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Topic: Life before and after marriage ??? - page 18. (Read 4208 times)

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January 12, 2018, 04:35:33 AM
Marriage is such a piece of a sweet one who don't eat want to eat it and those who has eaten are repenting now Wink Grin Grin
What you guys think is life easier before marriage or after the marriage.

I don't think that something really changes. Maybe for somebody marriage is a cause for becoming more serious and responsible. But for people whose relationships are already serious before marriage nothing gonna change.

Does that means that "serious relations" people's life suck even before marriage?  Grin
Really it's a big difference between hanging out and living together: I had a lot of examples when the relations crushes because they were not prepared for living together.
newbie
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January 12, 2018, 03:36:29 AM
don't marry if you don't feel that you are ready to marriage. yep, its a simple thing but its a true

It's the only truth there is! and anyone asking this question is probably not ready yet Smiley
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January 12, 2018, 02:57:35 AM
For me, after marriage. Because you have someone will care about you. Will prepare all your needs before you go to work. You have a lovely wife to serve you.
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January 12, 2018, 02:42:32 AM
Marriage is such a piece of a sweet one who don't eat want to eat it and those who has eaten are repenting now Wink Grin Grin
What you guys think is life easier before marriage or after the marriage.

I don't think that something really changes. Maybe for somebody marriage is a cause for becoming more serious and responsible. But for people whose relationships are already serious before marriage nothing gonna change.
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January 12, 2018, 02:01:49 AM
Marriage are for those people who are willing to commit to one person for the rest of their lives. Of course, marriage isn't for everyone. Some value their independence and self-importance compared to others who want to tie the knot with someone else. Life before and after marriage is completely different. Living with someone new, moving out from your parent's home, cooking for someone else, and everything else is a whole lot different from being single, not to mention having kids.
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January 12, 2018, 01:43:22 AM
Life before marriage is much easier life than after marriage.When you are married the decision is always between you and your spouse and for the sake of both sides..there is also a lifetime responsibility when you had childrens..
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January 12, 2018, 01:42:17 AM
Marriage is such a piece of a sweet one who don't eat want to eat it and those who has eaten are repenting now Wink Grin Grin
What you guys think is life easier before marriage or after the marriage.

Im not yet married but in my opinion. it depends on your priority at the moment, like we have different point of views depending on our age group, as for me I prefer being single at the moment because I still wanted to pursue my career, but my friends whom are quite older than me the focus are getting married. Once my mom told me that staying in marriage is hard but if you really like, Love and respect your partner you'll just keep on loving them even its hard. Just trust in God and always remember your vows. just keep on choosing to be happy.
newbie
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January 12, 2018, 01:20:21 AM
I am not married now, but I believe I'm already at what they call the "right time to marry". My partner and I both agree that we are not on that level yet. We both love each other, and we don't fool around while we're together. But marriage is on a whole deeper level of commitment. I think you'll be able to enjoy it depending on your mindset. Smiley
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January 12, 2018, 12:56:40 AM
For me, life in terms of financial aspect before marriage is way better because you will just look into yourself while after marriage means you will take good care with your wife/husband and kids too. More people more expenses. In terms of love and care, after marriage is way better because there is someone is looking up and taking care to you, your wife/husband and kids too and this way is legal and blessed by church.
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January 12, 2018, 12:41:57 AM
Marriage is such a piece of a sweet one who don't eat want to eat it and those who has eaten are repenting now Wink Grin Grin
What you guys think is life easier before marriage or after the marriage.


It would have been better if the English was only a little bit better.

I am still single but I can say that when I get married, I won't repent. Hehe
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January 12, 2018, 12:31:29 AM
Life before marriage is happy go lucky. And life after marriage is happy but with responsibilities and obligations.
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January 11, 2018, 11:49:32 PM
There is now a difference of life before marriage because in marriage you are committed to this certain someone already.In all your actions and decisions, there is now a dialogue between the married couples. Each also should adjust to one another and also the married couple would considers the needs
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January 11, 2018, 11:43:46 PM
I am not married but my point of view on this topic is after marriage. While alone, solve the problem alone. When in the Times of distress solving problems and struggles alone. When entering the world of marriage pushing self to make other yours. One problem will be solve by two's. Two is better than one.
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January 11, 2018, 10:54:17 PM
Marriage is such a piece of a sweet one who don't eat want to eat it and those who has eaten are repenting now Wink Grin Grin
What you guys think is life easier before marriage or after the marriage.
Life after marriage be responsible and good parents to the children. And love your partner in life.
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January 11, 2018, 08:37:39 PM
BEFORE Marriage: "I don't wanna loss you" is a driver for one to practice many great actions to keep partner. Then AFTER Marriage: "I delivered all the hard work in my life to keep you, and I m now retiring as I'm tired already... Fact you are mine and everyone knows
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January 11, 2018, 08:36:26 PM
My husband and I didn't live together until we got married but our life is more like the left. We cuddle every night, falling asleep in each others arms and are very affectionate towards the other. I always want to be close to him and almost always have contact with him (holding hands, arms around eachother, hand on my leg, etc.) He still takes me on dates and basically courts me. He validates all the reasons I love him and proves his love everyday!
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January 11, 2018, 08:35:47 PM
It start with romance and then go deeper to relationship and marriage, that is serious and lifetime build into family union --- roof over head, children and there well been, that is all ready big change ---tired from working hard, tired from giving self to others like partner and children, so slowly we need alone time and rest and love for family change us for better and worst --- if is for worst then we must work together for better change.
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January 11, 2018, 08:34:35 PM
After marriage is so much nicer!!! I've been married for almost 12 years and gets better n better💖 he knows me, I know him and we complete each other!
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January 10, 2018, 02:30:45 AM
Marriage is such a piece of a sweet one who don't eat want to eat it and those who has eaten are repenting now Wink Grin Grin
What you guys think is life easier before marriage or after the marriage.
I think it is after marriage. I became more mature and sensitive to others. I also became aware of my strengths and weaknesses. Thinking of my family's future became my number one priority instead of mine's.

I completely agree with your claims which you have mentioned above. After marriage , people are getting mature and mature day by day. And, people are turning into more responsible than their past. For that reason, marriage is good stuff for humankind.
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January 09, 2018, 11:57:45 PM
Marriage is such a piece of a sweet one who don't eat want to eat it and those who has eaten are repenting now Wink Grin Grin
What you guys think is life easier before marriage or after the marriage.

Of course life easier before marriage, especially when i was young. Before 17 years old, everything look easy, don't have big responsibility and in my mind just think about play, eat, sleep and of course have fun (just thinking about it and no burden). The big problem in my life only about school's task/ homework and examination.
But, after the marriage everything look harder rather than before marriage. Marriage is happy thing, because we have partner in our life (we can share/make our joy, happiness, and sadness moments together) and we can have children who fill our life. The only thing we must remember that committed the relationship, like marriage, is same as we must take more reponsibility in our life. Because we must keep the sacred promises of marriage (must loyal, trust and accept the advantages and disadvantages of our partner) and of course the expenses of our life more increase. So to pay the expenses for our life, we must work hard to help our partner.
Of course the responsibility that we take, paid off by the happiness, joyful, incredible and amazing moments that we get from the marriage. So, don't give up with your marriage and accept it like a blessing from God.
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