Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 13. (Read 6081 times)

Once can only feel good when he is on profits I know gambling to be something that doesn't make someone feels good ordinarily except such gambler is on profit making serious cashout when there's lost nobody would want to still gambling untill he succeeded with at least out 70 percent of his gambling time 30 percent should be more of winning then such person can say is good to gamble.

Besides why does people gamble first we usually say is for fun while people sees it as a means of doubling their income and when it doesn't work that they said is bad and reality we know gambling is bad but we must not expect winning all times.

Yes I agree with what you said. We are adults. We are responsible for our own decisions. Any input and suggestions from outside are only as information for us to make decisions. And when you have made a decision, everything is at your risk. Just like when a friend tempts you to gamble and you become addicted, that is your own responsibility and fault. Unless you are able to prove it like your friend is forcing you and threatening you to gamble.

Yes, I also believe that you have the right to blame your friend who forced you to gamble, but that cannot be the reason why you ended up in that situation. It's still your fault that you ended up in that situation, not your friend's, you have your own mind. We know that we have bad influence friends even I have them but I still know right and wrong so they don't lead me to their nonsense. Even if your friend introduced you to gambling, even if your friend forced you to gamble, you still have a choice and that's up to you. Because I believe that no matter how stupid your friend is, as long as you know right from wrong, you won't have any problems.

Everyone who gambles learns from others, but it doesn't mean that if you lose, you'll blame the person who introduced you to it, because he just shows you how to bet a game; now it's up to you to forecast who to play based on your experience. Gambling is just a lucky game, if you have luck, you will earn from it, but some people will be betting anytime and not winning and they will not quit, they will say they need to get back their capital that they staked on it, which is not something that will be easy to get because it is a lucky game, no one can predict what will happen in a game, that is why you should not he addicted to it because you won't get time for your self to plan reasonable things that can generate you money. Is better if you stake a bet and you see you have lose you should just stop for while and give times not to be playing anytime.

For sure, and like what you just said if they only realize the impact of gambling,  staying away will always be the first option to them, but most of the time that's not the case, those people who suffered from addiction always find ways to blame someone,  they always have excuses about their addiction,  though sometimes when a person realizes what's messing up with him he'll find ways to quit away.

Until the time you already accepting your mistakes then you will be able to wake up with this mess in your life, though if you are not willing to accept pointing the blame  will always be your option,  there's no changes that will happen to you.

Blaming people, maybe this will happen as an instant or reflex response when we lose in gambling, especially if we lose consecutively and experience quite large losses. However, we need to remember that blaming other people will not help us solve the problem at all. because the problem lies within ourselves. So it would be better if we stay focused on personal responsibility and take steps that help us to manage gambling behavior well.

And if there is someone who introduces us to gambling, then it is quite important to be able to communicate directly with them openly and seek support to overcome gambling problems, instead of blaming them directly. Giving personal responsibility and taking steps for positive change is more likely to provide constructive and concrete results. And if we still blame other people, when we discover a gambling problem, this shows that we are still childish and do not have maturity in gambling. "A person who still behaves like that, he is absolutely not suitable to be in gambling"

Blaming friends or relatives who introduced us to gambling is not appropriate. The real decision lies with those of us who are curious about gambling. because I'm sure that if we ourselves don't find out and are curious about the gambling carried out by relatives or friends, they won't tell us or even invite us to gamble.
I am sure that every beginner gambler knows the risks of the gambling they are going to do. they use their own money. and they play with their own minds and stakes. but when you lose, why should you blame others. it's part of the game, and there are winners and there are losers. all beginners in gambling certainly know that.
anyone who wants to invite other people or wants to introduce gambling to other people. Always be wise to ensure that there are big risks in gambling games.

That is, if people can realize the impact of gambling so that they will try to stay away from gambling games and will not try to gamble. They know that once they try gambling, there is a possibility that they will return to gambling again and maybe even more often. And if they gamble on the advice of their friends, there is a possibility that they will blame their friends even though it is not purely their friends' fault but because they are curious about gambling. They don't want to think about what impact gambling has on them and only blame other people when they start to feel the impact and people like that will not be able to learn from their experiences because they will always blame other people without being willing to introspect themselves.

Right, I think these days most of the new gamblers who come in they start their involvement by learning about gambling from some of their friends who have already learned about gambling, I think whether you gamble because of your own will or on the advice and invitation of your friends still for the problem of possible adverse effects that will occur is the same, meaning that you still have the possibility to suffer adverse effects if you have the wrong approach to gambling, meaning that it cannot be denied that there will always be a possibility for you to end up with addiction.

On the other hand I have experienced a situation like this where one of my friends who has never gambled at all he asked me to teach gambling with easy adaptation steps such as how to deposit and make withdrawals along with how to play, honestly it is a confusing situation for me, logically if I don't teach it then there will be a bad impression in the sense that he will think that I don't have good solidarity in a friendship relationship until I don't want to teach him how to gamble. but on the other hand what I think is, first I am afraid that he will experience the bad effects of gambling even though on the other hand I give very good directions, and of course in the end it is very possible to end up blaming me when he experiences a downturn, But on the other hand what I think is, first I am afraid that he will experience the bad effects of gambling even though on the other hand I provide very good direction, and of course in the end it is very possible for him to end up blaming me when he experiences a downturn or defeat, even though basically he himself asked me to teach him but still "blaming me for the losses he experienced someday" is possible, and at that time I prefer to refuse and change the conversation to take his mind off gambling.

Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? The simple answer is no

I play with my own money and then I loss of course Im not blame someone else unless I deposit and there is someone who hack my account and blow up entire account with huge losses.

but in you case The police should do more investigation and the court must make a wise decision and to be honest the mother and the son is made a big mistake when they gave false information and this gonna be a long trial

Sometimes many people learn gambling from friends. I think gambling on your own will lead to some problems and if you start gambling on the advice of others, you may face many problems. If you waste extra time in gambling.  If you want to gamble you can gradually get addicted to gambling. So I think it is best if you stay away from this game as much as you can and enjoy gambling during good weekdays.

Yeah, we still do things that we don't like to do but will make us better.

People still work out, and eat less, etc. All those things are worse for the present but better for the future.

Gambling feels good in the moment, but it is usually bad in the long term.

We have been introduced to a lot of things but still, we only choose to do the things we like, which means we also enjoy being at that situation. Gambling is not wrong, anyone can gamble but one who gambles must know their financial tolerance level so that they can spend the right amount on the entertainment part. If they let their own emotions to take control of their actions then we are the only one to be blamed not the one who introduced to it.

I've read the article and realization of how hard it is to live for people without proper education is painful. Firstly, they shouldn't have risked $8,000 if they couldn't afford to lose it. Secondly, be they educated people they would know in advance that accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the funds from their account is a lost case. Absolutely. I will not be the first to say, by all means, get yourself educated, people. You'll save yourself from a lot of trouble, including reckless gambling.

I agree with you, if we ourselves gamble because we are forced to, then it is not wrong to blame that person for their coercion, but in my opinion no one will force us to gamble, unless that person forces us to borrow money to gamble. and the rest is up to us, as you said, whether we will follow it or not. If we really have a strong stance then we can reject it outright. because myself, if someone forces me to borrow money to gamble, I will advise that person, even if that person still insists on forcing me, I will not hesitate to take violent action even if it is my friend who forces me to borrow money to gamble.

That's true, but if that person only introduces gambling to us then it's not natural for us to blame the gambling losses that we've felt. because there is no element of coercion, also I think we are the ones who do the gambling, because if he just introduces it, it has no effect on us, and if we gamble because we are curious and want to try it then that is the beginning of problems that occur. especially if we don't have good control, which makes us addicted to gambling based on our own actions, not other people's.

This is the importance of stabilizing your mentality first before gambling. because a mental that is not strong enough to deal with defeat can cause cases like this to occur, some even steal or rob in order to return the money lost due to losing at gambling.
If you really can't afford to lose money, it's better to keep quiet and not touch gambling at all.

i will not blame other people for the losses i experience, because after all i am the one gambling and i should be responsible for whatever decisions i make.

but when we talk about cowards they usually shift their mistakes to others. just like the case where the woman gambled her money but ended up losing and she instead made up another story to get back the money she lost. it was proof that he was a coward and he was not prepared to lose his money.

everyone who gambles, if it is not the casino's fault, and they lose, they should be held responsible for what they do. don't look for other reasons for their losses because that's the same as being a coward.

Well the logic is like that, as you said that if someone else forces us to gamble or follow some methods or strategies that he suggests and then it turns out that the end result is not at all what was promised in the sense of losing then obviously I think it is natural to blame others especially if they force us, but if they are just saying and not at all forcing you to try it then obviously it is ridiculous if you lose then you blame them, after all all all decisions come out of yourself and of your own accord.

We are mature enough to be able to distinguish between good and bad and therefore we should be able to consider every suggestion or invitation that comes in, you need to question everything from many sides to the person who offers or introduces gambling to you, I am sure that they only focus on introducing the winnings but not really explaining the possible risks, And I think it's your job to question what's behind the chance of winning, I mean you should also ask if there are possible risks or not, and if it turns out that you already know about it then of course it's all up to you and it's the fault of your own decision if it turns out that later you experience a lot of bad effects.

If you are not willing to submit yourself in a big risk better not to deal with gambling, it's very clear that before you enter this venue you are well-aware that risk is behind you, there's no getting back if you lose your capital, and like what you mentioned if you win then it's all on you and you can enjoy the amount that you earn, while if you lose, there's should be no one to be blame as you need to take whatever the actions you pick while playing.

Same with your sentiment, no matter how much is the amount of money that you use for your gamblng, there's no one who can assure you with the outcome, whether being lucky and have that opportunity to move out with good amount of cash to be withdrawn or lose eveything from your deposit capital, all rely with how you take your chance and how you believe on your luck.


Whatever kind of decision you make and whatever type of gambling you select it should be taken together with your good judgements and with all responsibilities to stake, no one have that control with your gambling activities, it's  a choice where only you who can decide so whatever the result there's should be no one to blame.

If someone is forcing you to bet, then it's really valid to blame them but it's really up to you if you will follow them, right? but if we are talking about the person who introduced you to gambling, you don't have to blame them if you have any bad experience because they didn't force you to do that thing. Becoming addicted to gambling is your own decision so you only have yourself to blame for it.