Topic: Have you ever felt remorse after gambling? - page 8. (Read 2589 times)

Do what you think is proper with your own money. Wow, man, you have some serious self-control. Few people carry that kind of firearm. Let's give this a new spin. What if you approached each wager not as a profit or loss but as a chance to increase your knowledge? You can get insight into the game from every decision you make, whether you win or lose. That's an idea, right? Your strategy may have some merit, but it also has the potential to severely restrict your advancement. Therein lays the conflict. It's a catch-22, to put it another way. You don't want to fail, but you hope to achieve tremendous success. Perhaps a compromise can be reached?

The fact that many have died through car accidents have not stopped people from buying and driving cars.
Plane crashes and all passengers on board get burnt to ashes, that has not stopped people from traveling by air..
Many went to bed very healthy, slept off and didn't wake up the next morning, that is, they died whole asleep, that has not stopped people from going to bed to sleep.

Look, it is a natural thing in man to take risks, risks are of different types, and every thing we do in life has a small or big amount of it, you are either risking your money or risking your life, or both.

Coming to gambling, risking money is almost nothing for many who understand that life is a risk, for you know not what will happen  to you in minute of hour, so for me, I don't always regret losing money, except like I said in my previous comment, its money I never intended gambling with, but one thing leading to another made me to gamble with the money and I lose it, that only when I feel bad, but then, I don't let that mode last too long.

Regrets always happen in gambling every time we lose. But despite this, they still continue to gamble and probably lose more. I would say that gamblers won't easily get change even though they will lose millions because it was not just because they are wanting to get their losses back but because they felt happiness from doing this. That is why some people just got drunk when they lose as a sort of regret as they wanted to forget what happen to them and enjoy life rather than thinking about it.

Something that happens naturally to most gamblers, especially those who experience big losses. regret is a normal thing, it's not even rare that we keep coming back again. experiences like these, are a common problem for us gamblers. so, I think regret is not something that makes us broken. except, if a gambler spends a lot of money and even his property. if so, the feeling of regret that occurs to them is different as I said. but again, there is no guarantee that they will stop gambling completely.

Well, we agree, even for gamblers who do it just for the sake of pleasure, they will never be separated from the feeling of regret, whatever the case that makes regret come. the point is as I said in a previous post, that regret or guilt is something that is very close to our lives, including if we associate it with gambling. so, isn't this something commonplace. in essence, the most important thing to know or remember by someone who will start his gambling session, be it a beginner or a pro. they/we must be well aware that the money we will bet has the potential to be lost. thus, the regret will not have such a big impact on us.

Indeed mate. This type of mindset should not be shared throughout the new sprouts who are about to begin their journey in the gambling industry because it will just point them to a wrong direction. Instead, what happened the other day is already in the past and so it is time to move on but do bring with you the experience you have because that will be your weapon to be wiser in the next phase. Remember, a loss is a loss and so does the win, it cannot be brought back and we should just deal what we have in the present.

A person who enters a casino with funds at hand and comes out with empty hands will definitely have remorse and they can't help it because losing is not fun, even if you are gambling just for fun, you will still have remorse for losing whatever you have lost in gambling because you didn't want your session to end if you were having fun and fun in gambling is in winning but not in losing, those who gamble for fun are also afraid of losses.

So it's definitely common to feel bad for losing a bet because these bets make a difference when combined and you will eventually lose your bankroll if you keep losing, so it's better if you remorse on time and stop gambling further at that right moment.

It is that therein lies the secret, in knowing how to bet and knowing how to bet and how much to bet I have learned that when one plays in a casino at least he does it with little money and if I see that I win With that little money I stay still, and then I I'll play another day, but why? because it is the only way to be profitable, I don't see any other way to be, and although profitability in a casino does not exist, only for its owner, a player must have enough Intelligence to know how to play, he must see the casino and the games as a business, in which he has little profit, but it is the profit, however small, that is a profit, and a profit is much better than a loss.

Maybe my way of thinking doesn't match the way other players do, but until now it prevents a lot of money from being spent unnecessarily, it's a lethal weapon against addiction and above all it's a way to control emotions, of course this guy The strategy is very personal and for me it is the best, especially when you do not have a large balance of money to place bets, if my money runs out, then I simply assume my loss.

I know that there are many more strategies, some players like to bet hard from the beginning, some win, others lose everything at once, but that already depends on the style of each player, my style is a little more conservative.

maybe everyone has experienced such a problem and maybe I have too. but at least we have good control, not like addicts when we lose and regret it the next day, come again and regret it again and so on. different from when we regret it we need time to get rid of the disappointed thought of losing a few dollars to gamble.
and I understand that this kind of behavior comes naturally because we gamble, of course, just for fun like playing video games and when we lose a small amount we will come back even if it is a few weeks after the regret.

There may be an additional factor why a person cannot stop gambling, it comes when he becomes very greedy to get more profits, the average of the people who have the nature of the gambler you are talking about are those who are too greedy not to chase defeat before, until in the end he had a losing streak and the money he won before became a big reason for the regret he felt, and the stupidity he did was a gambler who always made the same mistake in his gambling.

That is a good decision, you can manage your gambling soul, so you don't care about the losses that have occurred and maybe if you think about it it will become a bundle of regrets and make you want to get it back in the future with a different gambling moment.

But unfortunately, not many gamblers want to think about what they have experienced gambling because most of them just want to continue playing gambling. Losing control of gambling can happen at any time, so they need to continue to take care of themselves to stay in control. And if they try to recover what was lost in gambling, we fear it won't be easy, but we'll just have another loss. And people who can win from gambling are indeed lucky people, and they should be able to be grateful for whatever amount of money they get because other people only suffer losses from gambling. If they win and can quit, it would be better for them as they can avoid the losses that could come after the next round.

That's what happened to many people, and I also experienced it

But the difference is that I don't immediately return the next day but a few days or weeks later so that my mind feels refreshed and I don't think about the previous defeat. I did that so I don't remember my last defeat and not think about how much money I lost at the gambling table. And we should indeed gamble less and save money to appreciate better the money we earn for work.

Even though they felt remorse, they still continued and came back the next day. That kind of gambler won't learn any lesson, even after losing the budget that was intended for others and thinking again about gambling after losing it. For sure, this kind of behavior is already indicative of an addiction to gambling, and if this happens, the gambler can't control himself no matter what. If we feel regret for sure, our natural reaction to that is to play less gambling and save our money but it was opposite to others.

I often feel remorseful for my actions in gambling, but I'm left with nothing than to gambler, either record losses or profits, that's my decision to decide. Gambling is a simple game to learn but a challenging one to master. I've been there, and I know exactly how it appears and feels to become a profitable market gambler. We all have aspirations to accomplish, whether within or outside of the system, but we should be delighted for the opportunity to do our best, and our luck ought to sparkle for us. We make decisions, and we are held accountable for the repercussions of those actions.

The awareness of a gambler will usually disappear when they have the desire to chase victory because calm can no longer be felt and only ambition and emotions are in their minds so that when everything is gone with a larger amount they can only be aware of the swelling of losses until finally only regret feel more deeply.
Becoming a responsible gambler is not as easy as we imagine because there are many obstacles that must be passed such as controlling emotions and finances, whereas when gamblers see that there are decent opportunities they will forget about limits and self-control.

It is the reality of gambling and it takes time for them to understand the reality. People try to stay positive, beyond some point automatically they'll loss the patience. This is where they loss control and increase the bet Value to recover what is being lost. Some find lucky whereas the majority end up losing everything in the wallet. This is where the person think, we should have stopped earlier so that the loss could've got limited. When we think we don't have anything to loss. Thinking at the right time will make gambling enjoying and don't get into guil.

That is what happens to many people who gamble. At first, they feel confident and say that today is their lucky day, so let's gamble. But after playing a few games, they lose more and more, so they regret it. That's common, but that doesn't deter them or rest for a while after losing. They even returned to play and wanted revenge for their loss yesterday. And they indeed lost money, but they are still okay even though they were sorry. We don't have to do that, and if we regret it, we should try to reduce our gambling to avoid bigger losses.

Yes it's true every gambler regrets at some point after gambling. Because gambling has wins and losses that is why gamblers mind can be affected. However, regular bettors may regret their losses after gambling and can easily adjust to it. Because they know that winning and losing is part of gambling. I think this happens to all gamblers and will happen as well . However, it is more common in some gamblers and many are able to keep it under control. However, those who lose large bets and try to recover the bet quickly are more likely to regret it.

a gambler is too ambitious and self-confident which causes a person to be triggered by dopamine in the brain that always thinks about winning after depositing funds again into gambling to chase losses. bad thinking like this is influenced by too much self-confidence as I said.

so it will be very important that every gambler has responsibility for all things that are done in gambling even if he loses he must stop immediately and clearly know when to stop betting.

Feeling remorse comes after you lose, not before you gamble every gamblers always believe that they will win and they lost money only to end in depression and regrets, there are certain rules to gambling that every gamblers must take very serious.

1. Gamblers must stay away from taking loans or borrowing money for gambling purposes, it makes no sense and you are not even conform to gamble because you have no source of income.

2. Gamblers must stick to a certain amount of percentage for gambling when they feel like gambling, if you are making some money from your job, take a small part of the money to gamble, you are a man, you have a home, you have your life responsibility, gamble as a responsible man.

Even if you lost money you will feel alright still, because you don't use what you can't afford to lose, as a gambler you need to be in a safe position first and that's money management.

Chasing your losses is one of the fastest ways to lose your money not only in gambling but in almost any other activity, after all something similar happens as well when people trade and they lose several times in a row, they simply cannot accept this is happening to them and they cannot stand seeing their account being on the red and then decide to disregard their trading strategy completely and chase their losses, and that is when massive losses can be amassed by traders or investors.

You're right, so I agree on that.
If a gambler plans to chase losses to make up for previous losses, then he will soon become a problem gambler. Indeed, there is an intention to return losses, but when this intention is carried out continuously, they will realize that the amount of loss will be far greater than the profit they get.

The average bad gambler is one who fails to be a responsible gambler. They are not responsible for losses, but only want wins. Gambling losses should be considered normal and can never be 100% avoided even if you have a strategy. So always be responsible for anything that will be the result of gambling.