Topic: Lies told to cover up gambling habit - page 2. (Read 2340 times)

Quote from: summonerrk on July 30, 2024, 09:02:29 AM

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Every gambler knows how others view about gambling. So while they are gambling they will never tell others about their gambling unless he is a gambler or a person who will never harm to others. But those who are gamblers have a good relationship with other gamblers. They easily share their gambling habits with other gambler friends. Disclosing gambling to family or relatives can prevent the gambler from conducting his normal gambling activities which a gambler never wants. So if any of the family or relatives want to know about the gambling then the gambler never reveals it.

There is no obligation for anyone to reveal their gambling habits to others, they need to consider something like privacy.
However, there are some gamblers who like to talk and reveal their gambling habits to other people for various reasons, even without being asked. They have a sense of pride when telling stories even though other people start to judge after hearing the story. Of course, it is not appropriate to talk about gambling to anyone carelessly, even if they ask, they needs to cover up the habit.

Where I live, gambling is a habit that is considered bad in society. Someone who is known as a gambler will not get respect in social life, that is a long-established norm. As a result, a gambler must be able to cover up his gambling habits and must not tell about it anywhere.

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Quote from: betswift on July 30, 2024, 12:39:16 AM

Agreed! Loved ones deserve to know all about you, especially if it's just a hobby and you are having fun doing it, spending a bit to get good emotions. All lies break and the truth comes out, so it's better to tell things that bother you as soon as they are seen in that way, so there would be no misunderstandings in the future.

First of all I think that one must be Authentic , one must always demonstrate that, and our family, our loved ones have to accept us as we are, not because they don't like the games or because we must please them , no , that is something that cannot be harmful, I generally know how I am in my family, I have no scruples About telling people things to their face and telling the truth , even if it is something silly, but I always say it, and if they don't like it, well, whatever , there is nothing to be done, in part that is related to our personality.

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Quote from: summonerrk on July 30, 2024, 09:02:29 AM

Every gambler knows how others view about gambling. So while they are gambling they will never tell others about their gambling unless he is a gambler or a person who will never harm to others. But those who are gamblers have a good relationship with other gamblers. They easily share their gambling habits with other gambler friends. Disclosing gambling to family or relatives can prevent the gambler from conducting his normal gambling activities which a gambler never wants. So if any of the family or relatives want to know about the gambling then the gambler never reveals it.

This behaviour is why there are many Gambling addicts that are not getting any help that they need to overcome their ambling problems. If problems are shared, It has already been solved by half therefore we should share our problem. Although there's discrimination against gamblers in most part of the world, we should not still hide it from our family or our friends that we are still gambling. Why it is important to tell others is so when they see you behaving in a way that a gambling addicts will behave, they will know that you have a problem and not just assume that it is a normal lifestyle for you. If people do not know that you have a problem, they can not help you. We need to stop caring about what people will say about us and do what is better for us therefore lying about our gambling habits should stop.

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I think that there is not a single gambler who would tell his relatives about his loss. Only if he did not want to quit the casino at that moment. But if the gambler plans to continue playing, he will remain silent, and this will be the beginning of his path of lies and omissions. And the greater the debts, the worse the gambler's mood will be. But at the same time, his relatives will not understand why he is so angry. And at that moment, a complete misunderstanding will begin.

It it was a not significant loss, then gambler might share this with his relatives. If it was a huge loss, they will find out it anyway when this gamblers starts to act not as usual. However, relatives would understand if gambler has lost, because (if they knew that he went gambling) when he returns, he will be not in cheerful mood. Also, a gambler might not tell about his loss not because he is hiding his gambling habit, but because that person is used to solve his issues on his own. Why would someone cry or complain that he has lost, when he instead must be silent and work as hard as possible to cover his whole in budget.

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Quote from: summonerrk on July 30, 2024, 09:02:29 AM

Quote from: summonerrk on July 28, 2024, 05:49:54 AM

Unfortunately, a gambler with a problematic addiction has to lie a lot. I heard this in many interviews with such gamblers years ago, and I still hear it. It feels like lying is an integral part of a real gambling addiction.
And the trouble is that even if such a gambler wants to change everything and return to his former honest life, it will be very difficult for him to do so.
After all, trust is difficult to restore, because his environment will always question his words.

You are right, that many lies have been covered up when they dialogue with relatives and friends, they seem to hide the truth of all his words, but it's a shame that they will never want to help him again when they find out he has been addicted to gambling to the detriment of himself, so don't lie to him. If anyone experiences a loss from gambling, however, it's a good idea to keep quiet if you don't want everyone to know about the loss.

I think that there is not a single gambler who would tell his relatives about his loss. Only if he did not want to quit the casino at that moment. But if the gambler plans to continue playing, he will remain silent, and this will be the beginning of his path of lies and omissions. And the greater the debts, the worse the gambler's mood will be. But at the same time, his relatives will not understand why he is so angry. And at that moment, a complete misunderstanding will begin.

Every gambler knows how others view about gambling. So while they are gambling they will never tell others about their gambling unless he is a gambler or a person who will never harm to others. But those who are gamblers have a good relationship with other gamblers. They easily share their gambling habits with other gambler friends. Disclosing gambling to family or relatives can prevent the gambler from conducting his normal gambling activities which a gambler never wants. So if any of the family or relatives want to know about the gambling then the gambler never reveals it.

Gamblers, especially troubled gamblers will rather choose not to disclose their gambling activities to family and friends who are non-gamblers because they are scared of being judged and criticised by the same people who claim to love them. The society we live in just have to learn how to embrace gamblers amongst them because gambling has come to stay and there is nothing anyone can do about it. All gamblers are not irresponsible people, gamblers are not criminals. If people continue to stereotype gamblers in a negative way, gamblers will keep hiding their next moves from those around them.

The constant criticism and attack on gamblers is the major reason some gamblers are in trouble today. Just maybe if they had someone different who they could confide in, they wouldn't have gotten so deep into gambling to the extent of getting addicted.

Anyone can get into gambling troubles, but the hate on gamblers is not solving any problem.

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Quote from: summonerrk on July 30, 2024, 09:02:29 AM

Quote from: summonerrk on July 28, 2024, 05:49:54 AM

Unfortunately, a gambler with a problematic addiction has to lie a lot. I heard this in many interviews with such gamblers years ago, and I still hear it. It feels like lying is an integral part of a real gambling addiction.
And the trouble is that even if such a gambler wants to change everything and return to his former honest life, it will be very difficult for him to do so.
After all, trust is difficult to restore, because his environment will always question his words.

You are right, that many lies have been covered up when they dialogue with relatives and friends, they seem to hide the truth of all his words, but it's a shame that they will never want to help him again when they find out he has been addicted to gambling to the detriment of himself, so don't lie to him. If anyone experiences a loss from gambling, however, it's a good idea to keep quiet if you don't want everyone to know about the loss.

I think that there is not a single gambler who would tell his relatives about his loss. Only if he did not want to quit the casino at that moment. But if the gambler plans to continue playing, he will remain silent, and this will be the beginning of his path of lies and omissions. And the greater the debts, the worse the gambler's mood will be. But at the same time, his relatives will not understand why he is so angry. And at that moment, a complete misunderstanding will begin.

Every gambler knows how others view about gambling. So while they are gambling they will never tell others about their gambling unless he is a gambler or a person who will never harm to others. But those who are gamblers have a good relationship with other gamblers. They easily share their gambling habits with other gambler friends. Disclosing gambling to family or relatives can prevent the gambler from conducting his normal gambling activities which a gambler never wants. So if any of the family or relatives want to know about the gambling then the gambler never reveals it.

Those are valid points, and while I agree that most gamblers wouldn't tell non-gamblers about their activities, especially losses - being transparent with your loved ones is essential for maintaining balance. Live is already hard, hobbies make it easier, but knowing that you have the shoulders on which you can trust and rely - is even better. If the people you trust are really yours, they will accept any hobby you have, if it's non-destructive for you.

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Quote from: summonerrk on July 30, 2024, 09:02:29 AM

Quote from: summonerrk on July 28, 2024, 05:49:54 AM

Unfortunately, a gambler with a problematic addiction has to lie a lot. I heard this in many interviews with such gamblers years ago, and I still hear it. It feels like lying is an integral part of a real gambling addiction.
And the trouble is that even if such a gambler wants to change everything and return to his former honest life, it will be very difficult for him to do so.
After all, trust is difficult to restore, because his environment will always question his words.

You are right, that many lies have been covered up when they dialogue with relatives and friends, they seem to hide the truth of all his words, but it's a shame that they will never want to help him again when they find out he has been addicted to gambling to the detriment of himself, so don't lie to him. If anyone experiences a loss from gambling, however, it's a good idea to keep quiet if you don't want everyone to know about the loss.

I think that there is not a single gambler who would tell his relatives about his loss. Only if he did not want to quit the casino at that moment. But if the gambler plans to continue playing, he will remain silent, and this will be the beginning of his path of lies and omissions. And the greater the debts, the worse the gambler's mood will be. But at the same time, his relatives will not understand why he is so angry. And at that moment, a complete misunderstanding will begin.

Every gambler knows how others view about gambling. So while they are gambling they will never tell others about their gambling unless he is a gambler or a person who will never harm to others. But those who are gamblers have a good relationship with other gamblers. They easily share their gambling habits with other gambler friends. Disclosing gambling to family or relatives can prevent the gambler from conducting his normal gambling activities which a gambler never wants. So if any of the family or relatives want to know about the gambling then the gambler never reveals it.

There are really no issues if you do really just that make yourself that being that responsible despite of the gambling that you are really that doing. It would really be just that normal that you would really be hiding from your wife if you are really that wanting to play but your wife doesnt like gambling then you would really be likely be having this kind of behavior on which we cant really drawn out some conclusion that these husbands are not loyal or honest into their wives. There are really just those things that they cant be able to accept and thats why you do tend to hide it out. Just like on what i have said that there would really be no issues
if you do really just that make yourself that responsible and doesnt affect your finances on which this is really that the key so that there would really be no problems.

Just make it sure that you wont really that be getting caught because on the moment that you do get caught then you would really be definitely be having that kind of issue.
You shouldnt really be that making yourself that be too obvious if you dont really like to have some arguments or quarrel with your partner. We do know that if you wife hate up something
then as a husband then you would definitely be needing to follow it. Tongue

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Quote from: summonerrk on July 30, 2024, 09:02:29 AM

Quote from: summonerrk on July 28, 2024, 05:49:54 AM

Unfortunately, a gambler with a problematic addiction has to lie a lot. I heard this in many interviews with such gamblers years ago, and I still hear it. It feels like lying is an integral part of a real gambling addiction.
And the trouble is that even if such a gambler wants to change everything and return to his former honest life, it will be very difficult for him to do so.
After all, trust is difficult to restore, because his environment will always question his words.

You are right, that many lies have been covered up when they dialogue with relatives and friends, they seem to hide the truth of all his words, but it's a shame that they will never want to help him again when they find out he has been addicted to gambling to the detriment of himself, so don't lie to him. If anyone experiences a loss from gambling, however, it's a good idea to keep quiet if you don't want everyone to know about the loss.

I think that there is not a single gambler who would tell his relatives about his loss. Only if he did not want to quit the casino at that moment. But if the gambler plans to continue playing, he will remain silent, and this will be the beginning of his path of lies and omissions. And the greater the debts, the worse the gambler's mood will be. But at the same time, his relatives will not understand why he is so angry. And at that moment, a complete misunderstanding will begin.

Every gambler knows how others view about gambling. So while they are gambling they will never tell others about their gambling unless he is a gambler or a person who will never harm to others. But those who are gamblers have a good relationship with other gamblers. They easily share their gambling habits with other gambler friends. Disclosing gambling to family or relatives can prevent the gambler from conducting his normal gambling activities which a gambler never wants. So if any of the family or relatives want to know about the gambling then the gambler never reveals it.

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Quote from: taufik123 on July 31, 2024, 11:36:09 PM

It is the pride or ego why a gambler won't disclose his losses. But I guess, he would say it to the person if he badly needs money and promise something to his potential lender. Most gamblers won't tell about the losses, but it changes when they have good winnings, as they will boast his to his friends about the luck he got.

Wanting to brag and attract others to dangerous zones that they don't yet know.
It's really rude to make friends like that, and they also don't disclose what the risks are and their invitations are also because the affiliate program will automatically give them benefits when more people join.

Now it just takes a fairly critical and realistic mind, don't believe other people's nonsense about big profits.
In fact, not only in gambling, in almost all businesses there will be practices like this that make sweet promises that will only end up being harmful.

I agree! You should always believe only those who are close friends to you or your family, otherwise, there is no point in going towards anybody who says that he makes huge banks every day and every night. It's all golden and shiny, but as the reality comes afterward it happens to be just a harsh reality.

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Women are territorial to some extent as they'll always wanna look out for where you're at, what you're doing and why you're away for too long...
I believe his wife asked him what the most memorable moments of his life was,... He dared not to spill the bean, otherwise he's sleeping in the couch for the night ^{[light fades: no kisses, no touches} Tongue

In actual sense, some of those questions ain't necessary atimes...

Personally, this is how I see it; if you don't wanna fall too loosely for the game, to an extent that you can't cater for the needs of your family, why not open up?. addiction is detrimental and nobody has ever had a better experience with it.

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It is the pride or ego why a gambler won't disclose his losses. But I guess, he would say it to the person if he badly needs money and promise something to his potential lender. Most gamblers won't tell about the losses, but it changes when they have good winnings, as they will boast his to his friends about the luck he got.

Wanting to brag and attract others to dangerous zones that they don't yet know.
It's really rude to make friends like that, and they also don't disclose what the risks are and their invitations are also because the affiliate program will automatically give them benefits when more people join.

Now it just takes a fairly critical and realistic mind, don't believe other people's nonsense about big profits.
In fact, not only in gambling, in almost all businesses there will be practices like this that make sweet promises that will only end up being harmful.

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Quote from: taufik123 on July 30, 2024, 04:43:19 PM

Quote from: summonerrk on July 30, 2024, 09:02:29 AM

I think that there is not a single gambler who would tell his relatives about his loss. Only if he did not want to quit the casino at that moment. But if the gambler plans to continue playing, he will remain silent, and this will be the beginning of his path of lies and omissions. And the greater the debts, the worse the gambler's mood will be. But at the same time, his relatives will not understand why he is so angry. And at that moment, a complete misunderstanding will begin.

Because it is related to self-esteem and will never talk about defeat, but instead he will only tell about the victory that has happened and it is very proud,
even though his defeat is greater than the victory obtained.

This kind of dishonesty will only attract others to a dangerous circle of fire that they don't know about yet.
I will not believe in the words of others or the victories that influencers get, I will only do it myself with the little money I have so that I know how the wins and losses happen.

It is the pride or ego why a gambler won't disclose his losses. But I guess, he would say it to the person if he badly needs money and promise something to his potential lender. Most gamblers won't tell about the losses, but it changes when they have good winnings, as they will boast his to his friends about the luck he got.

Well, most men would do this. Tell only their victories and not their defeats. Why? Defeats are shameful, that is why. I don't think any men like to shame themselves because we have our pride and ego.
When it comes to using the losses though as a way to borrow money from a friend or relative, I usually don't believe this kind of reasoning but when I became a gambler, I know now that can be true. A person/gambler who badly needs money will be truly honest with their losses just to get the sympathy of other people especially when in the face of his lender.
Right now, I believe more stories of losses than it is with winnings because some of them can just be made up to avoid embarrassment.

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Quote from: lienfaye on July 29, 2024, 09:50:02 PM

It's normal to tell lies sometimes but don't make it a habit.

In this you are right, for example, to Avoid a bad time for an older Adult , someone who does not like the casino activity, well yes, in that you are right, but it is for those special ases , because people who are older need to have a lot of consideration and Respect , in the case that the family is very strict, for example one's mother, well one tries not to make her go through hard times , get angry or something like that, just out of respect , in those cases I think that in my case it would be the only way I Would do it.

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I guess the most common lie that everyone told is about, "this is my last bet". Yeah, last bet in our faces but then we keep on going because it's either we're winning and that can't be helped to stop because luck is with us. Or, we are continuing because we have to recover a bit of from our losses. That's the biggest lie that everyone has told to themselves or with reasoning to their wives and husbands. I am sure that all of the gamblers here are guilty of that and that's why there are moments that we also do the yolo bet that's also very popular about the lie of "what if that last bet comes with a win". Tongue

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Quote from: blockman on July 31, 2024, 03:58:01 PM

knows what gambling addiction could lead their husbands to be. And that's why as soon as they have started to know that they're into gambling, they want to stop that before it become bigger. It's understandable as these wives just want all the best for their husbands. But how can they do that if their husbands are trying to hide their gambling activity to them. They might even think that they're cheating because they're hiding it to them as they don't want to let them know that they've been spending much on their bets.

The husband have control of everything because is only what he let the wife know that they be aware of and the fact that being a responsible gambler is the number one criteria to privacy in gambling and cryptocurrency online gambling is the sure plug to stay private in gambling, so the wife can only be worried of the gambling habits is beginning to effect the overall welfare of the family and at that point they call they spouse to other, women don't just hate gambling but love whatever brings in money and hate whatever make they husband broke, so it is the State of the husband both the financial and mental State of the husband that matters to the wife and not gambling itself.

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Quote from: Cookdata on July 30, 2024, 03:35:30 PM

Quote from: blockman on July 30, 2024, 02:11:30 PM

The situation is different from that guy, he's hiding his gambling activity from his wife and that's why there's something off with their relationship. And that's why a quarrel might happen if the wife sees his husband do some gambling unexpectedly. Anyway, that's their relationship to be fixed when lies are being told, it's really gonna make the significant other have their own doubts.

The husband is smart for hiding gambling activities from the wife, some women are quick to reactions and that was exactly what he was afraid but that's what later happened anyways. Some women detest men that gamble and can even leave or abandoned their relationship when a man gambles without checking if their partner is an average gambler or an addicted gambler, there is nothing harm in gambling if done moderately.

However, you can't blame some women has seen how men behaves from the adverse effects of gambling and they probably don't want to go through that route of dealing with a partner that loves gambling. Some people think it's really a big task for them to deal with an addicted gambler than for them to deal with a cheating partner, so many relationships didn't end well because of addicted gambling.

Those women just knows what gambling addiction could lead their husbands to be. And that's why as soon as they have started to know that they're into gambling, they want to stop that before it become bigger. It's understandable as these wives just want all the best for their husbands. But how can they do that if their husbands are trying to hide their gambling activity to them. They might even think that they're cheating because they're hiding it to them as they don't want to let them know that they've been spending much on their bets.

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Quote from: Quidat on July 30, 2024, 03:11:47 PM

Quote from: Dewi Aries on July 30, 2024, 02:38:36 PM

Basically in any case, lies will always be something that can reduce the level of trust, and in a household relationship it can be said that trust is one of the keys to a more harmonious relationship, especially if something you hide is an activity that as a whole or in general has a bad stigma in the eyes of society.

Although I understand that gambling responsibly may keep you safe and avoid various bad possibilities such as those experienced by addicted gamblers, it does not mean that it will completely make you not lose at all, in the sense that there will always be some money lost, meaning on the other hand there is an element that in the end or over time your wife will find out about something you are hiding because gambling involves money and in a household relationship finances are usually one and transparent, meaning your wife will definitely know that there is some money lost consistently, and this is where suspicion and arguments will begin.

Therefore, I think there is nothing wrong with being honest from the start, because even if for example now you succeed in hiding everything from your wife, it does not mean that your wife will not know forever, remember that you live under one roof.

Once you do get caught then there's no way on making it back once that trust will really shattered or be broken specially into your wife or husband.This is why it would really be better that you should really be that making yourself being mindful about those probabilities and this is why its not recommended that you would really be hiding up something from them as much as possible.
How i do wish up on a peaceful life with having no worries about particular things. If you do find yourself that being interested in gambling or betting then tell your wife about on what you are doing.
As long you do make yourself that being responsible on the way you do spend up money or finances with betting then it wont really be that issue but if you are showing up some signs that
you are doing something shit then it would be normal that they would really be making up those words which would really be against on what you are really that doing.

True, it can be said that trust is something that can be the key to a harmonious relationship as I said, and maybe you have often heard that honesty is more expensive than anything, because when someone no longer trusts you then they will lose interest in dealing with you, and of course that makes it quite difficult for you when you want to ask for help from that person because there will be a lot of doubts that grow in that person's mindset towards you.

On the other hand, as you said, it is very important to be aware of the possibilities that could happen someday due to the actions you take now, especially if you lie to the people closest to you where as I said before that you live under the same roof with them which in the end the act of hiding will be in vain. And when the story is different in the sense that if from the start you had told your wife about you being involved in gambling then surely your wife would at least help you to overcome everything especially when it turns out that you start to fall into an impulsive approach to gambling.

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