I used to have a cat many years ago, however its constant demand for food, the fact it kept going under my feet almost tripping me and killing me a couple of times and its general low intelligence annoyed me so much.
Once i was petting it on my lap and it attacked me and scratched me real bad for no reason (i started to bleed), i got so pissed i flung it across the room and it crash landed on the side of the fridge and into the floor it started to run away i chased it into the toilet, closed the door picked up the shower head, turn the tap full power and sprayed the cat with water, it kept running around the toilet screaming but i didn't stop spraying it with water until the cat stopped moving
That day i decided that i'm not a cat person and its probably best that i never own cats ever.
I now have an awesome dog, German shep. Dogs are sooo much better, My Girlfriend loves my Shep and she takes him for walks every other day, you can never do that with a cat!
anyone else agree and have similar experiences ?
Cats like all other animals communicate with their owners.
The key point is to understand its communications (verbal , eye contact and body language). It's about the same with dogs, but a cat's signals are generally much more subtle and require attention to detail.
Plus, a cat doesn't really have "an owner" like a dog (the Alpha) - caretaker is more appropriate and everyone getting a cat into the house should know that
If you misunderstand or ignore the communications, nothing bad will happen at first. The cat will clearly signal how it is doing.
Persistently ignoring the clear signals, however, can eventually end up in the animal breaking its way. If you attempt to force someting onto a cat, it will eventually respond with a similar reaction.
As opposed to obidient dogs, cats have a mind of their own - and they'll enforce that. They don't like or accept oppression and never look for or need an Alpha like a dog (this is often misinterpreted as "lack of loyality").
Although cats can do very stupid things (so do dogs), they're very cool animals.
But generally, unlike i.e. dogs they're animals that people can't simply pick up when they want/need it and stuff/command them away when they're done. Doesn't work that way.
IMHO when something goes unexpected or wrong between human and animal, 99% of the time it's the lack of attention or care of the human. Most of it comes from communcation failure and complete lack of situational awareness.
Understanding its language and
respecting its needs (it's not a toy !) yields the best results. Then you'll find out they aren't nearly as dimwitted as many would think, but of course they're still animals.
Plus, sometimes I think the animals are smarter, more kind and generally better behaving than alot of humans. Usually I find animals are much more honest.
The sad truth is, alot of humans just aren't fit to have an animal companion for various reasons.
PS.
Above "rules of the road" basically apply to all animals. Learn the rules and you'll even get along with wild/free-living animals in nature with surprising results.