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legendary
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March 01, 2020, 08:02:47 AM
I admit that leaving gambling is not as easy as imagined. Several times I tried to leave gambling but always wanted to come back again.
Getting out of it especially if you are already addicted into it is very hard indeed.

I have experienced getting addicted too but not in gambling but in games. There were times that I only sleep 4-5 hours only and I always eat late than the usual hours of eating. That lasts for 4-6 months until I saw that I became thinner already and prone to sickness and that is the time that I manage my time and until now, I'm still managing it and I feel better right now when I'm playing.
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March 01, 2020, 04:46:28 AM
I admit that leaving gambling is not as easy as imagined. Several times I tried to leave gambling but always wanted to come back again.
Indeed gambling makes us addicted, it's a fact that cannot be denied. We must have a strong desire in ourselves to be able leave gambling.
And also must be accompanied by increasing our activities in the real world, so our minds can be distracted from the world gambling.

I think so, Gambling is a serious intoxication that can't be expected comeback easily. I think in this case, there are various healing centers/rehab centers where a person who is addicted to a few months of observation has the possibility of returning to normal life. They observe the addicted person through their various exercises and motions and helped him to get rid out of it. It may be effective for those who are addicted in extreme level, they can come back to their normal lives by this way.
I wonder how effective such therapy is. I mean, for sure it will only take couple of months or let's say even a year (though I'm skeptical on this because it was too long) but when he go outside and live his own life again, how sure we are that he will no longer go back on the vice he once got addicted Huh ? You know what, I think it is all about the mind. Undergoing therapies is good however it costs you money, actually you can change if and only if you are willing enough to. Make an introspection, find your inspiration and make steps to cure your own self Smiley.
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March 01, 2020, 03:33:13 AM
I admit that leaving gambling is not as easy as imagined. Several times I tried to leave gambling but always wanted to come back again.
Indeed gambling makes us addicted, it's a fact that cannot be denied. We must have a strong desire in ourselves to be able leave gambling.
And also must be accompanied by increasing our activities in the real world, so our minds can be distracted from the world gambling.

I think so, Gambling is a serious intoxication that can't be expected comeback easily. I think in this case, there are various healing centers/rehab centers where a person who is addicted to a few months of observation has the possibility of returning to normal life. They observe the addicted person through their various exercises and motions and helped him to get rid out of it. It may be effective for those who are addicted in extreme level, they can come back to their normal lives by this way.
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February 29, 2020, 06:36:27 PM
I admit that leaving gambling is not as easy as imagined. Several times I tried to leave gambling but always wanted to come back again.
Indeed gambling makes us addicted, it's a fact that cannot be denied. We must have a strong desire in ourselves to be able leave gambling.
And also must be accompanied by increasing our activities in the real world, so our minds can be distracted from the world gambling.
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February 29, 2020, 06:11:04 PM
It is ironic but leaving gambling means to ignore one part of your psychology for the random reasons. I have read the bad stories about the gamblers who lost everything in one side and my friends always talk tempting about the insane gains of risk loving gamblers. The guy who has put whole life on the red side of roulette table is the picture came to my mind after finish reading your post: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zGCdBsOIKYA
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February 29, 2020, 06:02:54 PM
first we should not be addicted to gambling , first thing we must leave is addiction , and have control over what we are doing and know how gambling is changing life we it is in negative way then definitely stop

what all points op said should be in consideration  before entering the gambling 
Yes if we want to not destroy our life because of the gambling you need to not addicting playing.
Because the number 1 reason why gambler destroy what they have because they did not control while they playing and also they are greedy to the profit that can cause losing more money.
But it is also the hardest part of gambling, to avoid getting addicted.
Being greedy is already in the nature of a person, removing it seems to be impossible. The only thing a person can do is to stop for a while if they think that they are getting addicted, that way, they can prevent from digging their own grave.
That is was hard and of a big challenge when sometimes you've been getting into addiction. Many gamblers whereinto that situation but they can make themselves leave gambling because they consider this as a source of income. And supposedly it wasn't a good idea but that gives them a life to keep and feel that they are secured in gambling rather than finding a job outside. And for us who still have a chance to escape for a horrible to be in the gambling, we have to make it before we got stuck and be addicted.
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February 29, 2020, 04:32:06 PM
Yes, you are right. I agree that we must use gambling as fun and entertainment, and don't rely on gambling to make money.
I agree that we don't rely on gambling to earn money but I disagree if it is a must to gamble in order to have fun and entertainment. Everyone has their own purposes to play gambling. If someone plays gambling to earn money, we cannot blame him. It is normal that people are interested in the big amount of prizes on gambling.   

Is it good to gamble around every weekend? because it takes pleasure and also entertainment by playing gambling we can release our minds from the stress that continues to work all day but also must understand the right time when gambling and good luck.
Is there anything good when there are new gambling sites we need to try or use the weekend to start?
And because weekends is our only available time to spend(specially those who has a regular works) it can be a scapegoat from the whole week stress in work.
So yeah basically we have more leisure in this 2 days (Saturday and Sunday)



About trying new gambling sites every weekends?no there is nothing good but a risk of becoming victims of scam sites.

Just enjoy your regular sites that you have known and supports fo long time.
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February 29, 2020, 04:04:50 PM
first we should not be addicted to gambling , first thing we must leave is addiction , and have control over what we are doing and know how gambling is changing life we it is in negative way then definitely stop

what all points op said should be in consideration  before entering the gambling 
Yes if we want to not destroy our life because of the gambling you need to not addicting playing.
Because the number 1 reason why gambler destroy what they have because they did not control while they playing and also they are greedy to the profit that can cause losing more money.
But it is also the hardest part of gambling, to avoid getting addicted.
Being greedy is already in the nature of a person, removing it seems to be impossible. The only thing a person can do is to stop for a while if they think that they are getting addicted, that way, they can prevent from digging their own grave.
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February 29, 2020, 10:43:31 AM
Sorry in advance whether this topic has been created or not.
I often see topics related to stop gambling.

Arise in my mind, everyone is easy to say stop gambling but doing it is very difficult.
So I have the urge that every individual can stop gambling by having the seven elements that I give below.

Thought:
Many gambling addicts think to stop, but emotional problems that encourage individuals to have more money when winning in gambling games, the biggest impact is the opposite that gets is defeat, not to mention the impact on the family when problems arise: "I want to stop gambling". Out of the mouth.

All that is based on the mind, no, sincerely to stop gambling.

There are things you need to remember to stop gambling, not based on money, money is just greed: again, again and again.

To stop gambling there are some addicts to do.

1. Intention: the main capital intention in determining individuals to stop gambling, if someone has a strong determination to stop it will have the percentage of someone actually quitting gambling.
2. Individual mindset: this is very heavy, most difficult for many heavy addicts to do.
The mindset of individuals used to associate with gambling gangs, the mafia, now change the mindset and associate with wise, good, and respectable people, little by little addicts will wake up and the days are full of good deeds.
3. Family: in this case it is prioritized, first the family in the number position......now the family is made number 1 more time with family.
4. Hobbies: this also supports to stop playing gambling, used to be a hobby of balls, horse racing or elements that easily fall prey to gambling, now switch hobbies that do not blend gambling, such as reading, hard work, etc.
5. Debt: if the habit of debt, for now stop, accept it as is, do not look too much up, multiply look down, which needs to be remembered, above the sky there is still sky, below the ground there is still land, thankful.
6. Positive: positive thinking can also encourage someone to be more confident, first thinking evil now thinking positive patterns.
7. Greedy and emotional: stay away from this trait, if you lose in a bet you think placing more bets to win, it's all gone, you get sheer destruction, so you, have to take decision number 5 "debt" front of destruction for your, that's for sure.

If you do the above I believe that anyone can get rid of the habit of gambling.
The important thing to do something that must be a commitment in determining success.

For me gambling is fun.
Gambling will only destroy you when you are addicted to it.
For some people it can be stop whenever they want. Some peoole cannot stop because of there mindset and intention.
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February 29, 2020, 06:06:29 AM
first we should not be addicted to gambling , first thing we must leave is addiction , and have control over what we are doing and know how gambling is changing life we it is in negative way then definitely stop

what all points op said should be in consideration  before entering the gambling 
Yes if we want to not destroy our life because of the gambling you need to not addicting playing.
Because the number 1 reason why gambler destroy what they have because they did not control while they playing and also they are greedy to the profit that can cause losing more money.
sr. member
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February 29, 2020, 05:55:22 AM
first we should not be addicted to gambling , first thing we must leave is addiction , and have control over what we are doing and know how gambling is changing life we it is in negative way then definitely stop

what all points op said should be in consideration  before entering the gambling 
legendary
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February 29, 2020, 04:39:29 AM
I'm all good. Yeah, i've lost a lot compared to what I won but it doesn't destroy me. Things will be complicated only if you are choosing gambling first before your priorities like family, expenses, etc. Greediness will lead you to nothing. In my case, I'm playing for how many years already but I can say I'm good because when it comes to real life priorities, I always chose it first. Eventhough I can't stop myself from playing atleast I set aside my gambling habit when it comes to priorities.

Apparently, gambling isn't destroying you, and if you can continue this way, you can gamble years and years in the future without harming yourself or others. Most gamblers, according to stats, are in this position, and they have no need of leaving gambling. However, they must be aware of dangers of abusing, and such discussions, as we see in this thread, can be of good help, imo.

I too can't make myself stop sometimes, but even during those times I don't lose big amounts.  What we need is the right priority setting, as you pointed out, and, I'm sure, anyone can come up with better plans of spending big amounts than losing it to gambling.
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February 28, 2020, 11:17:56 PM
All these points will be forgotten and the gambler will not consider it, like a warrior boxer they think they are in a thick of the fight even though they are badly punished, they will not admit they are trap in gambling they always think that they are ok and they are still in their boundaries and cannot just stop because they held this thought that the next roll is their road to successive winning roll.
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February 28, 2020, 09:02:37 PM

Is it good to gamble around every weekend? because it takes pleasure and also entertainment by playing gambling we can release our minds from the stress that continues to work all day but also must understand the right time when gambling and good luck.
Is there anything good when there are new gambling sites we need to try or use the weekend to start?

If he can limit his money and time in gambling, and he really found pleasure and entertainment in gambling, then why not? The problem is we can control ourselves when we are playing gambling because once we feel that thing, we can forget, and sometimes, we lose control. But perhaps, we can gamble if we really want to bet and not every weekend because we can do another thing with our family or friends.

Trying a new gambling site will not give better luck because luck can come in any gambling site, whether it is a new gambling site or old gambling site. But perhaps, to stay in the old gambling site that we usually visit will be better because we can prevent the scamming that can happen in the new gambling site.
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February 28, 2020, 10:19:43 AM
Leaving gambling is putting so much discipline in yourself especially if you're so addicted to it and it takes a long time to totally stop. Maybe one way that can help you is find another entertaining thing that will really catch your attention. Another, set your mind that gambling is bad for you and bad for your money. Much more important, the urge of getting away to gambling

You're right.

The substitution method always works well, but sometimes it’s hard for people who are addicted to gambling to find an activity that will bring them as much hormones of pleasure as they get from gambling.
Indeed, for most other activities such as sports or dating women, the necessary effort is required, both physical and mental.

But for gambling, you just need to enter a few characters and click a few buttons.
sr. member
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February 28, 2020, 08:24:28 AM
Leaving gambling is putting so much discipline in yourself especially if you're so addicted to it and it takes a long time to totally stop. Maybe one way that can help you is find another entertaining thing that will really catch your attention. Another, set your mind that gambling is bad for you and bad for your money. Much more important, the urge of getting away to gambling
legendary
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February 28, 2020, 06:00:29 AM
I'm a gambler but not addicted,
So, if you can't control yourself, you shouldn't gamble anymore.
You will never know if you have self control if you wont try to gamble.

What do you mean by that?

We don't need to try gambling to test our self-control.
He basically means that  if you cannot control yourself then don't engage with it, it is like playing the game even does not know how to play the game. There is psychological reason behind gambling where self-control is safe and good for mind. It is not about testing your self-control with gambling but just a mere precaution given by him.

You could use your self-control to other things too, so if you want to try or test it out better do it on other things not in gambling. You are just risking your self from gambling and wasting your money on it.
Absolutely right, there are lots of entertainment that does not involve any monetary value like outdoor activities to test your self-control or self-discipline. I guess you interpreted his opinion in incorrect way.
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February 28, 2020, 03:44:13 AM
I'm a gambler but not addicted,
So, if you can't control yourself, you shouldn't gamble anymore.
You will never know if you have self control if you wont try to gamble.

What do you mean by that?

We don't need to try gambling to test our self-control. You could use your self-control to other things too, so if you want to try or test it out better do it on other things not in gambling. You are just risking your self from gambling and wasting your money on it.
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February 28, 2020, 03:24:07 AM
Yes, you are right. I agree that we must use gambling as fun and entertainment, and don't rely on gambling to make money.
I agree that we don't rely on gambling to earn money but I disagree if it is a must to gamble in order to have fun and entertainment. Everyone has their own purposes to play gambling. If someone plays gambling to earn money, we cannot blame him. It is normal that people are interested in the big amount of prizes on gambling.   

Is it good to gamble around every weekend? because it takes pleasure and also entertainment by playing gambling we can release our minds from the stress that continues to work all day but also must understand the right time when gambling and good luck.
Is there anything good when there are new gambling sites we need to try or use the weekend to start?
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February 27, 2020, 07:57:46 PM
~snip~
Precisely, if you are a kind of person who are much unto playing gambling whether you use only it for fun there's a high possibility that that person will eventually fall into becoming an addict. At first we cannot able to tell if we are already been an addicted to it in fact someone who near to us will discover it like our families and friends. Hence, if you don't want to become an addict then leave as soon as possible.

No matter how we keep it secret, somehow, someone that near to us will know by watching our habit or behavior, there's something change from us that allows them to know. We cannot run from our addicting because that will cause another problem, not just for us but also for our family or friends. Yes, leaving gambling as soon as possible is necessary, and ask them to help us will be the solution to solve the addicting.

~snip~
I agree that we don't rely on gambling to earn money but I disagree if it is a must to gamble in order to have fun and entertainment. Everyone has their own purposes to play gambling. If someone plays gambling to earn money, we cannot blame him. It is normal that people are interested in the big amount of prizes on gambling.   

No, we don't have to gamble, I mean, we can play gambling if we want, but we have to realize that gambling is for having fun and entertainment. No need to try to win gambling, but playing some rounds will be better if we want to feel how to gamble online. The big amount of prizes will attract us to keep coming back on gambling, and if we don't have the power to control ourselves, we will going to get a big loss on gambling.
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