Nobody should be saying like 50% goes for food, 30% goes to savings, 10% goes to gambling, and so forth. The money going into gambling should be the extra of the extra savings.
i do agree on most of your point but on this one i think it depends on the person,like me whenever there is a chance that i want to gamble?i allocate part of my paycheck since everything comes to my wife constantly,so on that case i am asking her to at least allowed me to have 10-20% from my money because i only play when i have time and when i felt like wanna having fun,or maybe i am too different from others as i am responsible in everything i am doing.
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January 01, 2020, 12:33:17 PM
January 01, 2020, 12:23:27 PM
I don't think its a good idea to set a certain amount of money from your salary like 5% of you salary goes to gambling. If your wife or spouse heard about this I think he/she will not like it. Same with your kids, what if he/she talk about it to his classmates. If you are just an occasional player or play only for fun, setting a limit only when you play is better than set aside an amount from your salary.
Well if it will be a big mistake if they heard that the 5% of your salary is going to gambling I'm sure the relation between you and your wife will be broken. This is what happen to me but I always keep sorry to her until she accept my apology that is why I just sometimes play gambling but the money that I play is from my sales not from my salary and she doesn't know that I have money from sales. And I just gamble when she was sleep around mid night just to hide my gambling activity.
January 01, 2020, 02:01:42 AM
I don't think its a good idea to set a certain amount of money from your salary like 5% of you salary goes to gambling. If your wife or spouse heard about this I think he/she will not like it. Same with your kids, what if he/she talk about it to his classmates. If you are just an occasional player or play only for fun, setting a limit only when you play is better than set aside an amount from your salary.
January 01, 2020, 01:56:44 AM
Why it is very important to always have control when gambling and its the number one we should have
- Many people gamble without thinking and spend all his/her money remember that you spend hours earning that money for your family and also for yourself but our responsibility is bigger
than anything else, because there are times that we for about this things, and forget that we have a family to feed for me its okay to spend some money for gambling but there are rules you
need to control your emotions because i saw people who spend all their money while their children have nothing to eat, bills not settle and at the end of the day they spend their times in the
streets ending is the commit crimes children don't go to school i hope everyone will remember this and be able to help everyone here , what im saying is its okay to gamble but don't compromise
your families
Taking out your savings before you go for expenses is the best way to control your money as you wish. Taking out allocated money for all your purposes , be it to support your family or gamble and planning on your savings is good way to never run out of money. I have seen people , who put their savings to gamble in hopes to get more but end up losing which leads to financial instability at times.
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December 23, 2019, 06:32:24 PM
If that person really loves his family, he will try so hard to leave gambling because he doesn't want to see his family will be broken because of him. And if he wants to gamble, he will use some money but he will not forget that his family is waiting for him to go back to his house. He knows that gambling is a game of luck, and he will not use big money that can make him in trouble especially if he uses the money for his family. I am sure that he will use the money that he can afford to lose as you say.
Yeah, everything needed to be has a limitation , we need to give some part of our earnings to our family, because they are there when we start gambling, when we are young they supported our needs for us to go to school and buy our needs, now we are a professional gambler, we earn money now, it is time to give atleast half of our earnings to our family so that, we can pay off their hardwork to us.
December 23, 2019, 04:36:31 PM
If that person really loves his family, he will try so hard to leave gambling because he doesn't want to see his family will be broken because of him. And if he wants to gamble, he will use some money but he will not forget that his family is waiting for him to go back to his house. He knows that gambling is a game of luck, and he will not use big money that can make him in trouble especially if he uses the money for his family. I am sure that he will use the money that he can afford to lose as you say.
Yeah, everything needed to be has a limitation , we need to give some part of our earnings to our family, because they are there when we start gambling, when we are young they supported our needs for us to go to school and buy our needs, now we are a professional gambler, we earn money now, it is time to give atleast half of our earnings to our family so that, we can pay off their hardwork to us.and paying back to all the things that they have done for us.If we already have our own family and as a father then its your responsibility to raise them up
and when it comes to finances then it should really be on your first priority.Other things would be on next on line.
December 23, 2019, 03:33:59 PM
I already stop on gambling a few months ago and now I am saving all of my money for my family.
But back then I could say it was about 5-10% of my earnings are for my gambling habit.
And thanks to my family I stop on gambling and focus on much more important things.
If that is what you want to do then that is fine but a person spending that kind of money monthly on gambling is not really a problem, however if you prefer to use that money for other needs or in other forms of entertainment that is fine as well, personally I do not have a problem with a person that gambles from time to time and knows very well how much money he's spending on that activity, since most likely that person is never going to get addicted to gambling and it is never going to develop a gambling problem either. But back then I could say it was about 5-10% of my earnings are for my gambling habit.
And thanks to my family I stop on gambling and focus on much more important things.
December 23, 2019, 10:14:56 AM
Never even for one minute you should forget that you have a family to feed when you are gambling, the family is our priority and this should always be the case at all times we are living, if we are going to gamble only allocate an amount that will not make your family short with what they need
December 23, 2019, 10:31:56 AM
If that person really loves his family, he will try so hard to leave gambling because he doesn't want to see his family will be broken because of him. And if he wants to gamble, he will use some money but he will not forget that his family is waiting for him to go back to his house. He knows that gambling is a game of luck, and he will not use big money that can make him in trouble especially if he uses the money for his family. I am sure that he will use the money that he can afford to lose as you say.
Yeah, everything needed to be has a limitation , we need to give some part of our earnings to our family, because they are there when we start gambling, when we are young they supported our needs for us to go to school and buy our needs, now we are a professional gambler, we earn money now, it is time to give atleast half of our earnings to our family so that, we can pay off their hardwork to us. December 22, 2019, 02:22:59 PM
Never even for one minute you should forget that you have a family to feed when you are gambling, the family is our priority and this should always be the case at all times we are living, if we are going to gamble only allocate an amount that will not make your family short with what they need
December 21, 2019, 01:44:31 AM
Never even for one minute you should forget that you have a family to feed when you are gambling, the family is our priority and this should always be the case at all times we are living, if we are going to gamble only allocate an amount that will not make your family short with what they need
December 20, 2019, 08:05:46 PM
Why it is very important to always have control when gambling and its the number one we should have
- Many people gamble without thinking and spend all his/her money remember that you spend hours earning that money for your family and also for yourself but our responsibility is bigger
than anything else, because there are times that we for about this things, and forget that we have a family to feed for me its okay to spend some money for gambling but there are rules you
need to control your emotions because i saw people who spend all their money while their children have nothing to eat, bills not settle and at the end of the day they spend their times in the
streets ending is the commit crimes children don't go to school i hope everyone will remember this and be able to help everyone here , what im saying is its okay to gamble but don't compromise
your families
Never even for one minute you should forget that you have a family to feed when you are gambling, the family is our priority and this should always be the case at all times we are living, if we are going to gamble only allocate an amount that will not make your family short with what they need
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December 20, 2019, 06:00:21 PM
~snip~
I still gamble but with discipline and limitation.
These are two important things that a gambler should possess in order to avoid unnecessary losses and also to avoid getting addicted, if a gambler doesn’t have this then they will not only lose there money but it could be there families too. It is okay to gamble but only spend the amount that you can afford while providing a good lifestyle to your family. I still gamble but with discipline and limitation.
Gambling is a game of luck, no matter how good you think you are you, there is no guarantee that you will win always that is why discipline is important for you to know when to stop when you have to.
If that person really loves his family, he will try so hard to leave gambling because he doesn't want to see his family will be broken because of him. And if he wants to gamble, he will use some money but he will not forget that his family is waiting for him to go back to his house. He knows that gambling is a game of luck, and he will not use big money that can make him in trouble especially if he uses the money for his family. I am sure that he will use the money that he can afford to lose as you say.
December 20, 2019, 08:09:03 AM
Nobody should be saying like 50% goes for food, 30% goes to savings, 10% goes to gambling, and so forth. The money going into gambling should be the extra of the extra savings.
i do agree on most of your point but on this one i think it depends on the person,like me whenever there is a chance that i want to gamble?i allocate part of my paycheck since everything comes to my wife constantly,so on that case i am asking her to at least allowed me to have 10-20% from my money because i only play when i have time and when i felt like wanna having fun,or maybe i am too different from others as i am responsible in everything i am doing. 
December 20, 2019, 07:23:53 AM
~snip~
I still gamble but with discipline and limitation.
These are two important things that a gambler should possess in order to avoid unnecessary losses and also to avoid getting addicted, if a gambler doesn’t have this then they will not only lose there money but it could be there families too. It is okay to gamble but only spend the amount that you can afford while providing a good lifestyle to your family. I still gamble but with discipline and limitation.
Gambling is a game of luck, no matter how good you think you are you, there is no guarantee that you will win always that is why discipline is important for you to know when to stop when you have to.
December 20, 2019, 06:13:06 AM
~snip~
I still gamble but with discipline and limitation.
These are two important things that a gambler should possess in order to avoid unnecessary losses and also to avoid getting addicted, if a gambler doesn’t have this then they will not only lose there money but it could be there families too. It is okay to gamble but only spend the amount that you can afford while providing a good lifestyle to your family. I still gamble but with discipline and limitation.
Gambling is a game of luck, no matter how good you think you are you, there is no guarantee that you will win always that is why discipline is important for you to know when to stop when you have to.
December 20, 2019, 06:08:37 AM
I just need an excess budget for my gambling lucky bets, and the rest of that money was allocated for family budget and emergency funds for health. That doesn't need to set aside huge amount of money intended for gambling, we just have to use little amount only to enjoy gambling in a simple ways. I don't know with other gamblers, but in my own mindset that's really the best options to do as well.
December 20, 2019, 03:39:05 AM
These are selfish gamblers and do not realize there are families that must be prioritized and mandatory, and such people cannot take care of and love their family well even though the purpose is for the family but it is wrong.
and even though the purpose is good and for the family too but such a way does not have a good calculation and what if you lose everything and there will be regrets, you have to prioritize the needs of the family first and then you bet and if you bet you lose, you don't feel guilty because you prioritize it, and if you win it is good luck for you and your family.
if you only have a small capital, it's better for the family and don't bet.
and even though the purpose is good and for the family too but such a way does not have a good calculation and what if you lose everything and there will be regrets, you have to prioritize the needs of the family first and then you bet and if you bet you lose, you don't feel guilty because you prioritize it, and if you win it is good luck for you and your family.
if you only have a small capital, it's better for the family and don't bet.
December 20, 2019, 02:14:56 AM
If a player have family their responsibility or their priority is their family to provide their needs first before playing a gambling.
We all know they have players who use the budget for their family by playing a gambling which us really wrong and that is not a good behaviour of a person and we think that they are addicr player because of they are doing. Controlling yourself is the key and for sure you can also play gambling and fullfill your duties to your family needs.
We all know they have players who use the budget for their family by playing a gambling which us really wrong and that is not a good behaviour of a person and we think that they are addicr player because of they are doing. Controlling yourself is the key and for sure you can also play gambling and fullfill your duties to your family needs.
December 20, 2019, 01:18:38 AM
~snip~
I still gamble but with discipline and limitation.
This is a very important thing when you are in gambling, there's no amount stated here that you need to spend on gambling. The fact, how much you can afford and your savings are the priority overall and your family needs. Self-discipline, limitation, controlling your self and time management are the basic and the most important when you are in gambling. They said that be responsible always, no matter what happen always puts in priority your family. I still gamble but with discipline and limitation.
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