Topic: He Used Our Wedding Savings to Play Bet - page 14. (Read 3855 times)

There is no doubt that this is a horrible experience for the bride-to-be, but at the same time she should give thanks that she discovered this before the weeding took place and she called off the whole thing, as she can just move on from this person that betrayed her trust and find someone that is worthy of it, and when it comes to the groom they have to change their ways, since this is the kind of thing that will be forever remembered by those close to them and will make it to social media too, which will make their quest for their significant other way harder than what it already is.

This is very terrible. Things women experience in the hands of men can be unbearable at times. How can a grown-up man who wants to build a future with a lady think of going into a bet with the whole money saved up for an important event of once in a lifetime for bet winnings thinking he can double the money provided for the money?

Truly, people's desire to earn more through gambling is putting many people astray day by day and that doesn't seem like something that will stop soon.

That being said, I think the man in question is not in his real sense to think of considering gambling as a way to double the money meant for the wedding. forgetting the most important thing he can do with the money than throw it away without fruitful returns other than losses.

Anything that involves gambling and making use of those funds which are intended to make use in something important like wedding or emergency funds then it would really be that totally absurd if they would really be
having those kind of considerations on taking up such further step on which it doesnt really have any sense on doing so. On the moment that you would really be gambling out with those funds then you are just that basically putting up yourself on such huge trouble on which it is really that something that musn't do considering about on the risks involved in gambling then it would never been safe on taking up such step
on trying to make use of the funds which is really that intended for some reason. Basing up on the example then this is something that talks about wedding savings. What if you have lost it all?
What would happen now? These are the questions that needs to be answered first before making up that spending.

Yes it's possible, but I don't think it's always because someone didn't take the time to get to know their partner's personality thoroughly, because after all there is always a partner who tries to hide all his bad habits while in the dating period which ultimately makes his partner not know about his bad habits and these habits are known when they are both married, meaning that not all divorces are caused by a partner not taking the time to find out about his partner's habits thoroughly.

Traditionally couples take time to date in order to bond and adapt to each other and their respective families over a period of time that is usually quite long, meaning that I also recognize that when a couple plans a wedding right away it can be a pretty strong reason as to why many of them end up divorcing. On the other hand, I am sure that no one wants to have a partner who is a gambling addict because I think the bad stigma about gambling is widespread in the sense that the majority of people already know the bad effects, meaning that in this case, the male partner really hides his bad habits from the female partner.

It is obviously stupid if the bride and groom give permission to use their wedding savings to gamble,  for whatever reason when they want to gamble the results will be very bad. Maybe, they have high trust in their partner, but when it comes to gambling then ofcourse they must be able to realize that gambling is a game that carries a lot of risk, because it is very possible to lose  everything. After all, in gambling it is not right if we expect big wins, because in gambling one of the factors we have to be aware of is losses. Because if they were aware of the losses,then of course they would be more careful in gambling but unfortunately, they made a big mistake because they used their marriage savings to gamble.

Yes, and it's utterly foolish of someone to use the money that is supposed to be used for something as important as a wedding, I mean, how can one be so immature and irresponsible? I know that sometimes you can't control your thoughts and yourself and you do things that you are not supposed to do, but if it's about your personal life, you should at least be thoughtful about it and you should make sure you don't make any mistake that may affect your personal life so much.

It is okay if someone has some money that they know they can afford to lose and they go ahead and try their luck to see if they can double it or not, if the bet is lost, they wouldn't get in trouble of have any problems, and if it's won, they can use the money for something extra they have always wanted to do.

Some couples are so much in a hurry to wed and get married that they don't take their time to study their spouse to be and that is why the rate of divorce is on the increase. I think that it's better that the lady in the story found out about the gambling habit of her husband to be before the wedding, so that she can decide whether to live with an irresponsible gambler as a husband. The man's action of gambling with the money that him and his fiancee were saving for their wedding was a very foolish act, he's an addict and he needs counseling to help him over his addiction.

All these stories arise because people do not know each other well. From this story we see that the couple hastened to set a wedding date, but the woman knows her groom so poorly that she did not even suspect his bad gaming inclinations. More precisely, you can, of course, not know about the groom’s gambling addiction if he hides this addiction well. But the groom is clearly stupid when he asserts with confidence that he can double this money. If it were that simple, then everyone would be doing nothing but constantly doubling their money. But in gambling, no one can guarantee us anything. Your winning is just a matter of chance.

We must thinks that we are difficult to earn money from gambling. No matters how hard you playing gambling, we will not wins the gambling games easily and even we can loses all of the money we have. That's what we must understand so we will not trying to makes money from gambling because we have many ways to make money and we can try one by one to have the money. Using the money for makes money to fills our daily needs or for our wedding or else will not gives us the money but we may loses all the money and we can be depress because of that.

That's a lesson for us too to playing gambling moderately and don't have any purposes besides of have fun in gambling. We must takes care of ourselves not to playing gambling excessively or makes money because we already see the bad things happens after other people lose their money from gambling. We can't be like them so we must be careful when we playing gambling because gambling can trick us easily and makes us keeps playing gambling until our money runs out.

Indeed, we should be able to allocate a certain amount of money to gambling, it is not money that will be used for other purposes, of course risking the wedding money is not a good idea because apart from losing the money, you can also experience serious conflict because you have risked the money for something more important. . with him daring to do this, I think it is because he is addicted to gambling. Because someone who is addicted to gambling, of course they can be reckless by doing other things that are at great risk just to be able to satisfy the taste they want, but this action will of course only make them suffer. there will be big problems in the future.

Of course, if their partner finds out about this, I don't think they will think twice, most likely their partner will leave them. Cases that are almost similar to what happened in my country have recently become popular where a husband and wife who both have quite prestigious jobs were destroyed because the husband was addicted to gambling using his wife's money, so this became a disaster for both parties. Indeed, the braver someone who is addicted is, the braver he will continue to be to do even crazier things, but as you said, the crazier his actions are, the greater the impact and consequences. This impact and consequences are negative.

On a norms, that woman would be very broken, and I doubt if she's going to continue with the marriage even though he begs for forgiveness, he's broke her trust and to be honest no woman can tolerate such act, however she should be thankful he displayed such character before the marriage cause who knows if such person could end up selling their property after marriage. People do strange things to satisfy their gambling desires and it's all falls back to addiction, every gambler needs to be very careful and avoid gambling habits that would make them turn addicts else they could even do more than that man did, just like most booking sites do display on their home pages, gamble responsibly.

To some individual gambling is there last hope. They might have had other things they needed money for and couldn't use all the money they had for the wedding without having another one left. This is when the thoughts of gambling comes to the mind of the individual in this situation. This individual that did something like this is going to be a quick addict if he continues to gamble as he'll use money that was meant to be use for other things to gamble.

Gambling is not as simple as some individuals are thinking if you want to win but losing is vey simple, I think the lady shouldn't marry the man as he isn't a responsible man. Any Individual that is responsible will not use his wedding money to gamble. He'll put the family fast before gambling, having the little money in your hand is better than gambling with that money and hope that you're going to make more.

This is purely a heartbreak, and the heartbreak didn't affect only the woman who wanted to marry the man, but it affects all the guests that was preparing to attend their family or friends wedding. However, no woman can tolerate such things. The risks that's involved in gamble when one is about to use the whole money to get have to gamble is like a 101% high and its not a thing a gambler should plan to do because what happen to this dude will not be far from what will happen to the gambler. However as a gambler it's important to wish other gamblers will but on a situation like this it's not advisable for anyone to do it.

I just don't know why most people think they can increase the money they have with them through gambling. How will someone gamble with money meant for an important event? Trying to increase money through gambling doesn’t make any sense. We should always know when we are suppose to gamble and when we are not suppose to gamble. We should always have money meant for gambling, and if the money is used up, then we should stop gambling immediately and never top it up. I felt bad for the lady, and I don’t really know what she’s going to do. Maybe she will start saving another money or end the relationship with the person.

I agree with your opinion, taking a big risk by risking wedding money to seek momentary pleasure is a very wrong step, regardless of the winning opportunities available. I don't think his future wife would tolerate such actions, and if her mind was on track, she would choose to leave him. Besides, it's not just about risk, but about breaking established moral boundaries, I don't think almost anyone in any environment would tolerate such a bet. Besides that, if someone gambles with their marriage savings, you can be sure that they will not gain any trust from their surroundings. Gamble within reasonable limits, because if you act too crazy, the consequences will be quite big.

Damnn this is really heart touching, after all their plans just in a gambling section everything turned upside down.  This is the reason we should always learn how to fight against that urge of gambling regularly. And we should always have the thought that any funds we stake there's a high probability or chances of us losing it . Because gambling is all about win or lose , we should also have good principles either as an investor, trader or gambler . We should always have good principles towards what we are doing

The truth is a lot of gamblers ignores the risk and focus on winning only, I see no sense in a move like that. Even if the dude won the bets he played with his wedding mone, I will not be 100% happy with the wrong moves he toke because gamble is a luck thing. Anyone who's luck is far from him won't win from gamble in an easy way. However this is a good lesson to the dude and his wife to be.
Even if the dude receive the advise of gambling with his wedding money, he would have known that gamble is not like an ABCD thing, at least he would have given it a second thought before doing such things with his wedding money. From my own opinion, this is not the end of his insanely acts because he will still try to do some that's similar to what he did with his wedding money.

Listen buddy, its not always about trust, but about caution,  being her husband doesn't make him an AI robot or some kind of programmed device that is without mistakes or above temptation. Some cautious habits helps keep is in check, especially when finds are involved.

Let me sight a simple possibility for you. Both of them jointly consenting to the movement of funds from the account would've helped keep the man's excesses in check, and make him sought other alternatives  to make more money instead of using the savings for gambling since he cannot access it alone and his fiance cannot give in to such lame possibility. It helps create an atmosphere of diplomacy and not autonomy as dispensed by the man in question.

It  will also gives the fiance a sense of inclusion in the whole activity.

Luckily it wasn't her husband that's what I read from Op's screenshot, meaning she didn't need to spend a lot of time on a man who had made a fatal mistake and that was a stupid act, because the money he had saved was actually used up in gambling activities even though the reasons when he gambled were sound It was good enough to be able to double the money because it turned out that the woman gave more for her wedding expenses later.
From this story the conclusion is that when you think about doubling your money in gambling it is stupid because even though the chances are 50/50 you will never be sure to make money in gambling in fact in my opinion losing is much more certain, even if it is on sports betting and you have tried to do the analysis as carefully as possible but there is still a chance that you will experience defeat and lose your money rather than doubling your money.

You are right, the lady should be happy that this played out before the wedding and it has revealed that the guy is not the right person for her o get married to because she was planning of entering into a big problem that she might live regretting all these days of her life.

Imagine that they are already wedded and she worked so hard and entrusted a lot of money to this addict, or built a house. He might wake up one morinig and sell the house due to addiction or use the money bigger than what he used for the wedding savings to gamble. Marrying the wrong person is something one need to prevent in order to be happy in life.