I stay in my parents ' house so I don't care about everyday needs, taxes, etc. for now. So long as I don't have my own stuff to buy. I've deposited a minimum daily sum if I ever lose. Remember, it's not money I borrow from my parents that I deposit. Sure, just to sustain my gambling habit, I wouldn't do these things to my parents. All I want, but not the money they've given, I can play my coins. If I ever became a family man, I'd limit my time to near-departure gambling.
Topic: How much of your money only needed for gambling and others is for family (Read 2770 times)
January 13, 2020, 05:41:01 PM
January 13, 2020, 02:01:51 PM
Gambling is not for the people who has no enough money its only for fun and hobby dont ever use money allocated for your family then use it gamble to be able to easily multiply it but its too risky not most of the time is lucky day so gamble only if you have some extra funds to playwith if you go all in with the money for your family then you lose all then the blame is you.
Those who have exceeds money and will not effect them even if they lose it they can play as much as they want beacuse it is not going to effect them even if they lose some money . In gambling losing is easy than winning it. So better to play for fun and if any money won can be just kept aside for fun activity .
I think if somebody want to play in order to lose their money so why don’t they try some online games of gambling in which they would not spend any money, in which they will get some enjoyment. Here you have quoted that if somebody has excess of money then he is free to spend as much as he want and don’t care to lose it but here I will say that why not they start some business with that money instead of losing.
January 13, 2020, 01:49:35 PM
Gambling is not for the people who has no enough money its only for fun and hobby dont ever use money allocated for your family then use it gamble to be able to easily multiply it but its too risky not most of the time is lucky day so gamble only if you have some extra funds to playwith if you go all in with the money for your family then you lose all then the blame is you.
Those who have exceeds money and will not effect them even if they lose it they can play as much as they want beacuse it is not going to effect them even if they lose some money . In gambling losing is easy than winning it. So better to play for fun and if any money won can be just kept aside for fun activity .
I think if somebody want to play in order to lose their money so why don’t they try some online games of gambling in which they would not spend any money, in which they will get some enjoyment. Here you have quoted that if somebody has excess of money then he is free to spend as much as he want and don’t care to lose it but here I will say that why not they start some business with that money instead of losing.
January 13, 2020, 01:32:15 PM
Gambling is not for the people who has no enough money its only for fun and hobby dont ever use money allocated for your family then use it gamble to be able to easily multiply it but its too risky not most of the time is lucky day so gamble only if you have some extra funds to playwith if you go all in with the money for your family then you lose all then the blame is you.
Those who have exceeds money and will not effect them even if they lose it they can play as much as they want beacuse it is not going to effect them even if they lose some money . In gambling losing is easy than winning it. So better to play for fun and if any money won can be just kept aside for fun activity .
I think if somebody want to play in order to lose their money so why don’t they try some online games of gambling in which they would not spend any money, in which they will get some enjoyment. Here you have quoted that if somebody has excess of money then he is free to spend as much as he want and don’t care to lose it but here I will say that why not they start some business with that money instead of losing.
January 13, 2020, 11:07:01 AM
Gambling is not for the people who has no enough money its only for fun and hobby dont ever use money allocated for your family then use it gamble to be able to easily multiply it but its too risky not most of the time is lucky day so gamble only if you have some extra funds to playwith if you go all in with the money for your family then you lose all then the blame is you.
Those who have exceeds money and will not effect them even if they lose it they can play as much as they want beacuse it is not going to effect them even if they lose some money . In gambling losing is easy than winning it. So better to play for fun and if any money won can be just kept aside for fun activity .
January 13, 2020, 10:35:34 AM
We cannot blame those financially challenged people that gambles, as they see gambling a very smooth and easy way to earn, all by the means of strategy, intellect, and luck. But what makes it a negative behavior is it affects their family especially their financial stability. they can gamble, as long as the money they'll use is just and excess or a very little part to their family's income. It must be somehow a 1% for gambling and the rest is for family needs alone. Gambling is luxurious enough.
We gamblers, are the one who are making the decision whether it will be for for our family or for the additional fund for our gambling we need to set a priority , we can win as much as we can in every game that we can participated on, that is the time that we need to decide on how much part will be for family, we can also lose in our game, we can decide too if we will going to give some to our faimily even though we fail or the money that has been left from past winning will be put again in fund. 
January 13, 2020, 07:08:11 AM
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Yes, when it comes to gambling some people stop counting their money, and they can lose even $100 in a second, forgetting how hard for them was to earn the money, how long it took, and what they could buy with the money for the members of their family. I'm not saying that we should always buy something for our family instead of relaxing(if gambling makes us relaxed), because we do need relaxation, especially when hard working, but if weren't buying presents for our loved ones for weeks or even months, while we were gambling away dozens of USD during that time, we should stop and rethink our way of life.
Its a different story when you do already spend much money with gambling rather than with your family.Money isn't just solely for spending but also for saving for future purpose or plans.Gambling is for entertainment but if you already exceed the time and money spent then somethings wrong with you that should be changed up if you don't like to experience problems later on.I cant even afford to lose $100 for a single bet and my biggest Yes, when it comes to gambling some people stop counting their money, and they can lose even $100 in a second, forgetting how hard for them was to earn the money, how long it took, and what they could buy with the money for the members of their family. I'm not saying that we should always buy something for our family instead of relaxing(if gambling makes us relaxed), because we do need relaxation, especially when hard working, but if weren't buying presents for our loved ones for weeks or even months, while we were gambling away dozens of USD during that time, we should stop and rethink our way of life.
budget for gambling if I do play is $20 and that's already enough for me and im ready to lose that amount without any stress and regrets.
Well, if you don't gamble often, I mean, if you gamble once per week, or once per month, I can perfectly understand you. But if it's a daily thing, I don't think your wife would be happy about your losing $500-$600 per month to gambling. Unless you are making $6k+ monthly, I think you should discuss it with her, because if it's not stressful for you, it can be for her.
January 12, 2020, 10:44:30 PM
Gambling is not for the people who has no enough money its only for fun and hobby dont ever use money allocated for your family then use it gamble to be able to easily multiply it but its too risky not most of the time is lucky day so gamble only if you have some extra funds to playwith if you go all in with the money for your family then you lose all then the blame is you.
Those who have exceeds money and will not effect them even if they lose it they can play as much as they want beacuse it is not going to effect them even if they lose some money . In gambling losing is easy than winning it. So better to play for fun and if any money won can be just kept aside for fun activity .
January 12, 2020, 08:50:24 PM
My money is reserved for my family and I only gamble with my excess money so to not compromise the needs of my family. Sometimes, I don't gamble if my budget is short.
If many people can do like what you did, I think they can avoid becoming addicting to gambling. They will prioritize their family first, and make sure their family can get what they need. After that, if they still have money, they can use that money to gamble. If someone really cares about his family, he will give more attention to them, and he will not use that money to gamble or something that he doesn't need. But if he wants to play gambling, he will use only a little money to gamble and give the rest of his money to his family.
If the majority of the people will be like that, I guess there would not be as many casinos, online and actual, as we have today. There would also be lesser bitter and unfortunate gambling stories shared and passed around. This must be the case in Arab countries where gambling is strictly prohibited.
Yes, when someone is rich, they will spend their money on many things even that things are not necessary for their life. If in their country, gambling was prohibited, they will go to another country in which gambling is allowed, so they can play gambling without prohibited. But usually, rich people will make sure that their family can have a better life, and they will give some money to them, so they don't have to worry about buying their daily needs. Even though they lose the money in gambling, their family still safe and have much money.
January 12, 2020, 05:20:58 PM
My money is reserved for my family and I only gamble with my excess money so to not compromise the needs of my family. Sometimes, I don't gamble if my budget is short.
If many people can do like what you did, I think they can avoid becoming addicting to gambling. They will prioritize their family first, and make sure their family can get what they need. After that, if they still have money, they can use that money to gamble. If someone really cares about his family, he will give more attention to them, and he will not use that money to gamble or something that he doesn't need. But if he wants to play gambling, he will use only a little money to gamble and give the rest of his money to his family.
If the majority of the people will be like that, I guess there would not be as many casinos, online and actual, as we have today. There would also be lesser bitter and unfortunate gambling stories shared and passed around. This must be the case in Arab countries where gambling is strictly prohibited.
January 12, 2020, 01:23:36 PM
Honestly, I don't really need a lot of money when it comes to playing because I just don't take it as a serious income, I'm just playing for fun and sometimes having fun. I'm not able to control myself and hit my limits. It's all about setting any targets when you're gambling, and if you're losing or winning, you just have to stop and don't go betting more, it's all about self-control and the best time to cash out and leave.
Wise gamblers always follow this system, enjoying but also gaining fractions of profits after leaving the house. They are not aiming for big wins but already contented with some profits as long as they can getaway without busting their capital. It's all about limitations and your goals should be realistic in order to keep enjoying and not stressing yourself trying to achieved high profits. January 12, 2020, 11:57:23 AM
Honestly, I don't really need a lot of money when it comes to playing because I just don't take it as a serious income, I'm just playing for fun and sometimes having fun. I'm not able to control myself and hit my limits. It's all about setting any targets when you're gambling, and if you're losing or winning, you just have to stop and don't go betting more, it's all about self-control and the best time to cash out and leave.
January 12, 2020, 10:46:04 AM
Many people gamble without thinking and spend all his/her money remember that you spend hours earning that money for your family and also for yourself but our responsibility is bigger(...)
Exactly! And as I also observed some of the people that maybe we can say "below average" people or poor are still gambling, I don't think it will solve their poverty.And also consider those people who are gambling just to be entertain only. Family first before everything else, you should feed first the family before spending some of your money in a very risky way which is gambling.
We cannot blame those financially challenged people that gambles, as they see gambling a very smooth and easy way to earn, all by the means of strategy, intellect, and luck. But what makes it a negative behavior is it affects their family especially their financial stability. they can gamble, as long as the money they'll use is just and excess or a very little part to their family's income. It must be somehow a 1% for gambling and the rest is for family needs alone. Gambling is luxurious enough.
January 12, 2020, 09:50:33 AM
Gambling is not for the people who has no enough money its only for fun and hobby dont ever use money allocated for your family then use it gamble to be able to easily multiply it but its too risky not most of the time is lucky day so gamble only if you have some extra funds to playwith if you go all in with the money for your family then you lose all then the blame is you.
January 12, 2020, 08:36:49 AM
It's very important for us as a player to control playing on gambling games because if we become addict and greedy to the money they win they did not get nothing. Make sure you know your responsibility to your family like they needs everyday so if you do not have extra money don't play gambling but if you have money like extra just play but control is the key to not use your money for your family. Many players did not control their selves in playong so once they lose ther family will be suffer because they did not have money more to use fr their needs. Remember that family is our prioritize to spend our money not the gambling , that is good to make money but if you get lose that turn into bad.
January 12, 2020, 07:17:11 AM
We don't have to, but we can. I, for one, gamble almost every day, but I rarely lose more than $1 in the process. It's all about how big your stakes should be. In some countries even $1 is a good money, and people who live there should think first, "Can I buy something for the members of my family with the money I'm going to spend on gambling?" And the most dangerous way of thinking is something like "I will triple my money through gambling, and then I will buy presents for my family!"
Yes, some people think like that, and some others don't think like that. They need to take care of their family first before they decide to gamble, but unfortunately, many people won't do this, and they play gambling even with big money. For people who can think about family, they will not spend their money, and they will consider doing something for their family. $1 can be good money to buy something in some country but the reality, people sometimes don't think like that.Yes, when it comes to gambling some people stop counting their money, and they can lose even $100 in a second, forgetting how hard for them was to earn the money, how long it took, and what they could buy with the money for the members of their family. I'm not saying that we should always buy something for our family instead of relaxing(if gambling makes us relaxed), because we do need relaxation, especially when hard working, but if weren't buying presents for our loved ones for weeks or even months, while we were gambling away dozens of USD during that time, we should stop and rethink our way of life.
budget for gambling if I do play is $20 and that's already enough for me and im ready to lose that amount without any stress and regrets.
January 12, 2020, 05:34:15 AM
We don't have to, but we can. I, for one, gamble almost every day, but I rarely lose more than $1 in the process. It's all about how big your stakes should be. In some countries even $1 is a good money, and people who live there should think first, "Can I buy something for the members of my family with the money I'm going to spend on gambling?" And the most dangerous way of thinking is something like "I will triple my money through gambling, and then I will buy presents for my family!"
Yes, some people think like that, and some others don't think like that. They need to take care of their family first before they decide to gamble, but unfortunately, many people won't do this, and they play gambling even with big money. For people who can think about family, they will not spend their money, and they will consider doing something for their family. $1 can be good money to buy something in some country but the reality, people sometimes don't think like that.Yes, when it comes to gambling some people stop counting their money, and they can lose even $100 in a second, forgetting how hard for them was to earn the money, how long it took, and what they could buy with the money for the members of their family. I'm not saying that we should always buy something for our family instead of relaxing(if gambling makes us relaxed), because we do need relaxation, especially when hard working, but if weren't buying presents for our loved ones for weeks or even months, while we were gambling away dozens of USD during that time, we should stop and rethink our way of life.
budget for gambling if I do play is $20 and that's already enough for me and im ready to lose that amount without any stress and regrets.
January 12, 2020, 05:11:33 AM
We don't have to, but we can. I, for one, gamble almost every day, but I rarely lose more than $1 in the process. It's all about how big your stakes should be. In some countries even $1 is a good money, and people who live there should think first, "Can I buy something for the members of my family with the money I'm going to spend on gambling?" And the most dangerous way of thinking is something like "I will triple my money through gambling, and then I will buy presents for my family!"
Yes, some people think like that, and some others don't think like that. They need to take care of their family first before they decide to gamble, but unfortunately, many people won't do this, and they play gambling even with big money. For people who can think about family, they will not spend their money, and they will consider doing something for their family. $1 can be good money to buy something in some country but the reality, people sometimes don't think like that.Yes, when it comes to gambling some people stop counting their money, and they can lose even $100 in a second, forgetting how hard for them was to earn the money, how long it took, and what they could buy with the money for the members of their family. I'm not saying that we should always buy something for our family instead of relaxing(if gambling makes us relaxed), because we do need relaxation, especially when hard working, but if weren't buying presents for our loved ones for weeks or even months, while we were gambling away dozens of USD during that time, we should stop and rethink our way of life.
January 12, 2020, 12:18:21 AM
My money is reserved for my family and I only gamble with my excess money so to not compromise the needs of my family. Sometimes, I don't gamble if my budget is short.
If many people can do like what you did, I think they can avoid becoming addicting to gambling. They will prioritize their family first, and make sure their family can get what they need. After that, if they still have money, they can use that money to gamble. If someone really cares about his family, he will give more attention to them, and he will not use that money to gamble or something that he doesn't need. But if he wants to play gambling, he will use only a little money to gamble and give the rest of his money to his family.
If the majority of the people will be like that, I guess there would not be as many casinos, online and actual, as we have today. There would also be lesser bitter and unfortunate gambling stories shared and passed around. This must be the case in Arab countries where gambling is strictly prohibited.
not just arab but other countries i heard that gambling is resteicted too . we dont know if most of these people living on those countries showcase thier loved for thier family but still they dont have an option to gamble whatever thier atitude was.
its sad because someone really loves to play gambling but he isnt the person that will betray his family for gambling but its better to some so that they wont develop addiction towards gambling .
Casinos are all over the world. Especially in a developing country, I guess there is no single country that has no casino or a gambling house. I am mentioning Arab countries because gambling to them is a sin but I guess even in their countries there are casinos also but only for tourists and gamblers who are not practicing their religion.
January 12, 2020, 12:05:53 AM
My money is reserved for my family and I only gamble with my excess money so to not compromise the needs of my family. Sometimes, I don't gamble if my budget is short.
If many people can do like what you did, I think they can avoid becoming addicting to gambling. They will prioritize their family first, and make sure their family can get what they need. After that, if they still have money, they can use that money to gamble. If someone really cares about his family, he will give more attention to them, and he will not use that money to gamble or something that he doesn't need. But if he wants to play gambling, he will use only a little money to gamble and give the rest of his money to his family.
If the majority of the people will be like that, I guess there would not be as many casinos, online and actual, as we have today. There would also be lesser bitter and unfortunate gambling stories shared and passed around. This must be the case in Arab countries where gambling is strictly prohibited.
not just arab but other countries i heard that gambling is resteicted too . we dont know if most of these people living on those countries showcase thier loved for thier family but still they dont have an option to gamble whatever thier atitude was.
its sad because someone really loves to play gambling but he isnt the person that will betray his family for gambling but its better to some so that they wont develop addiction towards gambling .
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