Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 11. (Read 6081 times)

Blaming other people due to our loss will not change ourselves to realizes that the mistakeis is because of ours. We must realizes that we make that mistakes and needs to fix it before we make another big mistakes. It's often happen that someone blaming other people around him because he lose his money when playing gambling. That's the big mistakes he blaming other people and he must introspect himself to realize about the mistakes. 

Without realizing what he done before, he will not see what mistakes that he already made. Other people can show his mistakes but if he can't accept the mistakes, he will make another mistake. It is why we must be careful when playing gambling and always prevent the big loss using limitations and have responsibility to playing gambling.

By blaming yourself for wrong steps due to your careless actions in carrying out gambling activities and often experiencing losses, that is normal and natural, but if we gamblers blame other people for the losses we experience, that is a big mistake. . . because defeat in gambling is determined by the dealer or system, not other gamblers.
Therefore, it is a good idea for us to introspect ourselves on what we have done and immediately improve it.

I like the idea of always taking the responsibility, in the end of the day you are the one picking your choices and pressing the buttons, no one else, so honor that.

I don't think it's a good idea to recommend bets since when they win it's ok but if they lose on your bet they'll blame you afterwards.
i don't know, better to do you and they do them

Appreciate your advice. One should never suggest anyone to gamble because no one can get guaranteed winnings from gambling. Many of my friends ask me for gambling suggestions and I tell them to stick to their own rules. I have experienced something in the past where when my friend asked me for a gambling suggestion, I gave him a suggestion. At one point when my friend lost he couldn't tell me anything but seeing his state of mind I realised that my suggestion was a loss for him. Suggesting someone else about gambling means a rift in the relationship.

I agree with that, gambling that is done is certainly better kept secret. because most people have a bad view of gambling, so even if we don't keep it a secret, there will likely be disagreements or conflicts. Even though the winnings might be shown off or shown to everyone, I'm sure not everyone will like it, there are definitely people who don't like things like that, because they have a bad view of gambling. Now if you think about it, gambling is not wrong, the number of people who experience problems in life because of gambling is because their own actions went too far.
Even if we show our friends our winnings, maybe our friends have lost by gambling and we show off the winnings they have obtained, maybe it can trigger their emotions. Keeping everything well is good for ourselves, therefore it is better to keep the gambling we do a secret, rather than conflict as you say is true. Also, if we lose at gambling, we shouldn't blame other people or take out our frustrations on other people.

That's clear, indeed risks exist in everything, not only in gambling, investing and trading, of course everything that is done has its own risks where the risks are definitely there and detrimental, but of course the risks can still be minimized or even avoided depending on We ourselves are the ones who do it well and correctly or not. The point is that everyone certainly doesn't want their money to just disappear, but with the fact that gambling has a clear risk of losing money, it definitely cannot be avoided, but if you want to avoid big losses, maybe you can do it, such as gambling appropriately. What you say is correct, because it is unethical if we lose and blame it on other people, because the gambling we do is caused by ourselves, not because of other people.

I agree with you, indeed the things you mentioned require skills and knowledge, especially with investment, of course to be able to avoid losses and make profits we must have good skills and knowledge, because if there are no skills and knowledge at all there is a big possibility what will happen is only loss. as you said, discipline is also important in this case, because it can determine the future, especially with gambling. We should be disciplined in gambling so that we don't incur big losses which might trigger arguments with other people if we gamble based on casino advice from other people.

Exactly. It is advisable to keep your gambling activities and strategies to yourself to avoid any conflicts with anyone and not to suggest them to someone else, particularly with a friend who should be someone you can trust. If such a situation happens to me, it can weigh on my conscience, and I might end up feeling responsible for any negative consequences that may arise.

They gambled away a lot of money and then falsely accused someone of stealing the money from their account. They didn't want to take responsibility for their own actions and wanted someone else to pay for their losses. It's a bad example of gambling behavior. We should always keep in mind to only gamble what we can afford to lose.

You are correct because gambling, investing, and trading all involve some level of risk. And in each situation, it's critical to manage that risk by not gambling, investing, or trading with money you can't afford to lose, because they're all unpredictable and the possibility of losing is very real. It's also essential to avoid blaming others when things go wrong; the truth is that all of these activities include some degree of chance and danger.

 In addition to the element of risk, all three of these fields necessitate a certain level of knowledge, skills, and focus. Gambling necessitates a knowledge of the odds and the capacity to make informed decisions about when and how much to make bets Trading and investing necessitate a thorough understanding of financial markets, as well as the ability to spot trends and make strategic decisions. Furthermore, all three tasks necessitate the ability to maintain discipline and keep to a plan even when things aren't going well.

Gambling is not for underaged players, so whatever result we get as a result of our gambling habit shouldn't be blamed on anybody, not even on ourselves, most of the times, taking responsibility is better, too many blames isn't fine. Gambling is an unpredictable game and should be managed with all we've got. The emotion of every gambler gets tampered with, individually, and when things are not carefully handled the person could be affected psychological, where he begins to regret involving himself into gambling and end up sending out a pile of blames on the person who got him into such a habit. But, looking deeply into the behavior, you'd understand the gambler who blames others is the addict. Hence, he's not doing it on his right senses. The player is only undergoing too many pains, that he wants to instigate some, emotionally, on the next person, probably, those who introduced him into the game. 

After losing a huge sum on gambling, It gets hard to swallow the reality. I feels like it's a dream and hope the reality changes or I could somehow undo this but what's done is done and there's no undo button on real life. We should accept the reality and learn from our mistakes and move on.
The case with the mother and son, I haven't followed it but they could be blaming the person that introduced them to the gambling. The person might have introduced them gambling as a way of making money like many people that advertise gambling website online does. Anyway the person that gambles with their are solely responsible for it.

It makes sense, indeed if I think that no friend would force us to do gambling, because of course it is not good. Even if those who are addicted to gambling want to gamble, I think the bad action that will occur is their coercion of their friends in terms of borrowing money for gambling, if they force their friends to do gambling it seems unlikely. It's true what you said, if for example someone gets a jackpot there is a possibility that they can forget about their friend, because of course most people when they have a lot of money they prefer to look for new things.

Now if to recommend it just makes sense, I myself if someone asks problems or issues about gambling where they don't know gambling at all, I explain it, and after explaining I don't even invite him, instead I forbid him to try it and warn him for fear of bad things happening that can destroy their own lives.

Yep., you would really be finding yourself getting blamed on the time that you would really be giving out those kind of suggestions on which this is something that would really be that so common behavior for
those who do gamble. On the time that your suggestion turns out to be a lost then for sure he/she would really be blaming just because you've told him on what to bet.
This is why if you dont like on getting blamed so better just watch out and zip your mouth.  Even if he's your friend, you wont really be that exempted with those kind of blaming.
Even into yourself on which on the time that there's someone who do make out some suggestion and it had lost then for sure you would really be doing the same.

This is why it would be always best that you would really be playing according into your own choice and wont really be tending to give out advises or hearing out
someones advise. If you have lost then you do just simply move on and then call it a day without questions asked.

It's not a good idea to recommend someone to place bets, even if you don't insist on it. Doing so can lead to blaming others if they lose money or have bad luck after following your recommendation. It can also result in feelings of guilt if the person loses money based on your suggestion. To avoid any of these negative feelings, it's best to refrain from recommending bets to friends.

When entering and playing gambling, we must take responsibility for our actions there, as well as losses. Only us and no one else. I often hear that someone was brought into the game by a friend and because of him they lost a lot of money, this is not correct. Our friend didn’t force us to play; we pressed the spins and bets button ourselves, not him. Another interesting point is that if he won the jackpot, he could completely forget about his friend. It turns out that this is to some extent a mirror situation in which everyone can show their true colors.

As for me, I can recommend some bets to a friend, but I will not insist that he make them, but only suggest them. Moreover, suggest that he do this with a small amount of money, and also warn that addiction is possible if he loses. Besides, if such games were recommended to me, I would never blame my friend.

I know about gambling from friends and maybe many other gamblers definitely know about gambling from friends and other people too. But that doesn't mean that when we lose we have to blame the person who introduced us to gambling, whatever results we get from gambling are entirely our own fault. It's the same when we trade, when we lose we shouldn't blame the person who introduced us to trading.

Therefore, we need knowledge to be able to know and manage our finances well, so that when we experience a loss it is our own strategy and decisions that are to blame. Gamblers must have principles, so that whatever happens with gambling, we can introspect ourselves and rearrange strategies rather than blaming other people. You can blame other people if they force something according to their wishes, but in my opinion as responsible gamblers we will not be influenced by other people's coercion because we have our own strategies and goals. That's why we must have principles in gambling so that we are not influenced by other people's strategies

interesting example and in a good story it would work out
but in a bad story the guy goes gambling, loses all the money and have to run away for a different city to avoid being beaten (or worse!)

I think gambling is most of the times done as enterteinment or fear of life, as a way to run from responsibilities

I think it's more more complicated. Engaging in gambling is not like jumping out of the bridge, you know. Someone might think that he wants to gamble because of self-preservation. If he owes someone $1,000 and is told that he'll be killed if he will not pay by tomorrow, but he has only $200 at the moment, he'll try to make $1,000 through gambling "out of self-preservation". I'd suggest to pay $200 and promise to pay the rest later, But, of course, if he cares about his self-preservation he shouldn't be dealing with such people in the first place.

One as a conscious player must know and realize that the decisions made in the game are one's own responsibility, there is no other, we cannot be people who are looking for culprits where there are none, since we have our money and we We are destined to do things very well, and every mistake we make is ours, not someone else's. One of the things that causes many problems is when you go to the casino with friends, friends, they are always going to talk, they are going to give certain advice, to do one thing or another, but it is not like that, things must be very Well, if we should pay attention, if in the event that we follow the lead of someone, a third party or something other than us, that decision becomes ours, and we must accept whatever consequence it entails, be it good or bad, we must accept it, then this is what we should see.

Now when we accept certain things we can affirm that all the Responsibility is Entirely ours, it belongs to no one else. If we win, are we willing to share it with the person who told us? I think not, things are very different and they seem different, for those things we must do whatever it takes to be determined in our decisions, in this order of ideas , always what we do in our game is our responsibility, In fact , that's why I say that when we are in a casino and we see someone playing, we shouldn't say Anything, or give them advice, or anything, because we don't know how their reaction will be, they are people who don't know us, or they are people who Maybe they are very delicate and we cannot do things that we do not want them to do to us later, or that is why that saying comes up a lot that says that "The peepers are wooden", what they say and what they affirm is very wise. , because things in reality should be like this.

Well, in this case we can conclude that the gambler wins because of his own efforts, not because of other people's efforts, so if he wins, he can enjoy it himself without needing to share it with other people. Just be calm and enjoy your gambling without feeling that if you lose, you will blame your friends because friends you don't know your pattern of playing and their don't know how much loss you experience. Because the gambling you do is the one who creates the loss, so whether you win or lose, you have to be able to accept it without having to involve other people in this.

Blaming other people will only waste your time because your friends definitely won't respond because your friends don't feel guilty for the mistakes you made yourself. Losses are common among gamblers. If you don't want to experience losses and end up blaming other people, it's better not to play because it will disrupt your friendship ties just because you blame each other.