Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 19. (Read 6087 times)

Recently giving out advice to gamblers in the casino only gets difficult because it may not work in favor of the gambler. Hence it's better not to bother ourselves with some other person's actions. They must take the part that best suits them, to enable the player to stay responsible for any results following his predictions. Things only get very abstract, as gamblers when we lose out on some other person's advice. I don't see the reason why people can't gamble on their own. Some believe that the predictions from experts are the best. Not knowing that it's no different from what they've got. The gambler's prediction could be better than the expert's own. Somehow I'd say the gambler indeed lost his self-control, which could get abnormal in the process of gambling. The gambler now gets easily carried away and abides by any advice flying on the air. In the physical casino, most times the experts or professionals try to help other gamblers, especially in slots.

But, it's not a must and the few who follow the instruction of the professional are doing it on their own will. This means that he's not meant to get sad over the results he'd get from the machine. Having people around us while gambling could be fun, especially the experts, but we are expected to be conscious of our money, as it may not matter who made the prediction. What is of most importance is, not losing more than we have arranged for, which could be bad on the gambler's end. The regrets or blame as I said earlier, comes as a result of losing too much money, and the gambler is now sad about his mistakes. Instead of accepting his loss, he then looks for someone else who was with him in the casino, to blame. They forget that with or without the advice, the gambler will lose more than he'd win for the day. So, the gambler shouldn't blame anybody not even himself. There is more to learn from the money lost while gambling.

I think That's better, those who experience a lot of losses should be able to think that the losses that occurred were because of themselves. If they really want to blame, it's better to blame themselves because that's more natural than blaming other people, even if it's blaming the person who invited them to gamble in the first place. and it's true what you say, rather than blaming other people for the losses that have occurred, it's better for them to just stop, that's a quite reasonable solution, because not only will the losses be avoided, but it's also possible that they won't have problems with their finances, because there are many people who experience financial problems by gambling.

Apart from that, we should be responsible for the actions we take, because of all the things we do, of course we ourselves have to overcome and face the results of the actions we have taken, whether it is a loss or a gain, it is best not to blame other people. because it can trigger arguments, where they will not accept that they are blamed for our own actions. So it's better to introspect yourself, don't throw stones and hide your hands, because that's not a responsible action, in my opinion it's the same as a coward who doesn't want to admit his mistake.

It's human desire that place that lust and for some reasons there are always pleasure that you are gaining when you please the kind of
emotions that residing inside you.

If you initiate that better to accept the risk behind it, never to find any reason or to point something as whatever
action you take is the same obligation you should take.

It's you and no one should be blame when you follow your desire and lose your money after playing.

You must be very aware of things When they are about the game , we , above all , are thinking people , who know that there is Only good and bad , we must Know that a person who is of legal Age is Responsible , Assumes his risks and is able to take Responsibility and Assume whatever type of act they do because that is what it means to be an Adult , we can only continue doing things that we are not and then blame Someone else for the fact that we can see Certain Behaviors in the wings in local casinos , and if we decide to be this way or to Improve some type of Game , we can do it and if it doesn't work, we cannot blame that person for wanting to have done it, we are Responsible for our actions, the fact that someone has shown us the casino and that We have become addicted , it is not that people's fault, it is our fault for having Enough self-control , that is something we must always focus on to get things done.

When we are in a physical casino, it is easier for us to do Certain things , Sometimes we let ourselves be carried away by Emotions , sometimes by Impulses , which can make us lose , even lose more than win, sometimes there are people who make themselves known and cannot give gaming Advice to do something in particular and not let ourselves win, which happens many times , and when we are in important games, we can receive advice from others and if that Advice leads us to lose, the fault is not the person who told us. But of ourselves for having accepted such advice and that is what should be evident here and Everywhere , we must be Responsible in everything, from the first moment we enter until we leave the caisno, we are responsible for spending each dollar that we have available there, in each game session we must learn and accept our mistakes and pay our Consequences , when a bad map comes , certain things must be Applied to get out of it and not lose anymore , in my case it is not playing anymore.

Gamblers differ and it's a matter of orientation. Not every gambler has similar ideas to anyone else. We all had this beginning winning syndrome. For instance, when I first saw a friend cash in from his gambling app, my idea of gambling mainly was to make money and I thought of multiple means of maximizing my wins. Some other people who don't read about the effects of gambling on the brain and how it could be detrimental to the life of the gambler may as well follow the advice of other players who claim to be experts or have better techniques that guarantee winning. Some of these challenges have led some gamblers to lose lots of money in gambling without holding anybody accountable for their mistakes. Hence they'll fall back in regret to blame the people who had given them a fair share of gambling prediction that led to their anxiety. For gamblers who don't take responsibility for their actions, it only gets harder to escape gambling addiction.

The few complaints I've read in this forum about people who blame others for pushing them to gamble show that addicts always blame others for their mistakes. As if, when left alone to make a decision, they wouldn't make the worst decision of all time. Those who scold people, who don't have business relating to gambling, for being the cause of their problem are undergoing a severe level of gambling addiction, which when not attended to would make addiction so difficult for the person to get healed. Problems like what Op shared are not conducive for anybody to behave in that way, all because of gambling. The person wasn't present or didn't contribute to the financial troubles of the boy and his mother. These things are so abnormal that, we can't fold our hands and watch people make silly mistakes due to gambling. Addicts forget that accepting responsibility for the problem they're into would help them heal faster, than blaming others. That means sooner, they'll go back to gambling believing that all the damages it cost them in the past wasn't their fault.

This is either a special form of denial, that is, disbelief that they lost, or a kind of fraud. Sometimes it happens that after losing a large sum, a person enters an altered state of consciousness and, on a subconscious level, stops believing in a reality that is unfavorable for him. This usually happens with hysterical individuals. But, in my opinion, this is a completely different case. Mother and son are trying to shift the blame from themselves to people innocent of their loss. This is what the lack of risk consideration and lack of risk management leads to. To avoid blaming anyone for your losses, simply limit your risks. And do it tough.

It is the devil's job to continue to seduce us humans to get what we want.
But not everything will always happen easily, which makes us always try to get it.
But not many people want to blame themselves because they feel they are right to have such desires. They want to get what they want but don't realize that we can't always win in gambling.
We also shouldn't blame other people when we experience defeat because it is our fault, so we must be able to learn from these mistakes so we don't repeat them.
There is no need to regret what happened, but we can always be careful so we don't make another mistake next time.

On that point, when you follow someone's bet you should take full responsibility indeed, there's should be no pointing fingers if you lose that pick, following someone means that you entrust your money for that particular pick and it's all on you as what you said, something that a gambler is really missing when they follow someone's advise.

They love to win when the pick goes accordingly but if the bet did not push to the direction that they are expecting it, then expect them to find ways to blame the person that they followed.

 think we've all witnessed that sort of blame game. Pointing fingers is simpler than looking in the mirror. Its important to take responsibility for our own acts, though. It's similar to playing poker in that you are not responsible for the cards you are given. You make every effort to play your hand.

About people who always point the finger at others. You know, its like they're caught in a loop. Never look within; always glance forth. Although it's a difficult cycle to break, its crucial. You must know when to hit and when to stand, just like in blackjack. You are to blame, not the dealer.

Whats the lesson, then? As with responsible gambling, its all about the individual. You take a chance, make your decisions, and deal with the consequences. Hey, you learn sometimes and you win occasionally. Thats life, isnt that right? Lets maintain realism and responsibility.

Sometimes there are also gamblers who really think like children so they can't act maturely when someone gives advice on betting. Still, we are the ones who are responsible for the decision to bet with bets that we trust, if we trust someone for the bets that we make, we should it is our own responsibility, not someone else's fault.

Everyone has the right to give advice, we also have the right to determine every bet we place, so when you choose to follow other people's advice, you should not vent your anger and emotions at other people because it is not their fault but our own fault for not being too confident. by our own choice. I think there is a mistake in this way of thinking, we should not scold anyone because of our own mistakes, especially if we have to bring that emotion and anger into our household, where our family, who don't know anything but are affected by our anger, blame them for something they don't know. they do.

The only one to blame is the devil as he keeps whispering to anyone of us that even after we lose that in the next game session we are going to hit that big win.The human being is weak and guided by greed in most of the cases and that is why we keep following advices fron entities we should not as the devil surely isn't interested in our well being,in fact the complete opposite so I only blame myself from following whispers I should definitely not follow.

As a player I have always seen that the blame that one likes has to be assumed with as much caution as possible, since this can generate many things, frustration and anger, for those who blame others for having lost at the casino, the only The way to blame them is that they get into my account and bet without my permission and I take that as their fault, or that I am in a normal casino that is not digital and they make plays without my consent and lose, that is a of the things that I do not accept, but that is what must always be verified.

That already enters the field of abuse, but the fact of following advice that others give us while we play and lose is not the fault of others, we have to be mature with our decisions and do not blame anyone for our decisions, that is something that We have to accept and not blame others, it is our responsibility above all, it is something that we have to do with all possible maturity.

Despite having a pretty bad memory, this excuse for sin is probably one of the worst excuses, forgetting is just learning how to escape mistakes, unintentionally falling into gambling may only be a few times, but repeated many times, it is no longer unreasonable, there is a basis to show that this behavior is actively putting themselves in a desperate position. Proactively admitting mistakes sometimes helps a gambler become more intelligent in life; on the contrary, it only separates them more from success and makes friends with avoidance.

A gambler may take part in gambling by hearing from others or by referral system. Many may try to involve other people in gambling to increase their referrals. I do not find any fault with the referrer or others. Because whether a person gambles or not will depend entirely on that person. No one can force him. Moreover, if someone wins in gambling, he will never want to give a share of the winnings to his referrer. There is no room to blame him for that compliance either. Moreover, whatever anyone says, since my own decision is the most appropriate, then what is the use of blaming others? I think only people who have lost their general sense would make such a complaint.

Gambling is indeed a game of choice despite if your are being persuaded by anyone to join but if you are into gambling and incurring too many losses the best is just to quit or limit your gambling rate rather than putting blame on someone that introduced you into gambling, in every thing in life, it is your decision to choose either get involved or not that's why most gambling inscribed their gambling sites with ",play responsibly" as you are responsible for any action you choose to take.

There's no other than should really be blamed of other than on yourself on which you are the ones who would really be that need to be blamed but you. You dont have the rights on pointing out fingers
into others and telling that they are the ones who are responsible on the thing that you are experiencing. It is really just that there are people who are really that on extreme denial
whenever they are experiencing such unfortunate conditions. Blaming out someone wont really help a thing on which you do really just that make some excuse and would really be just that proceeding further on the things that you are really that been doing. There are ones who might have those own self realizations but there would be those people who do really love
on pointing fingers into others.

No one but yourself should be the one to blame if you got addicted in gambling.
The people around you are just there to guide you, but to alter lifestyle is all on you.
If you can't contain yourself in front of your games, better decide fast if you will traverse the gambling path or not.

The gambling that happens is clearly done consciously, it is not possible that they do it accidentally or unconsciously, even if there is a friend who insists that if they have a strong stance, maybe they will not be tempted by the invitation made by that friend, but we know that even without the invitation of friends or other people, a person can gamble deliberately and obviously in a conscious state, after that a clear loss will be obtained because the chance of winning is small rather than the chance of a big defeat that they will feel, so surely they will feel a lot of losses from gambling, and those losses are based on their own actions.
On what basis does a person who gambles and experiences losses continue to blame others for the losses he has already suffered?
are you like that?
many people gamble with their own actions, and they should accept their loss well there are some people who do not accept the defeat that is detrimental to them, making them more aggressive in gambling,  it can also have an impact on the people around them, such as one of them, offending other people for the losses he has already obtained even though it should not have happened, because it is not appropriate.

Maybe he was also a gambling addict who couldn't accept his losses. This can be seen from his attitude of blaming others when he loses.

Gamblers who get angry when they lose and blame those around them do not want to accept other people's advice that enough is enough and it is time to leave gambling. But they don't want to listen to it and instead continue gambling because they feel they can still win the gambling game. He doesn't have self-control if he says things like that because he also doesn't see that he has actually experienced a lot of losses and must immediately stop gambling. But he was unable to do so because there was such an urge to recover his losses that he could not even get his money back.

If they are ordinary gamblers, they may still be willing to listen to other people's advice to stop because they have experienced a losing streak. They don't want to make silly mistakes like other gamblers make because they care about their money. Perhaps they will return to the casino in a few days to gamble again. But they will not try to recover their losses or pursue their wins.

That's true that there are many gambler who are addicted by for them irresponsible behave but they blame the person who introduce him gambling I think it's totally wrong. Such persons fall into addiction through by the fault of their own.  But the above topic situation I think is different here I think parents should have been more responsible.