Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 3. (Read 6130 times)

New gamblers often try gambling by their emotion. They consider gambling as a special scheme of money income at the beginning of gambling. They think that placing a bet there will increase their chances of winning. But when the results are different they get worried about it. At some point, they try to blame others for the fear that their assumptions and skills may be questioned due to repeated losses, thereby calling out their incompetence. Although he thinks it is wrong, he does not try to understand it. However, such behavior is not seen in those who have been in gambling for a long time. There may be some gamblers who naturally try to hide their own faults by blaming others.

Sometimes it does require discussion to exchange ideas and what they think, it may be included in one way of analyzing by consensus on the opinions of others, but not necessarily also make it a benchmark just a reference and understanding that we need to take into account the details of the analysis that we make in assessing something.

Yes, the point is like that in my opinion, in the end we will be responsible for the risks and decisions we make for ourselves, we should not be too apathetic to the opinions of others and also should not follow their words completely, we need to have the intelligence to assess something on our own and not depend on the opinions of others so that in the end what is not expected comes to us, we are not disappointed and blame others, because consciously we are the ones who make decisions and we are the ones who accept the consequences, good or bad.
But few people can realize this mindset.

Advice from other people should not be used as a benchmark for the bets we play. Basically, betting at your own risk is better than following other people. In the end, we lose. Blaming people is clearly a wrong thing, that's why it's important for us to filter which ones are good for us. and which is not good for us, don't be too eager to win and end up following other people following FOMO which ends up being a loss in itself, for example in sports betting, it is important to analyze the match before betting and don't use other people's analysis because it is risky.

You are right to think about other things from your winnings, namely from other people's advice, we could be lucky to win, but we could also lose because gambling doesn't always win, even if we are good at gambling or ask for advice from gambling experts who are good at analyzing sports predictions, it's not a 100% guarantee. will win in full because you may be unlucky to experience an unexpected defeat because gambling by following other people's advice will not be completely successful, it is better to gamble at your own risk and analyze it yourself using your own strategy, one other important thing is to use money that is ready to be lost.

Gambling is winning and losing, but mostly losing. Unless you're the casino.

That's why casinos can spend so much money creating great places to play, and enjoy great drinks in spectacular bars, etc.

It's because they get to keep most of the money that people gambled away.

The sentence that I highlighted at the end of your second paragraph I agree, if anyone suggests the issue of margin or funds or balances used for gambling it is not worth following even though the choices offered are very likely to give you a win, but following advice on the amount of money used is bad advice, and never follow it because we will be held accountable for it.

I once got such advice and followed it and fortunately got a win, but even so I became aware of how if I lose, maybe I will lose money, thinking back when I got a win with a very controversial decision, maybe if it runs out in one session, I don't play much longer, bad results need to be seen also as a disc for us to make decisions and since then I have never listened to other people's advice on how much money to use.

Gambling is about strategy? I think it looks like you have to re-examine what gambling really is, and I understand that there are several types of gambling that can be done by applying skills or strategies but what you have to understand here is that strategy or knowledge is nothing more than something that is only useful for increasing the chances of winning or bringing yourself closer to victory and not something that can make you have certainty to win, so of course we cannot make strategy or knowledge as a benchmark for getting victory. This is a big mistake in understanding gambling, because if for example a good strategy is a guarantee for victory then wouldn't there be a lot of casinos that went bankrupt because gamblers always managed to get a win with the strategies they had? obviously.

Another thing is that we must remain on the understanding that gambling can never be predicted at any time, and the various methods that you believe can produce victory are actually nothing more than something useful to increase the chances of winning because victory is entirely dependent on luck, or the point is that no matter how good the strategy you have, you will eventually lose if luck does not come at the same time.

That's a wrong behavior and they have no right to lie about how they lost money in gambling. Sure they chased after those losses and were able to see few wins that made them to move harder in the process. And their action doesn't show any form of being responsible. The both players are addicted and close to getting mentally ill. Because those lies or blames sound like some idea drafted by an emotionally unstable person.

It also shows how people can be blamed for what they're not guilty about. A more good reason we shouldn't neglect addicted people close to us. That person was lied against because they know him, his name is registered on the addicts brains. So when neglecting those addicts it's smart to know they can call anybody amongst their acquittance as the reason they got addicted to gambling. 

One does not need to be a genius or over analyze to realize what truly happened to those people: they got greedy and logged onto the casino without any intention to have fun with their money, rather they thought it would be a quick method to get some money. By the way, the fact they could gamble over eight thousands on an online casino makes me assume this was money which is likely the result of a loan, because to me it does not make sense someone will deposit that much in the first place.
Whatever... When the losses started to accumulate, they started to chase them, instead of quitting for good and before the realized, all money was gone and they faced reality and could not cope with the fact they gambled all that money away.
So instead taking full responsibility for it, they tried to commit and crime and defraud their bank and the casino at the same time.

The only thing which fully catches my attention is the sentence which was put onto them for trying to defraud the casino and the bank, seven years sounds very harsh, but I suppose it is about making an example out of them.

Yes, it's true that no one is perfect, but gambling away such huge sum of money and then putting the blame on someone else is a damage to one's personally, of which to me, I think they truly deserve the punishment issued to them, as this should stand as a lesson to others who will want to try that in the future. Because one thing I have come to understand is that lack of contentment and greed is one thing that makes majority gamble they can never afford to lose, of which this case is no different.

The truth of the fact is that those people who we see to be making big profits while gambling, also make big loses too, but just that they hide their loses away from the public, hence making it look like bed of roses. So it's best for us at each moment to gamble an account we can always afford to lose.

Yes of course because after all in gambling as I said before that the decision is taken at the will and availability of the gambler himself regardless of whether they make decisions based on their own ideas or suggestions from others so with this it is clear that blaming others is an action that should not be done because such actions will only reflect that you are immature or do not have responsibility for the decisions you have made, And on the other hand, you have repeated that we will assume that blaming others is natural if for example there is intimidation or intervention from other parties that force them to comply with the wishes of these other people in terms of making decisions.

Another thing is that I agree with you that it is actually not a problem to listen to any advice given by others, especially some of our friends as long as we can really be responsible for any results at the end of the session, especially defeat, and also as long as you can really think rationally and balanced where if for example they suggest or tell you to bet a large amount that is not in accordance with your abilities then obviously never follow the advice because this is gambling which is full of uncertainty.

To my opinion what I could say is that the mother and the son they could not believe what they saw they thought it was a dream, so that’s why they started planning on the person to accuse because of their loss. Yes, it happens in different places some people even lose more than that but they have understood that gambling is win and loss, so no matter their losses they don’t complain, sometimes it’s because they can afford it but you that cannot afford the same money shouldn’t come with that amount. It is a very big risk.

in gambling theirs no perfect person, so I believe that anyone who is a gambler knows it method to achieve wining in gambling because I know quite well that gambling is all about strategies and if you have your own of understanding the system of gambling you will not be able to win gambling from my own understanding, so whosoever that is in gambling have to know it's own direction and it tactics way it can use and manover it's wining in gambling, wining gambling is a something of luck is not a something a desperation can make us to achieve

Actually, the gambling that is done and the defeat that occurs is purely due to one's own fault, although initially it may be invited by friends in the neighborhood, but if oneself does not want to follow it, maybe there will be no defeat and losses that occur. Also in my opinion, if you really want to gamble, you should first understand what gambling is, because the defeat in gambling is certain, whether we do gambling because of invitation or encouragement from our own desires, defeat will not be avoided. Blaming others for the defeats that occur by explaining that being invited by friends around is not reasonable. After all, just accept the defeat that occurs and leave gambling.

It may be true because they are not mature enough to handle the defeat that is clearly certain to occur in gambling. So they blame others for their defeat, chaotic feelings such as emotions can occur when we cannot accept defeat, with an emotional state of self sometimes we don't even want to socialize with others.

Yes, maybe your opinion is correct, namely that financial strength factors that influence a gambler can change their behavior in gambling. if the gambler's financial strength is weak and they really want to win then they can take very high risk actions and if the gambler has good financial strength then they consider a loss or win to be part of gambling so they feel they are still fine.

It's normal if gambler show their anger because of their lose from playing gambling. But they can prevents that lose not to becomes bigger by always limits their money so they will not anger with their lose and consider that lose money is something that they can gets. It needs acceptance of their lose in gambling because playing gambling can cause them lose the money. If they can accept their lose and not blaming the gambling site, they will not thinks that much about that. Besides that, their lose is just from the money they can afford to lose.

They can create a new strategy but that doesn't guarantee them can wins instead they can gets another lose. They must realizes that a new strategy needs to test to knows if the strategy can works or needs to search for a new one. But they must also knows that tests the strategy needs time and money to works and that can makes them lose some money. If they can't accept the lose, they will anger and will not see what they do is wrong. When they can realizes about that, they will not use too much money and will not create many strategies because that will not guarantee can works as they wants instead they can lose more money.

Unfortunately, not many gamblers can understands and are aware of the risk of losing money when they playing gambling. They thinks that when they lose, they will trying to recovers their lose, even if they must uses more money. They thinks that they still have a chance to gets their money backs by keeps playing gambling but that will not happens as they wants. They can't accept the risks of losing the money but they also continue playing gambling which makes them lose more money. They will blame the casino and the worst is they blame other people arounds them because they presences can't gives the wins to that gambler. Gambling can't gives the wins easily so they must understand that playing gambling doesn't needs to serious and just for have fun.

There is such an opportunity or not, we will definitely blame the person who made the betting decision because we did not do it ourselves, and that is a stupid act, talking about betting or gambling entrusting money to get benefits so that entrusting our money is managed by others, then where is the principle of fun and gambling responsibly if the gambling we do is just a financier without doing anything and letting others play.

I think it is impossible for someone to go into gambling without knowing that he will lose money, because basically gambling is a place to spend money not to earn money, because the name of an entertainment place is to spend money, so it is quite impossible that they don't know, unless they don't know how to run the features and so on to do gambling, but with the current era it is quite easy to access tutorials and that ambiguity can be eliminated.

Yeah right, seems like their pride and guilt that's why they don't accept the fact that it's their fault why they lose. this usually happens to first timer gamblers or those gamblers who are still a little ashamed to admit to themselves that they are the reason why they lost, it seems that is their initial reaction so as not to embarrass other people.They are not matured enough to handle the situation of losing in gambling that's why they are doing that childish act.

Hahaha, that's right, in fact I think people who blame other people for their mistakes are stupid, even though before they decide to gamble, they must also understand that gambling is full of risks. If they lose, they should accept their defeat because the person who decided to gamble is themselves, blame other people for their own actions is a ridiculous act like a child who does not accept that he lost when playing with his friends and cries and complains to his parents that his friends are guilty of their own mistakes friends, gambling is an adult game and is not aimed at whiny people

Gamblers who know their risks will act normally and never blame other people for their own mistakes due to their gambling. I have also never met someone who blames other people for their own mistakes. Maybe if I met them I would reprimand him and blame him for his own actions like a child.

No own is perfect so we tend to make mistakes as gamblers which is why we must be ready to adjust in a way that it is not going to affect us. Those gamblers we are seeing making money and profits in the market are able to do so because they are wise and ready to adjust so they don't have anybody to blame in a long run. We need to be wise and do things in a way that is not going to affects us too much but better still make us earn from gambling. The gambling is in different forms and we can earn massively from it if we know how to position bets in a way that would be highly profitable for us to earn money.

When you do know that you do have lots of money then this is something that would really be bringing out that kind of confidence that you could really be able to do much more specially when you do make out some bets or simply gambling activity in compared to those who do have limited funds on which this one would really be that understandable. There would really be that notable differences in between but still similar on ending up on the same scenario or situation on which you would really be losing money in the end of the line. Blaming out someone because of your loses? this is something that would really be a common human being behavior on which you would really be telling into yourself that its others peoples mistakes on why you have experienced this but totally its laughable since no one had ask you to gamble in the first place.

You would really be just that making yourself look like a clown on the time that you would really be having that kind of behavior on trying out to make those kind of reasoning that
its other peoples mistake on why you have lost. lol