Topic: Do you care about what people say about you gambling? - page 15. (Read 4689 times)
Gambling depends entirely on the individual and everyone likes to play freely. As far as I'm concerned if you can keep yourself disciplined while gambling then you don't need to worry about what people say about gambling. Those who cannot maintain self discipline and gamble irresponsibly will be adversely affected by gambling. If you keep yourself under control no one will know about gambling.
Not all criticism are bad, some can actually be constructive
That might be the only reason I would pay little attention to what people say about me gambling. Doubt that I will accept any suggestion from them, as I never asked for that. But I will simply collect the information they give to make a conclusion how to avoid such talks in future. To find that one point in our conversation, that has moved it into talking about my gambling experience. To know where and when to navigate conversation in future from gambling topic to something else.
There are times when we also need to digest what other people say, maybe there is reasonable criticism that makes us aware of our mistakes, but if the criticism is bad enough we just need to close our ears and don't need to care about what they say as long as we are right. Gambling is not a bad thing depends on the person who uses it, whether they are an addict or not. Usually an addict is the one who will get criticism or advice from people around them.
Quote from: Volimack
If we take care of ourselves to gamble, we won't need to see what people are thinking. There are some gamblers who become so crazy about gambling that they are ready to do anything to gamble they are not aware of anything people say a lot about these gamblers. That's why gamblers don't have to worry about what people say if they are aware of gambling and not reckless.
People talk base on what they have seen with some gamblers, which is not good for their eyes and they have vow never to associate with such people that use to sell their parents properties just to gamble.But if you can prove them wrong that you are not like those who are addicted to gambling, I guess they will take positive things from you that will make them to like to associate with gamblers like you in the community.
I don't care what people will say about my gambling habit because am mature to decide what to do with my life to achieve success, and I will never be addicted to gambling for people to say negative things about me concerning my gambling habit.
We do need to look at the environmental situation first in talking, who is talking, the intention and other things that might have a negative or positive impact on us, if we can already see it we can take a stand on what to do in this kind of conversation, because after all talking about gambling is a sensitive thing, so only certain people can be listened to the rest we can deflect the conversation.
sometimes if there are people who want to explore ourselves and have other goals, we are better off if we are given advice or asked, basically humans will accept advice delivered well and go into our logic.
Apart from speaking, of course we also have to be able to adapt in our actions, if we really like gambling and do gambling in an environment that is not happy with gambling, maybe it could bring about conflict, looking at the environmental conditions is important, don't let us take actions that could give rise to conflict with each other. . like by speaking what you said, of course we also have to be able to adjust to that. Not everyone likes gambling, so it's possible that there are people who don't want to discuss or hear gambling talk. But if you both like gambling then the conversation can continue.sometimes if there are people who want to explore ourselves and have other goals, we are better off if we are given advice or asked, basically humans will accept advice delivered well and go into our logic.
Of course giving advice is not a bad thing, because in my opinion everyone needs advice from other people, even with suggestions. However, if we advise other people, it is not certain that our advice will be accepted by them, but that is not a problem, because at least some advice has been given.
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It is indeed difficult to convey a message to gambling addicts. Before being destroyed, having nothing may be the answer for gamblers to return to normal even though it is not 100% successful. but most of that happens
There is also a gambler who has been completely destroyed and wants to return to life like a normal person. He had worked as hard as he could to cover the debts caused by his gambling addiction, but after he managed to return to a normal life, his gambling desire was still there and he returned to the world of gambling.It is indeed difficult to convey a message to gambling addicts. Before being destroyed, having nothing may be the answer for gamblers to return to normal even though it is not 100% successful. but most of that happens
That's normal because it's very difficult to get rid of excessive addiction. Moreover, after being able to return his finances to normal. but people like this should learn from their previous mistakes so they don't happen again.
It's okay to return to the world of gambling by implementing better financial management, not going all in on gambling and hoping to get rich quickly from there.
If we take care of ourselves to gamble, we won't need to see what people are thinking. There are some gamblers who become so crazy about gambling that they are ready to do anything to gamble they are not aware of anything people say a lot about these gamblers. That's why gamblers don't have to worry about what people say if they are aware of gambling and not reckless.
I believe it is one's personal decision to gamble or not gamble and no one else have the right to say anything about this. However, there are people who like to interfere in other people's life and we can just ignore them (if we are not in a position to stop them).
There are some people who like to criticize others. They can give good suggestions to others. But I have concern that they always want the best of others. If I gamble with my own money there is no harm to anyone. Also, I am not an addicted gambler but some people will enlighten me on various aspects of addiction which I can never accept. I am old enough to understand my good and bad. I think if someone comes and helps me when I'm in measurable situation and try to follow those people's advice but I definitely won't move from my track if other people give me advice. The most important thing is that I want to use my saved money as I wish.
Absolutely nothing is wrong with casino or anything related to gambling, it will only become wrong if a gambler is too hooked up that he's willing to risk all the money on his pocket, especially for a family man.
Most judgmental people are the one's who always goes to church on Sundays, the kind of religious one, because it is against the 10 commandments they believed. However, people have different religion and beliefs so that doesn't mean we all have to follow what the others believes. We just live the way we want our lives to be as long as we are not committing crimes nor hurt people. Gambling isn't a crime though as long as it is regulated and registered legally.
Not all criticism are bad, some can actually be constructive
That might be the only reason I would pay little attention to what people say about me gambling. Doubt that I will accept any suggestion from them, as I never asked for that. But I will simply collect the information they give to make a conclusion how to avoid such talks in future. To find that one point in our conversation, that has moved it into talking about my gambling experience. To know where and when to navigate conversation in future from gambling topic to something else.
But some people just wanna tear you down. Its not about helping, its about their own insecurities. Dont get sucked into that vortex. Recognize it for what it is – negativity thats got nothing to do with you. You focus on your game, your path. Their opinions dont build your future. Remember, your mental space is sacred. Protect it. Dont let useless criticism take root and drag you down. If it doesnt help you, its gotta go. Focus on the things that matter, the things that make you stronger. Thats where your energy belongs.
Not all criticism are bad, some can actually be constructive
That might be the only reason I would pay little attention to what people say about me gambling. Doubt that I will accept any suggestion from them, as I never asked for that. But I will simply collect the information they give to make a conclusion how to avoid such talks in future. To find that one point in our conversation, that has moved it into talking about my gambling experience. To know where and when to navigate conversation in future from gambling topic to something else.
If we take care of ourselves to gamble, we won't need to see what people are thinking. There are some gamblers who become so crazy about gambling that they are ready to do anything to gamble they are not aware of anything people say a lot about these gamblers. That's why gamblers don't have to worry about what people say if they are aware of gambling and not reckless.
I believe it is one's personal decision to gamble or not gamble and no one else have the right to say anything about this. However, there are people who like to interfere in other people's life and we can just ignore them (if we are not in a position to stop them).
If a person is gambling using his own money and his own will, then no one should have the right to say anything about him or treat him badly only because he is risking his money. It is his money and he has all the right to spend it in any way. The expectation here is for the family members or very close friends, who are sincere to him, and may give him advices. But for sure, such persons will not make fun of him neither the gamblers should be aggressive or show any bad reactions if they want to help in the form of sincere advice's.
Not all criticism are bad, some can actually be constructive
That might be the only reason I would pay little attention to what people say about me gambling. Doubt that I will accept any suggestion from them, as I never asked for that. But I will simply collect the information they give to make a conclusion how to avoid such talks in future. To find that one point in our conversation, that has moved it into talking about my gambling experience. To know where and when to navigate conversation in future from gambling topic to something else.
We do need to look at the environmental situation first in talking, who is talking, the intention and other things that might have a negative or positive impact on us, if we can already see it we can take a stand on what to do in this kind of conversation, because after all talking about gambling is a sensitive thing, so only certain people can be listened to the rest we can deflect the conversation.
sometimes if there are people who want to explore ourselves and have other goals, we are better off if we are given advice or asked, basically humans will accept advice delivered well and go into our logic.
Not all criticism are bad, some can actually be constructive
That might be the only reason I would pay little attention to what people say about me gambling. Doubt that I will accept any suggestion from them, as I never asked for that. But I will simply collect the information they give to make a conclusion how to avoid such talks in future. To find that one point in our conversation, that has moved it into talking about my gambling experience. To know where and when to navigate conversation in future from gambling topic to something else.
If we take care of ourselves to gamble, we won't need to see what people are thinking. There are some gamblers who become so crazy about gambling that they are ready to do anything to gamble they are not aware of anything people say a lot about these gamblers. That's why gamblers don't have to worry about what people say if they are aware of gambling and not reckless.
correct as long as you are not disturbing nor hurting anyone people will never care about what you are doing and of course as long as people are not seeing anything bad for themselves as well because
sometimes come to show concern because we are human of course not counting those stupid karen or
those who only cares for what they can find wrong to others.
If we take care of ourselves to gamble, we won't need to see what people are thinking. There are some gamblers who become so crazy about gambling that they are ready to do anything to gamble they are not aware of anything people say a lot about these gamblers. That's why gamblers don't have to worry about what people say if they are aware of gambling and not reckless.
As a gambler I don't need everybody's opinion about myself if they say that I am not good cause I am involve in gambling then that's Okay as long as I am happy on what ik doing then nothing wrongs about it. anyways nowadys there are many people around us that they will talk with us if we are not in thier side. But we don't need them cause it's our choices then the outcome will be the effects of what we doing. And that's the reason why other gamblers fall into addiction cause they can't control themselves.
In as much as gambling is legal in your country, you don't need to worry about what people say or think about you especially if you are a responsible and mature gambler. One might have to be sensitive to what people are saying if gambling is illegal since they might report it to law enforcement agencies. Irresponsible gamblers might also be interested in people's perception of them because they need people's advice to overcome the habit. Underaged gamblers might also be mindful of people's views since they are gambling illegally.
I don't care what they say about me if they know that I gamble but I don't publicize my gambling activities because some people see gamblers are irresponsible individuals. I visit physical casinos but I don't discuss gambling in public so that people will know that I gamble.
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It is indeed difficult to convey a message to gambling addicts. Before being destroyed, having nothing may be the answer for gamblers to return to normal even though it is not 100% successful. but most of that happens
There is also a gambler who has been completely destroyed and wants to return to life like a normal person. He had worked as hard as he could to cover the debts caused by his gambling addiction, but after he managed to return to a normal life, his gambling desire was still there and he returned to the world of gambling.It is indeed difficult to convey a message to gambling addicts. Before being destroyed, having nothing may be the answer for gamblers to return to normal even though it is not 100% successful. but most of that happens
That's normal because it's very difficult to get rid of excessive addiction. Moreover, after being able to return his finances to normal. but people like this should learn from their previous mistakes so they don't happen again.
It's okay to return to the world of gambling by implementing better financial management, not going all in on gambling and hoping to get rich quickly from there.
As said before, you need to ignore all the negativity around you. It’s your money, so I am sure that you know what to do with it. At the end of the day, you are risking your hard earned money for yourself only. Other people’s work is to criticise only, hence you need to just ignore them. Some also in jealousy advise you to stop gambling, as you were making profits and they are not. Hence don’t think about this now and continue what you are doing.
If we take care of ourselves to gamble, we won't need to see what people are thinking. There are some gamblers who become so crazy about gambling that they are ready to do anything to gamble they are not aware of anything people say a lot about these gamblers. That's why gamblers don't have to worry about what people say if they are aware of gambling and not reckless.
Not all criticism are bad, some can actually be constructive and could be out of love for you, maybe because your gambling habits are becoming a problem to you and also to them, then they can decide to step in and try to help you. This sort of criticism could often come from family and very close friends.But if it's not this, but just side talks from people who won't stick their nose in their business, then there's absolutely no point getting one's self worked up over such a thing, especially when you're pretty sure that you gambling habit is in check and you're not suffering from a gambling problem.
If we truly know that how we are gambling is being done in such a way that is expected of us to do, then we need not to care on what other people are saying concerning how we gambles, the problem many have is that they don't engaged in doing the right thing and still don't mind or care about what others are saying, we have to watch our steps from the way we are gambling, because other people are watching us if we don't know by ourself.
Since people have a negative idea about gambling, many people do not accept gambling well, due to which others people suggestions will never be acceptable. I gamble and i am self-disciplined, so I would not like to do anything according to others advice only prioritize my policy. If someone gives me advice on my gambling if it is appropriate I take it but if it goes against me I never care. Because gamble with my own money, I will not change my gambling behavior depending on someone's word. After I get any suggestion I will definitely analyze it and if it is good then I will consider it.I agree with you. If it’s a sensible word flowing along my own opinion I go along but anything aside that, it none of your business. I gamble with my own money not yours, you can’t teach me or say anything because I haven’t asked you for money to gamble before you focus on your business and leave interfering into other’s personal business and life.
People presume outcomes when they talk but a gambler should never afford themselves such a luxury or they will surely fail. If others choose to presume then let them make that mistake in 'knowing' while being ignorant of the truth but never fall into the same mistake with anything of importance. Most people who gossip know they are just exchanging lies that are self serving mostly and reflect their own character rather then the person who they do not know better of.
When I was young yeah i give value to what others may say in my gambling activities because its important that i do not look bad and a negative to the community but nowadays that gambling is rampant and even in all corner of streets we can see addicted gamblers betting online?
not sure if what others says is still important now.
not sure if what others says is still important now.
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