Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 7. (Read 5616 times)

These sort of frauds are happening all day and every day around the world, there is little surprising about it. I do wonder though if one of them was more guilty than the other, who may have been roped in to try and cover up the crime, that is the person I might feel sorry for in this situation. A mother would likely try to protect her son like that. However people that get sucked in and hooked at the depths of gambling addiction will often drag their family in when they have spent all their money. While I feel bad for people who have got themselves into such terrible and depressing situations, they ultimately took themselves down this path and should have extracted themselves early on once they started to see endless losses on their accounts - if you're constantly depositing, you're not winning.

Looking at the behavior of most people, we have scenarios in which a person X is married to another person Z, and that person with person X and I discover the identity of the person that person X sleeps with, then that person What I described has been happening every day in some corner of the world, because people always like to blame other people who are far away from them rather than blame themselves or the people who live with them. When it comes to gambling, people's tendency when they lose everything is to think that the person who first told them about gambling, and who deliberately misled them because they are jealous of them, wanted to destroy their life.

and this wrong thought starts to gain strength in the head of the person who lost everything in the game when that person starts to remember the past and has some memories of the mistakes that the person who told him about the game made, so for the person who lost everything in the game , it becomes more comfortable to stop blaming yourself and the person who recommended the game to you and focus on getting revenge on the person who recommended the game to you. That's why I have always advised people not to make the mistake of talking to friends about gambling and not recommending gambling to friends and neighbors because if those same friends and neighbors lose everything, they will come and charge you and they can until they are violent and a tragedy can happen

It's not just gamblers but people who spend a lot in general and when they have some bills to pay and they run out of money, they will start to blame you for that, they speak of any reasons possible just to blame others without even reflecting and pondering upon their mistakes and all they have in their mind is put the blame to others and we all know that this is some bad traits that no one would ever get because it will make others turn away from him eventually and he won't be having many friends let alone real friends that he can rely on.

Risks are triggered every single day in the system, also beating the odds are important. We're open to both losses and profits in the system, we just have to become careful and calculative whenever we're in the system. There's no better phase than watching yourself grow  to become a top target in the system. Blaming someone because of your mistakes doesn't counts because there's a whole lot to witnessed in the system. Gambling is mainly for those sets of people's that have grabbed the solid standings and they're able to deliver themselves in crucial times.

So me times people tend to transfer blames because of they inability to accept the fact that responsiblity comes with alot of demands and pains, sometimes those that blame others have a weak heart towards gambling and this have shown alot formthe market.


Sometimes most of them have chosen to believe in the other third parties opinion and at a point will give up they own selection and picking the selection of another gambler or a friend and when they lose, they easily can transfer they agrression to the other person.

People who have a habit of blaming others fail to recognize their own losses. There are major flaws in their gambling. Those who blame others for their own mistakes must be indifferent to gambling. I think responsible gamblers can never blame others. A responsible gambler must have the ability to take risks or else he may lose all his money. Moreover, those who cannot take risks do not win in betting. The ability to take risks is one of the few great qualities of a gambler. There is some benefit in accepting that loss easily. Blaming others does not erase one's own mistakes. Rather, those who admit their mistakes and learn from them are the true gamblers and are the ones who understand gambling better.

Yes of course we can't always know about the reasons for what other people's decisions are based on in a bet, that's another thing and what I think is the problem here is that not everyone has the same ability in terms of finance, meaning that if you follow other people's decisions in terms of predicting and they use large amounts of money because they have a good financial situation in life while you are the opposite who has medium or below average finances in life my question is would you still follow their way with the same level of bet amount? yes I understand that the budget amount can be modified to be lower for you but sometimes there are people who really follow the way of others as a whole and it is actually beyond their ability but they force it because maybe they are too excited and too confident in winning at the end of the session which in the end when the results do not match it creates problems with their finances due to the allocation of the amount of money that is beyond their ability.

On the other hand, I think what I said earlier is a fact in gambling where gambling is an activity that cannot be learned because everything goes randomly to determine who the winner is, so with this it is clearly better for us to gamble in our own way because maybe our way is more effective than the way that others have, especially if good luck comes at the same time.

Yes, but unfortunately not many people in the world think like this, and I believe that's why they never grow.

Taking full responsibility for your decision will make you stronger and you will have more confidence in yourself, even when you make mistakes you will learn from them, if these people successfully blame someone else I believe they still won't learn.

They will probably still carry out the same operation on someone else someday, people who don't take responsibility for their own decisions will never grow in every aspect of life, because they will keep shunning failure away from them, and failing is how we grow.

Like my father trained us, saying it's fine to fail, it's how we gain more knowledge, whenever I fail at something, he will ask me what I have learned from my failure.

Sometimes Addicted gamblers can do anything as crazy as this , and the sad thing
here is that they are Mother and Son and also a partners in crime  I cannot imagine my
wife and Son will do this thing lol.
lucky that i will never have this experience and will never have in my entire life
because this is really shameful .

Indeed, you need to understand and you need to adopt whenever you choose to proceed, there's no guarantee even sometimes you may take profits but it's not always and there's always a big risk, and if you don't know how to handle and work on it, the chance that it will push to stake more, and that's what happened to this mother and son,

they think that they might recover or win some when they use that money but suddenly, it turned agaisnt them and the only way they think to hide the truth is to blame someone and point their fingers just to escape from this obligation, but things didn't work as law enforcers proves that it was them who gamble and burned those money inside gambing house.

but because of addiction or whatever emotional damage they are facing now, their mindset becomes like that, Sometimes even though they know they are really wrong, but because they don't want to accept the mistake, they will find someone else to blame. So sometimes, as a gambler, I avoid giving opinions or advice to other people because I have experienced being in such a situation where, my acquaintance blames me for what is happening in their life now, They are addicted to gambling and buried in debt, I was the one to blame because they said I was the one who's playing it. it's just funny because no one forced them to gamble but terribly blaming other people for their wrong actions.

A wise gambler should know that whatever the outcome of gambling is his own responsibility. Gamblers who blame others are stupid gamblers. No one forces you to gamble. Even if someone gives a prediction because he or she has won the jackpot with that pattern, we have to know that everyone has different luck. I have friends who experience gambling losses because they believe in the pattern given by their friend. What you need to know is that the pattern in each game does not determine that it is a fixed pattern that will give you victory.

Why blame others when you make a loss? These people who irresponsible gamblers blame most of the time don't even contribute to their gambling loss but they still however end up blaming them just as a way to transfer the aggression the feel because they lost. One of the most crucial and important quality and behavior of a responsible gambler is his ability to manage losses. This is because most unnecessary transfer or wrong accusations and blames arise from the fact that the gambler in question lost some money in his previous stake and probably a huge amount.
The truth is , as a. gambler if you continue to blame people around you anytime you lose In gambling activities, it. Would be difficult for you to figure out your flaws or mistakes as well as possible ways to fix them.

Yeah, that's something that is very common.

Most people like to blame everyone else except themselves when something bad happens to them.

When something good happens to them though, they are quick to forget everyone that helped them and they take all the credit.

It's simply how most people behave.

That is what stupid gamblers usually do , they tend to look for someone to be blame because of their own mistakes ,imagine how much risk they use to gamble but when faces losses they will end up making big issues so their act will not look like fool, gamble at your own risk , and also when we gamble always remember that it is our decision unless they are being forced to bet .

Yes, it could also be true what you say, we don't know what method the gambler uses, from our knowledge behind it, to be safe it is better for us to use our own method and from that method we can learn how. to play real gambling. By facing many defeats and seeing other people's victories, we will slowly learn to explore this wisdom and experience so that we can use it as a guide in the future to improve our own situation.
Yes, it's true that we must always remember that our luck is definitely different from other gamblers and we must not be jealous of what other gamblers get.

I'm getting to understand that some people can't do the thinking, instead rely on the thoughts of close friends, before taking serious actions. Why would an adult get sidetracked easily to accept within himself, that his friend is responsible for his problem. It means the gambler wasn't thinking fine, about when all that happened. He wagered the funds with nobody's help. It's all a mistake, on his friend's end, because he discussed gambling in a non-gambler's presence, whose intention was to get rich via gambling. The addict is not a responsible gambler. As he doesn't care on fixing his life but focuses on blaming a friend for introducing him to gambling. Although, it's common to have people get moved away from their initial thoughts on the foundation that gambling has made some friends money. The player who accused his friend, may have never come across the instinct of becoming a gambler, till he met his friend. While the trouble is based on him, being observant of the type of conversation we give out to friends who don't gamble.

I have read about a lot of such stories on the internet, and most of the people who claim and tell these stories don't show their true identity. Let's investigate if what they said is truly as accurate as they claim it is. There is no doubt that some of the stories might be true, but on the other hand, when something looks so common among them, it should be questioned.
 
There is also another set of gamblers who lose everything to gambling, and when they are busy gambling, they feel like they are on top of the world and can't fake advice from anyone, but when the game turns sideways and they lose everything, you keep hearing stories about why they really did gamble.
 
This leads to that, and the rest of them are just people who are close to them or the casino to show sympathy to them; maybe at least they could be able to get some money back from anyone who buys their story, and they can use that to sponsor their gambling life again.

After all, there is absolutely no guarantee that anyone who depends on others to always be able to win in gambling, and maybe the people you follow are actually following the methods of others without your knowledge and obviously with this then the situation is the same, or the intention is better for you to do it yourself. On the other hand, everyone has their own instincts and choices about everything they want to do, and the worry is that when the predictions of the people you follow turn out to make you lose then the situation will only make you feel more disappointed or you can even have problems with the people you follow.

If you follow others then it's the same as you don't believe in yourself, we must understand that gambling is not something that can be learned and the point is that it means that anyone only acts and makes decisions according to their own beliefs and does not mean they have a winning recipe or formula, so with this of course it is better to gamble in our own way and instinct, we must remember that everyone has different luck which means that maybe your luck is much better than the person you follow the prediction.

in gambling we supposed to know that the statistics of people who lose in gambling is higher than the statistics of people who profited in gambling so when you look at the analysis or these two things you have to compare and understand that anyone who does not have a job or who does not take good care of their family is not supposed to involve itself into gambling knowing that a gambling have to deal with opportunity and the risk, neither you are opportune to Merit gambling or you fall into victim of losing whatever you stake and gambling so that is the advantages and  disadvantages of gambling.