Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 7. (Read 6130 times)

Yes simply it all depends on ourselves because the key is always about whether you are able to take responsibility for the decisions you have made or not, if not then think again and consider thoroughly using a rational mindset, lest you always end up with regret and disappointment due to your own actions that are not in accordance with your abilities. We come back to the real fact about gambling which is that it is a probability activity which means it is nothing more than a "possibility" of winning or losing, you or anyone else will never know the outcome at the end of the session because everything is random.

Therefore one of the reasons why we should bet within our means such as by using a budget amount that you can afford to be responsible for is because gambling always runs with the uncertainty of winning or losing while losing can never be tolerated, therefore of course it is best that we focus more on some precautions such as limiting the budget amount, It doesn't matter if you follow other people's ways but what is certain is that you must be able to account for everything at the end of the session, we must think of the long-term good rather than temporary pleasure, because many gamblers at that time also lost all the winnings they managed to get because they did not comply with the things that were suggested for their own good.

this kind of characteristic belong to irresponsible people that have no idea that world doesn't owe them anything.
gambling is form of an entertainment and people who gamble should know well that they are putting their money at stake and they and their own self is the one thats doing the deed.
sometime some people are so out of touch that they are detached from reality thinking they deserve better but certainly they don't when blaming other people for their own losses.
because these kind of people won't share the good thing when they are winning only sharing the sorrow if i met such people i will get away from them the second i know their characteristics.

This is what I know, for example, in gambling games, in any form, players and dealers already have an agreement in terms of playing, so in my opinion there is no compulsion in gambling games and the players are also aware of placing bets made by themselves, so any risk is taken. by myself, so in my opinion there is nothing to blame or accuse of cheating unless there is a system error in the gambling machine or the site is operating with little attention then something like that could happen.

I agree with you that if a gambler understands how much he can afford to risk his money in a casino, it is the right move for him and if he loses, he can definitely accept the loss. And indirectly he already has a sense of responsibility for the loss of his money and he will not blame other people for the loss because he has a correct understanding of his thoughts as you stated above.

If you gamble within the gambling limits, no one will suffer a major loss and if you do not suffer a major loss, you will not think of blaming anyone else. and if one hears of another and falls into gambling and bets high, he blames him in his heart, even if he does not blame anyone openly. there is no room to blame someone else for gambling. Gambling is at one's own risk and always one's own responsibility

The best thing that someone should do in this scenario is that they should always make sure that when things have finally settled down, they need to evaluate and assess that action that they've done, they need to change what wrong they've done and at the same time do strive to do changes to that behavior.

Shifting the blame from yourself to someone else after losing is quite stupid, but unfortunately there are a lot of such people and they are found not only in the field of gambling, but also in everyday life. I have been watching such people for a long time, but I have not been able to make a clear conclusion as to why they do this. On the one hand it may be a protective reaction of the organism, but on the other hand it is just stupidity, which does not allow you to learn from this situation.

Often a person tends to blame their failures on anyone or anything but themselves. This is characteristic of many people. Personally, I try to first find a mistake in my own actions, and then look for someone else to blame. If you do not make righteous conclusions, the losses will continue, although they could have been easily prevented

Often a person tends to blame their failures on anyone or anything but themselves. This is characteristic of many people. Personally, I try to first find a mistake in my own actions, and then look for someone else to blame. If you do not make righteous conclusions, the losses will continue, although they could have been easily prevented

We know where our limits so we don't using too much money and only uses the money we can afford. We will not blame other people if we lose on gambling because we know that every people responsible with their money so when they lose, they already know that is the risks of playing gambling. We must be careful when playing gambling because gambling can tempted us easily and makes us continue playing gambling after losing some money. Besides of other people, we can playing gambling because of curiosity and that makes we spends much money. We will needs to take care of ourselves and not blame other people because playing gambling is our responsibility.

I agree with you that if a gambler understands how much he can afford to risk his money in a casino, it is the right move for him and if he loses, he can definitely accept the loss. And indirectly he already has a sense of responsibility for the loss of his money and he will not blame other people for the loss because he has a correct understanding of his thoughts as you stated above.

I agree with you that if a gambler understands how much he can afford to risk his money in a casino, it is the right move for him and if he loses, he can definitely accept the loss.

And indirectly he already has a sense of responsibility for the loss of his money and he will not blame other people for the loss because he has a correct understanding of his thoughts as you stated above.

Yes, it is true that everyone has the ability to risk their own money and this will also influence the good and bad of the circumstances in their life, therefore it is true what you say, it is better to bet according to the limits of our own abilities. because that's a better way than imitating others. This is different from betting which cannot be reached with our abilities because it could have bad consequences for us of course.

We know where our limits so we don't using too much money and only uses the money we can afford. We will not blame other people if we lose on gambling because we know that every people responsible with their money so when they lose, they already know that is the risks of playing gambling. We must be careful when playing gambling because gambling can tempted us easily and makes us continue playing gambling after losing some money. Besides of other people, we can playing gambling because of curiosity and that makes we spends much money. We will needs to take care of ourselves and not blame other people because playing gambling is our responsibility.

Every person has their own limits in terms of finances or finances in their lives and if we measure this with other people's abilities then it is usually always different, it could be that your financial situation is better than others or vice versa, and if on the contrary in the sense that your financial situation is not as good as other people or other gamblers then yes of course it is not recommended to follow their way of betting especially if you follow it along with putting the same amount, because it is likely that the amount they think is small but for you it is an amount that may be very meaningful.

But on the other hand if you only follow the method without following the amount of the bet then maybe it doesn't really matter as long as the key is that you must be able to take responsibility for your decision to follow other people's bets if in the end it turns out that the results are not what you expected. Actually, the whole key is back to whether you are able to take responsibility for your decision or not and it doesn't matter whether you gamble using your own method or following others.

If I have a lower financial limit than my friends then I try not to follow their path in betting large amounts of money. because in my opinion it is better to play to the best of our abilities, if we follow other people's ways by force then later we will feel regret for the consequences of what we have done.
Yes, the results of gambling can be random and we as gamblers must be able to understand this so that one day when we lose we are ready to accept it sincerely.

Looking at the behavior of most people, we have scenarios in which a person X is married to another person Z, and that person with person X and I discover the identity of the person that person X sleeps with, then that person What I described has been happening every day in some corner of the world, because people always like to blame other people who are far away from them rather than blame themselves or the people who live with them. When it comes to gambling, people's tendency when they lose everything is to think that the person who first told them about gambling, and who deliberately misled them because they are jealous of them, wanted to destroy their life.

and this wrong thought starts to gain strength in the head of the person who lost everything in the game when that person starts to remember the past and has some memories of the mistakes that the person who told him about the game made, so for the person who lost everything in the game , it becomes more comfortable to stop blaming yourself and the person who recommended the game to you and focus on getting revenge on the person who recommended the game to you. That's why I have always advised people not to make the mistake of talking to friends about gambling and not recommending gambling to friends and neighbors because if those same friends and neighbors lose everything, they will come and charge you and they can until they are violent and a tragedy can happen

If I have a lower financial limit than my friends then I try not to follow their path in betting large amounts of money. because in my opinion it is better to play to the best of our abilities, if we follow other people's ways by force then later we will feel regret for the consequences of what we have done.
Yes, the results of gambling can be random and we as gamblers must be able to understand this so that one day when we lose we are ready to accept it sincerely.

On the other hand, I think what I said earlier is a fact in gambling where gambling is an activity that cannot be learned because everything goes randomly to determine who the winner is, so with this it is clearly better for us to gamble in our own way because maybe our way is more effective than the way that others have, especially if good luck comes at the same time.

The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.

Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.

Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.