Have you checked your attitude towards money lately?
They say money makes the world go round and nobody is going to change that! Knowing how money is key in pretty much everything, the mentality is get that money pay some bills and you are golden.
If you can sell and still make money then you are among the 1% in the world and that should be the target
What is "your dream"? bigger home, a bigger car, private schools, branded drink, gold?...
Pretty sure everyone dreams of this, but nothing beats house, money, car the perfect trifecta as i call it...
Money for for things that are important in life: you family, your people, health, well being, ... Do not be afraid to spend the money on your people when they really need it,
Family will always be in our lives whether we like it or not.
but be wary of spending it on stupid things and if you think your car and your clothes are important, you may want to start thinking if you have any significant goal in life and where does it get you in the next 10 years.
I think this is were most of us get it wrong, you can't go on in life without spoiling yourself after all the hard work you put in to bring that money, don't think it's selfish to make yourself happy... If you are always thinking about other people's problems it could turn out depressing in the long run which is why you need to take care of yourself!!