Topic: Do you care about what people say about you gambling? - page 16. (Read 4700 times)

I don't really think or care about what people say or not, as far as it's not their money and I'm not also wasting their time, so whatever thing I do with my time and money it's nobody business and if they keep saying or commenting behind our back, I will just limit my interactions with them because their opinions doesn't make me feel better or makes me to win but instead of trying to prove anything to anyone, we should just to focus on having fun and remember that the real value in gambling because our benefits does doesn't depends on whether we win or lose. So let's live the best life, and that's what really matters.

people out there only like to judge things that they have not experienced themselves, often other people's sentences are enough to weaken the strong intentions that someone has carried out, if you are already skilled at gambling and you have never incurred debts for gambling then don't listen to what other people say, just focus on remaining consistent in your gambling.

Even though one day or perhaps your country will legalize gambling, maybe playing in your room like you do now is the best choice. in addition to other pleasures that you might be able to get at a physical casino if perhaps there will be one in the future.
Actually, there is also a positive side to maintaining our privacy in gambling. There are also many negative impacts if more people know about your gambling activities. Even if there is resistance from family members, it is the most difficult thing that is not the influence of friends that can influence our game.

No need to think too much about what other people say because after all everyone has their own choices and preferences in any case, so don't get too carried away if people say something that makes you feel bad. Basically no one is perfect and everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, if they don't like you because you are involved in gambling then let it go, as long as you don't harm others.

But maybe I will say that you must remember that this is gambling which has a level of risk that is sometimes very high which can destroy your life in a short time and we can see how the fate of gamblers who are addicted where they experience many problems and downturns in their lives due to treating gambling the wrong way, This is the reason why a gambler is always advised to apply caution and also a lot of restrictions on his gambling activities, none other than so that we can avoid various bad possibilities.

Of course, only we have the power to use our private money. But if management is not controlled it will definitely disappear quickly, from here we have to learn to correct the mistakes we make so that we can manage our money better in the future. such as allocating some of life's necessities, whether it's allocation for gambling, shopping, food, to ensure it doesn't fall apart.

As a gambler I don't need everybody's opinion about myself if they say that I am not good cause I am involve in gambling then that's Okay as long as I am happy on what ik doing then nothing wrongs about it. anyways nowadys there are many people around us that they will talk with us if we are not in thier side.  But we don't need them cause it's our choices then the outcome will be the effects of what we doing. And that's the reason why other gamblers fall into addiction cause they can't control themselves.

In fact, such a problem happens to me also because the prevailing doctrine of gambling is banned in my country, so i can't talk about it directly even if i want to. Privately i do all the gambling activities from my room because it is very important to maintain privacy from the game. But since that guy hasn't told you anything that means he's also involved in this game. But if your country has freedom of gambling then you can enjoy as much as you want. Here as loss or profit is taken from your pocket so no one's opinion can bother you.

Life is full of drama and anything can happen, sometimes even if for example we just keep quiet and don't do anything wrong but sometimes like there are some people who look for our mistakes or even slander us in any case which causes problems and can also make others have a bad point of view on us, and on the other hand I think we have to admit that gambling has a bad point of view in the eyes of most of society which is usually this bad point of view is created because many gamblers treat gambling in the wrong way which makes them experience bad effects so that society claims that gambling is a bad activity and people who are involved in this activity are usually seen as someone who has a bad personality. and basically it doesn't matter even if for example, gambling is a bad activity, and basically it doesn't matter even if for example you are a gambler who is able to control your gambling activities well without harming yourself but still sometimes people see it from another point of view that maybe they just stick to their own thoughts that think that you are someone who has a bad personality because you are involved in gambling, and the other thing is that I don't think you should listen too much to what other people say as long as you don't harm them.

Yes,  that's true, and I totally agree with you on how people's interference on our gambling life shouldn't be taken for granted or given much importance, inasmuch as our gambling lifestyle is not encroaching unto other people's privacy and finance. Because one thing I have come to understand is that people will always tend to speak good or give positive advice when you are gambling  on profit whereas speak bad when you are gambling on loses. So for me, I think it's high time responsible gamblers give a deaf hear to what people will say if discovered they are into gambling, because if you win a million dollars today, nobody will tell you to send such money back, simply because it came from gambling, but rather you will be celebrated for winning such a jackpot.

Hence, let's try to gamble with an amount we can always afford to lose, as that's the secret to responsible gambling.

Yeap, all those who try to "teach me" how to live my life should mind their own business. I never asked for their opinion or advice. If someone comes to me and starts to teach me that gambling is bad, I will get troubles because of gambling and etc, then such person will get a rude reply from me. Maybe I am rude caveman, but what how else should I reply if someone interferes in my private life?

Since people have a negative idea about gambling, many people do not accept gambling well, due to which others people suggestions will never be acceptable. I gamble and i am self-disciplined, so I would not like to do anything according to others advice only prioritize my policy. If someone gives me advice on my gambling if it is appropriate I take it but if it goes against me I never care. Because gamble with my own money, I will not change my gambling behavior depending on someone's word. After I get any suggestion I will definitely analyze it and if it is good then I will consider it.

We can lets those people saying anything about us because they don't sees what we did in gambling so they can says anything bad about us. But if our friends or family see that we are a wise and responsible gamblers, they will not thinks much about what other people say because they knows what we do and they believe us that we can take care of ourselves. Many times people outside in our environment say many things about us but they don't see or don't knows that we can take care of ourselves better than them. We must not affected with other people saying if we are not like what they imagine because they don't lived besides us so they don't knows what is really happen to us. We should focus to what we do and not thinks too much about that people because they will leave us like that when they can't do something to us.

If we take care of ourselves to gamble, we won't need to see what people are thinking. There are some gamblers who become so crazy about gambling that they are ready to do anything to gamble they are not aware of anything people say a lot about these gamblers. That's why gamblers don't have to worry about what people say if they are aware of gambling and not reckless.

absolutely right and that is the fact, society's view is very blind towards gamblers. They think that gambling is a big crime, even though the activities of gambling are not in the least bit objectionable to them. most of it only leads to ourselves because what we are risking in gambling is our own money, there is no harm whatsoever to them. Even when we get the jackpot, they might also get a small part of our gratitude for getting a big win. At that moment, they seemed to forget their one-eyed glance.

Everyone has their own way of managing their finances, including how they spend it, caring about what other people say is the same as not having principles. When you want to have fun at a gambling place, then do it, winning is just a bonus from the money you bet, if you lose you will not feel regret because the purpose of gambling is not to chase victory. Problem gamblers always think of gambling as a place to make money, this kind of mindset will certainly drag them into abnormal things when they experience continuous losses. Applying discipline in gambling can limit the amount of spending that is more than you can afford, this method can limit you from becoming an active gambler who is very susceptible to addiction.

Making gambling a place to have fun would of course be a very good thing if we could do it, but very few people can do that because they think of gambling as a place to get money easily, of course this is very wrong because it is very difficult to do so. win bets consistently and there are many bad things we will get from gambling if we can't think of gambling as a place to have fun.

I agree with what you say, if we don't want other people to say we are bad gamblers then we have to keep the gambling activities we do a secret and also don't let our gambling activities disturb other people so they don't take care of the gambling activities we do. don't keep secrets from your wife about the gambling activities that we do, of course this will be able to control the gambling activities that we do because very few women like gambling and when they do it very often of course they will advise us to stop and we also have to listen if we don't. want another problem to happen.

I really don't care how people who are not close to me judge whether I participate in gambling or not. What they think is their thing, I don't mind hiding it. As for my relatives, they will understand what I am doing and I will certainly tell them that my participating in gambling is a disciplined job that can bring me profits because I had experience in this market. And I can completely prove it so they understand, but for outsiders, I don't need to do that.

We cannot please everyone around us. We should only do what we think is right and not affect others, and we should not care too much about the rest, such as what the people around them will think? We really don't have enough time to make people understand us, it's meaningless. Especially with gambling, this is a sensitive topic for many people, so sometimes no matter what we say, they don't want to understand us.

Not sure if all of us can really make money from gambling. Some of us may just make gambling as a source of fun. However, even we never make money from gambling, it is our own right to play gambling. People actually have no right to forbid us from gambling as long as we gamble in a proper way. But when we gamble in a careless way, our close people have the right to give suggestion.

Anyway, if we don't want to let random people complaining about our gambling habit, we don't tell any people about our gambling activities. Just keep it in secret, people don't know anything!! But for the close people, specifically for the wife, I think it is okay to tell them. If we have a problem in gambling, they are the person who can help us. Don't forget about this! 

I totally agree with you dear but in this life, I don't think there is anything that someone will say that won't require people to talk, even if you are doing the right thing, people will still talk about it and at time, make you look as if it's a bad thing likewise when you are doing something wrong, the shocking part of people is that, even if you are living comfortable with your life and your gambling strategy as far as you are not losing or winning much, people will still talk and be advising you and if you check well, it's people who barely feed, or who are constantly losing, or people who are far better. So whatever thing we are doing, be it gambling, we should always do it out of joy or for the sake of our peace of mind, as far as we managing our money and time because this way can as serve as a way to relieve stress because emotional health is really matters too because no one will help us when we are sick or down. So we should do what makes us happy and forget people opinions.

Well, my gambling life is one that I keep to myself often except for a very few persons whom I feel I could be free around to discuss my every affair and other gamblers at all, before I could let you in on my gambling. It’s not because I see gambling to be some vice or whatever but, it’s because I mostly gamble online and am cool with that plus, it doesn’t add to me or take from me to tell you how my gambling went, that’s my affair.

So yeah, people don’t really get the chance to know much and as such, you don’t get to say nothing either, your opinion continues to stay with you and even the few that knows and could say a few words, it’s not been hurtful and I doubt it would really get to me.