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legendary
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February 11, 2020, 07:55:14 AM
#76
If something is destroying you, you should leave it. This is not just about gambling, it's about our lives. Gambling, like everything else, has its pros and cons, if you are not careful you can lose all the money you have! If you are reckless you will borrow money for gambling and that will lead you into bigger problems.
Without risk, you can't win in gambling! You should know how much you can risk losing in the first place before you start with gambling. When I gamble I know how much I can lose, I can go a little over that amount but I never risk all I have, keep control over your funds and emotions and gambling will be a positive experience for you.
sr. member
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February 11, 2020, 07:37:52 AM
#75
Gamblers who already addicted who wants to stop playing for sure they need a process to do before they finally stop it.
Many gamblers too destroy their lives because of being addicted and the who try become failed but the other try to stop are successful to do that.

Addcited players their mind was already set like they want to earn money but it is opposite or they lose a lot and most of the rppt of that is being greedy to money.
hero member
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February 11, 2020, 07:34:21 AM
#74
If gambling for fun turned into addiction,  stopping it is the best decision to take,  gambling breed greeds, and we all know that greed is why most of gamblers keep going back to gamble no matter how many times that they have been caution not to go back to gambling

Despite the fact that majority of gamblers knows that the probability of winning is so low,  a gambler keeps on gambling because he or she feels will win more,  especially when they heard someone else won a jackpot

The problem is that not all gamblers can stop gambling if they use gambling for fun to turn into an addiction. Many gamblers will still play gambling, although they know they slowly become addicted to gambling. That will grow bigger if they win for many rounds, and that can make their greed bigger too.

And if they chase the jackpot, that will waste their time and money because to win the jackpot will not be easy, and they need to have big luck to get the jackpot.
legendary
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February 11, 2020, 07:25:49 AM
#73
The ideal situation would be to leave gambling before it destroys you. This is easier said than done, especially when one gets obsessed with it. Many gamblers, especially the sport lovers take gambling as fun.
Approaching it as an investment in which you can win or lose and also analysing the risk and reward factor would allow you make better decisions in regards to your gambling lifestyle.
gambling cannot Destroy us if we will not allow this to happen.

we are the Pilot of our own life so if there are one who can prevent this to happen is no one but our self.

the risk of losing is more than winning but if we will just treat this as funny thing then nothing to lose but we will win happiness .

You will if you do responsible gambling.

just like drinking liquor, it will not harm you if you drink responsibly, let's just say that all these things are done for entertainment purpose so we have to achieve the purpose in gambling.
sr. member
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February 11, 2020, 07:16:40 AM
#72
The ideal situation would be to leave gambling before it destroys you. This is easier said than done, especially when one gets obsessed with it. Many gamblers, especially the sport lovers take gambling as fun.
Approaching it as an investment in which you can win or lose and also analysing the risk and reward factor would allow you make better decisions in regards to your gambling lifestyle.
gambling cannot Destroy us if we will not allow this to happen.

we are the Pilot of our own life so if there are one who can prevent this to happen is no one but our self.

the risk of losing is more than winning but if we will just treat this as funny thing then nothing to lose but we will win happiness .
legendary
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February 11, 2020, 05:30:50 AM
#71

4. Hobbies: this also supports to stop playing gambling, used to be a hobby of balls, horse racing or elements that easily fall prey to gambling, now switch hobbies that do not blend gambling, such as reading, hard work, etc.


But hard work is not a hobby, is it? And since it's definitely not, we have a problem here. No one can be hardworking all the time. We need something to relax, call it a hobby, if you want, to do our job more effectively afterwards. Some prefer to paint flowers or write poems, others relax with metal detecting, and for some it's gambling. I agree that one can be switching between hobbies, but switching between hard works is physically(and mentally) impossible.
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February 11, 2020, 04:46:14 AM
#70
Most gambling addicts are not having fun in gambling anymore they are gambling out of the urge of winning. I know how it feels when you know your self you need to stop something that is not doing anything good for you but you are not emotionally ready for it. Your mind is telling you that you need to stop, however, you cannot stop doing it because of addiction. Almost any kind of addiction is hard to break. It takes a lot of conviction, courage and of course hour intent to really keep your self out of something you are addicted to. No one else can really help you, but your self and your willingness to really put a stop to your addiction.
sr. member
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February 11, 2020, 04:38:13 AM
#69
If gambling for fun turned into addiction,  stopping it is the best decision to take,  gambling breed greeds, and we all know that greed is why most of gamblers keep going back to gamble no matter how many times that they have been caution not to go back to gambling

Despite the fact that majority of gamblers knows that the probability of winning is so low,  a gambler keeps on gambling because he or she feels will win more,  especially when they heard someone else won a jackpot
Ucy
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February 11, 2020, 03:48:10 AM
#68
Number two is quite interesting. Guess you are trying to suggest that gambling addict got their habits from gangsters or mafia. Well, that probably depends on the kind of gambling. And gangsters videos are probably where they mostly learn the habit from. I don't think this is totally the case though. I tend to believe that people who gamble regularly without being profitable are gambling addicts.  "Enjoying" gambling (without being profitable) can lead to addiction or can be considered an addiction. .
sr. member
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February 11, 2020, 03:47:35 AM
#67
You should distance yourself from everything that is destroying you not only gambling but also other things or even person.
We should know how to quit specially if it does affect us in negative ways and it could destroy our future.
Sometimes even if it is fun we should know how to say no and leave, To be honest the earliest that you felt that way you should already leave,
Because the longer you stay the harder it is to go away or leave not just in gambling but also in other addiction or anything that affects our personality.
full member
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February 11, 2020, 03:35:59 AM
#66
Yes! If gambling tend to destroy you as a gambler you should quit gambling before it destroy you. Many have been destroyed due to their addition to gambling and most of these gamblers died by committing suicide which wasn't a solution. Self control was want they needed to avert their addition to gambling. One of my gambling rule is that, enable self control defense mechanism and emotions and things work perfectly for me. You Could try this today.
legendary
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February 11, 2020, 02:56:27 AM
#65
The ideal situation would be to leave gambling before it destroys you. This is easier said than done, especially when one gets obsessed with it. Many gamblers, especially the sport lovers take gambling as fun.
Approaching it as an investment in which you can win or lose and also analysing the risk and reward factor would allow you make better decisions in regards to your gambling lifestyle.
Unfortunately no gambler gets chances to realize that gambling is destroying their life. This is the reason they never think about leaving gambling before they will be completely getting destroyed by gambling. At the same time leaving gambling after getting into it for considerably long duration, not an easy task. Because, in between time gamblers getting addicted to gambling and after become an addicted gambler hence they never think about leaving gambling even they will be thinking about leaving it, they are unable to quit it as leaving gambling become highly frustrating one for them.

We should never approach gambling as an investment because gambling is for entertainment alone hence analyzing win or loss will not be having any significant differences but leaving it as early as possible will be the better thing we can do.
sr. member
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February 11, 2020, 01:21:19 AM
#64
I couldn't disagree with all of the stated six elements above. But in reality, it is easier said than done.
If gambling is unhealthy anymore in your life, why continue to gamble? It's because we are fighting against our psychological urge. Some part of the brain telling that we should stop, but the other side said go on. It's a conflict between your addiction and your goal to stop.

I, myself wanted to stop gambling when I have realized some things that are inappropriate already arising within me,
  • When you wanted to deposit more, temptation to get some funds from your own salary, etc. -then think twice, it isnt healthy anymore.
  • When your world is evolving just around the gambling world 24/7 try to give space to yourself, step back and reminisce the good life before you met gambling.

    Remember, there are so many reasons for us to leave gambling if we want to.
legendary
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February 11, 2020, 01:04:42 AM
#63
The ideal situation would be to leave gambling before it destroys you. This is easier said than done, especially when one gets obsessed with it. Many gamblers, especially the sport lovers take gambling as fun.
Approaching it as an investment in which you can win or lose and also analysing the risk and reward factor would allow you make better decisions in regards to your gambling lifestyle.
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February 11, 2020, 12:08:24 AM
#62
you have done a one good thread here mate,this is the problem in our society now specially here in Online world when accessing gambling is very easy and we can do it anywhere and anytime.
same reason why many people now are getting Hooked and starting ruining their life because of once they are calling to be a hobby but sooner becomes a life threat .
there are some people i know of making their life miserable because of wrong decision in terms of how to treat gambling so i hope many will follow your advises here like having their family more than anything else.
hero member
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February 11, 2020, 12:02:14 AM
#61
Sorry in advance whether this topic has been created or not.
I often see topics related to stop gambling.

Arise in my mind, everyone is easy to say stop gambling but doing it is very difficult.
So I have the urge that every individual can stop gambling by having the six elements that I give below.

Thought:
Many gambling addicts think to stop, but emotional problems that encourage individuals to have more money when winning in gambling games, the biggest impact is the opposite that gets is defeat, not to mention the impact on the family when problems arise: "I want to stop gambling". Out of the mouth.

All that is based on the mind, no, sincerely to stop gambling.

There are things you need to remember to stop gambling, not based on money, money is just greed: again, again and again.

To stop gambling there are some addicts to do.

1. Intention: the main capital intention in determining individuals to stop gambling, if someone has a strong determination to stop it will have the percentage of someone actually quitting gambling.
2. Individual mindset: this is very heavy, most difficult for many heavy addicts to do.
The mindset of individuals used to associate with gambling gangs, the mafia, now change the mindset and associate with wise, good, and respectable people, little by little addicts will wake up and the days are full of good deeds.
3. Family: in this case it is prioritized, first the family in the number position......now the family is made number 1 more time with family.
4. Hobbies: this also supports to stop playing gambling, used to be a hobby of balls, horse racing or elements that easily fall prey to gambling, now switch hobbies that do not blend gambling, such as reading, hard work, etc.
5. Debt: if the habit of debt, for now stop, accept it as is, do not look too much up, multiply look down, which needs to be remembered, above the sky there is still sky, below the ground there is still land, thankful.
6. Positive: positive thinking can also encourage someone to be more confident, first thinking evil now thinking positive patterns.

If you do the above I believe that anyone can get rid of the habit of gambling.
The important thing to do something that must be a commitment in determining success.

For me gambling is fun.
Gambling is a form of entertainment that requires money to be part of it and once someone is bored this is on of the best choices that they can pick.

In gambling, time will just pass by and your boredom will fade instantly. But if time will come that gambling will destroy you then  it is the best time to stop or leave gambling. Though it is not easy if you got addicted already but the best way to do it is to find an alternatives that will entertain you to ease your boredom.
hero member
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February 10, 2020, 11:57:21 PM
#60
Unfortunately I don't think it's so easy to do. You gamble because you hope to get rich and it's very hard to convince yourself to give up the dream of your life, it's like giving up the aim of your life.

That is what we get in gambling. Sometimes we will feel it is difficult to get the win in gambling, and it is better to let the gambling as entertainment without we have a passion for winning the money. If we can realize that, I think we need to leave gambling, and we can search for the other opportunity to make money so we can make our dream come true.

But well, that will not easy because many people are trying to leave gambling, but they feel that it is difficult to do because gambling still attracts them to come to gambling places. If we see that gambling only makes us losing much money, then we need to leave gambling as soon as possible before it's too late.
legendary
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February 10, 2020, 11:50:45 PM
#59
There are people who cannot feel that gambling destroys them,
We need someone to tell us that we should stop gambling anymore if we lose our money.
We should not generalize that gambling destroy people. I myself gamble for a reason and that is 1 for fun and 2 to socialite with my clients. I bring them (clients) to casinos since they like going to such places and while playing we have the chance to talk business. I closed contracts a lot of times already because of giving them what they want. I don't gamble only because I have the urge to play, No. So let us just respect them if they want to play. Its their money not ours.
legendary
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February 10, 2020, 11:24:48 PM
#58
It's way easier to talk about leaving or stopping gambling if you're addicted than actually doing it; seeking professional help is often a very good option if you know you're addicted to gambling but can't quit it or if you know someone who's suffering from a serious gambling addiction that agrees with seeking help. Some people also unfortunately shun help, which can be tough, but as long as you're doing all you can, it's not really your fault.

But it is difficult if if you have a serious addiction then without your help from a professional then that addiction will not disappear, still we must have guidance from someone who can forget the addiction.
What I understand is that people who are already addicted to gambling are difficult to forget if someday they can also play again with them but we must realize that gambling is not a factor to make money because it's really just gambling to have fun.
legendary
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February 10, 2020, 11:17:27 PM
#57
I think basically and the most important besides OP lists is self control during gambling so people can know their limit when they must stop gamble and leave the game because i believe if we have good self control while gambling then it will avoid people from bad things and i will admit sometimes while gamble hoping won with big money but i do realize it's only about luck when it comes nobody will know it and also with enjoyed every games while gambling i believe too with automatically it can consider gambling for fun and never destroy you
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