The system is difficult; we has to confront favorable conditions in gambling while applying new techniques that are beneficial to us. We have responsibilities and ought to step in and deliver where we are called upon; most of us are married and have children; we are unable to depend on gambling to provide for our families; rather, we need the basic skills to use our gambling earnings to invest in another business. Self-control is absolutely necessary for gambling; with this attribute, one would be confident enough to refrain from gambling for a day, because we all have our daily budgets to achieve from the system.
Actually, this is communication between us and our families and not hiding our activities in gambling. If they find out we gamble and know we can control our gambling, they may accept it and stay with us so we don't cross the line. But it will be difficult if we decide to make gambling a source of income because it will be difficult to get it. Self-control is really needed so without having self-control, we will only experience big loss. And what is even worse, we can develop a severe gambling addiction.
You've painted the situation in stark, binary terms: exercise self-discipline, keep an eye on your budget, and don't let gaming drain your savings. Good work, however I'd argue it's too simplistic. Although self-restraint is essential, maybe the problem has more systemic causes. It's interesting how people are expected to take responsibility for their own actions yet the institutions that encourage harmful ones are often ignored. What if we imagined a society in which gambling was not the norm and where people were actively encouraged to seek excitement in other ways? While we're on the subject of absurdity, think about the thrill of placing a wager on whether or not the sun will shine the following day, or the mirth of losing a wager on whether a leaf will fall from a tree. What a wide range of emotions, from elation to despair, would be available to test. In the end, isn't real triumph found in knowing one's own limitations and accepting life's uncertainty?
That's what we have to know, learn, and do so that we don't experience any problems with gambling. But sadly, many people are compelled to gamble more so they will spend more money. They would even secretly use money for their families and not tell the truth. And when the family finds out, it will cause anger and maybe they will threaten us to stop immediately. And when that person loves his family more, he can stop and leave gambling. But if not, he would still be gambling secretly. But actually, we don't need to feel threatened by other people to stop, but it requires awareness from us to stop gambling.
