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Quote from: Iroh on March 08, 2024, 06:37:41 PM

Quote from: Su-asa on March 08, 2024, 09:12:41 AM

am a fan of luck because I don't feel comfortable when a gambler tells me about his losses. Although every gamblers are not the same like others. My reasons for this comment is because 4 different gamblers might gamble on the same sport match but only 1 of them will win. All gamblers have their own pattern/strategies of gambling, so naturally, gamble is made from luck.

No one would feel comfortable always or love to hear negative news from people unless you’re one who loves to hear bad news about people and that would show the type of person you are.
I’m also not a fan and quite tired of hearing about people talking about their losses. I’ve also heard tales of people recounting their losses and most of the time, they are quick to point the blame at others and fault their losses on the actions of someone or something else. It’s always crazy how people are quick to claim all the glory when there are wins but quicker to absolve themselves of any responsibility when there are losses.

Every industry has such people that tend to escape a single bit of responsibility. They took the decision and action and end up complaining. That doesn't set a good standard for a competent gambler. It's an aspect of gambling behavior, which isn't, completely, traced to addiction. Non addicts, can act in the manner. Individual differences are close factors that causes this behavior. The gambler can be the type who play victim, in all his life moves. And exhibit similar character, as a gambler. Hence, the habit was awarded to him by a different factor, could be upbringing. Although, it's tiring to consistently receive complains on things you don't want to hear about. Shutting them up, politely, can help reduce the complaint. Closely watching over the gambler is vital. He can be a treat to himself, not sure, if he had a listening ear.

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Quote from: Su-asa on March 08, 2024, 09:12:41 AM

am a fan of luck because I don't feel comfortable when a gambler tells me about his losses. Although every gamblers are not the same like others. My reasons for this comment is because 4 different gamblers might gamble on the same sport match but only 1 of them will win. All gamblers have their own pattern/strategies of gambling, so naturally, gamble is made from luck.

No one would feel comfortable always or love to hear negative news from people unless you’re one who loves to hear bad news about people and that would show the type of person you are.
I’m also not a fan and quite tired of hearing about people talking about their losses. I’ve also heard tales of people recounting their losses and most of the time, they are quick to point the blame at others and fault their losses on the actions of someone or something else. It’s always crazy how people are quick to claim all the glory when there are wins but quicker to absolve themselves of any responsibility when there are losses.

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Quote from: Su-asa on March 08, 2024, 09:12:41 AM

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Luck is something that makes every gamblers to be happy. I have noticed some gamers will lose $200 on a roll but when they manage to win $180 they will be happy, the sadness will be gone. The kind of happiness luck can cause is more important to every gamblers, am a fan of luck because I don't feel comfortable when a gambler tells me about his losses. Although every gamblers are not the same like others. My reasons for this comment is because 4 different gamblers might gamble on the same sport match but only 1 of them will win. All gamblers have their own pattern/strategies of gambling, so naturally, gamble is made from luck.

Yeah, that's an interesting metric, how the gamblers feel.

The casinos have been perfecting their design so that the gamblers feel good while on absolute terms they are losing money.

They are really good at doing that.

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Quote from: Negotiation on March 08, 2024, 08:34:35 AM

Quote from: GigaBit on March 07, 2024, 06:28:20 PM

I simply mean that if a gambler does not share his winnings he cannot blame others for his losses. Moreover, the gambler should learn to accept his fate. If he keeps money that he cannot lose in gambling, he must suffer for it. What is always suggested for gambling is to use as much money as he can afford to lose. But many of the gamblers quickly try to change their situation and after failing there, they blame others in various ways. Just as gambling requires money, it is also important for a gambler to have sufficient knowledge about his gambling. Dependent on others in gambling should be avoided. If a gambler relies on another, there must be both good and bad to manage gambling. Gambling can never be won by blaming.

It seems to me that luck plays a role more than skill in gambling, because if luck doesn't play it's very hard to win at gambling and many people consider gambling to be a game of luck and I agree with you that one should learn to trust luck. Many people say that gambling is all about luck, if you don't have luck you will fail even if you try your best and even after applying all the tricks you will find that you are not able to win the game.

Basically, gambling is divided into various types of bets on games and also several sports activities which are used as place to bet money, from this it can be concluded that luck is not just the most important thing.
Just imagine when you bet on various types of sports betting by relying solely on luck and make bets only carelessly or carelessly, then it is clear that you will always be guaranteed to lose.
I quite surprised why there are still many people who think that gambling is actually all related to luck, even though luck itself cannot cover everything in gambling.
Maybe I will also admit that luck can help to win and luck can guarantee success, but I emphasize again that not everything is related to luck and some bets such as sports will still require skill.
If indeed we lose then just assume we are unlucky and lack the skills and knowledge, this will be much better and of course whatever happens in gambling also depends on us how we behave and make decisions when gambling.

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Quote from: Negotiation on March 08, 2024, 08:34:35 AM

Quote from: GigaBit on March 07, 2024, 06:28:20 PM

I simply mean that if a gambler does not share his winnings he cannot blame others for his losses. Moreover, the gambler should learn to accept his fate. If he keeps money that he cannot lose in gambling, he must suffer for it. What is always suggested for gambling is to use as much money as he can afford to lose. But many of the gamblers quickly try to change their situation and after failing there, they blame others in various ways. Just as gambling requires money, it is also important for a gambler to have sufficient knowledge about his gambling. Dependent on others in gambling should be avoided. If a gambler relies on another, there must be both good and bad to manage gambling. Gambling can never be won by blaming.

It seems to me that luck plays a role more than skill in gambling, because if luck doesn't play it's very hard to win at gambling and many people consider gambling to be a game of luck and I agree with you that one should learn to trust luck. Many people say that gambling is all about luck, if you don't have luck you will fail even if you try your best and even after applying all the tricks you will find that you are not able to win the game.

Luck is something that makes every gamblers to be happy. I have noticed some gamers will lose $200 on a roll but when they manage to win $180 they will be happy, the sadness will be gone. The kind of happiness luck can cause is more important to every gamblers, am a fan of luck because I don't feel comfortable when a gambler tells me about his losses. Although every gamblers are not the same like others. My reasons for this comment is because 4 different gamblers might gamble on the same sport match but only 1 of them will win. All gamblers have their own pattern/strategies of gambling, so naturally, gamble is made from luck.

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Quote from: Fredomago on March 07, 2024, 06:12:28 PM

You should take all the blame as you are the one who place your position and bet all the way, gambling losses is a sole responsibility of the person who make the move, there's should no other party to point your finger when you are in the losing situation, there's no change that will happen to you if you continue to have this kind of mindset, always remember that the money that you are using is all on your own responsibility, there's no one and only you who should take all the blame whatever the outcome, it's also good to keep improving if you are really in this business, knowing how to adjust in every session you completed an help you to use your understanding and anticipate what might be the best way of adjustment to make to have more winning accomplishements.

Yes, that's how it should be, friends, the risk must be borne by ourselves, not by other people who don't know anything, because if that is what is in our mindset then what we have will not be able to develop, but only emotions and desires. which is unstable in every gambling game session that we run.
And what you say is true, if we persist in the gambling game until the end of the game session, there will be times when we can understand correctly and of course we will gain valuable experience.

Quote from: GigaBit on March 07, 2024, 06:28:20 PM

I simply mean that if a gambler does not share his winnings he cannot blame others for his losses. Moreover, the gambler should learn to accept his fate. If he keeps money that he cannot lose in gambling, he must suffer for it. What is always suggested for gambling is to use as much money as he can afford to lose. But many of the gamblers quickly try to change their situation and after failing there, they blame others in various ways. Just as gambling requires money, it is also important for a gambler to have sufficient knowledge about his gambling. Dependent on others in gambling should be avoided. If a gambler relies on another, there must be both good and bad to manage gambling. Gambling can never be won by blaming.

Yes, accepting fate for the risks that have been taken is the most important thing for a gambler because gambling also requires the right knowledge so that we don't take the wrong action in every gambling session we play, armed with the knowledge we have. Getting it from other people also helps us to gamble with the right actions and avoid carelessness, so from that knowledge we can learn little by little and blaming losses on other people is a big mistake.

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Quote from: GigaBit on March 07, 2024, 06:28:20 PM

I simply mean that if a gambler does not share his winnings he cannot blame others for his losses. Moreover, the gambler should learn to accept his fate. If he keeps money that he cannot lose in gambling, he must suffer for it. What is always suggested for gambling is to use as much money as he can afford to lose. But many of the gamblers quickly try to change their situation and after failing there, they blame others in various ways. Just as gambling requires money, it is also important for a gambler to have sufficient knowledge about his gambling. Dependent on others in gambling should be avoided. If a gambler relies on another, there must be both good and bad to manage gambling. Gambling can never be won by blaming.

It seems to me that luck plays a role more than skill in gambling, because if luck doesn't play it's very hard to win at gambling and many people consider gambling to be a game of luck and I agree with you that one should learn to trust luck. Many people say that gambling is all about luck, if you don't have luck you will fail even if you try your best and even after applying all the tricks you will find that you are not able to win the game.

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Quote from: zuzie on March 07, 2024, 08:15:09 AM

Quote from: Negotiation on March 06, 2024, 09:59:01 PM

Quote from: zuzie on March 06, 2024, 09:30:18 AM

Quote from: nullama on January 04, 2024, 12:25:57 AM

The first step in actually coming back from an addiction is to realize that the gambler is to blame for their own actions. Not anyone else.

People are quick to blame others, but they rarely take responsibility of their actions when they lose.

By blaming yourself for wrong steps due to your careless actions in carrying out gambling activities and often experiencing losses, that is normal and natural, but if we gamblers blame other people for the losses we experience, that is a big mistake. . . because defeat in gambling is determined by the dealer or system, not other gamblers.
Therefore, it is a good idea for us to introspect ourselves on what we have done and immediately improve it.

I agree that gambling is a game of luck and depends on your own personal judgment and experience no one should be blamed here at all. If we ourselves do not gamble no one can force us to gamble. Rightly said it is the result of our actions but there are many who don't want to accept it. If you can put the blame on others you feel better. Gamblers initially denied it. But when it becomes a real problem they stop trying to deny it. So acknowledging the problem is very important.

Therefore, if we are not ready to lose and lose the money we have, it is better for us not to gamble because that is the risk we will face and if we cannot accept all the risks then it will most likely make us burdened.
If we dare to act, we must be prepared to take risks ourselves, not blame others for our defeat. I think people like that don't understand what gambling really means from the start, so they easily get emotional and take it out on other people.

I simply mean that if a gambler does not share his winnings he cannot blame others for his losses. Moreover, the gambler should learn to accept his fate. If he keeps money that he cannot lose in gambling, he must suffer for it. What is always suggested for gambling is to use as much money as he can afford to lose. But many of the gamblers quickly try to change their situation and after failing there, they blame others in various ways. Just as gambling requires money, it is also important for a gambler to have sufficient knowledge about his gambling. Dependent on others in gambling should be avoided. If a gambler relies on another, there must be both good and bad to manage gambling. Gambling can never be won by blaming.

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Quote from: zuzie on March 06, 2024, 09:30:18 AM

Quote from: nullama on January 04, 2024, 12:25:57 AM

The first step in actually coming back from an addiction is to realize that the gambler is to blame for their own actions. Not anyone else.

People are quick to blame others, but they rarely take responsibility of their actions when they lose.

By blaming yourself for wrong steps due to your careless actions in carrying out gambling activities and often experiencing losses, that is normal and natural, but if we gamblers blame other people for the losses we experience, that is a big mistake. . . because defeat in gambling is determined by the dealer or system, not other gamblers.
Therefore, it is a good idea for us to introspect ourselves on what we have done and immediately improve it.

You should take all the blame as you are the one who place your position and bet all the way, gambling losses is a sole responsibility of the person who make the move, there's should no other party to point your finger when you are in the losing situation, there's no change that will happen to you if you continue to have this kind of mindset, always remember that the money that you are using is all on your own responsibility, there's no one and only you who should take all the blame whatever the outcome, it's also good to keep improving if you are really in this business, knowing how to adjust in every session you completed an help you to use your understanding and anticipate what might be the best way of adjustment to make to have more winning accomplishements.

Quote from: adpinbr on March 07, 2024, 05:08:05 AM

Yes, it is really bad for such thing to happen to mother and son I can see it is just their stupidity and carelessness. They are too greedy. Most people play such amount in better independent your income, and how your mindset is been placed there is nothing for me to justify their action what they did is totally wrong. I wouldn’t advise anyone to take that step whatever they see they take whatever comes out from the action they took they deserve it that is the truth. You are not advice to be with what you cannot afford to do, but only with what you can ricks that is the major point here, please they shouldn’t accuse anyone over this because I knew it’s a matter of agreement between the both parties so no one should be accused Everyone should face the crime.

They do it and they are blaming someone to escape from that mistake, a desperate move to point finger and escape from the failure that they did but it didn't work and they both need to suffer from the crime that that they made, addiction is the reason and there's no one should be blame but the decision that they choose to take.

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Quote from: Negotiation on March 06, 2024, 09:59:01 PM

Quote from: zuzie on March 06, 2024, 09:30:18 AM

Quote from: nullama on January 04, 2024, 12:25:57 AM

The first step in actually coming back from an addiction is to realize that the gambler is to blame for their own actions. Not anyone else.

People are quick to blame others, but they rarely take responsibility of their actions when they lose.

By blaming yourself for wrong steps due to your careless actions in carrying out gambling activities and often experiencing losses, that is normal and natural, but if we gamblers blame other people for the losses we experience, that is a big mistake. . . because defeat in gambling is determined by the dealer or system, not other gamblers.
Therefore, it is a good idea for us to introspect ourselves on what we have done and immediately improve it.

I agree that gambling is a game of luck and depends on your own personal judgment and experience no one should be blamed here at all. If we ourselves do not gamble no one can force us to gamble. Rightly said it is the result of our actions but there are many who don't want to accept it. If you can put the blame on others you feel better. Gamblers initially denied it. But when it becomes a real problem they stop trying to deny it. So acknowledging the problem is very important.

Therefore, if we are not ready to lose and lose the money we have, it is better for us not to gamble because that is the risk we will face and if we cannot accept all the risks then it will most likely make us burdened.
If we dare to act, we must be prepared to take risks ourselves, not blame others for our defeat. I think people like that don't understand what gambling really means from the start, so they easily get emotional and take it out on other people.

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However, if I lose while gambling, I don't blame anyone because no one asked or instructed me to bet; I made my own decisions, thus whatever happens next is the result of no man's efforts. Assuming I was profiting, will I blame it on anyone? NO because they are not the ones gambling it for me and it is not their money to begin with, so that is why I won't also get angry or mad at anyone for what they feel is their efforts in my losing, but sometimes people blame their friends or relatives for being responsible for ruining their lives by gambling because they are the ones who introduced them to gamble, forgetting the facts that they are not the ones who ask them to be addicts have only introduced you, not asked them to gambling all the time. So controlling ourselves is all that matters, and whatever we face in gambling, good or bad, we should always blame ourselves rather than making others feel bad.

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Yes, it is really bad for such thing to happen to mother and son I can see it is just their stupidity and carelessness. They are too greedy. Most people play such amount in better independent your income, and how your mindset is been placed there is nothing for me to justify their action what they did is totally wrong. I wouldn’t advise anyone to take that step whatever they see they take whatever comes out from the action they took they deserve it that is the truth. You are not advice to be with what you cannot afford to do, but only with what you can ricks that is the major point here, please they shouldn’t accuse anyone over this because I knew it’s a matter of agreement between the both parties so no one should be accused Everyone should face the crime.

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Quote from: carlfebz2 on March 06, 2024, 11:48:32 AM

Sooner or later you would really be able to realize for yourself and would really be laughing on the things that you've been doing on which it isnt really that appealing because blaming out others
just because you are really that unfortunate is something that it isnt really that right. You are the ones who held responsible towards your actions on which it is really just that right that you would
really be the only one who would really be taking the blame with. It is really just that there are people who cant really be able to make out those realizations not until they would really be
able to find out themselves on hard situation on which we know that this is something very usual condition on where realizations would really be always at the end.

That's if you realize for yourself but if not, you will still blaming other people because of your loss from playing gambling. You will not care if that lose gambling is because of yourself mistake because you are difficult to realize the reality. Yes, we are the ones how held responsible of what we do so we must realize that we must be careful when playing gambling. It's no use if we blaming other people if we playing gambling excessively because that can gives us many losses. Other people don't suggest us to playing gambling but we want to playing gambling so we can't blaming other people if we get losing money from gambling. We need to realize that playing gambling can make losing our money and if we don't want to see the big loss, we must prevent to use much money.

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Quote from: zuzie on March 06, 2024, 09:30:18 AM

Quote from: nullama on January 04, 2024, 12:25:57 AM

The first step in actually coming back from an addiction is to realize that the gambler is to blame for their own actions. Not anyone else.

People are quick to blame others, but they rarely take responsibility of their actions when they lose.

By blaming yourself for wrong steps due to your careless actions in carrying out gambling activities and often experiencing losses, that is normal and natural, but if we gamblers blame other people for the losses we experience, that is a big mistake. . . because defeat in gambling is determined by the dealer or system, not other gamblers.
Therefore, it is a good idea for us to introspect ourselves on what we have done and immediately improve it.

I agree that gambling is a game of luck and depends on your own personal judgment and experience no one should be blamed here at all. If we ourselves do not gamble no one can force us to gamble. Rightly said it is the result of our actions but there are many who don't want to accept it. If you can put the blame on others you feel better. Gamblers initially denied it. But when it becomes a real problem they stop trying to deny it. So acknowledging the problem is very important.

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So we all know that kicking a bad habit, like gambling addiction, is no walk in the park. It's like trying to teach your cat to fetch – possible, but not exactly easy. Here's the thing: while the person gotta really want to quit, they don't have to go it alone.

Imagine trying to win a game of tug-of-war by yourself. Not gonna happen, right? Just like in that epic tug-of-war, overcoming addiction is a team effort. The person struggling needs support from their crew, whether it's family, friends, or professionals. Think cheerleaders, not drill sergeants.

It's important to remember that addiction is a disease, not a character flaw. Blaming or yelling won't help, just like yelling at your car won't fix a flat tire. Instead, be there for them, listen without judgment, and offer encouragement.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on March 06, 2024, 11:39:59 AM

Quote from: zuzie on March 06, 2024, 09:30:18 AM

Quote from: nullama on January 04, 2024, 12:25:57 AM

The first step in actually coming back from an addiction is to realize that the gambler is to blame for their own actions. Not anyone else.

People are quick to blame others, but they rarely take responsibility of their actions when they lose.

By blaming yourself for wrong steps due to your careless actions in carrying out gambling activities and often experiencing losses, that is normal and natural, but if we gamblers blame other people for the losses we experience, that is a big mistake. . . because defeat in gambling is determined by the dealer or system, not other gamblers.
Therefore, it is a good idea for us to introspect ourselves on what we have done and immediately improve it.

Blaming other people due to our loss will not change ourselves to realizes that the mistakeis is because of ours. We must realizes that we make that mistakes and needs to fix it before we make another big mistakes. It's often happen that someone blaming other people around him because he lose his money when playing gambling. That's the big mistakes he blaming other people and he must introspect himself to realize about the mistakes.

Without realizing what he done before, he will not see what mistakes that he already made. Other people can show his mistakes but if he can't accept the mistakes, he will make another mistake. It is why we must be careful when playing gambling and always prevent the big loss using limitations and have responsibility to playing gambling.

Sooner or later you would really be able to realize for yourself and would really be laughing on the things that you've been doing on which it isnt really that appealing because blaming out others
just because you are really that unfortunate is something that it isnt really that right. You are the ones who held responsible towards your actions on which it is really just that right that you would
really be the only one who would really be taking the blame with. It is really just that there are people who cant really be able to make out those realizations not until they would really be
able to find out themselves on hard situation on which we know that this is something very usual condition on where realizations would really be always at the end.

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