Have you ever felt remorse after gambling?

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Quote from: Sanugarid on October 05, 2023, 12:08:21 PM

Well, for me, it's normal to feel regret when you lose in gambling, whether your bet is big or small.
That's just a natural reaction because you lost. Maybe no one there is happy when you lose in gambling.
So for me it's a good thing because you're aware of what's going on. Yes, gamble with the amount you can afford to lose, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't regret what you lose.

Be afraid if you don't feel regret sometimes for what you spent when you lose. Because you might come to the point where you can even bet your property.

The gambler should not get depressed from the gambling loss.He will manage the loss in the game,if he use the money free from their salary.The gambler use the small money at the beginning of the game,then increase the same money to the big amount after 3-4 months in the gambling.The most quoted words in the gambling was,we should use the money which we afford to loss in the gambling.So both the win or loss in the gambling will not affect us.Start the gambling with the small amount to learn the gambling in the shorter period.

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Well, for me, it's normal to feel regret when you lose in gambling, whether your bet is big or small.
That's just a natural reaction because you lost. Maybe no one there is happy when you lose in gambling.
So for me it's a good thing because you're aware of what's going on. Yes, gamble with the amount you can afford to lose, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't regret what you lose.

Be afraid if you don't feel regret sometimes for what you spent when you lose. Because you might come to the point where you can even bet your property.

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Quote from: Saheedu on June 07, 2023, 10:46:04 AM

I saw this online and thought maybe i should bring on to bitcointalk for discussion.

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

Feeling regret after experiencing eternity after gambling is a common thing experienced by the average gambler, but this regret usually doesn't last long and when we have the capital to place another bet then slowly the regret will be forgotten in our minds but after that. There will be a feeling of revenge for the losses we experienced previously, so don't be too aggressive when gambling and if regret comes, it's a good idea to stop placing bets for a moment and look for a place of entertainment other than gambling and calm ourselves down first.

Right, regretting after placing some wrong bets is very common most especially for newbies. These type of people are not prepared to lose that's why they resort into regretting. But as you develop your love for gambling, eventually regrets turn into excitement. Most especially in games that promise huge returns, a lot of bettors would want to try their luck, and if they're not lucky enough, they will try to place another bet again hoping maybe this time the luck will be there.

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xFeeling remorse after gambling may indicate an awareness that gambling has perhaps exceeded the boundaries of healthy entertainment and turned into something more problematic. This might be an alert for the individual regarding their gambling behavior. It can be seen as a healthy reaction in that the person recognizes that something might be off about their gambling behavior, but it should certainly be taken as a signal to pause and reflect on their gambling habits. If remorse is frequent or intense, it might suggest that it’s time to examine one’s relationship with gambling and, if necessary, seek support or assistance

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Quote from: bitcrystal on October 05, 2023, 06:48:50 AM

this usually happen when you lose money, lose too much , have high hopes of winning. no one wants to lose so its not bad to feel remorseful after that. when this repeats itself too often then it can mean that such person is not gambling responsibly. its good not to gamble with any money you cant afford to lose. this is easier said but might be difficult that is why you should set aside a percentage of your income for gambling like 5% and never go beyond that.

Every gambler suffers from regret when he loses a bet. Especially when a big bet is lost due to a mistake, regret is high in this case. Emotions are always at work in humans but if they are under control then there will be less regrets. There are some gamblers who bet a certain amount and can control themselves from excessive greed, for them, even if they lose in gambling, there is less regret. In contrast, gambling regrets are high for those who cannot control or use any necessary money to gamble. Above all, if we expect less from gambling and use it as a temporary enjoyment, losing in gambling will not be regrettable.

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Quote from: Saheedu on June 07, 2023, 10:46:04 AM

I saw this online and thought maybe i should bring on to bitcointalk for discussion.

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

Feeling regret after experiencing eternity after gambling is a common thing experienced by the average gambler, but this regret usually doesn't last long and when we have the capital to place another bet then slowly the regret will be forgotten in our minds but after that. There will be a feeling of revenge for the losses we experienced previously, so don't be too aggressive when gambling and if regret comes, it's a good idea to stop placing bets for a moment and look for a place of entertainment other than gambling and calm ourselves down first.

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this usually happen when you lose money, lose too much , have high hopes of winning. no one wants to lose so its not bad to feel remorseful after that. when this repeats itself too often then it can mean that such person is not gambling responsibly. its good not to gamble with any money you cant afford to lose. this is easier said but might be difficult that is why you should set aside a percentage of your income for gambling like 5% and never go beyond that.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on August 20, 2023, 02:25:18 AM

And the gambler can take this moment of regret more seriously, namely by reducing his gambling activities to reduce the number of losses as well. If he starts to learn not to get emotional in chasing his losses and can think that it is a risk that he has to accept, he can start to reduce his gambling activities so that he does not experience as many losses as before. By reflecting on what has happened to him at gambling, he can see the impact gambling has had on him and will make changes so he doesn't get too deep into gambling.

When the continuous loss was happened,it tell us to take some deep breath in the game.Because you may get tied with continuous loss,but the loss is not the permanent one.The relaxation is important one in the gambling,it is important one in the work also.Because the work also give the stress and continuous loss also give the same stress.When nothing goes right,we should take the left.The losses from the game is easy but keeping the mind to face all the situation is most important one.The loss will give the lesson on betting and it teach the maximum amount to be bet based on the situation.The simplest way to reduce stress in gambling is reducing the bet amount and number of games.

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Quote from: BitcoinPanther on August 19, 2023, 04:07:13 PM

If there is regret when playing and lossing on gambling, then it is obvious that the player had lost more than he can afford to loose. It is possible that due to the heat of the moment, he was triggered chasing losses to recover his losses but instead of recovering the lost money, he ends up losing more. If that often happen, then the gambler need to reflect on his action. I agree that the gambler should slowly take a break on gambling because it is not normal to regret the gambling activities and then at the end of the day the gambler still continues to gamble non-stop.

And the gambler can take this moment of regret more seriously, namely by reducing his gambling activities to reduce the number of losses as well. If he starts to learn not to get emotional in chasing his losses and can think that it is a risk that he has to accept, he can start to reduce his gambling activities so that he does not experience as many losses as before. By reflecting on what has happened to him at gambling, he can see the impact gambling has had on him and will make changes so he doesn't get too deep into gambling.

Quote from: BitcoinPanther on August 19, 2023, 04:07:13 PM

I agree, after all the decision is on the gambler. If he really wanted to quit, there is nothing to stop him doing it. It is the matter of how strong his will on executing his decision of quitting.

The decision will rest with the gambler and he should consider it before deciding. If his will is strong, he can stop gambling or reduce his activity in gambling.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on August 18, 2023, 11:00:46 PM

Quote from: FanEagle on August 18, 2023, 05:42:52 AM

I agree that if you feel remorse even just once, that's going to change your whole approach to gambling without a doubt, I get that it may not be a huge deal right away but at the very least you would know that you are doing a good job with what you have and that should make you feel proud. Being able to quit gambling is a tough thing, but even gambling less or gambling with a strategy and limitations is hard too, and after feeling remorse you start to do that.

For example, no matter how much I want to gamble, no matter what I am feeling, no matter how happy or excited or angry whatever I am feeling, if I reached my limit for the day, I stop gambling and do not gamble more at all, that's just how it is for me, try to do that.

When there is a feeling of regret after playing gambling, whether it's because we have lost playing gambling or we can't enjoy the gambling game, we can start slowly leaving gambling. Maybe not forever, but it's worth doing for a while so we don't experience any problems, including gambling addiction. And usually, we only feel sorry that day but will gamble again a few days later.

If there is regret when playing and lossing on gambling, then it is obvious that the player had lost more than he can afford to loose. It is possible that due to the heat of the moment, he was triggered chasing losses to recover his losses but instead of recovering the lost money, he ends up losing more. If that often happen, then the gambler need to reflect on his action. I agree that the gambler should slowly take a break on gambling because it is not normal to regret the gambling activities and then at the end of the day the gambler still continues to gamble non-stop.

Quote from: ethereumhunter on August 18, 2023, 11:00:46 PM

And as long as we are willing to reduce gambling activity, we can give up gambling one day. And it will depend on our intentions which must be maintained so that we can really leave gambling. And feeling regret after playing gambling is good, at least it's a sign that we can still feel the sadness because we have experienced loss.

I agree, after all the decision is on the gambler. If he really wanted to quit, there is nothing to stop him doing it. It is the matter of how strong his will on executing his decision of quitting.

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The thing is that we are humans and not some sort of AI, and as such we do not operate logically and instead we use what we feel as a way to navigate the world, so a person could have the perfect plan when going to the casino about the amount of money they could expect to lose, but if something happens to disturb their plans then it is easy to just leave that plan behind and start doing what it feels right and then find themselves suffering a massive loss they never saw coming.

That is where we differentiate because humans have emotions and AI does not. As long as they code for that thing, they will do it and not overwrite it, but in our case, even though we have a concrete plan that we need to follow, our emotions tend to change and can easily overwrite those plans unless you have proper discipline, which most of us don't have. That is why preventing it is really best, like bringing only money that you intend to lose and nothing more, so that you'll force yourself not to play more than that money.

Exactly, the issue is that the tactic of leaving behind our valuables and credit cards may work when we are gambling at a physical casino, but if you are gambling online this is not going to work as you will have on you all your money all the time, so someone that does not have the discipline necessary to only spend the amount they set for themselves during that session has a huge risk of spending way more than that at some point in time, as the temptation to keep gambling by making a deposit with fiat or with their bitcoin wallet could become too difficult to endure.

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Quote from: FanEagle on August 18, 2023, 05:42:52 AM

I agree that if you feel remorse even just once, that's going to change your whole approach to gambling without a doubt, I get that it may not be a huge deal right away but at the very least you would know that you are doing a good job with what you have and that should make you feel proud. Being able to quit gambling is a tough thing, but even gambling less or gambling with a strategy and limitations is hard too, and after feeling remorse you start to do that.

For example, no matter how much I want to gamble, no matter what I am feeling, no matter how happy or excited or angry whatever I am feeling, if I reached my limit for the day, I stop gambling and do not gamble more at all, that's just how it is for me, try to do that.

When there is a feeling of regret after playing gambling, whether it's because we have lost playing gambling or we can't enjoy the gambling game, we can start slowly leaving gambling. Maybe not forever, but it's worth doing for a while so we don't experience any problems, including gambling addiction. And usually, we only feel sorry that day but will gamble again a few days later.

And as long as we are willing to reduce gambling activity, we can give up gambling one day. And it will depend on our intentions which must be maintained so that we can really leave gambling. And feeling regret after playing gambling is good, at least it's a sign that we can still feel the sadness because we have experienced loss.

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Quote from: Silberman on August 16, 2023, 01:55:52 PM

Quote from: Blitzboy on August 14, 2023, 11:19:53 AM

I'd bet you've never been on the front lines of a casino floor, feeling the tension, the adrenaline. Its not as black and white as you paint it. Yes, there are gamblers who act immaturely, but your harsh judgment of their decisions is entirely baseless. Economically, the value derived from a gamble isn't just monetary; it's experiential. And to just throw around terms like "kids" to belittle them? That's low. You ought to walk a mile in their shoes before throwing stones.

The thing is that we are humans and not some sort of AI, and as such we do not operate logically and instead we use what we feel as a way to navigate the world, so a person could have the perfect plan when going to the casino about the amount of money they could expect to lose, but if something happens to disturb their plans then it is easy to just leave that plan behind and start doing what it feels right and then find themselves suffering a massive loss they never saw coming.

That is where we differentiate because humans have emotions and AI does not. As long as they code for that thing, they will do it and not overwrite it, but in our case, even though we have a concrete plan that we need to follow, our emotions tend to change and can easily overwrite those plans unless you have proper discipline, which most of us don't have. That is why preventing it is really best, like bringing only money that you intend to lose and nothing more, so that you'll force yourself not to play more than that money.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on August 10, 2023, 04:14:33 AM

As long as they desire not to feel that "remorse" anymore and don't want to gamble anymore, regret is what they do and they really won't come close to gambling even if they are invited to gamble by their friends. But if the "remorse" only occurs when they are done gambling because they have suffered a loss but still want to return to gambling, it is not truly remorse coming from their heart. It's just a regret for having lost the money they used to gamble and they will try to do better next time. But the next opportunity probably wouldn't change the outcome, so they better consider accepting it.

I agree that if you feel remorse even just once, that's going to change your whole approach to gambling without a doubt, I get that it may not be a huge deal right away but at the very least you would know that you are doing a good job with what you have and that should make you feel proud. Being able to quit gambling is a tough thing, but even gambling less or gambling with a strategy and limitations is hard too, and after feeling remorse you start to do that.

For example, no matter how much I want to gamble, no matter what I am feeling, no matter how happy or excited or angry whatever I am feeling, if I reached my limit for the day, I stop gambling and do not gamble more at all, that's just how it is for me, try to do that.

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Quote from: Blitzboy on August 14, 2023, 11:19:53 AM

I'd bet you've never been on the front lines of a casino floor, feeling the tension, the adrenaline. Its not as black and white as you paint it. Yes, there are gamblers who act immaturely, but your harsh judgment of their decisions is entirely baseless. Economically, the value derived from a gamble isn't just monetary; it's experiential. And to just throw around terms like "kids" to belittle them? That's low. You ought to walk a mile in their shoes before throwing stones.

The thing is that we are humans and not some sort of AI, and as such we do not operate logically and instead we use what we feel as a way to navigate the world, so a person could have the perfect plan when going to the casino about the amount of money they could expect to lose, but if something happens to disturb their plans then it is easy to just leave that plan behind and start doing what it feels right and then find themselves suffering a massive loss they never saw coming.

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Quote from: Jody.Drummer on August 14, 2023, 07:06:25 AM

Well things like this are very normal and natural, all gamblers will feel it but not all gamblers can organize themselves about what they should choose for the best. Self-control will be the most important in gambling, no one can help you but yourself. There are a lot of possibilities in it that cause gamblers to deposit money again, it could be because they have been annoyed by a few rounds there, and it is difficult to get something they want until their money runs out, but I'm sure it's just for a win, the reason all gamblers do it is to get a win or chase it. It's very real and everyone does it.

Maybe gamblers can arrange for themselves what they should choose, but they tend to be tempted to keep playing gambling so they forget to control themselves. And if we don't practice that self-control, we'll only lose more and more likely to become addicted in the long run. The most common reason gamblers say is to get more wins or recover their losses. But they don't think about the risk of losing their money in gambling, especially if they still deposit money again.

Quote from: Jody.Drummer on August 14, 2023, 07:06:25 AM

Basically it should be like that, I mean if someone wants to gamble then they should think first, be responsible by agreeing with themselves that whatever the end result is they should accept it, and if they can't accept losing as the end result then it's better in my opinion to never gamble because it will only make you worse. That's right, never expect something to come back in gambling, because if you chase it back then it will only deepen the defeat, so learn to be able to accept all the risks and realize that gambling is only about luck.

But unfortunately, many gamblers don't think about being responsible first, so they immediately deposit their money to play. But after going through a few rounds, they saw that their chances of winning weren't that great and instead they had lost many times. And that also doesn't stop them from gambling even to the point of spending all the money. And in the end they will only feel regret without being able to recover their loss.

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Most of the people use to suffer by not controlling the emotion at the gambling time.Because when you suppose to loss the money by your bad luck in the gambling then you should pause the game for few weeks is most important one.If you further continue the gambling by trying to get the loss money back to wallet.Then it leads to the addiction of gambling on your side.It will leads to continuous deposit of the money to gambling.So repeated loss may get the bankrupt,it's essential to stop the gambling at the bad luck.

Learning from our mistakes and taking essential actions to correct them is one method to eliminate and reduce loss. I felt remorse more frequently when I staked an enormous sum on a game; losing has become a normal occurrence in the system; we face our anxieties and barriers, and we try until we triumph in the system. If you haven't heard, losing is a part of the game. We accept responsibility for whatever outcomes have taken place; this is the only way to stand firm and confront the system. We ought to be careful at all times inother to reap the positive outcomes.

Betting responsibly may be the best choice before regretting every bet.
I have also experienced gambling ignoring all kinds of commitments that were built beforehand not to gamble every day and not to chase defeats but in reality it was not in accordance with the first commitment and all were defeated with greed and resentment or anger when I lost because I used an amount that was more than I could afford .
But it doesn't matter all of that was a lesson for me so to this day betting using money that can afford to lose is much better and I never regret any defeats and I consider gambling as a place to try my luck even though I know that luck is very small here because it's already I've had in the past.

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While true the problem is going from not controlling yourself when you gamble to actually do so can be extremely hard, after all those unbridled emotions they may feel when they gamble with money they cannot afford to lose are something they are not going to feel at all once they control their gambling behavior, and in that case they will always be tempted to go back to their old habits, and for someone like that it may be a better idea to give up gambling completely before they do so.

If they lose self-control while gambling, they can forget to take care of themselves and will instead be tempted to continue gambling which can cause them to lose all the money. Even though you have allocated the money for gambling today, but because you lost self-control, you forgot and used all the money instead. That is a mistake that we must correct immediately so that it doesn't happen again in the future or when we gamble again. We must be able to resist the temptation that comes in the form of attractive promotions provided by casinos, especially if we really want to limit our gambling time.

I think any gambler who actually claim to have set aside a certain amount of money for gambling, and then later on go ahead to gamble past the money he or she has set aside, i personally assume that such gambler never did set any money aside for gambling in the first place, yes i do agree that losing self control can cause a gambler to gamble above limit, but to the extend that such gambler will not know what he or she is doing, A gambler who loses money to gambling and come back to start regretting is not but a kid, and kids aren't supposed to be gambling, they are supposed to be in school studying.

Don't miss understand the point or where I am coming from, there is a difference between staking much more than one can afford to lose in gambling, and regretting after loosing the money, from playing normal gambling and losing, then regretting, for the former, the regret is understandable, but for the latter, the gambler before engaging in gambling should have known that its either a win or a loss, and which ever comes, the gamblers should take it wholeheartedly.

I'd bet you've never been on the front lines of a casino floor, feeling the tension, the adrenaline. Its not as black and white as you paint it. Yes, there are gamblers who act immaturely, but your harsh judgment of their decisions is entirely baseless. Economically, the value derived from a gamble isn't just monetary; it's experiential. And to just throw around terms like "kids" to belittle them? That's low. You ought to walk a mile in their shoes before throwing stones.

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Quote from: Saheedu on June 07, 2023, 10:46:04 AM

I saw this online and thought maybe i should bring on to bitcointalk for discussion.

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

That means that person is not a gambler and maybe someone discouraged the person to stake in any gambling site because gamblers always give theirselves hope that opportunities come but once and they don't have or feel remorse in anything their doing in gambling, so that's what I think of gambling, but in one way to the other I feel like someone that feel remorse after playing gambling is someone who used a money that doesn't belong to the person to gambling and when he or her notice that it is going to lose and it will start feeling remorse of gambling, some people are like that.

That's why you should be attached to money beforehand without feeling regret after gambling. No one can guarantee when the opportunity will come in gambling there is no use in regretting after losing. You didn't lose because you were irresponsible or good for nothing, you lost because gambling had a hold on you that you couldn't control. Gambling brings a lot of shame and regret and can cause a rift in your closest relationships. When gambling gets out of hand, it can leave you feeling heavy with regret anger guilt and shame.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on August 14, 2023, 05:11:43 AM

Or maybe he actually set aside some money to gamble but because he lost control of himself caused him to deposit another amount to continue gambling. This is normal for many gamblers because they find so much fun playing gambling that they don't want to stop gambling and causes them to deposit some more money. But if he does put aside some money to gamble and doesn't lose self-control, he really isn't going to gamble and has had enough of it.

Well things like this are very normal and natural, all gamblers will feel it but not all gamblers can organize themselves about what they should choose for the best. Self-control will be the most important in gambling, no one can help you but yourself. There are a lot of possibilities in it that cause gamblers to deposit money again, it could be because they have been annoyed by a few rounds there, and it is difficult to get something they want until their money runs out, but I'm sure it's just for a win, the reason all gamblers do it is to get a win or chase it. It's very real and everyone does it.

Quote from: ethereumhunter on August 14, 2023, 05:11:43 AM

In gambling, we must prepare an amount of money we can afford to lose because playing gambling means we must accept all the risks, including losing money. And don't be too sorry for losing the money because we know that the amount of money won't come back to us and it turns out to be true. We can regret having lost money but we should not overdo it and there is no need to recover lost money in gambling.

Basically it should be like that, I mean if someone wants to gamble then they should think first, be responsible by agreeing with themselves that whatever the end result is they should accept it, and if they can't accept losing as the end result then it's better in my opinion to never gamble because it will only make you worse. That's right, never expect something to come back in gambling, because if you chase it back then it will only deepen the defeat, so learn to be able to accept all the risks and realize that gambling is only about luck.

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