Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 3. (Read 5616 times)

Well if there is an agreement with an individual that they'll refund you if they lose when you entrust their money to them, then you have every right to hold them responsible, since there's an agreement. But in a case where there's no agreement and you give someone your money to bet for you then you've got no right to hold anyone responsible when they lost, but then I wonder why someone would do such a thing when they're aware that there's no 100% accurance in winning when it comes  to gambling.

 I think gambling is specifically ment for risk takers, and if an individual is not sure they're willing to take risk then they shouldn't even dare to go into it. Well some individuals gamble out of ignorance they might not be aware of the risk involved in gambling and would follow either a friend or neighbour to play same predictions they made, maybe cause of their previous winning and when things doesn't work out you'll see them playing the person who made the predictions for misleading them which is wrong.

I am also quite sure that the person who blames others for his defeat is using money that he himself is not ready to lose, so he is looking for a scapegoat to shed his own mistakes, even though he himself made the decision and took action on his decision.
Now let alone entrusting money to other people to be used as gambling capital, that is the most stupid act, in my logic it never occurred to me that there were people who entrusted their capital to finance other people playing gambling.

In my opinion, the point is in the initial intention of gambling, if you are only looking for victory and profit, it will be much easier to make someone depressed over defeat, not blaming others, sometimes people like that blame themselves and make the wrong decisions so that they spend their existing resources even though they understand gambling will always lose and win, but if what is sought is victory until the end of blood will be fought.

No. We don't have to blame anyone for our loses. If it was a win are we going to blame them, we wouldn't right so why then should we blame after a lose.
In as much as loses are certain in gambling, we are responsible for our gambling decisions. In gambling everyone is independent of there opinion, giving room for others simply means you're ready to accept any outcome and also support the resolution of the other before  placing a bet. So putting the blame on others is us simply refusing to accept the outcome and taking responsibility.
 

It’s not always small money is what gamblers can afford to lose. It depends on financial strength of user to determine how much he can afford to lose since people with huge money doesn’t entertain anymore when gambling small amount since the gain will be small too.

Most of the gamblers that can’t accept loses are those not financially stable. They are still gambling despite they are crumbling already with their personal expenses using their salary and use gambling as source of extra income.

Financial stable person doesn’t care to lose regardless of big or small as long as the amount is not exceeded to their allowable amount for gambling.

Yes, if gamblers understand and are aware of the risk of losing when playing gambling, they will minimize losing a lot of money, namely playing using only a small amount of money and the risk of losing is not too much. So that the gambler can indirectly accept the risk wisely and not take out his anger on other people when he often loses at gambling.
Yes, you are right, gambling cannot make money easily, but playing gambling actually wastes time and money quickly, so when we are going to gamble, careful behavior must be applied in the gambling session so that we don't make many mistakes there.

Yes, that's right, if we try to ask other people for their opinions and advice when we gamble, let alone choosing which team to bet on, don't blame them later if we lose because unconsciously we have taken a risk by entrusting other people to choose the bets for us. us, after all I'm sure we all know that gambling is full of risks so why take risks for yourself, use money that is ready to be lost, don't try to take risks by entrusting other people, let alone asking for advice if you don't want to take risks. but if we can accept all the risks, just think of it as entertainment when we lose.

Winning and losing are normal things in gambling, so don't gamble if you don't want to take risks because there is nothing in gambling that always continues to make a profit and continues to win, in essence, whatever we get in gambling, whether we lose or win, is all part of gambling. We have to understand and accept it gracefully, don't be a child who likes to whine when we lose and blame other people for the defeat we experience ourselves because we have entrusted other people to choose the team we have bet on in gambling.

Blaming others is one of the actions that is very bad and seems immature in making choices, of course people who blame others for their defeat are people who do not have a stand and do not have good personal integrity, stay away from such people is very dangerous, you are right that any decision is his and whatever the reason is still the power of choice is on the person who is gambling, asking for advice or receiving advice all depends on personal decisions, unless there is intimidation or intervention from other people so I am quite sorry if blaming others.

Actually it is not a problem to listen to the advice of others when we are in doubt about the choices we make ourselves so we need the opinions of others to strengthen us, the most important thing is never to blame people who give their opinions voluntarily, it is much wiser there than what we thought before about this.

Pressurized gambling affects the player such that he wouldn't have enough quiet time to think. He'll only work on relieving the pressure and may not succeed. Due to the complexity of gambling and how it meddles with our feelings. When a player is gambling for the sake of others, he's not meant to blame anybody if things go wrong. The need for taking responsibility in gambling is important. Aside the confidence, it allows a player to think, before doing something, towards his actions whether he would be capable of accepting the responsibility of such behavior.

As said in this thread they blamed it on someone else. To rephrase it I'd say they lied against an innocent person. Outside this context of lying, some people feel they are doing themselves a favor by blaming someone for their troubles. Sometimes it doesn't help the victim overcome the issue. If gamblers take responsibility their action will differ and be more self-conscious. Those who can't take responsibility will always fail because they have a second thought of who to put the blame on.

The gambler who loss the funds in the gambling site mostly show their anger on their family members.Because the gambling site was the online platform as the first thing,secondly the gamblers had loss the funds because of his game and the luck in the game.Blaming on the gambling site is not the right way of approaching towards the loss.Playing the game mostly cause the loss or profit based on your luck or skills,So it was essential for the gamblers to take responsibility on the loss of money.


The gambler who had loss the funds because of his strategy should accept the loss and create a new strategy.If he keep on playing the game with the losing strategy,he never recover the money from the gambling site.Algorithm of the gambling site will be changed according to the change in the time.Playing like same game again the different algorithm will cause the loss of the money.If the gambler play the game with more alert he can avoid of losing funds in the gambling site.

That's why we must knows that playing gambling can makes us lose so we don't have to takes out our anger on other people. Playing gambling gives risks of losing the money so we must knows how to manages the money that we used and what we should do if we almost runs of the money. Many people doesn't knows what they must do if that's happens to them instead deposits more money to keeps playing gambling as they thinks that will gives more opportunities to wins. But that will only gives more losses if they can't controls themselves while playing gambling. The important thing is we should accepts our lose and not blaming other people, especially if we playing gambling because we wants to spends our time. We must realizes that gambling can't gives us the money so we must be carefully when playing gambling.

And also with addiction between the two of them, the guidance that supposely a parent should provide was already been dominated by that addicitons inside them, and without any other ways they pretend and did try to point fingers to other people trying to escape with the mistake that they've done, but no escape as evidences shows up the crime that they've made.


Ending it up with regret and with the outcome of the crime that they've made, they will need to suffer for this which if they just treat it correctly they'll not go up to this far and lose all those huge amount of money.

In my opinion we absolutely cannot blame other people for the defeat we experience at the end of the session, because after all the session runs on your own decision, even though for example there are people who give you advice to bet on something with a certain bet amount but however you still You can reject it for whatever reason you have and if you agree with something suggested by other people, especially some of your friends, and then in the end you lose, then it is clearly your own fault because you followed other people's directions while in gambling it is clear that this is absolutely not the case at all. You can never find out about the results at the end of the session, especially wins.

This is the reason why we are always advised to gamble better in our own way and with our own feelings because it is clear that whatever the result, you will not blame other people, especially when you lose and if at that time it turns out you win then other people will not ask or claim a share of the winnings. This is because you gamble in your own way and with your own feelings. And one thing, if it turns out that they advise you to use force in making decisions or that means other people force you to follow their advice with various things, especially with threats, for example, then it clearly makes sense if when you lose you blame them.

Yes, with a change in behavior in a gambler when he often loses and he takes out his anger on other people then he is also an unprofessional gambler because he easily gets angry with anyone in order to reduce his feelings of annoyance but this will actually cause him to add to a lot of problems. because it could be that the person being scolded does not accept it and there could be a misunderstanding.
Yes, you are right, we have to be properly aware that gambling has a very high level of risk and we have to accept all the good and bad experiences willingly, even though sometimes it is painful for us.

Some times even when they don't want to gamble, but the influence of others gambling will make them to gambe. The reason why I don't like to put my self in pressures is because when am doing things on pressure I make most mistakes because I am not well concentrated, so am saying this because those that's gambling they might have enough money more that you and the amount they can risk might be bigger than what you can afford to lose if you have it. Trying to gamble because you see others gambling is not a good idea. It's easy to lose all the money a gambler have because Gamble is about luck not skills.

Taking responsibility of your gambling habit is something that every gambler should so without having to be told because gambling is personal and a choice for your own way of entertainment or earnings depending on what you wish to do with your gambling habit but then making sure to take responsibility is very paramount. Blaming anyone at any point for your losses in gamble is sounding irresponsible to me because you took the decision regardless of any influence such person whom you are blaming had on you as at the time of gambling, gamble for fun and not to have to push blames around, how about when it goes your way would you remember to appreciate the person who introduced you if not then always making sure to take responsibility is important.

Just like you did mentioned it actually changes nothing if you push blames around because that wouldn't stop the money from been lost or neither is the casino going to make refunds so it's to accept take responsibility and moved on probably hope to win some other day and recover.

 Some individuals, out of frustration would always want to blame someone for their own mistakes. However, this is a case of greed and wickedness, and I blame the mother more, she's failed as a mother for allowing her son to get to the point of betting with the sum of $8000. Parents are supposed to be their children's guidance, they're supposed to help them make the right decisions, but out of greed such mother had the guts to support her son the gamble with a whopping sum of $8000.

 Sometimes people don't think of the consequences of their actions, first they made the wrong choice of gambling with a huge sum of money they'll end up regretting and after they lost, they tried to play smart and defraud another person to pay for their foolishness. Well serves them right and if I were the accused I'll even sue them for defamation, so next time they won't even think of such fraudulent act.

This is just basic fraud and not a particularly clever performance either. These online financial companies are very sophisticated in what they can track and most users won't have a clue about what they're really monitoring with every single transaction. What's strange about this story however is that a judge was so harsh on them, when presumably the bank never paid out the claimed loss and it was just a lie that lead to them not benefiting at all, unless there is more to the story that we are unable to see. In many countries these people would get a much shorter sentence but presumably get their credit score ruined for up to 6 years, which can be a much worse penalty as it makes it much harder to survive and pay basic bills.

If loss is in your fate then you will lose whether you follow the suggestion of your friend or decide by yourself to bet. Gambling is not about your strategies and knowledge but it's about your good or bad luck so don't feel regret after losing money through putting bets on your friends suggestion.

If you gamble alone then it is also a good idea because neither you will feel regret nor you will blame others and one of the benefits of gambling alone is that you will not quarrel with your friend for money which is done by most of the gamblers.

Well said, we don't have to put the whole blame on anyone for being responsible for our losses while gambling, its our own responsibility to take charge of every of our games played, we should stake base on the capacity of how we can afford, we cannot prevent loosing neither can we make winning by all means, so also is our right to determine on who influences on our gambling and not

What happens is that most people hate losing and when they lose they always look for a justification for the defeat but always in the justification they don't blame themselves for the defeats, they will blame the person who involved them in gambling, that's why talking about gambling with friends and relatives there is a great risk that one day they will hate you and blame you for getting them involved in gambling. I've seen this, because this type of thing has happened to me. I told my friend about gambling, particularly sports betting. that day I had been right on my sports bets so I told him that I won on the sports betting site, I also told him the name of the site and the amount I won

So he was very interested in starting to make sports bets, I told him everything, I explained to him how I analyzed the games. I don't know if he followed exactly what I told him about analyzing games and watching videos about bankroll management and more about sports betting, so I didn't talk to him for a while. I didn't know that the reason he didn't talk to me for a long time was because the guy was angry because he lost money in sports betting and I was very shocked when one day I meet him and he tells me that he lost a lot in sports betting, the tone of the his voice, it was clear to me that he is blaming me for his losses