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legendary
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February 18, 2020, 06:58:58 PM
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but if i dont have a debt , i hardly win

You could buy things for your friends and/or make good investments that long term puts you ahead but short term means you have very little available money.    If somehow that leads you to have better luck with the little money left then great I guess.   I'd say thats the smartest approach anyway, pay bills first, pay down the mortgage as much as possible with the few bits left after all monthly bills paid only then gamble the little left that is of no consequence.   Its a bad idea to gamble with money you need later anyhow.
legendary
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February 18, 2020, 05:36:02 PM
LOL  Cheesy It's very easy to say that but in reality what other opportunities you have to win a big amount of money? If you want to make money without gambling you need to have... money! So only gambling can offer you the opportunity to become rich when you have nothing.
This is the fastest and easiest way on making money thats why most or majority of people do end up to have this option due to this possibility thats why
gambling industry becomes so big and profitable because people do always come back and try their luck on changing up their lives.The only issue here
is that addiction what messes out peoples lives where they do commit or experience consequences due to severe addiction.It is indeed hard on making yourself
finding an entertainment or wont stress yourself out when you do know that you do have real money on stake.
In fact gambling industry become big but not everywhere, I think it depends on the culture of the country. There are countries where gambling is a kind of way of life but there are other where it's not perceived as a good thing and people are not fond of it there.
sr. member
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February 18, 2020, 05:28:07 PM
Gambling can only be seeing as a fun only when you are playing the game with not your real money.
Well, I am glad you are having fun with that, that means you are having fun without taking any risk. But, I'd like to tell you that majority of the gamblers who are having fun would not have fun when they are not risking their money, of course that's including me and my definition of having fun is to gamble by risking a money that you can afford to lose anytime.
I don't think anyone will be playing with his or her hard earned money in the name having fun in gambling with it dude. It will only be fun if and only if you are making profit from playing gambling but once you are losing it will not be fun as usual let be sincere to our selves.
And I don't think we have to smile either if we lose $10k on that day. Is that be crazy all and not really acceptable to me.
The majority of the gamblers are coming from the low level of the community and most likely they gamble because they want to double their money instantly which I believe is not a smart thing to do. But that is in their mindset and it is hard to change them especially when they are already addicted to gambling. Even though they keep losing but still they moving in and hoping for a big shot that could change their life instantly.
legendary
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February 18, 2020, 05:22:42 PM
That is what we get in gambling. Sometimes we will feel it is difficult to get the win in gambling, and it is better to let the gambling as entertainment without we have a passion for winning the money. If we can realize that, I think we need to leave gambling, and we can search for the other opportunity to make money so we can make our dream come true.

But well, that will not easy because many people are trying to leave gambling, but they feel that it is difficult to do because gambling still attracts them to come to gambling places. If we see that gambling only makes us losing much money, then we need to leave gambling as soon as possible before it's too late.
LOL  Cheesy It's very easy to say that but in reality what other opportunities you have to win a big amount of money? If you want to make money without gambling you need to have... money! So only gambling can offer you the opportunity to become rich when you have nothing.
This is the fastest and easiest way on making money thats why most or majority of people do end up to have this option due to this possibility thats why
gambling industry becomes so big and profitable because people do always come back and try their luck on changing up their lives.The only issue here
is that addiction what messes out peoples lives where they do commit or experience consequences due to severe addiction.It is indeed hard on making yourself
finding an entertainment or wont stress yourself out when you do know that you do have real money on stake.
sr. member
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February 18, 2020, 04:41:56 PM
Gambling can only be seeing as a fun only when you are playing the game with not your real money.
Well, I am glad you are having fun with that, that means you are having fun without taking any risk. But, I'd like to tell you that majority of the gamblers who are having fun would not have fun when they are not risking their money, of course that's including me and my definition of having fun is to gamble by risking a money that you can afford to lose anytime.
I don't think anyone will be playing with his or her hard earned money in the name having fun in gambling with it dude. It will only be fun if and only if you are making profit from playing gambling but once you are losing it will not be fun as usual let be sincere to our selves.
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February 18, 2020, 04:05:31 PM
Gambling can only be seeing as a fun only when you are playing the game with not your real money. This just happened to me recently when I was playing gambling on a particular gambling site, at the initial stage when I was using the airdrop they gave me it was really fun and I was making it but when I deposited my on money and started playing gambling it was not fun anymore because I was losing my real money.
Am impress hearing you positively with your experience so far, most of these gambling platforms have many techniques which when understand can actually give a good profit to the gambler. Its always like that, when your money isn't involve you okay with relaxation but when there is money, you play with your two eyes open. Gambling is always part of me and I do it most of the times. Ensure to use your own strategy or that which is widely known among the gambling platforms. Congratulations in your new hustle.
legendary
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February 18, 2020, 03:47:18 PM
That is what we get in gambling. Sometimes we will feel it is difficult to get the win in gambling, and it is better to let the gambling as entertainment without we have a passion for winning the money. If we can realize that, I think we need to leave gambling, and we can search for the other opportunity to make money so we can make our dream come true.

But well, that will not easy because many people are trying to leave gambling, but they feel that it is difficult to do because gambling still attracts them to come to gambling places. If we see that gambling only makes us losing much money, then we need to leave gambling as soon as possible before it's too late.
LOL  Cheesy It's very easy to say that but in reality what other opportunities you have to win a big amount of money? If you want to make money without gambling you need to have... money! So only gambling can offer you the opportunity to become rich when you have nothing.
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February 18, 2020, 02:25:28 PM
Gambling can only be seeing as a fun only when you are playing the game with not your real money. This just happened to me recently when I was playing gambling on a particular gambling site, at the initial stage when I was using the airdrop they gave me it was really fun and I was making it but when I deposited my on money and started playing gambling it was not fun anymore because I was losing my real money.

Not really.

Plenty of people have fun when gambling with real money, the thrill comes as part of risk.

There is no risk when you're gambling with fake money.

Even if you lose your money it can still be considered fun if you're in it for the thrill and suspense, rather than the profit.

If you want to make huge profits, play the lottery.

Betting with fake money cannot be termed as gambling. Fake money does not have value, so you would never understand the pleasure of winning and the pain of losing.

Gambling is high risk game, you are playing because you are aware of the consequence. You cannot blame anyone if you lose and you cannot enjoy with everyone if you win. It is highly addictive but it should not be your life.
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February 18, 2020, 02:18:54 PM
Gambling can only be seeing as a fun only when you are playing the game with not your real money. This just happened to me recently when I was playing gambling on a particular gambling site, at the initial stage when I was using the airdrop they gave me it was really fun and I was making it but when I deposited my on money and started playing gambling it was not fun anymore because I was losing my real money.

Not really.

Plenty of people have fun when gambling with real money, the thrill comes as part of risk.

There is no risk when you're gambling with fake money.

Even if you lose your money it can still be considered fun if you're in it for the thrill and suspense, rather than the profit.

If you want to make huge profits, play the lottery.
sr. member
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February 18, 2020, 01:39:32 PM

why instead of Stopping Gambling why not lets talk abouthow to prevent becoming addict?


Different words, same stuff. Stopping and preventing are just both the same, or maybe to you it is not, but they always related to each other. "Stopping" means you have a plan to prevent yourself continuing on playing gambling, and "Preventing" means you have a plan to stop or change your way to avoid being addicted to gambling.

Think about it, I hope it does make sense  Wink
legendary
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February 18, 2020, 09:10:58 AM
Gambling can only be seeing as a fun only when you are playing the game with not your real money.
Well, I am glad you are having fun with that, that means you are having fun without taking any risk. But, I'd like to tell you that majority of the gamblers who are having fun would not have fun when they are not risking their money, of course that's including me and my definition of having fun is to gamble by risking a money that you can afford to lose anytime.

This is the real definition of gambling, you will get in and get out without harming your motivation the next time you gamble, and I don't think it's fun if you are playing or gambling not with your money because you will end careless, because in the first place you can afford to lose, because it's not your money, you will play carelessly and riskier, you can even play blindly because you know it's a hit or miss.
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February 18, 2020, 09:08:28 AM
Gambling can only be seeing as a fun only when you are playing the game with not your real money. This just happened to me recently when I was playing gambling on a particular gambling site, at the initial stage when I was using the airdrop they gave me it was really fun and I was making it but when I deposited my on money and started playing gambling it was not fun anymore because I was losing my real money.
And I hope that you soon gave up and left this casino because once you start putting your money in the casino, it will be a moment to show that the casino has officially begun to ruin your life, you may have noticed the early signs that you are no longer feeling happy here, instead, you are just trying to think about failures and rewards, you care more about money. This early detection should be optimized by leaving gambling before it's too late, a lot of people have ignored this message and their lives are completely difficult with gambling
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February 18, 2020, 08:38:11 AM
I think the most important thing that gamblers will stop is when he has an individual mindset to stop gambling and his family. If he has a strong mindset to stop gambling because he thinks that playing gambling is only spends his money without a chance to make money, he will try anything to stop gambling because he realizes that it will waste money on him. His family will be the next reason for him to stop gambling because, for him, the family is number one in his life. So he will try hard to stop gambling forever, and if he feels it is difficult, he will ask for help from his family to help him so he can get more power to stop gambling.
The best way for a gambler to stop being addicted to the game is having a proper mindset, because if you are a person who has an appropriate mindset, then he wouldn't be addicted to the game. He could also stop being addicted to gambling when he has a good relationship with his family because, for sure, his wife or husband will give him advice if he or she knows that you are getting addicted.
Gambling can ruin the right relationship with your family. Then your child might lose respect to you. It is not a good lifestyle in a way that you won't be able to prioritize valuable things compared to gambling, and you will possibly get into a big debt. For you to prevent being addicted to gambling, you should change your companion, focus on some valuable things like applying to a company, that is much better to gain money when you give your efforts, and for sure you won't lose your money.
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February 18, 2020, 08:20:22 AM
Gambling can only be seeing as a fun only when you are playing the game with not your real money.
Well, I am glad you are having fun with that, that means you are having fun without taking any risk. But, I'd like to tell you that majority of the gamblers who are having fun would not have fun when they are not risking their money, of course that's including me and my definition of having fun is to gamble by risking a money that you can afford to lose anytime.
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February 18, 2020, 06:27:35 AM
Gambling can only be seeing as a fun only when you are playing the game with not your real money. This just happened to me recently when I was playing gambling on a particular gambling site, at the initial stage when I was using the airdrop they gave me it was really fun and I was making it but when I deposited my on money and started playing gambling it was not fun anymore because I was losing my real money.
legendary
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February 18, 2020, 06:05:23 AM
Fun fact, you don't have to gamble just cover up your debt.

you wont believe what happen to me before.  before whenever i have a a debt , i always win something big   . take not i dont borrow money to gamble but i borrow money to be used on the house or as allowance because my salary is short   .

i also have a job so i dont depend on gambling to earn  but i only play gambling for fun  .  i just cant believe that i can win  .  ill then wd and pay my debts in advance but if i dont have a debt , i hardly win  . strange  .

This is strange indeed, and I have only one explanation: luck. It's good that you don't depend on gambling to earn, and I hope, you won't depend on gambling to pay off your debts. Luck is blind, so we shouldn't rely on it much. It is better to rely on your skills in a certain field, and earn more money with improving those skills. I mean, it's also kind of a game, but it's a skill based one, and luck plays a lesser part in it, which is a good thing. Basically, eliminating luck from the equation of your success can bring you more confidence, and then you can start earning even more.

In short, I suggest you to not pay off your debts with the money won from gambling because thus you can become dependent on luck in this very serious business. Rather buy some unnecessary stuff, like expensive food or collectibles, something you can perfectly live without. Thus losing, if that happens, won't be that tragic for you.
legendary
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February 18, 2020, 05:45:04 AM
Great tip!
As far as I know, many gambling companies have this option in the settings: the user can set for himself the maximum playing time per day/week and the maximum amount that he can lose. After reaching the set indicator, the user is not able to continue playing.
I think this is a very convenient option for those who do not have self-discipline.

It would be a great option indeed, but only if there was only one gambling site in the whole world, or, which is more realistic, all gambling sites were connected, and thus a player could set a limit on all gambling sites at once. I personally think that this is the future of gambling, but at the moment all those restrictions can be circumvented by simply playing on other sites.

Players get used to a particular site. Referral systems, bonus balls, cashbacks, etc. accrued for players and it is unlikely that they are pleased to lose these earnings. Therefore, I consider this option quite effective. But I do not argue that if a person has set a goal, he will find a place where he will lose his money, in the end it can be done in real life.
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February 18, 2020, 03:35:43 AM
The quickest way for me to lessen gaming was to get free out of debt. I had around more than $1000 worth of debt and whatever I earnt went to pay those loans and I always felt bad as it was pretty much I'm working and not getting paid :/ so I resorted to gambling again to pay those off only to drown more in debt. But once I consistently paid them all, it was all calm and I didn't gamble as often then Smiley

It's not a good idea to go in gambling because in gamble you need luck what if you don't have any luck once you gamble? I think you gonna lose your money then you want to try again to get bact your loses. Maybe the best way for to pay those dept earn money bit by bit so that you can pay it little by little until finish it.


Even playing gambling needs luck, people are interested in playing any gambling games because they expect to win the money. But the final result is many of them losing their money at the end of the day, but that will not stop them from playing gambling on another day. Yes, of course, luck is the one factor that people need to have when they are playing gambling, but unfortunately, even they know that they still playing gambling. We need to leave gambling as soon as possible if we know that our money almost reaches the limit.
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February 18, 2020, 03:12:48 AM
Fun fact, you don't have to gamble just cover up your debt.

you wont believe what happen to me before.  before whenever i have a a debt , i always win something big   . take not i dont borrow money to gamble but i borrow money to be used on the house or as allowance because my salary is short   .

i also have a job so i dont depend on gambling to earn  but i only play gambling for fun  .  i just cant believe that i can win  .  ill then wd and pay my debts in advance but if i dont have a debt , i hardly win  . strange  .
It is just a coincident and I think it has nothing to do with your winnings.
I don't get it why would you gamble when you have a debt?
You could just pay your debt instead of gambling the money.

Even I would do the same that first clear off the debt and then only gamble, because I know that if I play in anticipation that I will win and then I can clear off the debt might not happen and eventually I may also loose the money I had it would put me more trouble for me. Instead whatever amount I get every month will pay and clear the debt and once all is cleared then I can gamble if I wish to do it.
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February 18, 2020, 03:02:03 AM
At least maybe he already know if his luck is not always come so he only play gambling for fun. But that case maybe really rare because there are a lot of cases which make people really destroyed because of gambling.
But, unfortunately people are not taking example of how many people are getting destroyed out of gambling but they are taking example of someone's winning but that is happening very rarely and there will be less chances for that winning to be true (definitely not talking about anyone here). I'm just talking about the promotions gambling houses itself doing like "this much had been won" and "we have paid out this much" but honestly most of them are not true.

Most gamblers are not preferring to leave gambling but they know all the dangers of continuing gambling. I'm not sure what are the factors which are keeping them to continue gambling regardless of they are seeing that their life is getting destroyed because of gambling. Only self belief and self-realization may help them.
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