Topic: Do you care about what people say about you gambling? - page 23. (Read 4246 times)

Everyone is living his personal life, even though we tend to relate or have friends or even consult people about a thing or two, it doesn't change the fact that we all are living our independent lives. You should care less about what people say when you are gambling as long as you have your thinking cap intact and not having to be living wrecked as a result.

Gambling can either been seen as negative or positive activity, it depends on a person's point of view. Gambling is an open activity in which anyone can participate without any pressure from others. Besides, this is a free world, and I've worked hard enough to pay my bills, so I won't tolerate any type of abuse from anyone; after all, I'm not looking for an entitlement post in either religion or where I work. We are citizens who work sufficiently forceful to ensure that we create our primary income for ourselves and our families, and we do so while simultaneously creating change for pockets.

That's right, besides, if they comment well with the intention of giving directions or advice then there's nothing wrong with what they do, and it could also make us aware and reduce our gambling. but on the other hand, when someone has a habit of gambling and they can be said to be addicted, it is likely that they will not be able to take the advice well. because people who are addicted to gambling, in my opinion, tend to be stubborn individuals so they won't listen to advice from other people.

Generally, family or relatives will of course provide comments in the form of advice or something else, but if you are with friends who are equally fond of gambling, they will comment to give you a good way to gamble which is actually good in their opinion. In my opinion, what they mean by criticizing us is that there are two possibilities, to raise awareness and to continue to push deeper into gambling, and after that all control is with us who decide whether the comments should be listened to and considered, or maybe just let it go without paying attention.

Sometimes, we don't need to listen to what other people say because their comments to you will become your basis in yourself,it's hard to listen and trust what other people say because we don't know what their intentions are when criticizing you, their judgement may be good or bad but at It's better if you will listen to your family and closest one who knows you better and wants to improve yourself in life, for real.

No, I don't care anymore what people that I don't know well or don't have much contact with think about me. If it's a family member or a good friend, then things are different and I value  their opinion much more. Your situation is understandable and when I was younger I probably would have similar reaction. It was really important for me what strangers thought of me and I would spend a lot of time and money trying to fit in. But once you get older you realize how many different people there are in the world and everybody has its own ideas. There will always be people who dislike our actions and we shouldn't give too much value to them. Something I always myself when hearing other people giving their opinion about my action is what do I have to gain from listening to them? The people don't really know me and only have a very small insight into my life. Worst case and you feel like you can't blend out other people's opinion, you can always try and be more secretative about your gambling. For example, I only gamble at home in the evenings at home and if I would tell other people about by hobby, they would never find out. Only share personal things with people where you feel like not getting judged.

actually it is quite important to listen to what someone says about us. but it would be better if only the closest people know about our gambling activities such as family, relatives, and friends. other than that I will not tell you more about my gambling activities. because it will only make noise.
if those who say to stop are family, it's also good to listen to what they say, but not to stop completely, just limit our movements when playing gambling so as not to overdo it. maybe that's all.

It is a difficult thing to not care what people say about us, they will continue to weaken mentally until dawn, I agree with you,  you are ignorant and don't care about what people say. this needs to be imitated and learned how to not care about what people say. I've tried, but I always think about what people say until I stop playing gambling a few years ago. That made me no longer excited to watch or sit on a bet chair. But, it's no longer, I finally decided to start again after my friend support me.

Without being told each and everyone of us knows that betting is not the type of business that in the one should glory about. Gambling is not a noble profession and it is not even a profession, it is unethical and in most societies it is prohibited. Having this in mind is what makes some gamblers pretend as if they do not gamble but in their secret places they do. If you look around your neighborhood you will also understand that there are people who have already useless themselves because of gambling. There are people who do not have single type of project year inn year out because of gambling and yet they work and earn. If you have also observant you will understand that there are some people who are very much addicted to gambling and they appear poor in the society. The number of the people who are disadvantaged by gambling is higher than the number of people who became successful through gambling. You therefore have no reasons to be sad if someone already categorized you as someone who is not going to be successful in the future because they saw you gambling. It is now at your own court to prove the people wrong by gambling with difference. Tell them that you are civilized and strive to be even better and not to become what they think of you. With such a criticism, it will serve as a watch word to you in case you are going extreme in gambling. In a nutshell, you need to consider what more than one person had said about you.

That is what it should be.

We will mind what we do and we don't mind what others do and that's why we shouldn't let them affect our feelings in whichever we do. If they're too talkative and tells a lot of tales that we don't like, ignore them.

That's the best revenge that you can do to them and react nothing as if you are just doing nothing and actually ignoring them for real. Just think of those folks that don't have anything to do so they comment to you.

And to add to that, we don't need to meet or reach people's expectations. Who are they to begin with?

We are the one who knows ourselves. Even doing gambling, we still know being a proper person and not doing crappy things around.

If these people say bad things about us because we do gamble, let them be. It's their freedom after all. But if things got worse because of their wrong statement about us, it's time now to confront these people and put some argument against them,

Caring for what other people says about you for anything and not just gambling is an old mentality which people with complexes have.I don't care what other people say about me as I am living my life enjoying what I do and what other people say does not concern me at all.I may be happy gambling all day in a physical casino and people would perceive it differently,they will say he is a loser while I am enjoying myself so who cares what people say.

What I can say here is that gambling is not a crime, it is just a way of life, only that some people are doing it in an ugly way which is making people think that it is so bad. It is not bad itself if gambling is engaged correctly, the gambler will continue to enjoy it and get to even make money from it, but if they can't earn the money, they will still not lsoe much and will continue to try their luck if they need money from it which I do not advice in such in a way that will be linked to desperation. This can't be obvious to anybody until they see the gambling app on the gadget of the gambler or see them entering the gambling house.

Any which one, it is one's business and affair, it doesn't concern anybody or external people are less concerned about it. This standing of mine subsists as long as the gambler is responsible with his gambling, everybody can't have the same hobby or way of life, those who would complain about gambling, don't they have their own hobbies and their lives of interest in some things. But we should only be wise and smart about it, we should not be too engrossed with gambling so that the bad side of it will not affect us. Gambling can be enjoyed if one's mind is positioned towards the care and plan and if we moderate our activities with it, not friends or family will be worried to the point that they will start complaining about it.

Yes, that's why I don't like spending time with people like that because it can cause misunderstandings. I'd better leave it and go home or join other friends who don't like talking about other people. There are people like that in our environment so we really need to keep our distance from them because that's what they are like. After all, we can still gamble well because we can really use gambling as entertainment and never cross the boundaries that we have created. We also never use a lot of money to enjoy gambling as entertainment because we already know that excessive gambling can result in greater loss of money and we will not be able to bear the consequences. So it's better that we don't get too close to people like that than later arguments will arise between us and everyone will get involved even though they don't need to know about it.

I always don't care about what people say whether it's comments about my personal life or when I'm gambling because as long as I don't bother other people and don't ask them for money then I will remain indifferent and do whatever activities I like whether it's gambling in front of them, although sometimes gambling is considered bad, but it's me who does it and I also bear the losses while they are just busy making comments which I think are noisy

But if they advise me in a better direction, maybe I will listen to them as long as they don't offend me or don't advise me with harsh words because if they comment with harsh words of course I will ignore them and avoid them, because my gambling is more valuable than having to listen to their comments. which I think is useless and a waste of time to respond to it.

I like your tactic @ChiBitCTy, that's a nice counter for the judgmental people. As long as we are not stepping on someone else, we are not hurting anybody, and we are responsible enough that our family always has food on the table then I think we are good. Whatever they say, it won't matter to us because we know to ourselves that we are doing well and gambling is just part of our entertainment to avoid those gossipers. I mean, it's actually better, we are not outside doing nonsense or talking about other people, we stay at home in silence, we play our game, and we enjoy it.
You know what? I think they are just jealous that even if we stay at home we can still entertain ourselves, we don't need anything else, and yet outside it looks like we are too busy with something else.
Some people cannot swallow the fact that somebody is better than them which is why they will do everything in their mouthful power to undermine those types of people who are ignoring them.
I know it because I have neighbors who talk a lot, mostly the old women who think they are better or they just don't have anything else to do in their life that is why they are trying to pull down people using their gossip. That's why I don't share anything with anyone, it's scary because it's like a pandemic that would scatter fast.

The gambler should not skip any person opinion in the gambling,because every one will share their opinions based on the loss or winning.If the gambler was new to the field of gambling,he should ready to accept the words of the experienced gamblers.This was the only way to avoid of the gambler initially loss in the gambling.The gamblers who are get addicted to gambling will not accept the the advice from the experienced gambler or their friends.This was the bigger reason for the gambling addicted person to suffer a lot.The most of the gambling addiction cause due to the recovery of the old losses in the gambling site.

When it comes to family talks then it would really be that always the main priority on which if someone does really experiencing some problems then it would really be just that normal
that as a member then you should really be that trying out to help to those who are at trouble. You cant really just that make yourself that seeing them on a tough situation.
This is why it would really be that best that you should really be wary on whats happening around specially in the family on which potential problems could really
happen and this is why it would really be that important that you should be wary on the things that you are dealing with.

Apart from my wife, no one else knows that I play.

This is the result of two factors:
1st: I am a responsible player. My gaming moments always occur at home and never at work or in any public place. Imagine someone witnessing the moment I'm earning $1 million!? It will certainly be difficult for the person to "forget" about me and that is dangerous.
2nd: I don't reveal my gaming habits to family and friends (besides my wife). Very few people even know that I own cryptocurrencies, so why would I tell them that I practice gambling? This is unnecessary.

I don't see any problem with people who like to share this with others, but I believe that whoever does this should be aware of the security risks and also discriminatory comments.

As an adult,I don't think there is need for any body to control anybody.The age at which one can Gambles starts from 28,so the moment one gets to that age,everybody is aware that he has reached the age in which he can make decisions on honor own and nobody can hold her.So you saying we need to respect our family or listen to our family simply means you still have that childishness in you.A matured mind will do whatever he likes to do with his time and  nobody will question his decision except the person he is legally married to because he is going to be with that person for the rest of his life, therefore,there is need to have your principle and get yourself out of  what people will say about you or your family.

Good you've noticed how uncomfortable such people get if they gambler doesn't feel worried or bother about what they say regarding his habit. Most times such people also engage in other activities worse than gambling but point fingers on the gambler over his attitude. As adults, no need minding what people say or think about our actions. How we treat this type of people differs, depending on who they're to us. If it's a stranger, and he has some listening ears, about what I'd have to tell him, then discussing with the person would be my best take. Although, if they claim to know better, ignoring the person works best. In the case of a family member, removing their doubt is the best move. At least to reduce his thoughts that I'd get addicted and cause more harm to the family. Everyone is groomed uniquely and the way we solve our troubles wouldn't be similar. People must talk, our lapses would be having their wrong thoughts in mind.

Sometimes when a person I don't know begin to say all sort of things regarding my habit and how it could lead me to run out of money. I'd give them a response, like, do you think saving money is the best financial move? The person gets interested in the conversation, when I begin sharing few knowledge of mine why they shouldn't rely on savings alone. And for means to better their lives. Not saying that any gambler or the society is not capable of voicing his thoughts out to the hearing of a loved one, who is having a problem with gambling. The truth is, we need to respect one another in the society. Handling issues gradually, is the best means of reaching our to a healing points. Those who can't keep their mouth short, would be left behind to think of why they didn't get a response. After multiple years, of gambling, recently people stop complaining because whatever they thought would happen didn't occur.