First of all we all know that gambling is an entertaining activity where some people find their fun doing it, and it should be taken that way from the beginning. It is true that it is still seen as a bad habit from many people in our community and in our surroundings, maybe that is why some of us hide their gambling habits from their closest because they fear their reaction and how they would be seeing from the other side's perspective.
I personally don't care if anyone in my surroundings think that I am something bad when they know I am gambling because it is something I was opt to and I decided to do and I find my pleasure doing.
I have discussed that with my girlfriend for example, from the beginning of our relationship I confronted her about my gambling habits truthfully, happily she was okay with it as she understood me, we gamble together now from time to time and I can say it is way more fun to gamble with someone you know.
I think you should know the person a lot to open up about these things in order to understand how that person thinks and how he sees things first. And it depends on people, you can't also blame anyone on how he thinks.
Topic: Do you care about what people say about you gambling? - page 21. (Read 4700 times)
So when I logged in, someone close to me easily peep from my left hand side and noticed that I just opened my account monitoring my games, at this point what he said is "ahh you don join dem"? Meaning you have also belong to the groups of people that gambles?
This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?
Mutual respect for each other is the key to living in harmony. I think you are a little mistaken in your own actions by opening an account or registering an online gambling account in a public place. For me, the advantage of online gambling is that it makes it easier for us to keep secrets about our gambling habits by doing it in a place that we like.This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?
If we play in a place that people know, the risk is big. Let me give an example, for example if you win big or a jackpot on the game you play, your safety is not necessarily guaranteed from robbery.
Regarding what people say about the gambling we do, I don't think we need to pay attention because the money we use to gamble doesn't come from other people. Losing money as a result of playing is our responsibility.
I think this is very peaceful for me to say.
One thing to say with those people that are trying to distract us while we do our own thing, mind their own business.
I don't care a thing they say, am I gambling with their money? am I using their time? No, they don't and that's why I don't care about them and whatever they say upon looking at my activities whether on my laptop or smartphone.
We've got our own lives to deal with and it's too short to be thinking of the welfare of other's activities.
Let’s just accept the reality that we can’t please everyone, and that we don’t have the control to what they want to say. Gambling can be a bad thing, but only for those who can’t manage their gambling urge and turn into irresponsible gamblers. However, for those who are good and responsible one, then there’s no way they’ll care whatever people will say.I don't care a thing they say, am I gambling with their money? am I using their time? No, they don't and that's why I don't care about them and whatever they say upon looking at my activities whether on my laptop or smartphone.
We've got our own lives to deal with and it's too short to be thinking of the welfare of other's activities.
I used to get affected with how others comprehend about gambling, but I realized this is what makes me entertained and sometimes makes me profitable, so I’m actually benefiting from it. I will continue gambling as long as I want, and as long as I’m using my own spare money. My money, my rules, and since they don’t contribute any goodness in my life, then they’re free to leave me on my own way and mind their own business.
I personally don't give a fvck about other people's opinion not unless it is a constructive criticism. It is actually none of their business and people always have something to say whether you do good or bad and that is natural for me so it doesn't matter. I am not that addicted to gambling before though I know I have mistakes but I never really heard someone had told me some thing about my gambling thing but instead I do constructive criticism to others especially if they are my close friend, relatives or even a family member since it's natural for us to be concerned about them doing something that is not right in gambling specially when I feel they are way too greedy or irresponsible.
Million dollar question on this comment is how the heck other people knew that you are involved gambling now that we are on digital age which you can gamble privately in your room.
I’m gambling for so many years yet my colleagues or family member doesn’t know what I’m doing because I don’t share this information to other people simply because I have nothing to gain by doing that while there’s a lot of cons if you share it to somebody. It’s much easier to keep it a secret rather than expose it publicly then just ignore their opinion since you can have a much quieter gambling life if no one knows it.
on what you are doing online then there's no way that they could really be able to tell that you are doing gambling not unless if you've been letting showing other people then they could really be able to say such thing but if there's none then there's no way that they could be able to say up those words.
If ever they would really be saying up something on the things that you've been dealing with then its none of their business. Its your money that had been used and not theirs.
People would really be loving on telling up something against other lives without trying to take focus into their own lives as well.
I personally don't give a fvck about other people's opinion not unless it is a constructive criticism. It is actually none of their business and people always have something to say whether you do good or bad and that is natural for me so it doesn't matter. I am not that addicted to gambling before though I know I have mistakes but I never really heard someone had told me some thing about my gambling thing but instead I do constructive criticism to others especially if they are my close friend, relatives or even a family member since it's natural for us to be concerned about them doing something that is not right in gambling specially when I feel they are way too greedy or irresponsible.
Million dollar question on this comment is how the heck other people knew that you are involved gambling now that we are on digital age which you can gamble privately in your room.
I’m gambling for so many years yet my colleagues or family member doesn’t know what I’m doing because I don’t share this information to other people simply because I have nothing to gain by doing that while there’s a lot of cons if you share it to somebody. It’s much easier to keep it a secret rather than expose it publicly then just ignore their opinion since you can have a much quieter gambling life if no one knows it.
This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?
Let's discuss amicably
Like you said, you were on some business trip and naturally everything needs to be aligned in that theme but considering you went off course and one of the people you were with saw what you were doing would easily dent your privacy...and what if this person was a senior manager or supervisor they would easily say that that the reason for the drop of performance at work is because you are distracted with the gambling and to avoid all this better gamble in your own space of privacy.Let's discuss amicably
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Do you care about what people say about you gambling?
To some extent I do , especially that some people have had no luck with it to the extent of breaking their homes and going into debt...so to respect people's opinions and not have mine disrespected I think it's best to not feed people what to think about you and that's by keeping your gambling habits to yourself.
I personally don't give a fvck about other people's opinion not unless it is a constructive criticism. It is actually none of their business and people always have something to say whether you do good or bad and that is natural for me so it doesn't matter. I am not that addicted to gambling before though I know I have mistakes but I never really heard someone had told me some thing about my gambling thing but instead I do constructive criticism to others especially if they are my close friend, relatives or even a family member since it's natural for us to be concerned about them doing something that is not right in gambling specially when I feel they are way too greedy or irresponsible.
- If what is being said is good, why should I ignore what others are telling me? If it is for my own good as a gambler, I will accept it and add knowledge to it.
But of course, if I know that nothing good can be done to me or nothing good can be given to me, I don't care about that; of course, I just ignore you. But if the money is meddled with and I'm the one who worked hard, I don't care about that, of course.
A person's decision to gamble is a very absolute decision from themselves so it does not need to be linked to other people, although it is also not wrong to accept advice from other people regarding gambling. But basically every gambling that we carry out is absolutely from our own intentions without having to interfere with other people because everyone uses their own money for this. Apart from that, we also feel losing and winning in gambling ourselves, even though other people also experience the same thing in their gambling, but the feelings of sadness and happiness that arise through gambling are individual. But of course, if I know that nothing good can be done to me or nothing good can be given to me, I don't care about that; of course, I just ignore you. But if the money is meddled with and I'm the one who worked hard, I don't care about that, of course.
One thing to say with those people that are trying to distract us while we do our own thing, mind their own business.
I don't care a thing they say, am I gambling with their money? am I using their time? No, they don't and that's why I don't care about them and whatever they say upon looking at my activities whether on my laptop or smartphone.
We've got our own lives to deal with and it's too short to be thinking of the welfare of other's activities.
Let’s just accept the reality that we can’t please everyone, and that we don’t have the control to what they want to say. Gambling can be a bad thing, but only for those who can’t manage their gambling urge and turn into irresponsible gamblers. However, for those who are good and responsible one, then there’s no way they’ll care whatever people will say.I don't care a thing they say, am I gambling with their money? am I using their time? No, they don't and that's why I don't care about them and whatever they say upon looking at my activities whether on my laptop or smartphone.
We've got our own lives to deal with and it's too short to be thinking of the welfare of other's activities.
I used to get affected with how others comprehend about gambling, but I realized this is what makes me entertained and sometimes makes me profitable, so I’m actually benefiting from it. I will continue gambling as long as I want, and as long as I’m using my own spare money. My money, my rules, and since they don’t contribute any goodness in my life, then they’re free to leave me on my own way and mind their own business.
Besides, it is our choice to gamble. As long as we enjoy what we are doing (gambling), we must not care what they think about us. That is their problem, not ours.
One thing to say with those people that are trying to distract us while we do our own thing, mind their own business.
I don't care a thing they say, am I gambling with their money? am I using their time? No, they don't and that's why I don't care about them and whatever they say upon looking at my activities whether on my laptop or smartphone.
We've got our own lives to deal with and it's too short to be thinking of the welfare of other's activities.
Let’s just accept the reality that we can’t please everyone, and that we don’t have the control to what they want to say. Gambling can be a bad thing, but only for those who can’t manage their gambling urge and turn into irresponsible gamblers. However, for those who are good and responsible one, then there’s no way they’ll care whatever people will say.I don't care a thing they say, am I gambling with their money? am I using their time? No, they don't and that's why I don't care about them and whatever they say upon looking at my activities whether on my laptop or smartphone.
We've got our own lives to deal with and it's too short to be thinking of the welfare of other's activities.
I used to get affected with how others comprehend about gambling, but I realized this is what makes me entertained and sometimes makes me profitable, so I’m actually benefiting from it. I will continue gambling as long as I want, and as long as I’m using my own spare money. My money, my rules, and since they don’t contribute any goodness in my life, then they’re free to leave me on my own way and mind their own business.
- If what is being said is good, why should I ignore what others are telling me? If it is for my own good as a gambler, I will accept it and add knowledge to it.
But of course, if I know that nothing good can be done to me or nothing good can be given to me, I don't care about that; of course, I just ignore you. But if the money is meddled with and I'm the one who worked hard, I don't care about that, of course.
But of course, if I know that nothing good can be done to me or nothing good can be given to me, I don't care about that; of course, I just ignore you. But if the money is meddled with and I'm the one who worked hard, I don't care about that, of course.
One thing to say with those people that are trying to distract us while we do our own thing, mind their own business.
I don't care a thing they say, am I gambling with their money? am I using their time? No, they don't and that's why I don't care about them and whatever they say upon looking at my activities whether on my laptop or smartphone.
We've got our own lives to deal with and it's too short to be thinking of the welfare of other's activities.
One thing about life is that whatever you do people will always complain and when you understand this when you see people trying talk things about your hobby it won't bother you because already you know people are good to talk about things that are not their business. Since it is always like this, to avoid people talking about what you do it will be best to be reserved in all you do because what people don't know about you they can't talk about it. I don't care a thing they say, am I gambling with their money? am I using their time? No, they don't and that's why I don't care about them and whatever they say upon looking at my activities whether on my laptop or smartphone.
We've got our own lives to deal with and it's too short to be thinking of the welfare of other's activities.
For me I think gambling is something that people don't even need to have to know your involvement with because it has no business with people knowing about it, it is just for you to play and wait for the outcome of it which people don't even need to know.
But upon the conversation starts from them, as I've said it's best to avoid and ignore them because you don't meddle with anything that they do. So, it's best for them to not cause any talks especially about their thoughts about seeing someone gambling.
It's just upon their peripheral vision and that's why they seems to be obliged telling their opinions although you don't need them.
If it was someone else I would ignore it, why is it like that? because they don't know me in depth and don't know where I live so just relax even though other people will comment badly even though I'm gambling. But I always anticipate this by not gambling in public places, especially when we're in crowded places and there's not much difference in seating too far from other people because I feel uncomfortable if other people see my activities whether I'm chatting or playing on social media or even gambling because they could peek or want to know what we want to do. Because I also don't like peeking at other people's cell phones because cell phones are personal.
So whatever the reason, I don't care about other people's comments, but if my friend reprimands me or comments on what I do, whether it's gambling, I will respond why is that? because they know me and my family. So I'm maybe will explain that my gambling is healthy gambling, sometimes my friend is just worried if we gamble to the point of becoming addicted, therefore usually good friends always remind us not to go beyond the limits.
Yes, that true, and whatever other people say will not benefit us, on the other hand, by carrying out gambling activities we also don't make other people feel loss, so if what we do is seen as bad then just let it go.So whatever the reason, I don't care about other people's comments, but if my friend reprimands me or comments on what I do, whether it's gambling, I will respond why is that? because they know me and my family. So I'm maybe will explain that my gambling is healthy gambling, sometimes my friend is just worried if we gamble to the point of becoming addicted, therefore usually good friends always remind us not to go beyond the limits.
Maybe they say some things out of concern and also because they don't want us to experience bad things, but basically we gamble with our own will and there is no coercion from anyone, whether it loss or gain, only we ourselves feel it.
Sometimes they don't know what we can actually get from gambling, as we just have fun and are looking for entertainment, but most people think gambling is bad activity.
It just that that different thing, if they are friends or close people who we really trust, there will always be reason for our own good, but unfortunately finding people like this is very difficult.
There have been several incidents in group where friends gave each other support to do more in gambling, but when defeat came they all fell silent.
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I also don't like judging people who like to gamble because I also don't like being judged when I'm gambling, because gambling is a person's right and they also use their own money to gamble. And whether they are addicted or gamble irresponsibly is their problem, not mine.
And I like to gamble just for fun, which I sometimes do on weekends after feeling tired after five days of work, and my gambling activities are also unknown to many people. And most bookies recommend gambling responsibly because many gamblers play excessively which causes addiction, and the negative side of gambling occurs because of the mistakes of irresponsible gamblers which makes ordinary people think that gambling is not good and even hated.
That's good for you because we don't wants to interfere other people lives and vice versa and that will be up to them. They must responsible of what they doing and if they can't take care of themselves while they playing gambling, that will gives an impact to them. Playing gambling will be people decision but they must have self control to avoids the big lose that can happens to them. They must responsible with their gambling activity and not lets them gets deeper in gambling because gambling is just for fun in their free time. It's better we playing gambling in our free time and with moderation because gambling can tempts us gets deeper without we realizes that we already playing gambling longer than we thinks. If we can responsible with our gambling activity, we don't have to listen other people say because they don't knows what we do and they only see from the outside. They can be wrong saying that we playing gambling excessively because they don't knows what we do while playing gambling. So lets, them like that while we can playing gambling moderately. And I like to gamble just for fun, which I sometimes do on weekends after feeling tired after five days of work, and my gambling activities are also unknown to many people. And most bookies recommend gambling responsibly because many gamblers play excessively which causes addiction, and the negative side of gambling occurs because of the mistakes of irresponsible gamblers which makes ordinary people think that gambling is not good and even hated.
I agree, besides the money you are using in gambling is your own money. The fact that it is your own money, it only means that other people doesn't have the right to think or say/dictate anything about your hobby. Letting them to think whatever they want and didn't give any interest on their opinion is good, we don't need to stress ourselves with other peoples opinion, what we should think is how we become comfortable with our hobbies.
Basically, we should gamble using our own money if we really like gambling, whether we lose or win we will feel it ourselves, if we win then we can enjoy it and if we lose we have to be able to bear it. As long as we can gamble appropriately, don't let us be played by gambling which can put us in big losses and serious problems such as gambling addiction, which of course is not a good thing. It's also a good idea to listen to what other people say if it's advice.I myself like to gamble but I hide it, even though there are other people talking about gambling, I just keep my mouth shut and don't open the conversation about the gambling that I do, unless I use other people's money to gamble, that is a mistake that can have a big impact on us, too. This might happen when we lose self-control by gambling, therefore it is very important to be able to control ourselves from the gambling we do. Even though there are people who often say "don't listen to what other people say" it doesn't really have to be done, because if it's advice then there's no harm in listening to it and considering it.
that's right, it's our right to gamble or not, so we don't need to think too much about what other people think about our gambling, because it's our money, it's us who lose or win, so why do we need to care about what other people think? so instead of worrying about what other people think of us, it's better for us to focus on what we do and not gamble excessively, because that is the most important thing compared to thinking about other people's opinions.
Well, so far I'm not an addicted or irresponsible gambler, what others think about me gambler is their own problem and not mine, so far I'm gambling responsible and not allowing it to affect others. Gambling is not a bad idea but it's when you don't gamble responsibly that's wrong that's why most of these bookies and online casinos would always advice people to do so which is gambling responsible.
And I like to gamble just for fun, which I sometimes do on weekends after feeling tired after five days of work, and my gambling activities are also unknown to many people. And most bookies recommend gambling responsibly because many gamblers play excessively which causes addiction, and the negative side of gambling occurs because of the mistakes of irresponsible gamblers which makes ordinary people think that gambling is not good and even hated.
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So whatever the reason, I don't care about other people's comments, but if my friend reprimands me or comments on what I do, whether it's gambling, I will respond why is that? because they know me and my family. So I'm maybe will explain that my gambling is healthy gambling, sometimes my friend is just worried if we gamble to the point of becoming addicted, therefore usually good friends always remind us not to go beyond the limits.
So whatever the reason, I don't care about other people's comments, but if my friend reprimands me or comments on what I do, whether it's gambling, I will respond why is that? because they know me and my family. So I'm maybe will explain that my gambling is healthy gambling, sometimes my friend is just worried if we gamble to the point of becoming addicted, therefore usually good friends always remind us not to go beyond the limits.
that's right, it's our right to gamble or not, so we don't need to think too much about what other people think about our gambling, because it's our money, it's us who lose or win, so why do we need to care about what other people think? so instead of worrying about what other people think of us, it's better for us to focus on what we do and not gamble excessively, because that is the most important thing compared to thinking about other people's opinions.
Sometimes we need to look at who is talking and what the person is talking about, if it is an advice then you need to think about the advice even if the delivery is done calmly and peacefully, because sometimes people convey their opinions to provoke our emotions, then see whether the advice or opinion can be justified or not by yourself regarding the impact if we do not follow what he is talking about, you need to have a very good logic in accepting an opinion both good and bad.
Don't be too apathetic towards others, because it can become a stone in yourself and your environment becomes bad, I think you have to be more mature in listening to opinions, don't look as if you don't care, just listen well and peacefully, whether or not you use the opinions of others, it comes back to you, the important thing is that we can accept the opinions of others so that your environmental situation is also good.
I agree, besides the money you are using in gambling is your own money. The fact that it is your own money, it only means that other people doesn't have the right to think or say/dictate anything about your hobby. Letting them to think whatever they want and didn't give any interest on their opinion is good, we don't need to stress ourselves with other peoples opinion, what we should think is how we become comfortable with our hobbies.
People always have the right to think what ever it is they want to think and we have almost no power as to control whatever it is they want to think but then it's in our power to still do that which we wan to do regardless of what the taughts of these people will be because if you are not happy and are probably sad and didn't gets sometimes to keep u having fun during your leisure, the same people will talk about the fact that you are sad and not trying to cheer up basically what ever is it you do people will still talk and think so just gèt something good that makes you happy and do it.If gambling is your hobby and it actually hurts no one it's not a problem if you continue with your hubby and still happen to have fun with it not minding what people think or say but if it turns out your hubby is causing problem to others then look for a way to possibly adjust so you don't get to make people suffer as a result of your hubby.
that's right, it's our right to gamble or not, so we don't need to think too much about what other people think about our gambling, because it's our money, it's us who lose or win, so why do we need to care about what other people think? so instead of worrying about what other people think of us, it's better for us to focus on what we do and not gamble excessively, because that is the most important thing compared to thinking about other people's opinions.
Well, so far I'm not an addicted or irresponsible gambler, what others think about me gambler is their own problem and not mine, so far I'm gambling responsible and not allowing it to affect others. Gambling is not a bad idea but it's when you don't gamble responsibly that's wrong that's why most of these bookies and online casinos would always advice people to do so which is gambling responsible.
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So whatever the reason, I don't care about other people's comments, but if my friend reprimands me or comments on what I do, whether it's gambling, I will respond why is that? because they know me and my family. So I'm maybe will explain that my gambling is healthy gambling, sometimes my friend is just worried if we gamble to the point of becoming addicted, therefore usually good friends always remind us not to go beyond the limits.
So whatever the reason, I don't care about other people's comments, but if my friend reprimands me or comments on what I do, whether it's gambling, I will respond why is that? because they know me and my family. So I'm maybe will explain that my gambling is healthy gambling, sometimes my friend is just worried if we gamble to the point of becoming addicted, therefore usually good friends always remind us not to go beyond the limits.
that's right, it's our right to gamble or not, so we don't need to think too much about what other people think about our gambling, because it's our money, it's us who lose or win, so why do we need to care about what other people think? so instead of worrying about what other people think of us, it's better for us to focus on what we do and not gamble excessively, because that is the most important thing compared to thinking about other people's opinions.
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