no use in making complaints against the person. But digging into the reasons why he would make that complaint, it turns out that there are some gamblers who can't squeak past their losses. They refuse to accept that they have lost. They feel that if the blame can be placed on others, they can give themselves some relief. These are some emotional steps for that person but as a gambler one should never act like this. Moreover, it is a fact that since the gambler himself is responsible for the gains and losses, there is nothing but damaged his own dignity by blaming others.

I wonder why a gambler will point finger at another for their misfortune in gambling because gambling is a choice of which whatever decision or action you take while gambling is to your own detriment even if you choose others decisions because even if someone tries to convince you on the reason why you should follow their advice, it is your duty to choose whether to listen or not to take their advice seriously instead of blaming the person.

Those days when I was much younger a man went to stake a game, on reaching the gambling hall, one of his co gambling friend told him to remove one of the events in his ticket and replace it with his own event and the man foolishly obeyed and removed it, when the results were out, the event that was removed played according to prediction whereas the one the friend gave him failed woefully, so why blaming your friend when you can possibly bet your game the way you predicted without listening to him or even if you were to follow his advise is not to have left your own but you can still play your own and play his own predictions as well so no body should blame anyone for their gambling losses.

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Quote from: Pi-network314159 on March 16, 2024, 11:12:57 PM

Yea changing pattern and improving your gambling skill is better of than cautioning blame on someone for your loses. There are people who always find a way to put blame on people for there own mistakes. Like one day, I went to the casino hall to bet a match I saw a guy that played a game, he was the one that made the mistake by calling another match and I was at there when he called the match to play, but his intentions where in another club. So when the paper print out came out, it was not the intended match and he caution the blame on the casher, even when ahe was the one who made the mistake.

That's right, instead of blaming other people for losing from gambling, it's better for us to introspect ourselves, or as you said, improve our gambling skills, but that doesn't mean we have to gamble excessively. We also have to be able to take responsibility for our own actions, as you see in casinos finding people who blame the cashier, in my opinion he cannot be responsible for his own actions. Even though we should do something then we can receive the results because it is a choice of the actions we take, as well as our own desires that drive them.

Don't try to throw stones and hide your hands, if you lose by gambling, just accept it, because that is normal. It is not natural for us to blame other people for the losses we get due to the gambling we do. I'm sure all gamblers have experienced defeat. This is not only about winning and losing, of course responsibility is also needed in this case, gamblers who are said to be professional will always experience losses with the gambling they do, thinking maturely is a must but if you blame other people for the losses that occur, I think that is not mature thinking.

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Humans are cunning and would blame anybody to remove pressure from their heads, just see how irresponsible they are to gamble such huge amounts that they know they can't afford to lose and then blaming someone else for it even up to the point of sewing them to court. Thank God it didn't go their way who knows what would have happened if it went otherwise.

Gamble at your own risk and don't blame anyone for your loses, its better you make your own game than even request from someone else, it's not easy to get good games, so better gamble with what you can afford to lose.

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