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Quote from: kotajikikox on May 05, 2024, 03:27:08 AM

Quote from: Ever-young on May 05, 2024, 02:38:41 AM

Normally, people will always talk about other people's habits, whether it directly affects them or not, so it shouldn't be of much concern to a gambler when people talk about their habits or their participation in gambling, well except my gambling habits is a problem to me or to them and is either affecting them directly or indirectly.
But as long as I know that I keep my gambling habits in check and I try to be as responsible as I can be in my gambling, then what others say or thing shouldn't be of importance and concern to me.

People should care nothing about our activities as long as we are not giving them trouble about our gambling activities , because it is our time , money and life that is in risk and spending .
though at some chances we are giving consent to our love ones so they can support nor advise us whenever we have troubles or we are in success ,that is the importance of other people but in totality ? idon't care about what they say to me.

Sometimes someone can actually dish out some harmless and constructive criticism out of concern, this often comes from concerned friends and family members who already are fully aware of the dangers associated with gambling.
In a situation like this, it's important to reassure them and make them understand that you're fully aware of the risks associated with gambling and that you're only doing it for fun. Because one shouldn't discard all criticism, there are some that coupd actually be helpful to you.

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Quote from: kotajikikox on May 05, 2024, 03:27:08 AM

Quote from: Ever-young on May 05, 2024, 02:38:41 AM

Normally, people will always talk about other people's habits, whether it directly affects them or not, so it shouldn't be of much concern to a gambler when people talk about their habits or their participation in gambling, well except my gambling habits is a problem to me or to them and is either affecting them directly or indirectly.
But as long as I know that I keep my gambling habits in check and I try to be as responsible as I can be in my gambling, then what others say or thing shouldn't be of importance and concern to me.

People should care nothing about our activities as long as we are not giving them trouble about our gambling activities , because it is our time , money and life that is in risk and spending .
though at some chances we are giving consent to our love ones so they can support nor advise us whenever we have troubles or we are in success ,that is the importance of other people but in totality ? idon't care about what they say to me.

I should not care if anyone says anything about my gambling because my time, my money, everything is mine. But since gambling is a bad addiction, if someone discusses my gambling activities too much, then my weight in the society will decrease and I will be considered as a bad person in the eyes of the society. sometimes one should care about other's discussion to save one's own respect. so sometime i care about this

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Quote from: Riginac111 on May 04, 2024, 05:43:37 PM

If you started thinking of what people do say about gambling I don't think that you will be able to participate in gambling any longer so I know very well that gambling have to do with understanding and if you don't know the secret of gambling you will not be able to gamble very well so that is why I do like people to think on their own and know the application of gambling and they also advantages of gambling by their selves

Totally correct, things can be very good , it is better that when we do things well we like them because we enjoy them, and to do what makes us generate happiness, and if the casino and gambling are our best option to have fun Well, we have to do it, no matter what People say, we should Always do what we like, as long as it does not hurt anyone, as long as we are Doing things well within the normal parameters, because I believe that it does not hurt anyone in fact, others should not care what we do with our own money.

Totally agree with your opinion, activities that will make us feel happy and happy, we should do them because it is an opportunity for us to entertain ourselves.
Many people vent their feelings of sadness in their lives by gambling and I have also seen many people who gamble with the aim of entertaining themselves and when they win they consider the win to be an additional bonus to their sense of enjoyment.
However, there are also people who say that gambling is just a very detrimental activity because the impact is so terrible, yes, I think that people who say that are just taking the negative side, even though if we gamble we still maintain normal limits in playing the possible sides. The negative won't look as bad as they say.
By drawing the conclusion above, let people judge for themselves regarding views on gambling, the most important thing is that we gamble according to what we want and are entertained there without any coercion from other people and always maintain good control and always be careful.

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Quote from: Riginac111 on May 04, 2024, 05:43:37 PM

If you started thinking of what people do say about gambling I don't think that you will be able to participate in gambling any longer so I know very well that gambling have to do with understanding and if you don't know the secret of gambling you will not be able to gamble very well so that is why I do like people to think on their own and know the application of gambling and they also advantages of gambling by their selves

Totally correct, things can be very good , it is better that when we do things well we like them because we enjoy them, and to do what makes us generate happiness, and if the casino and gambling are our best option to have fun Well, we have to do it, no matter what People say, we should Always do what we like, as long as it does not hurt anyone, as long as we are Doing things well within the normal parameters, because I believe that it does not hurt anyone in fact, others should not care what we do with our own money.

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I dont believe people who say that they dont care what other think about them. It is always nice to have a positive image and keep it. But, if people will try to judge me only by gambling hobby, I would try to persuade them that gambling is not the only think I do in my life. If they say that I am doing something bad, or will end broke, then fine, they have that vision, I have different. It not that I really care that much or dont care at all. But I will do my best to make them judge me only by my deeds, my success, but not what I do in general.

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Quote from: mirakal on May 04, 2024, 09:42:07 AM

Quote from: livingfree on April 30, 2024, 11:02:06 PM

One thing to say with those people that are trying to distract us while we do our own thing, mind their own business.

I don't care a thing they say, am I gambling with their money? am I using their time? No, they don't and that's why I don't care about them and whatever they say upon looking at my activities whether on my laptop or smartphone.

We've got our own lives to deal with and it's too short to be thinking of the welfare of other's activities.

Let’s just accept the reality that we can’t please everyone, and that we don’t have the control to what they want to say. Gambling can be a bad thing, but only for those who can’t manage their gambling urge and turn into irresponsible gamblers. However, for those who are good and responsible one, then there’s no way they’ll care whatever people will say.

It is bad on their minds because with the compilation of bad experiences that they happen to have or witnessed from the people that they beloved.

Quote from: mirakal on May 04, 2024, 09:42:07 AM

I used to get affected with how others comprehend about gambling, but I realized this is what makes me entertained and sometimes makes me profitable, so I’m actually benefiting from it. I will continue gambling as long as I want, and as long as I’m using my own spare money. My money, my rules, and since they don’t contribute any goodness in my life, then they’re free to leave me on my own way and mind their own business.

That's it.

We're all on it and no one is going to stop us from doing so. We do what we want to do with our money and even if it's gambling to them is a bad thing.

They're not the ones who's going to lose or win with it, so they should spare us with that.

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Quote from: Ever-young on May 05, 2024, 02:38:41 AM

Normally, people will always talk about other people's habits, whether it directly affects them or not, so it shouldn't be of much concern to a gambler when people talk about their habits or their participation in gambling, well except my gambling habits is a problem to me or to them and is either affecting them directly or indirectly.
But as long as I know that I keep my gambling habits in check and I try to be as responsible as I can be in my gambling, then what others say or thing shouldn't be of importance and concern to me.

People should care nothing about our activities as long as we are not giving them trouble about our gambling activities , because it is our time , money and life that is in risk and spending .
though at some chances we are giving consent to our love ones so they can support nor advise us whenever we have troubles or we are in success ,that is the importance of other people but in totality ? idon't care about what they say to me.

That's you my friend, and me, I do not care about what people view or say about me regarding gambling and any other things else. This is because I live my life the way I want to live it and above all, everything is positive for me in such a way that I am emulateable. But can many other people beat their chests on that? That is the issue. If you are responsible in gambling and you have a good life, people will never look down or talk down on you no matter what, they will even want to associate with you and respect you. But the same thing cannot be said of an irresponsible gambler because such has created that view for himself, so it is better he either change his ways or gamble in hiding, otherwise, he has given people a pass mark over him.

After all, what people could be saying about him is to warrant a change and the earlier the gambler changes, the better. Also, in some localities where females are widely respected and known for things afar from gambling, I think women should respect that so that they do not have this kind of odd feeling, this is unless she is shameless.

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Quote from: pinggoki on May 05, 2024, 01:12:56 AM

I would only listen to those people if they start funding my gambling sessions, that way they have the right to mess with me and tell me when to stop whenever I gamble but otherwise, it's none of their business to be bickering about my gambling habit, I get that some of them don't have any bad intentions and that they're just concerned but look at it this way, I'll only stop and ask for your help when I verbally ask for it. That's a natural thing for these people, they'll laugh and mock you when you're down but then the wind changes and fortune favors you, they're suddenly your friend that have supported you since day one.

That's hard to gets people who will wants to funding your gambling sessions and no one will do that except that person are your relatives who wants to watch you playing gambling. Maybe they will make a deal with you that no matter what happens, they can asks you to stops you gambling sessions and you will follows what their asks. But we don't have to use other people's money to playing gambling because we don't know what's their reason doing that to us. It's better we playing gambling with our money and we don't have to listen to them who saying many things about us. But we must have good self control when playing gambling so we knows when we must stops playing gambling before our money is gone. If we can do that, we will avoids the big lose and the other problems that can occurs.

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Quote from: swogerino on May 05, 2024, 03:37:04 AM

Quote from: kotajikikox on May 05, 2024, 03:27:08 AM

Quote from: Ever-young on May 05, 2024, 02:38:41 AM

Normally, people will always talk about other people's habits, whether it directly affects them or not, so it shouldn't be of much concern to a gambler when people talk about their habits or their participation in gambling, well except my gambling habits is a problem to me or to them and is either affecting them directly or indirectly.
But as long as I know that I keep my gambling habits in check and I try to be as responsible as I can be in my gambling, then what others say or thing shouldn't be of importance and concern to me.

People should care nothing about our activities as long as we are not giving them trouble about our gambling activities , because it is our time , money and life that is in risk and spending .
though at some chances we are giving consent to our love ones so they can support nor advise us whenever we have troubles or we are in success ,that is the importance of other people but in totality ? idon't care about what they say to me.

Nowadays only in not so well developed countries people like to talk about each other life,in people where life is rushing and is very fast paced in general no one has time to deal with what you are doing or with what activity you are spending your time.Of course in the offline casinos in any country people will talk,look at that person going to the casino and losing money and we cannot stop this general judgement against gamblers,this is passed on by generations to generations.I mean in a country not really fast paced like the one where I live,people invade your privacy and ask you things that they shouldn't like coming near you and trying to see what are you doing with your phone,making you at risk even when you do online gambling.

In an environment where gambling is not welcomed, it is very common to get unsolicited advice and recommendations from families, friends and even strangers on matters relating to gambling. Development alone won't get rid of the stereotype, the gamblers in such an environment have a role to play to ensure that people see gambling as every other fun activity where you still get the chance to earn when you win.

What do you expect when out of 100 gamblers in an environment, 50 are irresponsible. People will always talk because they feel you are irresponsible and lazy. What anyone does with his life is not supposed to be any other person's business but as far as gambling is concerned, the repercussions from a bad gambling lifestyle does not only hit the gambler, it extends to his family and friends. In a nutshell, if gamblers begin to act like every other responsible members of the society, people will not find any negative thing to say about gambling and gamblers about.

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Quote from: swogerino on May 05, 2024, 03:37:04 AM

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I think it's not about the development of the country we live in, but about the fact that in any country there are people who are ready to spend their time not on something useful, but on discussing other people. Such people are mostly losers, so there is no sense in following their recommendations or living the way they imagine it. Life is given once and you should live it the way you want to live it, not the way others want you to live it.

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Quote from: kotajikikox on May 05, 2024, 03:27:08 AM

Quote from: Ever-young on May 05, 2024, 02:38:41 AM

Normally, people will always talk about other people's habits, whether it directly affects them or not, so it shouldn't be of much concern to a gambler when people talk about their habits or their participation in gambling, well except my gambling habits is a problem to me or to them and is either affecting them directly or indirectly.
But as long as I know that I keep my gambling habits in check and I try to be as responsible as I can be in my gambling, then what others say or thing shouldn't be of importance and concern to me.

People should care nothing about our activities as long as we are not giving them trouble about our gambling activities , because it is our time , money and life that is in risk and spending .
though at some chances we are giving consent to our love ones so they can support nor advise us whenever we have troubles or we are in success ,that is the importance of other people but in totality ? idon't care about what they say to me.

Nowadays only in not so well developed countries people like to talk about each other life,in people where life is rushing and is very fast paced in general no one has time to deal with what you are doing or with what activity you are spending your time.Of course in the offline casinos in any country people will talk,look at that person going to the casino and losing money and we cannot stop this general judgement against gamblers,this is passed on by generations to generations.I mean in a country not really fast paced like the one where I live,people invade your privacy and ask you things that they shouldn't like coming near you and trying to see what are you doing with your phone,making you at risk even when you do online gambling.

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Quote from: Ever-young on May 05, 2024, 02:38:41 AM

Normally, people will always talk about other people's habits, whether it directly affects them or not, so it shouldn't be of much concern to a gambler when people talk about their habits or their participation in gambling, well except my gambling habits is a problem to me or to them and is either affecting them directly or indirectly.
But as long as I know that I keep my gambling habits in check and I try to be as responsible as I can be in my gambling, then what others say or thing shouldn't be of importance and concern to me.

People should care nothing about our activities as long as we are not giving them trouble about our gambling activities , because it is our time , money and life that is in risk and spending .
though at some chances we are giving consent to our love ones so they can support nor advise us whenever we have troubles or we are in success ,that is the importance of other people but in totality ? idon't care about what they say to me.

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Normally, people will always talk about other people's habits, whether it directly affects them or not, so it shouldn't be of much concern to a gambler when people talk about their habits or their participation in gambling, well except my gambling habits is a problem to me or to them and is either affecting them directly or indirectly.
But as long as I know that I keep my gambling habits in check and I try to be as responsible as I can be in my gambling, then what others say or thing shouldn't be of importance and concern to me.

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I think one should not care about the other people's words but if it is your family then that is against your gambling then surely you will be on the wrong path and you should stop to gamble. Other people cannot tolerate your success but it is your family who work day and night to make you successful so if they stop you from doing anything then it will be better for you to follow the instructions of your parents.

I think most people think that gambling is not a good thing but they will never show their behavior to you because nowadays everyone is in struggle to spoil the life of others. You will be familiar that if your friend is involved in gambling then he will surely force you to do so while your family will always advise you to not gamble as it's not a good field.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on May 01, 2024, 07:08:12 AM

Quote from: pinggoki on April 30, 2024, 11:25:38 PM

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They don't like seeing us playing gambling and worry if we gets the problems from gambling so they will say many things to us, including saying that we can becomes addicted to gambling. If you don't listen to them because you thinks you can take care of yourself while playing gambling, you will not thinks too serious with what their saying. When you can wins from gambling and they heard about that, they will comes to you and some of them will asks for the money and hopes that you will gives some small amount to them. While the other people will say anything about your winning and some of them jealous with what you gets from gambling. If you are not addicted people to gambling, you will not hear what they say because you can prevents yourself from the problems and will not gets deeper in gambling.

I would only listen to those people if they start funding my gambling sessions, that way they have the right to mess with me and tell me when to stop whenever I gamble but otherwise, it's none of their business to be bickering about my gambling habit, I get that some of them don't have any bad intentions and that they're just concerned but look at it this way, I'll only stop and ask for your help when I verbally ask for it. That's a natural thing for these people, they'll laugh and mock you when you're down but then the wind changes and fortune favors you, they're suddenly your friend that have supported you since day one.

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Quote from: 0t3p0t on May 04, 2024, 10:08:02 AM

I personally don't give a fvck about other people's opinion not unless it is a constructive criticism. It is actually none of their business and people always have something to say whether you do good or bad and that is natural for me so it doesn't matter. I am not that addicted to gambling before though I know I have mistakes but I never really heard someone had told me some thing about my gambling thing but instead I do constructive criticism to others especially if they are my close friend, relatives or even a family member since it's natural for us to be concerned about them doing something that is not right in gambling specially when I feel they are way too greedy or irresponsible.

Yes as long as you're not harming them or as long as you're not gambling with their money then obviously there's no point in paying attention to criticism from people like that, but yes like you said unless the criticism is constructive and leads you to better things, like for example they advise you to take a lot of precautions and gamble with only the money you can afford to lose then obviously it's not a criticism but a helpful suggestion that leads to precautions.

Actually, no matter what your situation is, whether you are addicted or not I think filtering out some of the criticism that other people throw at you is a necessary action, because for example out of 10 people who comment there are probably 5 - 9 people who give positive comments that advise you to for example be more careful or suggest other things that are useful for safety while you are involved in gambling.

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that's right, it's our right to gamble or not, so we don't need to think too much about what other people think about our gambling, because it's our money, it's us who lose or win, so why do we need to care about what other people think? so instead of worrying about what other people think of us, it's better for us to focus on what we do and not gamble excessively, because that is the most important thing compared to thinking about other people's opinions.

It's true that thinking about other people's comments that speak ill of us just because they see us gambling will only make us feel depressed even though we gamble doesn't harm them and we gamble using our own money without asking other people. Apart from that, gambling is everyone's right, no one can forbid it as long as they don't has any contribution to us, so keep doing what you feel happy whether you gamble or not because it's your own money, but the most important thing is that you know the limits of gambling and don't overdo it, sometimes when people gamble they can become addicted if they can't limit themselves then Therefore we have to prevent that from happening.

Actually, I know the purpose of other people reprimanding us when we gamble in public places, maybe they are just worried about the gambling we play. Indeed, as long as we are living creatures, we can remind each other and care about each other. But that doesn't mean we have to make negative comments and hurt our feelings, that will make us feel bad for other people and feel uncomfortable because they don't know us but they seem to know nothing about our lives so whatever their input is, just listen to it if it's positive listen, if it's negative, just ignore it.

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If you started thinking of what people do say about gambling I don't think that you will be able to participate in gambling any longer so I know very well that gambling have to do with understanding and if you don't know the secret of gambling you will not be able to gamble very well so that is why I do like people to think on their own and know the application of gambling and they also advantages of gambling by their selves

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- If what is being said is good, why should I ignore what others are telling me? If it is for my own good as a gambler, I will accept it and add knowledge to it.

But of course, if I know that nothing good can be done to me or nothing good can be given to me, I don't care about that; of course, I just ignore you. But if the money is meddled with and I'm the one who worked hard, I don't care about that, of course.

A person's decision to gamble is a very absolute decision from themselves so it does not need to be linked to other people, although it is also not wrong to accept advice from other people regarding gambling. But basically every gambling that we carry out is absolutely from our own intentions without having to interfere with other people because everyone uses their own money for this. Apart from that, we also feel losing and winning in gambling ourselves, even though other people also experience the same thing in their gambling, but the feelings of sadness and happiness that arise through gambling are individual.

There is no problem with me taking advice from other people for gambling but I am not willing to take any advice from other people that has any negative effect on my gambling. I know how to gamble and how to stay within my limits when gambling. In taking any decision, I will take the decision that I understand best because I am the owner of that money. Not everyone's advice will always be acceptable to me. If I lose my money by my own mistake there will be my satisfaction but if I lose my money on other's advice it is hard to bear. I will prioritize my own decision no matter what others say.

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Quote from: mirakal on May 04, 2024, 09:42:07 AM

Quote from: livingfree on April 30, 2024, 11:02:06 PM

One thing to say with those people that are trying to distract us while we do our own thing, mind their own business.

I don't care a thing they say, am I gambling with their money? am I using their time? No, they don't and that's why I don't care about them and whatever they say upon looking at my activities whether on my laptop or smartphone.

We've got our own lives to deal with and it's too short to be thinking of the welfare of other's activities.

Let’s just accept the reality that we can’t please everyone, and that we don’t have the control to what they want to say. Gambling can be a bad thing, but only for those who can’t manage their gambling urge and turn into irresponsible gamblers. However, for those who are good and responsible one, then there’s no way they’ll care whatever people will say.

I used to get affected with how others comprehend about gambling, but I realized this is what makes me entertained and sometimes makes me profitable, so I’m actually benefiting from it. I will continue gambling as long as I want, and as long as I’m using my own spare money. My money, my rules, and since they don’t contribute any goodness in my life, then they’re free to leave me on my own way and mind their own business.

It's great to see someone taking ownership of their choices. Listen, gambling can be a lot of fun, even profitable on occasion. I've seen it myself. Its about smart money management, knowing your limits. The naysayers always focus on the bad stuff, but thats a narrow view. Used responsibly, with spare cash, why wouldnt you enjoy yourself and maybe get lucky? You're showing it can be done right - thats impressive. Ignore the negativity. You could be the one teaching folks a thing or two about having fun and being responsible.

That's right, those critics need to be taught few things about responsible gambling. Their problem with gambling is as regards to addiction. What it does to a player, how addiction can ruin people's finances etc are the few reason why the non gamblers tend to say annoying things to gamblers. However, what people say doesn't add up to my habit provided it doesn't hurt them or affect their emotions. The problematic development of non gamblers is their ignorance to the benefits of gambling. If they had the idea of responsible players, their first comment whenever a gambler is sighted would have been whether the player is responsible or not.

Generally, in most societies, it's assumed that gamblers are failures. And most people had this thoughts while growing up. Now as adult they still think that every gambler would end up addicted or compulsive. That's the reason most of them still have wrong perspectives on gamblers. Gamblers on the other hand should develop a thick skin, because those stigmas won't stop now. Being able to withstand it, would help bring out the confidence to convince the critic that gambling responsibly doesn't lead a person to problem. They can also realize that gambling has different benefits aside chasing money.

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