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legendary
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February 17, 2020, 10:02:26 PM
Fun fact, you don't have to gamble just cover up your debt.

you wont believe what happen to me before.  before whenever i have a a debt , i always win something big   . take not i dont borrow money to gamble but i borrow money to be used on the house or as allowance because my salary is short   .

i also have a job so i dont depend on gambling to earn  but i only play gambling for fun  .  i just cant believe that i can win  .  ill then wd and pay my debts in advance but if i dont have a debt , i hardly win  . strange  .
you are lucky to have those chances so the winning should have been use in important things than paying debt.
and be true to your self because you said that you gamble for FUN,but you are playing when you have DEBT?lol that is not how we treat our debt we must Pay them first before risking our money in gambling if you really mean what you says.
At least maybe he already know if his luck is not always come so he only play gambling for fun. But that case maybe really rare because there are a lot of cases which make people really destroyed because of gambling. And not much people who can get that gift like shoreno get.
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February 17, 2020, 09:36:56 PM
Fun fact, you don't have to gamble just cover up your debt.

you wont believe what happen to me before.  before whenever i have a a debt , i always win something big   . take not i dont borrow money to gamble but i borrow money to be used on the house or as allowance because my salary is short   .

i also have a job so i dont depend on gambling to earn  but i only play gambling for fun  .  i just cant believe that i can win  .  ill then wd and pay my debts in advance but if i dont have a debt , i hardly win  . strange  .
you are lucky to have those chances so the winning should have been use in important things than paying debt.
and be true to your self because you said that you gamble for FUN,but you are playing when you have DEBT?lol that is not how we treat our debt we must Pay them first before risking our money in gambling if you really mean what you says.
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February 17, 2020, 09:30:29 PM
Fun fact, you don't have to gamble just cover up your debt.

you wont believe what happen to me before.  before whenever i have a a debt , i always win something big   . take not i dont borrow money to gamble but i borrow money to be used on the house or as allowance because my salary is short   .

i also have a job so i dont depend on gambling to earn  but i only play gambling for fun  .  i just cant believe that i can win  .  ill then wd and pay my debts in advance but if i dont have a debt , i hardly win  . strange  .
It is just a coincident and I think it has nothing to do with your winnings.
I don't get it why would you gamble when you have a debt?
You could just pay your debt instead of gambling the money.
legendary
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February 17, 2020, 06:56:03 PM
Fun fact, you don't have to gamble just cover up your debt.

you wont believe what happen to me before.  before whenever i have a a debt , i always win something big   . take not i dont borrow money to gamble but i borrow money to be used on the house or as allowance because my salary is short   .

i also have a job so i dont depend on gambling to earn  but i only play gambling for fun  .  i just cant believe that i can win  .  ill then wd and pay my debts in advance but if i dont have a debt , i hardly win  . strange  .
But still it's not recommended 'cause not all of the people have the same luck you have and that luck of yours are not always there to make you survive. I also experienced the case you have, winning or making money instantly especially when there are many funds to cover up. Luckily, these things happen to us but expect that worst are coming soon, people are equal and experiencing the same thing.

If we are in debt, then try to grind every day to cover those. If you can control yourself for not borrowing money or can avoid loans, then it's better.
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February 17, 2020, 04:55:41 PM
Fun fact, you don't have to gamble just cover up your debt.

you wont believe what happen to me before.  before whenever i have a a debt , i always win something big   . take not i dont borrow money to gamble but i borrow money to be used on the house or as allowance because my salary is short   .

i also have a job so i dont depend on gambling to earn  but i only play gambling for fun  .  i just cant believe that i can win  .  ill then wd and pay my debts in advance but if i dont have a debt , i hardly win  . strange  .
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February 17, 2020, 11:40:46 AM
The quickest way for me to lessen gaming was to get free out of debt. I had around more than $1000 worth of debt and whatever I earnt went to pay those loans and I always felt bad as it was pretty much I'm working and not getting paid :/ so I resorted to gambling again to pay those off only to drown more in debt. But once I consistently paid them all, it was all calm and I didn't gamble as often then Smiley

It's not a good idea to go in gambling because in gamble you need luck what if you don't have any luck once you gamble? I think you gonna lose your money then you want to try again to get bact your loses. Maybe the best way for to pay those dept earn money bit by bit so that you can pay it little by little until finish it.


His solution to his problem is quite too risky, I won't say that he will not succeed but chances are very low when it comes to gambling, in fact it's not even advisable to borrow money to gamble, so how much on his aim that he will gamble to pay his debts, well, let's see if he will find success but I am pretty sure majority of gamblers would not agree with that idea.

Fun fact, you don't have to gamble just cover up your debt. You have to put an extra work in everything, so you could cover up your debt, and escape the harsh reality you have right now, man. I know, life's unfair, but that doesn't mean you have to risk your thing here in gambling, you'll have it worse. There are still plenty options out there, you might not discovering it out yet. Gambling wouldn't bring money to you as you think it would supposed, you know what's worse than this? Is that you'll just making your debt more bigger though, your resolve is kind of weak, IMO.

Try to re-think again, and re-consider these advice at the top. Wish you luck!

In short, it is the player's sole decision if he really wanted to stop gambling or not.  It is the determination of implementing self-discipline to end his own gambling addiction to the betterment of his life.  And that I think is the one lacking on OP's list.


But in reality some gamble addict needs support from other people or from experts so that they can handle and cure their addiction. Not everyone can do it by themselves some addict become more stressful and commit such crimes that can make the situation worse. But if they have someone to lean on they can actually change themselves step by step.

I believe so too. However, it would work if such person would at least take someone's advice though. Lending a hand to someone isn't helpful if they will just disregard somebody who are supporting them thoroughly. Thus, I believe with this man's statement:
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Equally important is the presence of willpower! If you have willpower, then you will surely cope with addiction and stop playing! And of course, family support matters too!
And in the future it will be necessary to stay further from gaming sites! Wink

 
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February 17, 2020, 06:57:29 AM
In short, it is the player's sole decision if he really wanted to stop gambling or not.  It is the determination of implementing self-discipline to end his own gambling addiction to the betterment of his life.  And that I think is the one lacking on OP's list.


But in reality some gamble addict needs support from other people or from experts so that they can handle and cure their addiction. Not everyone can do it by themselves some addict become more stressful and commit such crimes that can make the situation worse. But if they have someone to lean on they can actually change themselves step by step.

Equally important is the presence of willpower! If you have willpower, then you will surely cope with addiction and stop playing! And of course, family support matters too!
And in the future it will be necessary to stay further from gaming sites! Wink
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February 17, 2020, 06:48:15 AM
The quickest way for me to lessen gaming was to get free out of debt. I had around more than $1000 worth of debt and whatever I earnt went to pay those loans and I always felt bad as it was pretty much I'm working and not getting paid :/ so I resorted to gambling again to pay those off only to drown more in debt. But once I consistently paid them all, it was all calm and I didn't gamble as often then Smiley

It's not a good idea to go in gambling because in gamble you need luck what if you don't have any luck once you gamble? I think you gonna lose your money then you want to try again to get bact your loses. Maybe the best way for to pay those dept earn money bit by bit so that you can pay it little by little until finish it.


His solution to his problem is quite too risky, I won't say that he will not succeed but chances are very low when it comes to gambling, in fact it's not even advisable to borrow money to gamble, so how much on his aim that he will gamble to pay his debts, well, let's see if he will find success but I am pretty sure majority of gamblers would not agree with that idea.
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February 17, 2020, 06:41:34 AM
The quickest way for me to lessen gaming was to get free out of debt. I had around more than $1000 worth of debt and whatever I earnt went to pay those loans and I always felt bad as it was pretty much I'm working and not getting paid :/ so I resorted to gambling again to pay those off only to drown more in debt. But once I consistently paid them all, it was all calm and I didn't gamble as often then Smiley

It's not a good idea to go in gambling because in gamble you need luck what if you don't have any luck once you gamble? I think you gonna lose your money then you want to try again to get bact your loses. Maybe the best way for to pay those dept earn money bit by bit so that you can pay it little by little until finish it.
legendary
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February 17, 2020, 06:00:13 AM
~ First of all before going into gambling, we should be equipped with self discipline and must be responsible in our decisions because it can affect our lifestyle and worse our behaviour. Yes we are hoping to earn profit from it but still we are playing for fun or as stress reliever not to cause stress.

The size of this hope is what matters a lot. I can't deny that there's always a hope of winning something, but the question is how much do you really hope to win? It's one thing when it's five or ten bucks, not a life-changing amount, but you also are not risking much while trying to win it. And it's entirely another thing to gamble in order of paying off a debt of several thousands USD. The latter isn't advised to do under any circumstances.
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February 16, 2020, 10:52:13 AM
In short, it is the player's sole decision if he really wanted to stop gambling or not.  It is the determination of implementing self-discipline to end his own gambling addiction to the betterment of his life.  And that I think is the one lacking on OP's list.


But in reality some gamble addict needs support from other people or from experts so that they can handle and cure their addiction. Not everyone can do it by themselves some addict become more stressful and commit such crimes that can make the situation worse. But if they have someone to lean on they can actually change themselves step by step.
legendary
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February 16, 2020, 10:28:00 AM
This points are golden rules for gambler. One of the major reason gamblers doesn't find it easy to quit is the intention to win back their money after losing. This is a great secret for obsession and it always leads to more losses. The greatest solution is to counter your mindset of winning the money back and let it go then you stop immediately. This has helped alot.
They chase their losses because they can’t afford to lose money or they need it badly and rely on gambling too much. It is hard to quit, and if you really want to quit then give it a try and seek some good advices. Don’t just wait for gambling to destroy you, be a responsible one and make no regrets in your gambling journey.

I don't think they will seek advice, compulsive gamblers are on denial that they are very much into gambling, only their family can help him by themselves going to professional help and urging his relative that is very much into gambling to go for rehabilitation, it's very rare to see a gambler going to anonymous gamblers and ask for cure, there should be a motivating factor for that to happen.
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February 16, 2020, 10:25:05 AM
Over and over again, there were lots of reasons for you to stop but the main thing i would say which really be needed for us to stop completely is just really a matter of self control and discipling.
Actions awareness is also a thing where you do realize first on what things would happen if you do intend to engage with gambling without control.IF you do have this kind of mindset it wont really be
easy for you to get addicted on the first place.Breaking away is just the hardest part when you already get hooked into it and quitting wont really be that easy where distracting yourself into other things
so that you wont able to gamble again.Dont wait for unfortunate things to happen before you do quit it would be better if you do able to stop it midway.
I agree on this. First of all before going into gambling, we should be equipped with self discipline and must be responsible in our decisions because it can affect our lifestyle and worse our behaviour. Yes we are hoping to earn profit from it but still we are playing for fun or as stress reliever not to cause stress.
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February 16, 2020, 08:42:02 AM
No matter the point of view, there are always many reasons to stop gambling, the problem is that people get chemically addicted to it as the brain goes into emotional states that are potenciated by gambling... a strong mind and a serious definitive decision to stop will be the first weapons, but then you need to start getting your free time filled with other stuff...
As a gambler continues to gamble, chances are the brain will change its mindset and will go to a state where it will always find gambling and when this happens it is bad for the gambler as he got addicted into it already.

Doing other things so that you can leave gambling is one of the ways that can really help but this will be hard because your body is finding casinos, roulette, dices etc. You must seek help with your families to if you really want to leave gambling. They will be a big help in your rehab.
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February 16, 2020, 08:37:20 AM
This points are golden rules for gambler. One of the major reason gamblers doesn't find it easy to quit is the intention to win back their money after losing. This is a great secret for obsession and it always leads to more losses. The greatest solution is to counter your mindset of winning the money back and let it go then you stop immediately. This has helped alot.
They chase their losses because they can’t afford to lose money or they need it badly and rely on gambling too much. It is hard to quit, and if you really want to quit then give it a try and seek some good advices. Don’t just wait for gambling to destroy you, be a responsible one and make no regrets in your gambling journey.
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February 16, 2020, 06:46:34 AM
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to win back their money after losing.
Best not to have a singular goal, set a time limit and also a set budget.   If its time up and or that days budget is gone then the luck will have flow back as the universe surely wants on another day.    If no rules can be followed then at least its obvious its out of hand at that point.   Not just gambling but alot of pursuits the chase is lost if there is no brakes left.

Great tip!
As far as I know, many gambling companies have this option in the settings: the user can set for himself the maximum playing time per day/week and the maximum amount that he can lose. After reaching the set indicator, the user is not able to continue playing.
I think this is a very convenient option for those who do not have self-discipline.

It would be a great option indeed, but only if there was only one gambling site in the whole world, or, which is more realistic, all gambling sites were connected, and thus a player could set a limit on all gambling sites at once. I personally think that this is the future of gambling, but at the moment all those restrictions can be circumvented by simply playing on other sites.
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February 16, 2020, 06:14:58 AM
Its because they feel fun and satisfaction while playing gambling even if they are losing.

Who would be satisfied with losing your money in gambling?

If that is happening to me I would immediately stop. It is not that easy to do that but I know when to stop, and for me that is important. I've been bringing a certain amount of money when gambling and I always check on that so that I can ensure that it is a good day or a bad day.
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February 16, 2020, 02:12:44 AM
No matter the point of view, there are always many reasons to stop gambling, the problem is that people get chemically addicted to it as the brain goes into emotional states that are potenciated by gambling... a strong mind and a serious definitive decision to stop will be the first weapons, but then you need to start getting your free time filled with other stuff...

Addiction won't let you leave gambling, even if it destroys you.  People let their lives and addiction destroyed but still do not leave gambling. Its because they feel fun and satisfaction while playing gambling even if they are losing.
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February 16, 2020, 01:43:46 AM
I believe all gamblers that gambling can destroy them in the long run but they are thinking what if they got lucky and gambling and win big. I know someone who gambles to change his way of life and at first, he said that he will only gamble with this said amount and if he loses or if his budget runs out then he'll stop and if he wins the jackpot he will stop right away but here comes a jackpot win and he later then said one more try because he felt his lucky but then he loses instead and the in the process of winning back the winnings he lost almost everything. Therefore, gambling is a bad thing if you don't control yourself and if you let your emotions take you if you have set a goal then stick to it and if you think you have weak self-control then you might as well do not enter gambling.
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February 16, 2020, 01:34:01 AM
No matter the point of view, there are always many reasons to stop gambling, the problem is that people get chemically addicted to it as the brain goes into emotional states that are potenciated by gambling... a strong mind and a serious definitive decision to stop will be the first weapons, but then you need to start getting your free time filled with other stuff...
Yes the reason why they did not stop playing gambling because their habit is to always play a gambling and spend too much money or all the money they have.

You need to force or set up your mind if you really want to stop play a gambling because if you did not there is no good happening to you .
I believe playing gambling is good as long you can control playing and not being addicted in playing games.
Aside from treating gambling as a habit,

Most of the time they get addicted to gambling because of having their hope to win an easy money. That way, their mind always think of wanting to play and always chase for winning.

I don't think that force will help, realization is what an addicted player need to stop gambling. Even if you force yourself to stop, you will be back again in no time.


Everything should really be done sensibly because saying verbally would really be just useless if you arent really that serious on quitting.It do matter with self discipline and seriousness of quitting.
As said if you do just make yourself force without having that discipline and seriousness you would still end up on playing gambling in the end of the day.Dont wait for gambling to destroy you or your entire life.
You will surely regret the rest of your life if you dont stop if you do saw that you are already experiencing problems and addiction.Im not saying that we shouldnt gamble but everything should really be
in moderation if you dont like to suffer consequences into your entire life.
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