Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 9. (Read 6130 times)

Sometimes it depends on the role of the person in the whole scenario because for the gambler to transfer the blame, he may have been put into a position to compromise his own will and take on the advice of another person and if he lost at the end he may blame the person for the outcome.


However, if you have to follow your instinct and also not to easily get carried away into believing any form of advice to choose a bet in a particular direction, it is better to always follow your instinct.

Gambling requires responsibility. Because no one will take that responsibility after gambling. the one who deposits the money has to accept the loss of that money and even if there is a profit, he will enjoy it and he can give it to others if he wants. that would be his absolute will. but if there is a profit, as he can share the profit money with someone else as he wishes, everyone will laugh at it. but if you lose it, no one will share it and take any kind of responsibility. so you should think twice before deposit your money on gambling platform to gamble

You are very selfish and a very bad person when you blame others for your losses in gambling. There is no reason for such situations, to be honest. What is it that just because you don't want to admit to yourself or to us that we are really the ones who make mistakes, we will actually pass it on to others?

From the beginning, we should not think that every time we play gambling, we will double the money we entered in a casino. We don't trample on other people or feel bad just because of our mistake.

I think that taking responsibility for what we do should be the standard but its not really what we see around the world
most people want to blame things that are outside them for the situations
not once, or twice
but every time.

Yes, this is really that a real to life situation on which this isnt really just that limited to gambling space but also in other aspects in life as well on which people would really be tending to give out those kind of blaming time
even if its just because with your actions and thats why you have that taken then you would really be blaming unto others just some sort of defense mechanisms because you dont really like to accept
on whatever wrong decisions or actions that you've been done on which it would really be just that a common real day to day happenings on which we can see not only on gambling.

Speaking about blaming someone with your loses then you are really just that making yourself that laughable. Why? You are trying out to blame someone with your actions that you had made out
without even trying out to realize that you are the ones responsible on the acts you are making.

If you check this story Verry well I think this said amount used is not an amount is not the money of the mother and son. It might just be an inherited money from the husband of the woman in question. Because there is no possibility for a woman to work very hard and make that amount of money and spend all in gambling. Women are very strict when it comes to spending money, that is to say that the money is an inheritedoney . But even as that, it should be used wisely.

Sometimes it is not out of ignorance. I remember 10 years ago when I gave a bet attendant some football games to help me play since I hadn't started gambling online. After she played the game I didn’t cross-check the game to confirm the matches and the options if that was really what I gave her. Sadly, what I gave her to play entered but she made a mistake in the game and that cost me the win. In this kind of situation who will you blame? I blamed myself though for not confirming the game but then if not for her mistake I would have won so she could be blamed to an extent.

I advocate that gamblers should recognize that they are solely responsible for their wins and losses in gambling so apportioning blame is not ideal. A gambler must be accountable for the risk he has taken and the outcome of the risk.

I think it's a very common thing. I've observed this in many areas in life, not just gambling.

Many people like to blame anyone else except themselves.

I don't think it's a great way to live, because in the end there's no way to change other people, so by blaming them you are removing your power to change and become better.

In my view it is best to assume everything is your own fault. At least that way you have a way to change yourself for the better in the future.

They pretend as they don't want to be blamed from the mistakes that they've made, something that a addicted gambler can do to escaped from a failure that messed up with their finances,  both the mother and the sons should take and accepts the responsibility instead of pointing their fingers to someone,  giving an alibis instead of accepting the truth,  though they've still need to serve their mistakes since the government did not just by the things that they've mentioning and the truth still comes up.

However gambling is always about whatever decision you make, or that means you are the one who owns and makes decisions about the gambling you do, and for the problem of the results at the end of the session of course as you said here that those who make decisions are those who must be responsible for whatever will happen at the end of the session. And if indeed the situation of blaming others only for losing in my opinion this can happen if you get recommendations from other people regarding the decision to bet, especially if the person forces you to do it or for example the person tells you that at the end of the session you will win, if indeed the scenario is like that then in my opinion it is quite natural if you blame others for your defeat. This is also a lesson for all of us that never suggest or recommend anything to others regarding gambling because however in gambling there is absolutely no certainty for the results at the end of the session, meaning that you will remain in two possibilities, namely between winning or losing which is a definite possibility.

The amount of stupidity displayed by some gamblers is astounding. People, they are losers; they lose and are unable to accept it. Sadness! They believe that by placing the blame elsewhere, they are absolved of accountability for their own deeds. Is it really true? They dare to whine as though doing so will make a difference in the outcome. Like, "Hello? You took the chance and placed the wager." In its most basic form, that is the art of the deal. A blamer gets no regard. You fail; you grow; you improve. But assigning blame to others? Thats just not strong enough. More than their pocketbook, it affects their dignity. And that is saying something, believe me. Own your losses as much as your wins if you plan to play the game. Thats the winning mentality. And I know winers, trust me.

We think that what he says is very true , there is a certain Immaturity when a person who makes a mistake tries to find culprits and does not assume that the fault lies with the same person, then the casino with all the emotions on the surface and if the player He is wrong, he can invent any excuse, that he followed the advice of such a person, that the fault lies with that person, that if he had not done what that person said he would have won, or maybe that he Followed the Advice of another person and that is why he It happened, then I don't know what you're looking for, because if it's an excuse to win at ease in a society, well, I consider that sad, in a casino one must assume that the money is one's Own , no one does what someone else tells them to. Unless it is, and no one is going to manage one's way of playing as a player , so these things are the ones that must be Taken into consideration when playing.

If a person blames someone else for their loss, that is like kicking a drowning person, they have no validity whatsoever, the same game over time will make them mature Because if they Continue with those thoughts, things will simply continue to turn out very well. Badly, as a player we have to learn to mature certain knowledge, certain things and designs that casinos have, so we will be a wiser player and lose less money in the future, but some things are Sadly missing out on how they learn the most.

If you read carefully this old news. The mother and son is just using the victim card to recover their gambling losses by pretending that someone hacked their bank account and do the transfer on sports betting site.

The title of this thread is kinda misleading to the real issue that attached on the content because they are not really blaming someone but pretending to become a victim of hack which is not just to get away with the messed they created after losing so much.

Ignorance of some gamblers is the main reason for making such complaints. But as far as I know those who make such complaints know themselves that there is no use in making complaints against the person. But digging into the reasons why he would make that complaint, it turns out that there are some gamblers who can't squeak past their losses. They refuse to accept that they have lost. They feel that if the blame can be placed on others, they can give themselves some relief. These are some emotional steps for that person but as a gambler one should never act like this. Moreover, it is a fact that since the gambler himself is responsible for the gains and losses, there is nothing but damaged his own dignity by blaming others.

Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

That is it, some people do not want to take responsibility, they just one someone to be responsible for their fall, but if it is a blessing, they might want to take it all and even be stingy to part ways with any. Gambling and any other risky business/ventures could come out in two ways, and if it is negative, no one should shy away from the fact, and if it is positive, all should smile as well. The transferring of blame is so ill and wicked to me and it shows what prompts some people to face their business even if they see others in need of a thing or another, they might still not do it because they do not know the disposition of the person to it if it doesn't work as planned.

I have seen a lot of people who do not want to take responsibility, they always want to win but want others to absorb their losses if possible, but if others would not take the shift of the losses somehow, they would want them to still take the blame. This is selfish and proves that the person is not ready to take a risk, which is bad. Anyone who is mature enough to gamble should also be mature enough to accept whatever outcome that comes from it and stop being childish about it. Otherwise, such should just excuse him or herself from gambling, it is never by force.

It's true what you said, we can't do things that we don't understand, because it will only end in losses, the same goes for gambling which requires us to have skills and knowledge, if we do gambling it does require us to have skills or knowledge but we If you don't have that, you will most likely end up with a loss. and even though luck will really help, luck will not come in everything we do, because in my opinion luck only comes occasionally, and if we have won then we have to be able to take advantage of the situation, including by making decisions when we win. victory. remember that luck only comes once in a while, not repeatedly.

I agree with you, in fact I don't think it's just sports betting, all gambling is just about having fun, not about draining your wallet, be responsible with everything you do that is related to money, you shouldn't spend a lot of money just by gambling Of course, because it's the same as we expect more from gambling, whereas excessive expectations from gambling can trap us ourselves. and if we do gamble then we should be able to accept the fact that defeat or loss of money will definitely occur, it is unethical if the defeat occurs by blaming other people.

I noticed one thing, when a player loses a large amount of money, he can resort to any deception. Yes, he can make up stories that he didn't even think he was capable of. And also his environment does not expect such fabulous stories from him. These fraudulent stories may be related to the illness of the player’s children or mother, as long as they give him money at that particular point in time. I am well aware of this and never, under any circumstances, lend money to friends, even if they call me bad words, but my action will preserve our friendship, no matter how ridiculous it may sound from the outside.

There are a lot of stories like you told about the losing mother and son, this is just one of them, showing everyone what can happen if you don’t stop in time in the game.

      -  Lying has never been a good thing for anyone to do. Expect that when you commit a lie, it will have an associated backlash, which will not be good in the end. Then we also know that when you get a large amount from a casino, for example, and you put it in the bank, for sure it will be a big problem for you.

Because once any bank company sees that the money you put into their company comes from gambling, they will for sure freeze or hold your bank account. Because they will think it's money laundering.

What you say is very true, other people should not be blamed when we lose because it could be other people and we definitely have different tricks or ways of playing gambling, if you look at it, it's almost the same, but the intelligence and skills of each gambler. very different. if we see other people betting small and large amounts and they seem to really enjoy the game then of course this will encourage us to imitate their behavior therefore it would be good for us to have the right awareness so that we remain consistent with ourselves, namely controlling ourselves. we alone. we are good. good and right.