Topic: Money is for the important things - page 2. (Read 1220 times)

Time and health is something that cant really be bought by money but somewhat you could really take things in cherishing up things if you do have the money and in speaking of health on which you could be able to

medicate if ever you are really that having a problem with it on which if you do really need up money.It is really that crucial that someone should be having the money, if you dont then you would easily die
if you dont have the money for you to make use of. This is why people or us would really be thriving our very best on acquiring or earning in different various sources as much as possible
because we are really that aiming for financial freedom.

Money cannot buy happiness, peace, or good health; however, there are people who have money but are facing some serious unexpected emotional challenge; they have money but do not have peace of mind. I am saying this out of experience. A very wealthy man in the city were I resid lost his mother; the woman was young, but her health issues were severe; the son was distraught; he had enough money for every treatment, but his mother died. He made a statement and said, "above all, everything is just vanity." We try to make money to at least help others who need help, send children to school, and do other important things like OP's topic.

I don't think poor people need more than the rich. We just need good control over our spending. As a human being, we all desire the same thing. But the ability to get/achieve them is tough based on their financial condition. Over population is not a bad thing if you can use that in your favor. More man power equals more development. But the method of converting the population to man power is difficult. If used correctly, it could be game changing.
This is why every person needs to learn the money management. Anything that is done more than it's needed is bad in any situation. Not even a single institute teach us about this and we face the problem later on because of less knowledge. The system itself is broken.

Of course applying a loss limit and setting a winning target are the main things we have to apply when we trade. If we do not apply that discipline then we will feel a very big loss.

I really appreciate it when you say you are not qualified, because very few people would say that to themselves. But not having quality doesn't mean it won't be quality, right? By realizing this, we will definitely do everything we can to make us qualified, myself included. When we have such thoughts, we should never tire of making us better.

Money is very important to me, more than some people in my life, because they made me realize that I can't be loved unless I make money, and I keep on showing them, that I cant love either when I was abandoned because I have nothing, I won't ever understand why people you call family could treat someone this way, they look down on you like a piece of trash because you look like some one who have no dream.

Yes I agree with all you said, but if you come to think of this, money don't change person, but it shows you who that person is. Some of the people that are purchasing cars and even some  clothes it is not important to them, some people live above their financial status just to please people. People with this behaviour live a life of depression and at the long run they lose everything and also be running at debt.

Having a good house is also good but know that marriage is not when you have huge amount of money, you can just have a little source to depend on. Building a house is not an easy task for someone who is not financially buoyant, but you can get yourself a renting apartment no matter how your financial status is you can still get your class that's  your status can afford comfortably. Someone cannot said he will do this or do that when is rich, you have to start from the grass then gradually to the Grace.

Sometimes someone will said it's because of too much money. This online shopping often pushed me sometime that's if you are the market you will like to buy any thing that you see even though you don't have money for it. I agree with you for someone to stay away from this online shopping applications. So that you can think of something that will help you to grow your in a positive way.

I don't like the trade-off in the case of big-risk trades. In my loss experience, it is advisable to set limits on losses and accept fewer wins to keep the money safe. Attitudes to using money and transactions need to be reconsidered.
I realize I'm not young anymore. The age of 30 is coming very close while there is not a cent in him. This is dangerous.
Know that everyone's money experience is different. Maybe I need to study more to overcome the bigger challenges. I am poor because I am not qualified enough.

Yes, that's right, as long as we still have clothes and cars that we can still use, we should never buy too much, many people are tempted to buy because of the easy access to shopping, for example, online applications, which in my opinion do more harm and the impact is worse than the benefits, so hurry up. delete all shopping applications on the smartphone.

right now my main goal is to buy my own house and I want to get married if I have enough finances, then have investments and savings for the future, it seems that if you look directly at it it will be very heavy. but if you live it seriously I think the way will look easy.

not very simple at all, you still think about your family that a good one, some people while chasing their dream sometime will forget everything.
and another investment you say, i think that already in good way, you just need follow the path.

Of course I will use the money for the welfare of myself, my family, my children and those in need around me.

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at this time I want to buy a fairly large house for my family, because at this time I still live with my parents.
it is one of my dreams that I am currently striving for.

I want to open a business to open a business that I like and have dreamed of for a long time.
I also want to have land and gold investment assets because I really believe these two assets will be very valuable in the future.
and in the past I really wanted to invest in bitcoin, and now that goal has been achieved, just waiting for the results.

maybe this is very simple but all of that is very meaningful to me.

As a rational human being, one needs to be frugal in spending and saving for the future. Cloth and cars are important also but everyone should be based on the scale of preference and sometimes opportunity cost.

Yep, it's basically the same, but it's my current condition, I don't use the money either in trading or in gambling, which makes me a little sorry for losing the money because I didn't really do anything there, but I feel aggrieved differently. If I did it for trading, maybe I more able to make excuses for myself when a loss like this.
But responding to what you said, self-control is much more difficult when something like this happens and when we can't control it, we are definitely ready to lose it there.

U are right bro. But we still need to look at some reasons for this. In most cases the poor have more needs than the reach. In an environment like Nigeria where birth rate aren't controlled it will be difficult to curtail the effect of money mismanagement. 
Secondly, the issue of salary / expenditure comparison which is the significant way of controlling the issue of money mismanagement,  is not even taken into consideration in some countries. For this,  people spend money without considering the strength of it's source.  And this is really bad.

If you think you need something in life which is important, and you can get it using money, then you are free to use it. But it is never a good idea to spend more than needed. Middle class and poor people are less concern about money management, because they want to lead a rich life and end up imitating the rich. Thus spending more money than needed.
So it is important to spend for only what is necessary and focus more on investing to grow your assets.

haha. Looks like we have the same problem at the moment. The feeling of wanting to win the market makes us lose more and each time it is not wise to deposit money. I have been taught that making money is more important than showing what you win. Trades are boring because they have a principle of not putting a lot of emotion into them. I am working on my own with stopping trades and observing more. Hope everything gets better here.

I always relate trading to sports betting. The market fluctuates like a team. Predictability varies. Don't regret losing money. Learn from your losses and win big! Focus on the now, not missed opportunities. Use market conditions to make informed trades. If you benefit, don't be greedy! Invest wisely. When the bull market returns, you'll be ready! Imagine the pleasure of a stock market home run! It's like making the game-winning basket or goal in soccer. Keep swinging! You never know!

What happened today, I lost some money and that really annoyed me a little, even though the amount wasn't too big, it was enough to live for a few days, now I'm trying to let it go, hopefully there will be more sustenance for me.
Yes, use money as best you can, don't use money for purposes that are not important at all. In this day and age, we have to be smart to save money, otherwise we will encounter unexpected things like hardships. It is possible that everyone's needs are different, but surely we know when we have to use money, when to save it. We must be wise in this matter.

If we are young and productive then we have to think that one day we will be old, often sick and of course unproductive, if at this time we don't invest immediately then we can be sure that our old age will be full of crying and hunger, start looking for investment even with a value small but always focused and don't be tempted by anything.

All this can be done in parallel, if you met a beautiful girl and you decide to start a family, then it’s stupid to wait until you have money. I know examples when a young family started their journey together and they achieved everything together, these are examples of real feelings when a family can go through everything together.