Topic: Do you care about what people say about you gambling? - page 19. (Read 4689 times)
In any case, each player has close people who can influence the player’s desire when playing gambling. For example, a player can be furious and make inappropriate bets compared to his wallet, but he will be afraid of his wife if she finds out about this, but still walk on the edge of the blade. And as soon as she finds out about this, he will be afraid of her and she will yell at him, threatening him with divorce and children. I think that this would definitely make me stop, because if I lose my family, then why win in gambling or I don’t understand the moments.
Well OP so far as you're taking responsibility for your actions and inactions, you put food on your table, clothes yourself and your family, provide a home of your own I don't really think it is necessary to listen to people's opinion about how you choose to live your life. In other words, the person is indirectly telling you to gamble responsibly because he has seen some persons that became wayward as a result of playing gamble though some persons see gambling as a game for wayward people but it's really because of people that don't gamble responsibly that made it looked as if gambling is bad if not Inasmuch as you can be able to meet up your daily obligations despite being a gambler I think no body will see you as part of the wayward gamblers. However, anybody's opinion doesn't really matter on how you choose to live your life, but let it be that you live a life that you will not be measured together with people that can't add value to their own lives.
A good opinion you have here, in everything we do our individual decision surpass everything, but it must matter to people that are concerned about you how you go about your life, it is normal for people to give us advise but what's matters is how authentic and helpful such advise is, it is known by many that gambling is addictive and it has the power to change people from their normal self, even though people opinion doesn't count in your life, you should also be concerned about what you do that triggers advise from extra body.
As for me if I am gambling irresponsibly I will definitely care about what people say about my gambling habit, there is a saying that mad people doesn't have shame but their relatives do, apart from gambling if I do something that doesn't portray good about me despite they money I make through such, I will have to rethink about it.
This is not a question to ask because in this life,if you are somebody that is always been scared of what people say about you, I don't think you can ever do anything your mind says you should do.
However you should still be able to listen to criticism and analyze the situation you are in. Because those criticism are often helpful for positive change since it is a direct feedback from. Because sometimes, we truly get out of track of our purpose and we are not aware of that. And people would tell us sometimes that what we are doing now is out of boundaries or too much. That's the time when we need to reflect and look back if what we are doing are still serving us.
Of course, only listen selected people who also truly cares for you. Sometimes we need to lower our pride, get vulnerable, and analyze if you are still doing the right thing. Because if most people are telling you are not, then there's probably something in there that you should fix,
Well OP so far as you're taking responsibility for your actions and inactions, you put food on your table, clothes yourself and your family, provide a home of your own I don't really think it is necessary to listen to people's opinion about how you choose to live your life. In other words, the person is indirectly telling you to gamble responsibly because he has seen some persons that became wayward as a result of playing gamble though some persons see gambling as a game for wayward people but it's really because of people that don't gamble responsibly that made it looked as if gambling is bad if not Inasmuch as you can be able to meet up your daily obligations despite being a gambler I think no body will see you as part of the wayward gamblers. However, anybody's opinion doesn't really matter on how you choose to live your life, but let it be that you live a life that you will not be measured together with people that can't add value to their own lives.
A good opinion you have here, in everything we do our individual decision surpass everything, but it must matter to people that are concerned about you how you go about your life, it is normal for people to give us advise but what's matters is how authentic and helpful such advise is, it is known by many that gambling is addictive and it has the power to change people from their normal self, even though people opinion doesn't count in your life, you should also be concerned about what you do that triggers advise from extra body.
As for me if I am gambling irresponsibly I will definitely care about what people say about my gambling habit, there is a saying that mad people doesn't have shame but their relatives do, apart from gambling if I do something that doesn't portray good about me despite they money I make through such, I will have to rethink about it.
You have good points mate and I commend you for your intelligence, just like you said even though we may not listen to what outsiders say but paying attention to the people that matters in our life is very important because they are literally the people that can have the courage to advice you when you ain't doing things right.
Just like a saying that there's no smoke without a fire, before someone can meet you to tell you about a particular habit they feel it isn't good means that they also care about you even though you may not actually relate with them so sometimes it's good to give a listening ear to people and understand the kind of advice they are trying to give you and to also know if they are trying to help you in a situation they feel it's not good for you or they're trying to mock you while trying to advice you so paying a listening ear to what others think about you sometimes is very important.
This is not a question to ask because in this life,if you are somebody that is always been scared of what people say about you,I don't think you can ever do anything your mind says you should do.Therefore,I know people see gamblers as people who won't become anything,and people who are wasting money,but I don't have to look at that because those same people that were insulting you for gambling are the same people that will celebrate you for winning big if you should eventually win big through gambling.It very good that we keep on trying because nobody knows where the luck will come from.
Because no one knows when good luck will come, some people who like to gamble just do it as something to have fun at a certain time. Even though they will also enjoy it when they win, because no one wants to refuse victory so as not to enjoy it, those who don't win also don't feel sad because they have considered this as an opportunity to entertain themselves without taking anyone's advice. So there is no need to be afraid of what other people say as long as we ourselves still have the mind to think clearly and wisely about anything. 
This is not a question to ask because in this life,if you are somebody that is always been scared of what people say about you,I don't think you can ever do anything your mind says you should do.Therefore,I know people see gamblers as people who won't become anything,and people who are wasting money,but I don't have to look at that because those same people that were insulting you for gambling are the same people that will celebrate you for winning big if you should eventually win big through gambling.It very good that we keep on trying because nobody knows where the luck will come from.
Yes, what's the point of being afraid just because other people talk about the gambling we play, let alone say bad things about us, the point is to gamble for yourself and the most important thing is to gamble for fun, sometimes we also have to know that gambling is not only in the pursuit of profit and wealth, people usually think we are gamblers who will ultimately fail and go bankrupt because of gambling. but if we gamble with the view that it is for fun, we will definitely gamble with good control and people will see that we are smart gamblers.I'm sure every gambler has their own goals, this can also provoke other people who see us gambling with words that are not good to hear, but why should you care about what they say, gambling with your own money even at your own risk is no problem, unless we are funded by other people, it might make us a little frustrated with what other people say, the point is just to focus on yourself and just gamble without caring about what other people say, after all the wins and losses are for ourselves, not for other people. so why worry and not be confident.
Well OP so far as you're taking responsibility for your actions and inactions, you put food on your table, clothes yourself and your family, provide a home of your own I don't really think it is necessary to listen to people's opinion about how you choose to live your life. In other words, the person is indirectly telling you to gamble responsibly because he has seen some persons that became wayward as a result of playing gamble though some persons see gambling as a game for wayward people but it's really because of people that don't gamble responsibly that made it looked as if gambling is bad if not Inasmuch as you can be able to meet up your daily obligations despite being a gambler I think no body will see you as part of the wayward gamblers. However, anybody's opinion doesn't really matter on how you choose to live your life, but let it be that you live a life that you will not be measured together with people that can't add value to their own lives.
A good opinion you have here, in everything we do our individual decision surpass everything, but it must matter to people that are concerned about you how you go about your life, it is normal for people to give us advise but what's matters is how authentic and helpful such advise is, it is known by many that gambling is addictive and it has the power to change people from their normal self, even though people opinion doesn't count in your life, you should also be concerned about what you do that triggers advise from extra body.
As for me if I am gambling irresponsibly I will definitely care about what people say about my gambling habit, there is a saying that mad people doesn't have shame but their relatives do, apart from gambling if I do something that doesn't portray good about me despite they money I make through such, I will have to rethink about it.
If you started thinking of what people do say about gambling I don't think that you will be able to participate in gambling any longer so I know very well that gambling have to do with understanding and if you don't know the secret of gambling you will not be able to gamble very well so that is why I do like people to think on their own and know the application of gambling and they also advantages of gambling by their selves
Totally correct, things can be very good , it is better that when we do things well we like them because we enjoy them, and to do what makes us generate happiness, and if the casino and gambling are our best option to have fun Well, we have to do it, no matter what People say, we should Always do what we like, as long as it does not hurt anyone, as long as we are Doing things well within the normal parameters, because I believe that it does not hurt anyone in fact, others should not care what we do with our own money.So, those who gamble whether for financial gains or entertainment purposes, society see them as gamblers, and in most societies, gambling isn't considered to be a good thing because they think it is addictive and anyone involved in it is a gambling addict and they are irresponsible people.
We might be gambling for fun and entertainment, but it's difficult to make others understand this, most of the time.
I think it's not about the development of the country we live in, but about the fact that in any country there are people who are ready to spend their time not on something useful, but on discussing other people. Such people are mostly losers, so there is no sense in following their recommendations or living the way they imagine it. Life is given once and you should live it the way you want to live it, not the way others want you to live it.
Exactly. I like the conclusion of your statement because that's an honest fact. We only have life and should live it to our satisfaction, not based on what other people gossip about in our name and expect us to be the way they want, and perhaps it's only jobless people who end up discussing other things when it's not their business.
But realistically, that's how life is. People must always talk about something they don't like about you, but what matters is what you think about your lifestyle. Gambling is not a bad activity, and as long as one is gambling responsibly, I don't think it should be a problem for anyone.
Basically it's true as you said above that this is life where there are always people who don't really like us and they may always find fault with us, but as I said above because we are talking about the context of gambling then I don't think everyone will really blaspheme you, There is a possibility that some of them care about your safety because after all gambling always has the possibility of bad effects that can occur at any time, so I think there is nothing wrong with filtering the ideas they throw at you by identifying their criticism, if for example the criticism contains concern then I think there is nothing wrong with being reconsidered.
This is not a question to ask because in this life,if you are somebody that is always been scared of what people say about you,I don't think you can ever do anything your mind says you should do.Therefore,I know people see gamblers as people who won't become anything,and people who are wasting money,but I don't have to look at that because those same people that were insulting you for gambling are the same people that will celebrate you for winning big if you should eventually win big through gambling.It very good that we keep on trying because nobody knows where the luck will come from.
People should care nothing about our activities as long as we are not giving them trouble about our gambling activities , because it is our time , money and life that is in risk and spending .
though at some chances we are giving consent to our love ones so they can support nor advise us whenever we have troubles or we are in success ,that is the importance of other people but in totality ? idon't care about what they say to me.
People may care about us if we make a wrong move, but it's still all us who bear it and other people can only advise us, perhaps with the pretense of caring, but if we feel that we are still within safe limits then other people's comments don't need to be paid attention to. the most important thing is that we don't harm them or our gambling is still normal and we don't experience addiction or anything, if they feel uncomfortable with the gambling we do they can avoid us without needing to see or pay attention to us, because gambling is everyone's right to play want to do it and usually they use their cellphones which can gamble anywhere with easier access.though at some chances we are giving consent to our love ones so they can support nor advise us whenever we have troubles or we are in success ,that is the importance of other people but in totality ? idon't care about what they say to me.
Other people's comments sometimes make us feel uncomfortable. They don't know us well or don't know anything about the gambling we experience but they say as if they understand our situation. Even though there are many people who don't care about other people's lives because their own lives are more complicated and choose to remain silent about it other people, so why should we care about other people's words that don't give us any benefit.
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This has always happened, it is just that with social media becoming as popular as it is right now, not only you have people of your local community making comments and negative remarks behind your back, now you could have people all over the world doing the same, so many people are succumbing to social pressure and doing what other people think they should do, and this is a recipe for unhappiness, as once people realize they have been avoiding doing the things they like just because of what other people are saying, they may realize and regret they are not able to do them anymore.
You know, man, there are a lot of unhealthy behaviors and activities that are being exhibited by different individuals in society today, and some of those activities are high rates of scams, theft in broad daylight, corruption, etc. Also there are some economic problems that people should be talking about like the high inflation rate, people should be talking about things that are really more concerning and not just the common gambling lifestyle of someone. Although I cannot deny the fact that the gambling lifestyle of some people is so concerning due to the threat it can pose to other people's wellbeing, it's not true in all cases. For someone who just has a normal gambling lifestyle, it has nothing to do with those who will just keep gossiping and expecting another person to stop gambling due to their own beliefs about gambling.
People should care nothing about our activities as long as we are not giving them trouble about our gambling activities , because it is our time , money and life that is in risk and spending .
though at some chances we are giving consent to our love ones so they can support nor advise us whenever we have troubles or we are in success ,that is the importance of other people but in totality ? idon't care about what they say to me.
People may care about us if we make a wrong move, but it's still all us who bear it and other people can only advise us, perhaps with the pretense of caring, but if we feel that we are still within safe limits then other people's comments don't need to be paid attention to. the most important thing is that we don't harm them or our gambling is still normal and we don't experience addiction or anything, if they feel uncomfortable with the gambling we do they can avoid us without needing to see or pay attention to us, because gambling is everyone's right to play want to do it and usually they use their cellphones which can gamble anywhere with easier access.though at some chances we are giving consent to our love ones so they can support nor advise us whenever we have troubles or we are in success ,that is the importance of other people but in totality ? idon't care about what they say to me.
Other people's comments sometimes make us feel uncomfortable. They don't know us well or don't know anything about the gambling we experience but they say as if they understand our situation. Even though there are many people who don't care about other people's lives because their own lives are more complicated and choose to remain silent about it other people, so why should we care about other people's words that don't give us any benefit.
Exactly. I like the conclusion of your statement because that's an honest fact. We only have life and should live it to our satisfaction, not based on what other people gossip about in our name and expect us to be the way they want, and perhaps it's only jobless people who end up discussing other things when it's not their business.
But realistically, that's how life is. People must always talk about something they don't like about you, but what matters is what you think about your lifestyle. Gambling is not a bad activity, and as long as one is gambling responsibly, I don't think it should be a problem for anyone.
This has always happened, it is just that with social media becoming as popular as it is right now, not only you have people of your local community making comments and negative remarks behind your back, now you could have people all over the world doing the same, so many people are succumbing to social pressure and doing what other people think they should do, and this is a recipe for unhappiness, as once people realize they have been avoiding doing the things they like just because of what other people are saying, they may realize and regret they are not able to do them anymore. But realistically, that's how life is. People must always talk about something they don't like about you, but what matters is what you think about your lifestyle. Gambling is not a bad activity, and as long as one is gambling responsibly, I don't think it should be a problem for anyone.
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I think it's not about the development of the country we live in, but about the fact that in any country there are people who are ready to spend their time not on something useful, but on discussing other people. Such people are mostly losers, so there is no sense in following their recommendations or living the way they imagine it. Life is given once and you should live it the way you want to live it, not the way others want you to live it.
Exactly. I like the conclusion of your statement because that's an honest fact. We only have life and should live it to our satisfaction, not based on what other people gossip about in our name and expect us to be the way they want, and perhaps it's only jobless people who end up discussing other things when it's not their business.
But realistically, that's how life is. People must always talk about something they don't like about you, but what matters is what you think about your lifestyle. Gambling is not a bad activity, and as long as one is gambling responsibly, I don't think it should be a problem for anyone.
Nowadays only in not so well developed countries people like to talk about each other life,in people where life is rushing and is very fast paced in general no one has time to deal with what you are doing or with what activity you are spending your time.Of course in the offline casinos in any country people will talk,look at that person going to the casino and losing money and we cannot stop this general judgement against gamblers,this is passed on by generations to generations.I mean in a country not really fast paced like the one where I live,people invade your privacy and ask you things that they shouldn't like coming near you and trying to see what are you doing with your phone,making you at risk even when you do online gambling.
In order not to worry about what people will say or what they will think about the fact that you are passionate about gambling, just try to make sure that they don’t find out about it. Don’t tell anyone about this and don’t play in someone’s presence, I think it’s not that difficult to do. This applies to those who may be concerned about someone's opinion regarding what they do. Personally, this doesn’t bother me at all, it’s my personal business, I do what I see fit, and I also don’t meddle in other people’s affairs.
But sometimes keeping involvement in gambling a secret can be difficult to do if they are a fairly arrogant type of person where the scenario is usually they are very eager to announce or tell others that they managed to win a big win which of course indirectly this action can make other people know and maybe these other people can spread this information to other people which over time the people who are there might find out that you are a gambler, but in the end it depends on the person too.
Nowadays only in not so well developed countries people like to talk about each other life,in people where life is rushing and is very fast paced in general no one has time to deal with what you are doing or with what activity you are spending your time.Of course in the offline casinos in any country people will talk,look at that person going to the casino and losing money and we cannot stop this general judgement against gamblers,this is passed on by generations to generations.I mean in a country not really fast paced like the one where I live,people invade your privacy and ask you things that they shouldn't like coming near you and trying to see what are you doing with your phone,making you at risk even when you do online gambling.
In order not to worry about what people will say or what they will think about the fact that you are passionate about gambling, just try to make sure that they don’t find out about it. Don’t tell anyone about this and don’t play in someone’s presence, I think it’s not that difficult to do. This applies to those who may be concerned about someone's opinion regarding what they do. Personally, this doesn’t bother me at all, it’s my personal business, I do what I see fit, and I also don’t meddle in other people’s affairs.
It's common amongst unexposed people in terms of lifestyle. They are people who grew up with this thoughts and it's not their first time hearing or seeing people talk down on gamblers. They easily conclude that gamblers are jobless because that is what they think. However, gambling is a vast topic and a lot of people who don't spend time trying to know about gambling and gamblers wouldn't learn anything meaningful about gambling.
So when with such people it's right to avoid their thoughts or try to change it if possible. With the institution of the online casino, such criticism on gamblers reduced. Yet, some die hard critics still go ahead to spy people's screen to know if they're gambling. Wouldn't mind what people say, but sometimes it feels sad to hear how backwards in thoughts people can be regarding gambling. There are lots of factors which have made people to think low of gamblers, but it's not necessary to allow those hearsays get to us.
Greetings everyone and happy new year all!
Okay, today I was actually out for a little business and it happens that I almost spent all my time wasted without me even having a smooth deal, but along the line I have few games that I have placed a bet and was wanting to view my games from my phone since gambling is now mobile, what I meant by mobile is that you can access your account at any place provided that you have an internet connectivity you will login to monitor your matches.
So when I logged in, someone close to me easily peep from my left hand side and noticed that I just opened my account monitoring my games, at this point what he said is "ahh you don join dem"? Meaning you have also belong to the groups of people that gambles?
On a lighter note, I just smile and asked him if there is anything wrong while gambling or while monitoring my games and he said nothing but just that few people he knew that are gambling almost turned useless.
This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?
Let's discuss amicably
Last thing you should really worry about is the opinion of the people that are around you. Not unless they are giving you sound advice that is. Here's the breakdown. You have people around you telling you shit that you shouldn't listen to, like people urging you to play more, or to make more bets, or perhaps to give them a share of your winnings. But on the other hand, people closest to you telling you to be more responsible when you're gambling, to learn more how to budget and make sure that you're able to make the most out of the wins that you're able to bag throughout your gambling session, those are just some of the shit that you really have to pay heed to. Okay, today I was actually out for a little business and it happens that I almost spent all my time wasted without me even having a smooth deal, but along the line I have few games that I have placed a bet and was wanting to view my games from my phone since gambling is now mobile, what I meant by mobile is that you can access your account at any place provided that you have an internet connectivity you will login to monitor your matches.
So when I logged in, someone close to me easily peep from my left hand side and noticed that I just opened my account monitoring my games, at this point what he said is "ahh you don join dem"? Meaning you have also belong to the groups of people that gambles?
On a lighter note, I just smile and asked him if there is anything wrong while gambling or while monitoring my games and he said nothing but just that few people he knew that are gambling almost turned useless.
This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?
Let's discuss amicably
The thing is that you need to filter out the people you pay mind to, against those that you know yourself you have to avoid. Soon as you're able to do that, what you'll end up with is a circle of trusted people that you know will give you top-tier advice and would allow you to be very efficient and smarter with your gambling journey.
Nowadays only in not so well developed countries people like to talk about each other life,in people where life is rushing and is very fast paced in general no one has time to deal with what you are doing or with what activity you are spending your time.Of course in the offline casinos in any country people will talk,look at that person going to the casino and losing money and we cannot stop this general judgement against gamblers,this is passed on by generations to generations.I mean in a country not really fast paced like the one where I live,people invade your privacy and ask you things that they shouldn't like coming near you and trying to see what are you doing with your phone,making you at risk even when you do online gambling.
In order not to worry about what people will say or what they will think about the fact that you are passionate about gambling, just try to make sure that they don’t find out about it. Don’t tell anyone about this and don’t play in someone’s presence, I think it’s not that difficult to do. This applies to those who may be concerned about someone's opinion regarding what they do. Personally, this doesn’t bother me at all, it’s my personal business, I do what I see fit, and I also don’t meddle in other people’s affairs.
I dont believe people who say that they dont care what other think about them. It is always nice to have a positive image and keep it. But, if people will try to judge me only by gambling hobby, I would try to persuade them that gambling is not the only think I do in my life. If they say that I am doing something bad, or will end broke, then fine, they have that vision, I have different. It not that I really care that much or dont care at all. But I will do my best to make them judge me only by my deeds, my success, but not what I do in general.
You will persuade them that gambling is not the only thing you do in life? That will be tough. People today are too judgmental. Once they see a speck of error, mistake, dirt, or whatever they can use that is against one person then they will gossip it until something more is added. It's better to just keep gambling a secret. I have a different opinion when it comes to this, I don't really care what they will tell. Literally. I am not living so that they can see good in me, I want them to see just who I am. If they think I am evil just because I am gambling then it's their problem, not mine. That just means their understanding is too shallow and their judgment is so one-sided that they won't even try to ask a person about it. Well, we have different approaches in our life, if it's my relative or a family member then I might explain it, but to a stranger or just a neighbor, no way I would explain it.
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